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Why is it that people decide to show up as there representative instead of who it is they are My observation has been
- people do this in order to show to create a protective wall around there tender arts so they don't get hurt
- they operate in a protective armor in order to protect their raw parts because if they exposed there raw parts they can be hurt harmed bruised and torn
- things may be present that you prefer to hide in box until you see that that it's safe for you share it
- Know that though you might be a open and loving caring person not everyone else operates in that level of openness
- don't allow others projection of their world and there life around you don't want to expose your rawness and tender sports to people that will miss handle it
- instead if you are mature you will need to test them to see if the person is mature enough and ready to handle your tender spots and places
- people carry a representative around and the mask they used over time will fall off the more they become comfortable in the relationship
- as situations change and shift as you become adjusted to being at that certain level in that situation you will find that you no longer concentrate or being the representative
- and when you stop carrying the facade of who you are you can't help but show the real you as the real you begins to come through
- Know that no matter what you do you will All go back to who you are naturally because it internal and engrained in you
- Don't feel offended because the person went back to who they were
- instead understand as it has been said "when a person shows you WHO they are BELIVE them and move accordingly"
Because of fear because of people that are in operation in judgemental personalities won't hurt or stab you in those tenders places
So whats the question
Do you feel you HAVE TO show up as representative and not your true self and why do you feel that way
Why is it it seems that people change up when time has pastedI have come to find People either become very judgemental because you choose to become your true self and forces THEM to show who they truly are when they can no longer project there mask onto you anymore either and it forces you to separate
So the question is
Why do you or WOULD you feel that you pre-determine a individual will change in a NEGATIVE way in the future... why do you FEEL that way?