In this episode, I’m unpacking the quiet cognitive dissonance many of us live with every day. It’s that tension between wanting to stay positive, hopeful, soft, and open to love, while also knowing the world isn’t always kind, safe, or fair. It’s the balance between protecting your mind and guarding your life. This episode is about finding that middle ground where you can stay optimistic without being naïve, and stay discerning without becoming hardened. It’s about living in the light while respecting the shadows.
In this episode, I celebrate my 30th birthday by sharing 30 lessons life has taught me so far. From learning to love my own company and protecting my boundaries, to building confidence, navigating relationships, and chasing financial stability these are the truths that shaped me and the wisdom I hope can inspire anyone figuring out how to live fully and wisely.
In this episode of Tea and Takes, we dive into a question a friend recently asked and kindly gave permission for us to unpack on the podcast: Are friendships easier when two people are similar, or can totally different personalities still build something strong? We explore compatibility, the role of emotional maturity, and whether differences create friction or balance. It’s a gentle, honest conversation about what really makes friendships work, especially when personalities don’t match on the surface.
In this episode of Tea and Takes, I continue the conversation about relationship red flags from last week. We go deeper into the behaviors that really matter and separate them from context-dependent quirks and minor annoyances that people often mistake for dealbreakers. From critical comments about appearance to unusual texting habits, I share more real-life examples and explore what they reveal about compatibility and long-term potential. Tune in for an honest and thoughtful take on recognizing patterns that can shape your dating experience.
In this episode of Tea and Takes, I scoured the internet and thought it would be fun to explore real-life relationship red flags, especially since I’m dating. Not all red flags are created equal, so we break down the valid warning signs, the context-dependent behaviors, and the nitpicky annoyances people often mistake for dealbreakers.
From overly critical comments about appearance to quirky texting habits, we share many examples and analyze them.
In this episode of Tea and Takes, we turn the mirror inward and ask a hard but healing question: Could I be the one making someone else lonely? It’s easy to focus on how others make us feel unseen, but sometimes, without realizing it, our own silence, distraction, or absence creates the very distance we fear. We’ll explore why self-evaluation matters, how actions speak louder than intentions, and practical ways to show up better for the people we love, not just in romantic relationships, but also with family and friends… because love unexpressed can feel like love withheld, but when expressed consistently, even in small ways, it has the power to make others feel deeply seen and never alone.
Being alone doesn’t always mean being lonely, and being with someone doesn’t always mean feeling connected. In this episode of Tea and Takes, we unpack what it means when presence feels like absence, how nonchalance erodes intimacy, and why protecting your emotional cup matters. From love to friendships to family, we explore how to tell if you’re truly lonely or simply at peace in your own company.
What if the secret to happiness isn’t in the big wins, but in noticing the little things? In this episode, we explore how gratitude for simple, everyday moments can shift our perspective and bring lasting joy. From savoring small pleasures to appreciating overlooked blessings, you’ll discover how the practice of gratitude becomes the true hack to happiness. By the end, you’ll be inspired to find joy right where you are, one little moment at a time.
When we think of mentors, we often imagine CEOs, industry leaders, or people miles ahead of us. But the truth is, some of the best mentors are right beside us: friends, colleagues, or people just one step further on the journey. In this episode of Tea and Takes with Simi, we dive into the idea that mentorship isn’t only about status or position. We discuss why wisdom can come from unexpected places and how learning to value everyday mentorship can shape your growth in powerful ways.
In this episode, we dive into the subtle ways we gaslight ourselves, downplaying our feelings, doubting our experiences, and silencing our own truths. We’ll explore how self-gaslighting shows up in everyday life, why it can be so damaging, and practical steps to break the cycle. This is your reminder to trust your voice, honor your emotions, and give yourself the same compassion you extend to others.
In this episode of Tea and Takes, I dive into the heated reactions around Toke Makinwa’s decision to have a baby on her own. We talk about why women making bold choices outside of tradition shakes people up, and how religion often gets twisted into a tool for control. This episode is an honest take on why straying from the norm shouldn’t be treated like a sin.
In this first episode of Tea and Takes, I open up about what this space will be about and why I decided to finally begin. I talk about embracing imperfect starts, letting go of the obsession with everything being perfect, and giving yourself permission to just begin. If you’ve been waiting for the “right time,” this one’s for you…sometimes the best way to start is simply to start.