Welcome to The Anxious to Secure PODCAST! 🎙️
If you’re anxiously attached, want to feel empowered without CHASING your emotionally unavailable (Avoidant) partner, and are ready to FINALLY become securely attached, this show is for you. 🤍
My name is Jula, and I’m a certified life coach. It took me 30 years to realize how my Anxious Attachment Style and Relationship Anxiety impacted my relationships, and just 6 months to transform into a more secure attachment style.
If you want to learn all my secret strategies grab your coffee and headphones🎧 and take me for your walk.
Tuesdays: I’ll be busting a relationship myth.
Thursdays: I’ll dive into the most pressing relationship questions and powerful methods—from rewiring your mind, anti-anxiety tools, and actionable steps to take right now.
🤍 Jump on the Anxious To Secure Waitlist and get my BLUEPRINT on how I became securely attached in just 6 months.
😱📱 Grab Your Free Guide: 5 Steps to Handle It When Your Partner Doesn’t Text Back.
🤍 Stop Obsessing Over “No Replies” in 21 days or less with my TEXT ANXIETY Mini Course.
🤍 Instagram: @the.anxious to.secure.coach
🤍 KICK off your Journey with a 90 min 1:1 VIP SOS Session
Ready to hear ALL my secrets how I became secure within just 6 months??
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Welcome to The Anxious to Secure PODCAST! 🎙️
If you’re anxiously attached, want to feel empowered without CHASING your emotionally unavailable (Avoidant) partner, and are ready to FINALLY become securely attached, this show is for you. 🤍
My name is Jula, and I’m a certified life coach. It took me 30 years to realize how my Anxious Attachment Style and Relationship Anxiety impacted my relationships, and just 6 months to transform into a more secure attachment style.
If you want to learn all my secret strategies grab your coffee and headphones🎧 and take me for your walk.
Tuesdays: I’ll be busting a relationship myth.
Thursdays: I’ll dive into the most pressing relationship questions and powerful methods—from rewiring your mind, anti-anxiety tools, and actionable steps to take right now.
🤍 Jump on the Anxious To Secure Waitlist and get my BLUEPRINT on how I became securely attached in just 6 months.
😱📱 Grab Your Free Guide: 5 Steps to Handle It When Your Partner Doesn’t Text Back.
🤍 Stop Obsessing Over “No Replies” in 21 days or less with my TEXT ANXIETY Mini Course.
🤍 Instagram: @the.anxious to.secure.coach
🤍 KICK off your Journey with a 90 min 1:1 VIP SOS Session
Ready to hear ALL my secrets how I became secure within just 6 months??
91: Do avoidants come back after space + breakup?🥺 How to AVOID another Push-Pull Cycle
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91: Do avoidants come back after space + breakup?🥺 How to AVOID another Push-Pull Cycle
Attachment Style QUIZ 3 min FREE
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Breakups with avoidant partners can leave you feeling confused, anxious, and stuck wondering: Will my avoidant ex ever come back? 🖤
In this episode, I dive deep into what avoidant partners do after a breakup, including the 3 stages avoidants go through when they pull away, how they process space, and why they sometimes reach out again.
You’ll learn:
★ How avoidant exes think and feel after a breakup
★ Signs your avoidant ex might be missing you
★ What happens when avoidants need space
★ How to stop the push-pull cycle with an avoidant partner
★ How to protect yourself emotionally while an avoidant processes their feelings
If you’ve ever Googled “why does my avoidant ex pull away but still care?” or “do avoidant partners come back after a breakup,” this episode is for you. Understanding these stages helps you set boundaries, stay grounded, and take control of your healing—no guessing required. ✨
CHAPTERS:
00:00 Understanding Avoidant Attachment After Breakup
02:21 Stage 01: Emotional Shutdown
07:30 Stage 02: Quiet Reassessment
11:32 Stage 03: “I Actually Need This Person” ✨
16:15 What you should consider IF you get back together with the avoidant
17:52 Final Thoughts on Healing and Relationships
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📓✍🏻Attachment Library (30+) FREE resources
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1:1 COACHING SUPPORT:
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DISCLAIMER: I'm not a therapist or doctor. This content is for informational and entertainment purposes only. It's not intended to diagnose, treat, or heal any mental health conditions.
This is not meant for situations involving abusive relationships of any kind. Always seek professional advice for personal health concerns.
Remember: Change in your relationship starts with YOU, thought by thought and action by action.
The Anxious To Secure PODCAST
Welcome to The Anxious to Secure PODCAST! 🎙️
If you’re anxiously attached, want to feel empowered without CHASING your emotionally unavailable (Avoidant) partner, and are ready to FINALLY become securely attached, this show is for you. 🤍
My name is Jula, and I’m a certified life coach. It took me 30 years to realize how my Anxious Attachment Style and Relationship Anxiety impacted my relationships, and just 6 months to transform into a more secure attachment style.
If you want to learn all my secret strategies grab your coffee and headphones🎧 and take me for your walk.
Tuesdays: I’ll be busting a relationship myth.
Thursdays: I’ll dive into the most pressing relationship questions and powerful methods—from rewiring your mind, anti-anxiety tools, and actionable steps to take right now.
🤍 Jump on the Anxious To Secure Waitlist and get my BLUEPRINT on how I became securely attached in just 6 months.
😱📱 Grab Your Free Guide: 5 Steps to Handle It When Your Partner Doesn’t Text Back.
🤍 Stop Obsessing Over “No Replies” in 21 days or less with my TEXT ANXIETY Mini Course.
🤍 Instagram: @the.anxious to.secure.coach
🤍 KICK off your Journey with a 90 min 1:1 VIP SOS Session
Ready to hear ALL my secrets how I became secure within just 6 months??
