Welcome to The Anxious to Secure PODCAST! 🎙️
If you’re anxiously attached, want to feel empowered without CHASING your emotionally unavailable (Avoidant) partner, and are ready to FINALLY become securely attached, this show is for you. 🤍
My name is Jula, and I’m a certified life coach. It took me 30 years to realize how my Anxious Attachment Style and Relationship Anxiety impacted my relationships, and just 6 months to transform into a more secure attachment style.
If you want to learn all my secret strategies grab your coffee and headphones🎧 and take me for your walk.
Tuesdays: I’ll be busting a relationship myth.
Thursdays: I’ll dive into the most pressing relationship questions and powerful methods—from rewiring your mind, anti-anxiety tools, and actionable steps to take right now.
🤍 Jump on the Anxious To Secure Waitlist and get my BLUEPRINT on how I became securely attached in just 6 months.
😱📱 Grab Your Free Guide: 5 Steps to Handle It When Your Partner Doesn’t Text Back.
🤍 Stop Obsessing Over “No Replies” in 21 days or less with my TEXT ANXIETY Mini Course.
🤍 Instagram: @the.anxious to.secure.coach
🤍 KICK off your Journey with a 90 min 1:1 VIP SOS Session
Ready to hear ALL my secrets how I became secure within just 6 months??
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Welcome to The Anxious to Secure PODCAST! 🎙️
If you’re anxiously attached, want to feel empowered without CHASING your emotionally unavailable (Avoidant) partner, and are ready to FINALLY become securely attached, this show is for you. 🤍
My name is Jula, and I’m a certified life coach. It took me 30 years to realize how my Anxious Attachment Style and Relationship Anxiety impacted my relationships, and just 6 months to transform into a more secure attachment style.
If you want to learn all my secret strategies grab your coffee and headphones🎧 and take me for your walk.
Tuesdays: I’ll be busting a relationship myth.
Thursdays: I’ll dive into the most pressing relationship questions and powerful methods—from rewiring your mind, anti-anxiety tools, and actionable steps to take right now.
🤍 Jump on the Anxious To Secure Waitlist and get my BLUEPRINT on how I became securely attached in just 6 months.
😱📱 Grab Your Free Guide: 5 Steps to Handle It When Your Partner Doesn’t Text Back.
🤍 Stop Obsessing Over “No Replies” in 21 days or less with my TEXT ANXIETY Mini Course.
🤍 Instagram: @the.anxious to.secure.coach
🤍 KICK off your Journey with a 90 min 1:1 VIP SOS Session
Ready to hear ALL my secrets how I became secure within just 6 months??
103: 7 things i’d NEVER do again if i DATED now as a secure woman 🍷💐 (what to do instead)
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103: 7 things i’d NEVER do again if i DATED now as a secure woman 🍷💐 (what to do instead)
…and the last one will shock you
7 Things I’d Do Differently If I Dated Now As a Secure Woman
How to STOP needing so much reassurance via text ❤️🩹📱
https://www.the-marriage-coach.com/textanxiety
If you’ve ever met one guy on a dating app and your brain immediately built a whole 10-year love story in 48 hours… this episode is your new medicine.
I’m breaking down the 7 things I would do completely differently if I dated again - now that I’m securely attached and no longer chasing crumbs 💋ྀིྀི
Inside this episode, you’ll learn:
★ Why dating multiple people at once keeps you in CHOICE instead of obsession★ How dating slow protects you from falling for “potential”★ The reason secure women show up authentic fast, instead of performing★ Why I wait for emotional safety before ANY intimacy★ How to actually date head over heart (and stop confusing chaos for chemistry)★ What detached energy looks like when you’re not in scarcity anymore★ Why keeping your life the main event makes you more attractive instantly★ And the extra rule that would SHOCK old me:I don’t initiate or follow up after early dates - ever
If you want to attract a secure, emotionally available partner…If you’re tired of overthinking texts, panicking after dates, or getting attached to someone you barely know…If you want to date from your POWER and not your fear…This episode is your roadmap
I’m sharing real stories, client examples, and the exact shifts that turn anxious dating into secure dating.This isn’t fluffy advice.These are the rules that create healthy, grounded, actual connection — not fantasy bonds.
🌷✨ Listen now if you want to stop chasing chemistry and start choosing compatibility.
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Free Find your ANXIOUS Archetype NOW (to feel calmer)
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Free: Anxious to Secure Checklist
https://www.the-marriage-coach.com/anxioustosecurechecklist
FREE 3min Attachment Style QUIZ
https://themarriagecoach.outgrow.us/attachmentstyle3mquiz
🖤 💆🏻♀️ How to STOP needing so much reassurance via text
(because safety comes from within, and you chasing or not settling boundary is the thing that give you anxiety, NOT a delayed text.)
https://www.the-marriage-coach.com/textanxiety
▶️ Chapters:
00:00 Introduction to Secure Dating Tips00:34 7 Secure dating Tips (from an EX Anxious Attachment Girly)00:44 Dating tip #0103:57 Dating Tip #0206:44 Dating Tip #0308:40 Dating Tip #0409:55 Dating Tip #0511:41 Dating Tips #0613:41 Dating Tip #0717:23 Bonus Dating Tip #0822:06 Remember THIS
DISCLAIMER: I'm not a therapist or doctor.
This content is for informational and entertainment purposes only. It's not intended to diagnose, treat, or heal any mental health conditions.
This is not meant for situations involving abusive relationships of any kind. Always seek professional advice for personal health concerns.
Remember: Change in your relationship starts with YOU, thought by thought and action by action.
ON SALE: How to Stop OVERTHINKING Your Relationship in 4 Steps
(With Your Avoidant Partner)
https://www.the-marriage-coach.com/overthinkingcourse
The Anxious To Secure PODCAST
Welcome to The Anxious to Secure PODCAST! 🎙️
If you’re anxiously attached, want to feel empowered without CHASING your emotionally unavailable (Avoidant) partner, and are ready to FINALLY become securely attached, this show is for you. 🤍
My name is Jula, and I’m a certified life coach. It took me 30 years to realize how my Anxious Attachment Style and Relationship Anxiety impacted my relationships, and just 6 months to transform into a more secure attachment style.
If you want to learn all my secret strategies grab your coffee and headphones🎧 and take me for your walk.
Tuesdays: I’ll be busting a relationship myth.
Thursdays: I’ll dive into the most pressing relationship questions and powerful methods—from rewiring your mind, anti-anxiety tools, and actionable steps to take right now.
🤍 Jump on the Anxious To Secure Waitlist and get my BLUEPRINT on how I became securely attached in just 6 months.
😱📱 Grab Your Free Guide: 5 Steps to Handle It When Your Partner Doesn’t Text Back.
🤍 Stop Obsessing Over “No Replies” in 21 days or less with my TEXT ANXIETY Mini Course.
🤍 Instagram: @the.anxious to.secure.coach
🤍 KICK off your Journey with a 90 min 1:1 VIP SOS Session
Ready to hear ALL my secrets how I became secure within just 6 months??
