Join Yvette and Cat on "The Art of Beautiful Thinking" as they share personal stories about finding their life partners. Cat discusses overcoming a family history of multiple marriages to build a successful second marriage based on self-knowledge. Yvette recounts breaking a domestic violence cycle from her upbringing, learning to set boundaries, and defining what she truly wanted in a relationship. This episode emphasizes that healthy relationships require self-awareness, personal growth, and clear boundaries. They use the "footy goalposts" analogy to explain that individual strength and independent foundations (like family, friends, and hobbies) are vital for an interdependent, not codependent, partnership. Learn why compromising on core values can be detrimental and how open communication and mutual support build lasting connections. They also challenge societal expectations and advocate for individual wholeness and choosing a partner who enhances your life. If you have any questions, or would like to share your insights please connect with us on our face book community page: https://www.facebook.com/groups/aobtpodcast And if you’re looking for additional resources, visit our website: https://TheArtofBeautifulThinking.com.au   Takeaways Self-awareness is crucial for healthy relationships. Setting boundaries is essential for personal growth. Recognizing red flags can prevent toxic relationships. Creating a list of desired traits can guide partner selection. Personal growth enhances relationship dynamics. Interdependence is healthier than codependence. Communication is key to resolving conflicts. Shared values strengthen relationships. Embracing solitude can lead to self-discovery. Healthy relationships require ongoing effort and respect. #RelationshipGoals #PersonalGrowth #HealthyRelationships #SelfLove #DatingAdvice #Podcast #TheArtOfBeautifulThinking #LifePartners #Boundaries #CommunicationIsKey