Welcome to the last episode of 'Talkin' about the Taboo" in 2025!!!
In this episode we are joined by Michelle Torrance (Ms Red). Ms. Red is a choreographer, board-certified sexologist, and producer of the intimate cabaret experience XXXcape.
Together, we explore how sensual movement, embodiment, and curiosity can help transform sexual shame, trauma, and body disconnection into empowerment, pleasure, and self-expression.
Michelle shares her journey through dance, queer performance, erotic spirituality, and what it truly means to transmute pain into power.
This episode dives into movement as medicine, pleasure as reclamation, and creating safe spaces where people can be seen, witnessed, and fully alive.
Show Notes:
Sneaky Links from the Guest:
Facebook - @sirensdanceco Book recommendations:
Websites: https://michelletorrancedance.my.canva.sitehttps://sexualalchemistsex.wixsite.com
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In this episode of Talkin’ About the Taboo, I sit down with Stacey Barrett, a Buffalo-born former Pure Romance consultant who’s turned her passion for pleasure, empowerment, and education into a full-blown movement.
We dive deep into:💋I deep dive into some of her favorite sex toys💋 The wildest, funniest, and most unforgettable stories from her Pure Romance days
💋 Her “aha” moment realizing that pleasure work is more than business, it’s a calling
💋 What it really means to go independent as an event host
💋 How she helps clients reconnect their mind and body through sensual rituals and self-care
Whether you’re new to exploring sex toys, thinking about starting your own intimacy-based business, or just love real talk about confidence and connection, this episode is a must-listen.
Sneaky Links:
Intimacy By Design Facebook Group HERE
Intimacy By Design Website HERE
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In this powerful episode of Talkin’ About the Taboo, I sat down with the four founders of B.R.I.D.G.E. Buffalo (Building Black Relationships by Initiating Development, Growth, and Empowerment) a groundbreaking initiative led to combat Domestic Violence within the Black Communities. Together, we explore how these brilliant women are bridging the gap between academia and lived experience, research and resilience, and trauma and transformation. Through their work, they’re addressing issues like intimate partner violence, perinatal mental health, intergenerational trauma, and teen dating violence, all while cultivating spaces for collective healing and empowerment.
What We Talk About:
-Origins & “The Why” behind B.R.I.D.G.E.
-The unique impact of domestic violence in Black communities
-Survivor-centered and culturally responsive healing
-Youth engagement, prevention, and breaking generational cycles
-What true safety and support look like for Black survivors
Resources Mentioned:
If you or someone you know is experiencing domestic violence:• National Domestic Violence Hotline: 1-800-799-SAFE (7233) | thehotline.org• B.B.R.I.D.G.E. Buffalo: Follow @bbridge_buffalo
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Welcome Back to Talkin' about the Taboo!!!What if your body could experience ecstasy without touch, just pure energy? In this episode, I sit down with Ceilidh, founder of Heartgasm Coaching and author of Heartgasms: Sacred Sex, Prophetic Dreams & the Frequency of Love, to explore the connection between pleasure, energy, and spiritual awakening.Together, we explore:The science and spirituality of energetic orgasmsHow Ankhing energy flow works (and how to try it yourself)Pleasure-based and even orgasmic birth experiencesProphetic dreams, 5D consciousness, and collective peacePractical tools to break shame cycles and reconnect with your body’s wisdomCeilidh reminds us that “the taboo exists because we’ve been taught to fear what is sacred.” This conversation invites you to release shame, open your heart, and remember that pleasure is your birthright.Sneaky LinksLearn more about Ceilidh’s work at her Instagram @heartgasmcoachingFollow Talkin’ About the Taboo on Instagram: @rootedtabooWebsite: rootedtaboo.com***Comment below: What’s one way you’ve felt your energy come alive through pleasure or intuition?***
WELCOME BACK TO TALKIN' ABOUT THE TABOO!!!Ever wonder why you’re drawn to certain dynamics, fantasies, or turn-ons?In this episode of Talkin’ About the Taboo, we’re diving deep into Core Desires; the emotional blueprints behind what truly lights us up in intimacy and connection.From the longing to feel seen or desired, to craving surrender, power, or safety, our Core Desires are more than sexual, they’re reflections of our deepest truths. We’ll explore how to identify yours, how they show up in relationships, and how embracing them can lead to deeper authenticity, pleasure, and self-understanding.Show Notes:The psychology and embodiment behind Core DesiresHow Somatica Coaching helps reveal your emotional wiringThe difference between fantasy and truth-based desireHow shame keeps us from owning what we want and how to reclaim itWhether you’re single, partnered, or just curious about your erotic self, this conversation will help you connect more deeply to your pleasure and power.Hosted by Natalie Maloy: Sex & Relationship Coach in training and creator of Intimately Rooted LLC and Talkin’ About the Taboo.🔗 Sneaky Links Instagram: @rootedtabooWebsite: rootedtaboo.com
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On this episode of Talkin’ About the Taboo, we’re pulling back the curtain on a condition that is rarely discussed, often misunderstood, yet impacts far more people than most realize: lichen sclerosus.
My guest, Hope, is a master’s graduate in mass communication, an avid world traveler, and a powerful voice on TikTok, where her candid series about living with LS has gained over 5 million views!
Through her honesty, humor, and advocacy, Hope has helped countless women find the words, the courage, and in many cases the diagnosis they had been searching for. Together, we dive into her personal journey to diagnosis, the stigma around genital health, the lingering effects of purity culture, and the frustrating reality of medical gaslighting.
We also explore the impact of underdiagnosed diseases, the importance of using humor to talk about heavy topics, and what it means to reclaim your voice when healthcare systems fall short.
Hope doesn’t just bring awareness to LS, she brings connection, validation, and hope (pun intended!) to a community that has too often been left in silence.
If you’ve ever wondered why conversations about genital health are still so taboo—or if you’re someone searching for answers yourself—this episode is for you.
Sneaky Links:
Guest Tik Tok HERE
LS Support HERE
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In this episode of The History of Sex, we dive into the intimate worlds of ancient civilizations. From Egypt and Mesopotamia to Greece and Rome, sexuality was never just about pleasure. It was tied to cosmic balance, fertility, and the very fabric of society. We’ll explore how sacred rituals, fertility rites, and temple practices shaped communities, how prostitution played an economic and spiritual role in Mesopotamian cities, and how philosophy and power influenced Greek and Roman views on desire. Discover how sexuality in the ancient world was woven into religion, politics, and culture and how these legacies still echo in our modern understanding of sex.
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What happens when an engineer swaps spreadsheets for gripping the sheets?
Meet Sam, a Somatica-trained Sex & Relationship Coach, meditation nerd, and self-described poly-hearted guide to desire and liberation.
In this episode, Sam shares how he went from climate tech and a men’s groups to helping people reclaim their agency, explore their desires, and live unapologetically turned on.
We dive into embodied sexuality, the freedom of embracing your wants (because they’re never “too much”), and how being poly-hearted can shift the way we love, connect, and experience pleasure.
Whether you’re curious about conscious sexuality, moving through shame, or just love a good transformation story, this conversation will make you rethink what it means to live fully alive... in and out of the sheets.
Show Notes:
Sneaky Links...
Guest Instagram HERE!
Guest Website HERE!
Guest Fetlife HERE!
Sex Toy of the Week:
Flint Mints-
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Talkin’ About the Taboo isn’t your average podcast. It is a space where curiosity meets courage. Hosted by Natalie Maloy(me hehe), intimacy coach and sex-positive guide, this show dives into the conversations most people avoid: sex, pleasure, desire, identity, and the messy, beautiful parts of being human.In this trailer, I share the heart behind the mic, why I started this podcast, what listeners can expect each episode. Talkin’ About the Taboo is here to spark honest dialogue, challenge shame, and celebrate connection. Whether it’s unpacking ancient history, exploring modern intimacy, or sharing real stories, this podcast is an open invitation to step into your own curiosity.If you’ve ever wondered about the things people don’t say out loud, this is your place to listen in.Clit-Municate!!!!
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Did you know that the word "Cunt" was a surname between 1871 and 1891? Or did you know the beginning stages of vibrators were invented for hysteria in women?
Welcome to the 8 part series of "The History of Sex" inspired by Kate Listers book "A Curious History of Sex."
Series Breakdown:
E1-Ancient Civilizations (Sacred Sex, Temple Prostitutes ect)
E2-Greece and Rome (Philosophy, Power ect)
E3-Middle Ages (Sex as a sin, sex as spiritual warfare, ect)
E4-Renaissance and Enlightenment
E5-Victorian Era (Vibrators, Rise of Sexual Medicine)
E6-Early 20th century (Freud, Flappers, Feminism)
E7-The Sexual Revolution (The Pill, Protests and Pleasure as Power)
E8- Modern Day
*Note*-These are filler episodes in between guests so they will not be consecutive in order .
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What happens when a former porn star, live-in BDSM submissive, and award-nominated performer steps into the role of healer, guide, and parent?
In this episode, Amy Hoffman, also known as Sparky Sin Claire, shares her story of deep surrender, sexual exploration, and unapologetic transformation.
From her time in the adult film world to life inside a 24/7 power exchange dynamic, to raising a child with radical transparency, Amy invites us into the messy, beautiful intersections of kink, queerness, sex work, and motherhood.
This conversation will challenge what you think you know, and leave you craving more.Show Notes:
Sneaky Links:
Instagram: @sparkmasteramy
PROMO:
Purchase Cloud 9 Drink HERE
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In this episode, we sit down with a guest whose relationship journey started in a traditional marriage and evolved into a deeply intentional, ethical non-monogamous lifestyle.
We’ll explore what it means to unlearn old relationship models, build secure multi-partner dynamics, and rediscover one’s sense of identity through love, communication, and emotional growth.
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50 Women 1 question: What does sexual freedom really look like?
For too long, women—especially in midlife—have been fed limiting stories about their bodies, desires, and roles in relationships. But that script is changing.
In this powerful episode of Talkin’ About the Taboo, I sit down with Sarah Nelson, a Brooklyn-based researcher, writer, and relationship coach who’s been on a mission to find out what it looks like when women reclaim their sexual agency.
Through interviews with over 50 women across the U.S., Sarah’s upcoming book sheds light on the intimate, raw, and liberating truths of midlife sexuality.
We talk about why she chose the Somatica Method to guide her work, what ethical non-monogamy looks like in real life, and how she’s raising a 13-year-old with open, shame-free conversations about sex and consent.
From breaking generational cycles to exploring new ways of loving and being loved, this episode is a candid, vulnerable, and empowering dive into what it means to live without apology.
Show Notes:
Sex Toy of the Week:
Flint Mints-
Sneaky Links for Sarah:
If you're interested in speaking to Sarah about the book, you can find out more at https://powerunderneath.com/.
Website: https://coaching-for-authenticity.com/.
Instagram: @powerunderneathListen in and clit-municate with us!!!!
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In this thought-provoking episode of Talkin’ About the Taboo, I am diving deep into the diverse world of relationship dynamics—from traditional monogamy to consensual non-monogamy, polyamory, and even power exchange relationships like the Daddy/little girl dynamic.
Whether you’re curious, questioning, or already living outside the lines, this episode lays out the key principles of healthy, ethical connection—no matter your structure. We’ll unpack the roles of consent, communication, and emotional safety in these relationships and challenge outdated ideas about what love and commitment “should” look like.
It’s time to talk about the many ways people create intimacy, care, and trust in their lives—because one size definitely does not fit all.
Sex Toy of the Week:
Flint Mints-
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We romanticize the bump and glamorize the birth, but what happens after the baby arrives? In this raw and radically honest episode, we’re pulling back the curtain on the fourth trimester—the messy, emotional, beautiful, and often overlooked season of postpartum.
I sit down with a powerhouse guest who wears multiple hats: birth doula, lactation consultant, and postpartum doula, oh and soon to be nurse!
Together, we unpack everything from sore nipples and perineal stitches to mental health, identity shifts, and the awkward, tender path back to intimacy.
No fluff, no filters—just real talk about what your body, your baby, and your relationships actually go through after childbirth.
Whether you’re preparing for postpartum or still healing from it years later, this episode validates your experience and gives you tools, truths, and a whole lot of permission to not be okay all the time.
Highlights include:
• Why postpartum care should start before the baby is born
• The myth of “natural” breastfeeding
• Navigating body image, sex, and self-worth after birth
• How to advocate for yourself (and others) in a system's that are often overlooked in Womens Research
Sex Toy of the Week:
Flint Mints-
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Why is sex therapy still treated like a dirty little secret? In this episode, we dive deep with guest Dr. McDowell to unpack the stigma around seeking help for sexual health and pleasure.
We explore why sex therapy is about so much more than just positions—it’s about healing, communication, and building deeper connections. From practical tips for giving better oral sex to the complex realities of the female orgasm, nothing is off the table.
We also break down how race, gender, and sexuality shape our sexual experiences, and how oppressive systems like patriarchy show up in the bedroom and the therapy room.
Show Notes:
Sex Toy of the Week:
Cloud 9 Drink HERE
Books Discussed:
Life Isn't Binary by Barker & Iantaffi -Purchase HERE
Mama Sutra by Natasha Ria El Scari Purchase HERE
Sneaky Links for Dr. McDowell:
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In this episode, we take a deep dive into menopause—what it is,how it affects women differently, and why understanding it matters.
Joined by Dr. Reyes, we unpack the stages of menopause, common symptoms, and the hormonal shifts that impact everything from mood to libido.
We explore real solutions for managing symptoms, including treatments, lifestyle changes, and support for sexual health.
Plus, we bust myths, tackle taboos, and answer listener write-ins to help normalize this important conversation.
Whether you’re approaching menopause, in the thick of it, or supporting someone who is, this episode brings clarity, compassion, and candid insight.
SHOW NOTES:
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Sneaky Links for Dr. Reyes-
Website/App Recommendations:
Welcome back to Talkin’ about the Taboo where curious minds go who are in a mission to know everything there is to know about sex and relationships.
Today’s episode dives deep into the ideas of a book called “Men, Women and Worthiness” by Dr. Brene Brown. Dr. Brown considers shame and guilt to be the key contribution to why our relationships aren’t working out.
In this episode we talk about taboo topics such as infidelity, the bedroom complex and how our partners vulnerability may even "ick" us out.
Show Notes:
Chapter Timestamps:
1-6:22
2-18:28
3-24:07
4-29:18
5-38:12
6-41:14
7-43:57
8/9-48:09
Sex toy of the week:
YOUR BRAIN- Make your brain orgasm while diving into your own emotional vulnerabilities
Clit-municate Citation:
Brown, Brené. Men, Women, and Worthiness: The Experience of Shame and the Power of Being Enough. 2012.
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In this eye-opening episode, we explore the intersection of sexual health, hormone imbalance, and the revolutionary role cannabis is playing in modern gynecology.
From tackling sexual disorders and dysfunction to addressinghormone deficiencies, we dive into how cannabis is emerging as a powerful tool in women's healthcare.
Joining me is Dr. Corey Babb, a leading expert in gynecology and holistic health, who shares insights on the science behindcannabis' therapeutic potential.
Dr. Babb explains how this new era of treatment is offering hope and relief to those navigating sexual and hormonal challenges.
Tune in to discover how green medicine is shaping the future of women's wellness, how hormone deficiency is treated and the ins and outs of sexual dysfunction .
Sex Toy of the Week: FORIV CBD Arousal Oil
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Show Notes:
Pre Order Book: Practical Guide to Female Sexual Medicine (Dr. Corey Babb)
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In this podcast episode, my boyfriend (Trevor D) and I dive into common relationship struggles that many couples face.
We share personal experiences and insights, and we also read some intriguing Reddit stories that highlight different perspectives on love and partnership.
Additionally, we have an open and honest conversation about sex, discussing everything from communication to intimacy.
It's a candid and engaging episode aimed at helping couples navigate the ups and downs of relationships.
Sex Toy of the Week:Clitoris, Vagina, Labia Vibrator