n this episode, I explore the meaning of neuroqueering through my own lived experience as a queer, autistic, ADHD adult. Joined by Dr. Megan Anna Neff (Neurodivergent Insights), we dive into:
The definition and origins of the term "neuroqueer"
How masking and identity suppression lead to burnout
The grief of coming out and discovering you're neurodivergent later in life
What it means to heal your inner child
Why unmasking is a slow, emotional, and communal journey
We also discuss how safety, community, and self-permission are key to stepping into your authentic identity—and how queer and neurodivergent joy often go hand-in-hand.
🎧 Tune in to hear how unmasking shaped my path, why I believe identity work must happen in community, and what neuroqueering means to me today.
🔗 Related Links:
Full interview with Dr. Megan Anna Neff: https://youtu.be/Df4V9-vvino
My Substack & Office Hours: https://brettwhitmarsh.substack.com
Nick Walker's original neuroqueer writing: https://neuroqueer.com/neuroqueer-an-introduction/
**📚 Links Mentioned:**
- Order Dr. Neff's **Autistic Burnout Workbook**: https://bookshop.org/a/108800/9781507223062
- Dr. Neff's Website: https://neurodivergentinsights.com
-Order Dr. Neff's Self Care for Autistic People: https://bookshop.org/a/108800/9781507221938
📖 Learn more about Dr. Neff:
https://www.neurodivergentinsights.com/
Substack: https://substack.com/@neurodivergentinsights
https://neurodivergentinsights.substack.com