Anger often hides a deeper issue—fear of conflict. In this episode, Jeff Matlow looks behind the mask of anger and teaches you how to recognize and address the real cause of anger in the workplace. When you look behind the mask of anger, you end up with better communication and stronger leadership.

In this episode, you’ll learn:

🔹 Why anger often masks underlying fear or discomfort
🔹 How to handle conflict without letting emotions take over
🔹 The leadership strategies that turn heated moments into growth opportunities

This episode will help you lead with more self-awareness and emotional intelligence.

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[00:00] Introduction
[00:33] Anger
[01:05] The Primary Purpose of Anger
[02:09] Anger Is Masking A Fear Of Conflict
[04:05] How To Deal With An Angry Leader Who Avoids Conflict
[06:51] You Can Help Remove The Mask Of Anger

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