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If youâre anxiously attached, want to feel empowered without CHASING your emotionally unavailable (Avoidant) partner, and are ready to FINALLY become securely attached, this show is for you. đ¤
My name is Jula, and Iâm a certified life coach. It took me 30 years to realize how my Anxious Attachment Style and Relationship Anxiety impacted my relationships, and just 6 months to transform into a more secure attachment style.
If you want to learn all my secret strategies grab your coffee and headphonesđ§ and take me for your walk.
Tuesdays: Iâll be busting a relationship myth.
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Welcome to The Anxious to Secure PODCAST! đď¸
If youâre anxiously attached, want to feel empowered without CHASING your emotionally unavailable (Avoidant) partner, and are ready to FINALLY become securely attached, this show is for you. đ¤
My name is Jula, and Iâm a certified life coach. It took me 30 years to realize how my Anxious Attachment Style and Relationship Anxiety impacted my relationships, and just 6 months to transform into a more secure attachment style.
If you want to learn all my secret strategies grab your coffee and headphonesđ§ and take me for your walk.
Tuesdays: Iâll be busting a relationship myth.
Thursdays: Iâll dive into the most pressing relationship questions and powerful methodsâfrom rewiring your mind, anti-anxiety tools, and actionable steps to take right now.
đ¤ Jump on the Anxious To Secure Waitlist and get my BLUEPRINT on how I became securely attached in just 6 months.
đąđą Grab Your Free Guide: 5 Steps to Handle It When Your Partner Doesnât Text Back.
đ¤ Stop Obsessing Over âNo Repliesâ in 21 days or less with my TEXT ANXIETY Mini Course.
đ¤ Instagram: @the.anxious to.secure.coach
đ¤ KICK off your Journey with a 90 min 1:1 VIP SOS Session
Ready to hear ALL my secrets how I became secure within just 6 months??
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Gilmore Girls Attachment Style Breakdown (Part 2): Rory & Her RelationshipsÂ
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Welcome back to part two of the Gilmore Girls Attachment Style Breakdown! Today weâre diving deep into Roryâs worldâher relationships, dating patterns, and why sheâs attracted to certain types of people like Dean, Jess, Logan, and even Tristan.
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If you havenât watched part one yet,
I recommend starting there to understand the foundation of the charactersâ attachment styles, including Lorelai, Luke, Christopher, Emily, and Richard
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In this episode, we explore:⨠Roryâs anxious attachment style with disorganized edges⨠How her upbringing shaped her relationship patterns⨠Why she chases unavailable partners and idolizes her boyfriends⨠The push-and-pull dynamic with Dean, Jess, Logan, and Tristan⨠How her self-worth ties to achievement, school, and love⨠The patterns that make her relationships challenging⨠My #1 tip for Rory (and anyone with anxious tendencies) to finally feel secure in love
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We also break down:đ Dean â anxious attachment, craving closeness but over-investing emotionallyđ Jess â disorganized tendencies, rebellious and protective, struggles with vulnerabilityđ Tristan â classic avoidant, keeps emotional distance, immature and testing Roryđ Logan â avoidant with some disorganized traits, charming but emotionally inconsistent
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If youâre anxious in love like Rory,
the real shift happens when you build security within yourself first.
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When you stop chasing emotional red flags, you attract reliable, loving partners and create healthier dynamics in all areas of your life.
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đ Donât forget to comment below:Whoâs your favorite Rory boyfriend? And do you relate to Roryâs anxious tendencies in love?
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Thanks for watching and doing the work with me! Happy autumn and remember, change in your relationships starts with youâthought by thought, action by action.
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CHAPTERS:
00:00 Intro to Gilmore Girls Attachments Styles01:28 Rory's Attachment Style11:46 Dean's Attachment Style20:30 Jess Mariano's Attachment Style25:24 Tristan's Attachment Style30:56 Logan Huntzberger's Attachment Style36:49 My BIGGEST relationship Advice for RORY
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DISCLAIMER: I'm not a therapist or doctor. This content is for informational and entertainment purposes only. It's not intended to diagnose, treat, or heal any mental health conditions.
This is not meant for situations involving abusive relationships of any kind. Always seek professional advice for personal health concerns.
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Remember: Change in your relationship starts with YOU, thought by thought and action by action.
The Anxious To Secure PODCAST
Welcome to The Anxious to Secure PODCAST! đď¸
If youâre anxiously attached, want to feel empowered without CHASING your emotionally unavailable (Avoidant) partner, and are ready to FINALLY become securely attached, this show is for you. đ¤
My name is Jula, and Iâm a certified life coach. It took me 30 years to realize how my Anxious Attachment Style and Relationship Anxiety impacted my relationships, and just 6 months to transform into a more secure attachment style.
If you want to learn all my secret strategies grab your coffee and headphonesđ§ and take me for your walk.
Tuesdays: Iâll be busting a relationship myth.
Thursdays: Iâll dive into the most pressing relationship questions and powerful methodsâfrom rewiring your mind, anti-anxiety tools, and actionable steps to take right now.
đ¤ Jump on the Anxious To Secure Waitlist and get my BLUEPRINT on how I became securely attached in just 6 months.
đąđą Grab Your Free Guide: 5 Steps to Handle It When Your Partner Doesnât Text Back.
đ¤ Stop Obsessing Over âNo Repliesâ in 21 days or less with my TEXT ANXIETY Mini Course.
đ¤ Instagram: @the.anxious to.secure.coach
đ¤ KICK off your Journey with a 90 min 1:1 VIP SOS Session
Ready to hear ALL my secrets how I became secure within just 6 months??