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The Better Relationships Podcast
Dr Dar Hawks
67 episodes
1 week ago
I would love to hear from you. What did you think about this episode? Do you have any questions? What if the person you love has you living on eggshells while telling you it’s all a joke? We open the door on emotional bullying—how it hides behind sarcasm, withdrawal, and scorekeeping—and why so many caring partners end up doubting their reality. With a clear, compassionate lens, we map the five sovereign relationship needs—love and belonging, freedom, fun, safety and survival, and empowermen...
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I would love to hear from you. What did you think about this episode? Do you have any questions? What if the person you love has you living on eggshells while telling you it’s all a joke? We open the door on emotional bullying—how it hides behind sarcasm, withdrawal, and scorekeeping—and why so many caring partners end up doubting their reality. With a clear, compassionate lens, we map the five sovereign relationship needs—love and belonging, freedom, fun, safety and survival, and empowermen...
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Episodes (20/67)
The Better Relationships Podcast
Ep67 Are You Married To A Bully? Find out in this episode
I would love to hear from you. What did you think about this episode? Do you have any questions? What if the person you love has you living on eggshells while telling you it’s all a joke? We open the door on emotional bullying—how it hides behind sarcasm, withdrawal, and scorekeeping—and why so many caring partners end up doubting their reality. With a clear, compassionate lens, we map the five sovereign relationship needs—love and belonging, freedom, fun, safety and survival, and empowermen...
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3 weeks ago
16 minutes

The Better Relationships Podcast
Ep66 Learn to spot triangulation, set boundaries, and replace drama with direct, healthy communication
I would love to hear from you. What did you think about this episode? Do you have any questions? Ever been blindsided by “they said” or dragged into someone else’s drama as the designated fixer? We dive into triangulation—the quiet manipulation that pulls a third person into conflict—and show how it erodes trust, fuels jealousy, and keeps problems unsolved. Drawing from real‑world examples in couples, families, and teams, we break down the three shifting roles (victim, persecutor, rescuer), ...
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1 month ago
1 hour 6 minutes

The Better Relationships Podcast
Ep65 How to Stop Being Manipulated in Conversations
I would love to hear from you. What did you think about this episode? Do you have any questions? The difference between "talking to" someone and "talking with" them might seem like a minor distinction, but as Dr. Dar reveals in this eye-opening episode, these subtle word choices can fundamentally shape our relationships. Words aren't just expressions—they're powerful tools that either connect us more deeply or drive wedges between us. When we use power and control language, we create enviro...
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1 month ago
1 hour 35 minutes

The Better Relationships Podcast
Ep64 The Dark Side of Belonging: When Connection Costs Too Much
I would love to hear from you. What did you think about this episode? Do you have any questions? The foundation of every meaningful human connection lies in our fundamental needs for love and belonging. But have you ever wondered why you seek connection differently than others around you? Why some relationships feel effortless while others seem constantly challenging? In this revealing episode, Dr. Dar Hawks uncovers how your unique relationship blueprint determines the way you experience l...
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2 months ago
58 minutes

The Better Relationships Podcast
Ep63 The Guilt Trap - How it causes harm to you and your relationships
I would love to hear from you. What did you think about this episode? Do you have any questions? Dr. Dar Hawks explores how guilt becomes a destructive force when weaponized in relationships and offers practical strategies to recognize and overcome manipulative guilt tactics. • Guilt is a feeling arising when you believe you've violated your moral code or harmed someone • Healthy guilt helps us take responsibility while toxic guilt is manipulative and controlling • Empathetic and comp...
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3 months ago
53 minutes

The Better Relationships Podcast
Ep62 When Trust Breaks, Here's How to Put the Pieces Back Together
Send us a text What exactly constitutes cheating in a relationship? The answer varies dramatically from couple to couple, which is precisely why establishing a clear "cheating policy" is essential for healthy partnerships. Trust forms the foundation of our relationships, yet many couples avoid having crucial conversations about boundaries and expectations until after damage has already occurred. In this deeply personal exploration of relationship betrayal, we uncover over fifteen different f...
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3 months ago
59 minutes

The Better Relationships Podcast
Ep61 When What Goes Unsaid Tears Us Apart: Managing Expectations in Relationships
Send us a text Ever found yourself thinking, "They should just know what I need"? That silent expectation might be quietly destroying your relationships. In this eye-opening exploration of unspoken and unrealistic expectations, Dr. Dar Hawks reveals why the standards we never verbalize become the invisible architects of our disappointment. When we expect perfection, constant happiness, or mind-reading abilities from our partners, we create impossible standards no real relationship can meet. ...
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4 months ago
40 minutes

The Better Relationships Podcast
Ep60 What We Expect vs. What We Express: Bridging the Gap in Relationships
Send us a text Ever wondered why some relationships crumble despite no obvious conflicts? The answer might lie in something invisible yet powerful: unmet expectations. Dr. Dar dives deep into what she calls "the silent relationship killer" – those unspoken guidelines that shape how we interact with others and experience emotions in our relationships. Expectations aren't merely hopes or desires; they're fundamental frameworks formed by our personal values, past experiences, and cultural influ...
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4 months ago
34 minutes

The Better Relationships Podcast
Ep59 Instigating Change: When You Want Others to Transform
Please share your thoughts, feedback, and questions. I would love to hear from you. Have you ever wished you could change your partner, family member, friend, or colleague? Dr. Dar Hawks challenges the common belief that "you can't change other people" by revealing a powerful truth: when you transform yourself, those around you often change in response. Forget about direct confrontation, ultimatums, or demands - these approaches typically trigger resistance and defensiveness. Instead, Dr. D...
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6 months ago
55 minutes

The Better Relationships Podcast
Ep58 Beyond Words: The Invisible Forces Shaping Your Relationship Pain
Please share your thoughts, feedback, and questions. I would love to hear from you. Navigating emotional hurt in relationships requires understanding the complex dance between our inner worlds and interpersonal dynamics. When your partner's words sting, there's often more happening beneath the surface than meets the eye. The concept of emotional projection transforms how we interpret relationship pain. Your partner's criticisms, accusations, or dismissals frequently reflect their own ...
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6 months ago
29 minutes

The Better Relationships Podcast
Ep57 Navigating Hurt Feelings: Beyond the Bottle Up or the Blow-Up
Please share your thoughts, feedback, and questions. I would love to hear from you. That crushing sensation when your partner hurts your feelings can leave you frozen between two equally destructive options: swallowing your pain until it poisons you from within, or unleashing an emotional tsunami that damages everything in its path. But what if there's a third way? Dr. Dar reveals a diplomatic approach to addressing hurt feelings that creates healing rather than more wounds. At the heart of...
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7 months ago
35 minutes

The Better Relationships Podcast
Ep56 What Really Draws You In and Pushes You Away: Exploring Relationship Electromagnetism
Please share your thoughts, feedback, and questions. I would love to hear from you. What really attracts you to your partner, and what drives you crazy? The answer lies in the fascinating concept of relationship electromagnetism. Just as positive and negative charges attract in physics, our relationships operate under similar invisible forces that draw us together or push us apart. Attraction goes far beyond physical chemistry. When someone's kind heart, engaging conversation style, or abil...
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8 months ago
52 minutes

The Better Relationships Podcast
Ep55 Are You Anxious Around Your Partner's Friends? Here's What to Do
Please share your thoughts, feedback, and questions. I would love to hear from you. Feeling insecure around your partner's friends can be a challenging yet common experience. In this episode, we navigate the intricate landscape of social anxiety, exploring why insecurities arise and how they can be effectively managed. Each discussion point is aimed at fostering awareness and offering actionable insights into building your confidence. We kick things off by addressing the emotions tied...
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8 months ago
43 minutes

The Better Relationships Podcast
Ep54 Marriage Advice for Husbands Part 2 - How to Strengthen Your Relationship Through Communication and Understanding
Please share your thoughts, feedback, and questions. I would love to hear from you. Are you ready to transform your relationships through the power of communication? Join us on the Better Relationships Podcast as we uncover the secrets to identifying and addressing the five primary relationship needs: love and belonging, freedom, fun, power, and safety and survival. Dr. Dar, your Relationship Communication Coach and Healer, takes us on a journey to understand these needs and how they manifes...
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9 months ago
41 minutes

The Better Relationships Podcast
Ep53 Marriage Advice for Husbands Part 1 - Keys to a balanced and loving partnership
Please share your thoughts, feedback, and questions. I would love to hear from you. Unlock the secrets to a fulfilling marriage that you define on your own terms. In this enlightening episode of the Better Relationships Podcast, hosted by Dr. Dar Hawks, we promise to provide you with personalized insights into building and maintaining a healthy, equal partnership. Moving beyond societal norms, we encourage husbands to delve into open communication and emotional intimacy with their partners. ...
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10 months ago
40 minutes

The Better Relationships Podcast
Ep52 How to Transform Your Relationship Using Insights from Human Design
Please share your thoughts, feedback, and questions. I would love to hear from you.What if understanding your partner's unique energy type could transform your relationship? Join us on the Better Relationships Podcast as we explore this intriguing possibility with Dr. Dar, the Relationship Healer. In this episode, we uncover the secrets of human design types like generators, projectors, and manifestors, and how they can lead to more harmonious connections. Dr. Dar introduces the concept of a...
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11 months ago
1 hour

The Better Relationships Podcast
Ep51 How to Improve Your Marriage Communication Skills
Please share your thoughts, feedback, and questions. I would love to hear from you.Unlock the secrets to transforming your marital communication with practical strategies and insights. Ever wondered how small shifts in conversation habits could revolutionize your relationship? In this episode, we promise to equip you with tools to enhance intimacy, trust, and conflict resolution by dismantling common communication pitfalls like criticism and defensiveness. Our discussion guides you through c...
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11 months ago
46 minutes

The Better Relationships Podcast
Ep50 How to Save Your Marriage With this Quiz
Please share your thoughts, feedback, and questions. I would love to hear from you.💬 Show NotesPlease share your thoughts, feedback, and questions. I would love to hear from you.In episode 50 of the Better Relationships Podcast, Dr. Dar Hawks, The Relationship Healer, explores the crucial steps to assess and save your marriage or relationship using a comprehensive quiz. Modern couples face numerous challenges, from balancing work and family life to addressing emotional and physical inti...
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1 year ago
33 minutes

The Better Relationships Podcast
Ep49 10 Ways to Better Your Relationship Using Human Design
Please share your thoughts, feedback, and questions. I would love to hear from you.Please share your thoughts, feedback, and questions. I would love to hear from you.In episode 49 of the Better Relationships Podcast, Dr. Dar Hawks, The Relationship Healer, delves into the fascinating world of Human Design and how it can be used to enhance your relationships. Human Design is a powerful tool that blends modern quantum physics with ancient modalities like astrology, the Jewish Kabbalah, the Hin...
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1 year ago
1 hour

The Better Relationships Podcast
Ep48 How to Talk to Your Husband About Being Unhappy
Please share your thoughts, feedback, and questions. I would love to hear from you.💬 Show NotesPlease share your thoughts, feedback, and questions. I would love to hear from you.In episode 48 of the Better Relationships Podcast, Dr. Dar Hawks, The Relationship Healer, delves into the sensitive topic of how to talk to your husband about being unhappy. Ignoring your unhappiness can lead to long-term issues, including emotional, physical, and mental disconnection. Dr. Dar emphasizes the im...
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1 year ago
22 minutes

The Better Relationships Podcast
I would love to hear from you. What did you think about this episode? Do you have any questions? What if the person you love has you living on eggshells while telling you it’s all a joke? We open the door on emotional bullying—how it hides behind sarcasm, withdrawal, and scorekeeping—and why so many caring partners end up doubting their reality. With a clear, compassionate lens, we map the five sovereign relationship needs—love and belonging, freedom, fun, safety and survival, and empowermen...