How does it Feel when you are coming Down from the presence of God and readjusting to being in reality.

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Have you ever wondered why there is such a drastic shift in your emotions after you have come out of the presence of God

Well Let me Bring to your attentions some things

When you come out of the presence of God you were on the mountain top and you returned back to Earth Level (see level or Ground Level)

you were at a

• Elevation
• High Place
• Mountain top

In the heavenly's had to break though the layers of spiritual space to get back to the day to day reality

People will try to make this WOO WOO universal "Blah-Blah" NO that is there judgement it is simply

in the the Kingdom of heaven and you where Brought back to how it is ON Earth

But My Question is

Do you Know -

• You are Adjusting to a spiritual shift in the natural
• Don't get Derepressed or claim oppression
• Instead recognize you have to take it easy on yourself for the next few days

because you are being prepared to be tested

wait for your instructions (that will come before the test)

operate accordingly while in it)

so the my question to you is

How does it feel for you to go into the presence of God and come out... do you have trouble readjusting?

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link me on Instagram #seedbaringfruit #barefruit Perception is Not Black or White Who is in your Ear you can not judge dating on what you saw decades ago on what is going on now

• no one person or small grouping of people experience is standard for what is going on today
• each person situation can differ due to there life experiences information what they put into themselves versus what they get out
• things what things are you doing and have you changed with the times to remain current in what people are doing NOW when it comes to dating

• know YOU have to make a choice to adapt and cultivate your OWN perspective on relationship
• Don't take other peoples opinion as the law seek out what works best for you in this season of you life
• instead learn what's todays dating and relationship cultivation world looks like FOR you now

taking on other people opinions and life experiences can skew your view on that type of environment

I see the way that people go about dating has significantly shifted in past 40 years

Don't Give up - People that are in older age ranges are getting married 60's 70's and 80's and beyond

you have to align yourself and your mindset for what your truly looking for.

a youtuber i watch put's it this way "it don't take Long it just takes RIGHT" - Tramaine Allen

So what limiting beliefs have you created that are actually blocking you from cultivating relationship in TODAYS dating scene

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Why is it that people decide to show up as there representative instead of who it is they are My observation has been

• people do this in order to show to create a protective wall around there tender arts so they don't get hurt
• they operate in a protective armor in order to protect their raw parts because if they exposed there raw parts they can be hurt harmed bruised and torn
• things may be present that you prefer to hide in box until you see that that it's safe for you share it

• Know that though you might be a open and loving caring person not everyone else operates in that level of openness
• don't allow others projection of their world and there life around you don't want to expose your rawness and tender sports to people that will miss handle it
• instead if you are mature you will need to test them to see if the person is mature enough and ready to handle your tender spots and places

• people carry a representative around and the mask they used over time will fall off the more they become comfortable in the relationship
• as situations change and shift as you become adjusted to being at that certain level in that situation you will find that you no longer concentrate or being the representative
• and when you stop carrying the facade of who you are you can't help but show the real you as the real you begins to come through

• Know that no matter what you do you will All go back to who you are naturally because it internal and engrained in you
• Don't feel offended because the person went back to who they were
• instead understand as it has been said "when a person shows you WHO they are BELIVE them and move accordingly"

Because of fear because of people that are in operation in judgemental personalities won't hurt or stab you in those tenders places

So whats the question

Do you feel you HAVE TO show up as representative and not your true self and why do you feel that way

Why is it it seems that people change up when time has pastedI have come to find People either become very judgemental because you choose to become your true self and forces THEM to show who they truly are when they can no longer project there mask onto you anymore either and it forces you to separate

So the question is

Why do you or WOULD you feel that you pre-determine a individual will change in a NEGATIVE way in the future... why do you FEEL that way?

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Internet Relationship

IN todays society there are so many things that have changed about dating love and finding love is it even possible to find real love on the internet

• people need to know where to look when seeking out SUITABLE partners
• if your looking in the right places and spaces to find people withe genuine interest you will find what your seeking
• the thing is you may be looking in the wrong places at this time to find the truth of TRUE love at this time

• Know that people going to those places are very Unpredictable the net may be cast to wide and you may be pulling in the trash more then authentic connection
• You have to go to places that are tailored for cultivating communication and relationships like 'communities, circles, Groups and online conferences networking room events
• go to places where people show genuine passion and are more likely to be open about what they want and are interested in there by tailoring your search toward internal interests wants and like instead of external preferences

People will tell you "Oh go to Tinder or Match or if your a Christian ' Christian Singles'"

you have to come in to these places with the desire to cultivate communication and sold foundation before even the desire for relationship can be introduced

if you know the second question you as a person your getting to know is "what do you do and what are your interest"

you gotta hang out in places with like interest to your own to cultivate true communicative relationship and the DM conversation to get to know an individual will provide the information necessary to cultivate conversation that LEADS to healthy relationship.

So the bigger Question is

Are you looking in the wrong place when your desiring to find genuine connection on the internet.

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Why do perceive that when they meet a good person that they are going to eventually change a person view point on relationship will determine how they see people

• if you see people as people that will always end up turning into something that will hurt you you won't be able to ever see a good person at face value as Good when you meet them
• Situations and circumstances in your life will skew your perceptive of people that will make you view even a good person as bad influence
• Thing in life have impacted YOU and you need to sort those things out or you may end up rejecting a very good person

• Understanding that a person precieve people from the jump as someone that will hurt them does not leave room for someone to show them anything different
• if you don't let a person come in show you that there is truth there is good in them and in this world where is it that you may need to heal
• instead search your own heart and find where you may need to find forgiveness and consistently work on forgiving yourself, so your self away and can do maintenance on yourself

People can only project there own experience and when they have not been exposed to something better they will ALWAYS see anything New as what they always perceived it to be I would have to inquire further

So the bigger question is

What would make a person believe that when they met a GOOD person they would change?

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No Man wants a Wimpy woman is a person a whip really or is it

• your observing them in the place or season they are in and not understanding their position and destress
• when a person shows these characteristics it may just be that they are tired of carrying the weight alone and they are SHOWING their true emotions
• things in life happens and you can't carry strength ALL the time at times you have to put it down and when you some people can't handle it

• know that this is a perspective of the individual only on the outside looking in
• Don't share your weakness with people that can't handle it
• instead if a person can't handle your weakness then they must be positioned in appropriate place

wimp [wimp]NOUNVERB(WIMP OUT)

a weak and cowardly or unadventurous person.

1. SIMILAR:⁠coward⁠⁠weakling⁠⁠namby-pamby⁠⁠mouse⁠⁠poltroon⁠

1. fail to do or complete something as a result of fear or lack of confidence:"
2. anyone who wimped out because of the weather missed the experience of a lifetime"

External Judgement of a individuals truth of the weight they are battling people judge people as WIMPS for Being human and showing true human weakness

so the question is

What would make you believe a person showing the truth of there humanity and emotion makes them a WIMP

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Why is it that people decide to show up as there representative instead of who it is they are

My observation has been

• people do this in order to show to create a protective wall around there tender arts so they don't get hurt
• they operate in a protective armor in order to protect their raw parts because if they exposed there raw parts they can be hurt harmed bruised and torn
• things may be present that you prefer to hide in box until you see that that it's safe for you share it

• Know that though you might be a open and loving caring person not everyone else operates in that level of openness
• don't allow others projection of their world and there life around you don't want to expose your rawness and tender sports to people that will miss handle it
• instead if you are mature you will need to test them to see if the person is mature enough and ready to handle your tender spots and places

Because of fear because of people that are in operation in judgmental personalities won't hurt or stab you in those tenders places

So what's the question

Do you feel you HAVE TO show up as representative and not your true self and why do you feel that way

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What makes a Good Quality man or woman and why are we NOT looking for that in our relationships as a whole

Suggestion

there are society norms that make it so that create a level of confusion in todays society

• People will tell you that a good man does not Exist but they are speaking from there own perspective and not from Gods will want or desire for them
• certain places are not right FOR YOU to find the person you are seeking
• There are things Mentally emotionally Physically Spiritually and socially

• Know that you are worthy of A Good and Stable main
• Don't believe everything that you hear and cultivate becoming what you desire to become the woman that attracts the Good Man SPIRITUALLY
• Instead shift your thinking about it

There is external Judgement and confusions that that comes in when other people bring in there own opinions and don't look for the RIGHT thing in their relationships

SO what I want you to think about this

What is it that you are doing to internally shift yourself to be present and make the internal changes in order to bring people into that desired relationship

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Have you ever Wondered

Why it seems that younger people don't look for more solid relationships

A lot of people want to have people that are place holders but they don't really want anyone

• People have a tendency to enjoy having place holders for a time but they don't want to be fenced in
• they think more about places they are going instead of having permanent relationship
• they prefer to have 'situation'ships over relationships due to child hood traumas or things that were instilled in them at a young Age

• Know that some people have gone through certain trauma's that have given them desire to want
• young people want to feel like they are forced to stay in strict perimeters of there parents desires for them
• instead they feel as if they need to rebel against the very straight line principle though it may be safer for them and keep them from a world of hurt

What is the solution

even if you don't decide to get into a committed relationship immediately make goals around the relationship that you would like to have and always be moving toward those goals being self aware about your self to begin to become there person that partner would want NOT externally but Internally so that it will reflect outwardly when the time comes for that to happen.

so the question is

What steps can you take Now in order to become the person that you would like to be when your ready to get into a serious relationship

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Do you Study before you Take a Exam

So My Question that has bothered me is that I

Why for the MOST important connection you will have in your entire life WOULD YOU NOT STUDY FOR THAT EXAM

Suggestion

Can you Evaluate

• your Relationships past Romantic and Current Family (IT WILL COST YOU to retake this Exam)
• if you are Going through cycles in relationships is it really leading Anywhere besides CIRCLES
• Do you Need to Move (Mindset or thought patterns or current location in order to be freed from that

People May observe you externally and want to give you there (Opinion CliffsNotes for your marriage)

I need you to ask yourself this Question

If these people can not take care of there own lives and relationship situation Do you want to take advice from them?

Know - ither people are going to learn and be a Blessing or they will be a lesson

Don't let others Project there experiences and opinions on you see there perspective but don't let it become YOUR gospel

instead - take the steps to do the work necessary on yourself and within your relationship

speak positive affirming affirmations over your marriage.

So with this information

My Question to you

Have you really studied for the Exam of Marriage: do you think you can pass it first try.... so that this time will be FOREVER?

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What does a journey really look like in this time and season for you is it

• you taking the time to identify that you do desire love marriage and relationship
• what in your life is it that is not moving and moving for you
• are you suppose to be building in real estate and creating generational wealth

• But know that i hope with all that you have heard you have come to wisdom and understanding this is a long running journey
• Don't be discourage by the length of the journey but you take the time to recognize and enjoy the ride
• instead take what you have learned and apply it

others may not understand it but it's not for them to understand until they see it If Life is a journey full of test twists and winding roads you'll come to find

What keeps you going on this journey for you?

Slow and Steady wins the race and keep going remain consistent and in DUE time it will come together

"... Though it terry wait for it it shall surely speak and it will not lie"

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Are you willing to take a curve in stride even if it's not the direction you originally planned to Go in

• That means when people begin to come at you because you told them you were going one way and they want to remind you you didn't Go that why
• Situation offered you a way out that curved in a direction that you were not expecting to go
• things came up in the way that caused you to detour this may mean you have to come back and approach it from a different direction

• Know that you made the best decision you could make for you in that situation and circumstance
• don't back down or out because it makes others feel uncomfortable
• instead focus on finishing what you need to complete determine how far off the curve you were and course correct so you can hit the target the next time

When under that level of scrutiny and judgement What changes are you willing to make to hit your target the next time you have to make important decision

Checking in - a bit of a recap to make sure you got the gist of what we been talking about on this podcast

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How do you go about the procession regrouping after you have done all that you need to do Suggestion of where to start

• comb through your process and see how you can tighten up in certain area's and how has it made a impact on you
• what places have you seen throughout this process that you now understand you need to take the time and back away from
• what things and activities did you do that were helps or were hindrances in the long run

• know that no matter what you do is going to take a process it's just determine what that is in the season at hand
• Don't over think and worry about it relax reset and release it
• Instead take in your accomplishment celebrate those and then look back at it with a clear head evaluate for growth for later

Are you more worried of external judgement and why is that that you feel that way

How do you go about the procession regrouping after you have done all that you need to do

You Passed the valley and Now it's time to climb the Mountain

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it's time to reset in order to be able to make this time and take this climb up climb because this is different then just climbing from a low revene your climbing out to ground level your climbing up higher elevations

so what do I believe would be best

• take the time to determine what it is that your focal point that your climbing up to
• do you have a accountability partner in or to keep you climbing when the road get rough
• what things are you carrying on the journey that you don't need that are weighing you down making it harder for you to travel

• using cleats to climb
• using tools to grip the mountain on hire places in the mountain
• some may come along and help lifter to hire parts of the mountain as you get tired give you new energy you closer to the destination but it won't be all the way but it will be far enough you can get to where your suppose to be.

people may observe you on the journey certain people are going to be helping or hindering you As your climbing you find that your family may be the ones that are pulling you back calling you taking you on your travels not allowing you to get though it you are running a marathon and at points in time your going to

What are some activities that you do to prepare to go into heavy project how does it help you focus and main it thought the journey to your goals?

How to walk well through the valley

follow the movement on Discord @Barefruit link me on Instagram #seedbaringfruit #barefruitWhat is it like for when you have to walk through a valley and what it takes to get from one end of the valley to the other so what do I believe would be best

• take the time to determine what it is that your focal point getting to the other side of that valley to that base of the mountain
• do you have a accountability partner in or to keep you weather their riding with you in a car or driving you through portion of the way
• what things are you carrying on the journey that you don't need that are weighing you down making it harder for you to travel

• Run
• Bike
• some may come along and drive you closer to the destination but it won't be all the way but it will be far enough you can get to where your suppose to be.

people may observe you on the journey certain people are going to be helping or hindering you As your walking you find that your family may be the ones that are pulling you back calling you taking you on your travels not allowing you to get though it you are running a marathon and at points in time your going to

What are some activities that you do to prepare to go into heavy project how does it help you focus and main it thought the journey to your goals?

How to Move into the territory and how to operate in the move of God

How to walk in relationship

• Family
• Friends
• Loved ones
• Romantic relationship

What are you willing to do for Love the love of God

* Good Book on the (5 Love laungauges (For god) - Love sent Grow"

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We all know that we have been willing to do a lot of CRAZY things for love in the past

But my suggestion is

how are you willing to take that same love that you have show people and express that in your relationship with god what situations

have you put yourself in in the natural that if you took them back to God would have ended with a different result

What things have you seen happen in your life if you just inquired with God first may not have turned out that way

Most people don't understand what it is to take the time and work and walk before the lord but know that when you

Show god the respect that you willingly giving to man

when you don't let the fact that god isn't physical person stop or dictate how you teat him instead spend time with him go on dates

spend the time lay in bed and

speak your heart to god know

he's there and he's listening

what activities are you willing to Add to show God that you take him serious

it takes a strong person to operate from a self aware place and not allow others to project there self and self centered ways apon us and understanding that our blessings are for US too!!!

This is actually a Upload from my very first podcast it receive so many good reviews that i decided to add it as part of this series of videos because we can always learn more on how to love ourselves

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Have you ever been taught how to love your self what does that comprise of

• when people are hard on you learning not to take what they say personally and understand that it's not something they have against you they are projecting what going on with them.
• you may not be able to change your circumstances to day but admit your circumstance and take steps to change internally first followed by externally
• Things may happen and life be life'in but take conscious step beck observe and don't take more onto you that is necessary separate yourself from it and determine does it need you or is your energy better spent protecting your peace and growing your personal and internal space

others may judge and have there own opinion about it Know this is you journey and you have to walk in it not them Don't ever compromise your peace for someone else pleasure

instead learn to for each experience that you have and apply those lesson to the next So tell me

what have you learned in your lifespan that has helped you lean to love you better?