The Black Gay Agenda is back with another off-season installment of We Need That — our limited series created to keep the conversations flowing between seasons.
In this episode, We Need That Community, Micah B and Alex are joined by Jamal Perry for a thoughtful, funny, and deeply affirming conversation about community building, wellness, and connection in the Midwest. From growing up in Gary, Indiana to putting down roots in Milwaukee, Jamal opens up about how travel, relationships, and intentional connection have shaped the way he moves through the world.
The conversation dives into Jamal’s work in public health, his role in HIV prevention and education, and the importance of dismantling stigma around sexual health in Black queer communities. They talk candidly about dating, testing, language like “clean” versus “dirty,” and why misinformation continues to harm people who deserve care, clarity, and compassion.
Jamal also introduces listeners to Midwest Meetup, his growing grassroots initiative designed to bridge cities, cross state lines, and create intentional spaces for Black and Brown LGBTQIA+ folks to connect, heal, and build community. From wellness retreats to social gatherings, Jamal shares his vision for a Midwest where queer people don’t have to feel isolated or disconnected — no matter the city.
This episode is warm, honest, reflective, and full of gems — a reminder that community doesn’t just happen. It’s built with intention, love, and people willing to show up.
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The Black Gay Agenda is back with a festive twist for the holidays — and for our second collaboration episode with Jack’d, we brought the whole crew home. Micah B and Alex are joined by returning host Justin and producer Geo for a holiday special that is messy, merry, and just the right amount of chaotic.
In The Naughty or Nice Agenda, the boys gather around the mic to talk hookups, holiday traditions, end-of-year reflection, and the real question of the season: are YOU naughty, or are you nice? From chaotic Christmas movie debates to holiday hookup etiquette (including the “should you be douching after a holiday meal?” conversation nobody asked for but everybody needed), this episode is a full sleigh ride.
The crew also breaks down gift-giving icks, family dynamics, seasonal dating energy, dating apps during the holidays, and their own winter confessions. And because it wouldn’t be TBGA without a little shade and a little truth, the fellas get into who deserves a place on the Nice List… and who got kicked off.
It’s fun, it’s spicy, it’s unhinged, and somehow wholesome — the perfect holiday hangout with your favorite Black queer cousins.
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The Black Gay Agenda is back with another drop from our fall and winter limited series, We Need That — dropping on the 1st and 15th to keep the energy high between seasons.
In this episode, We Need That Pleasure, Micah sits down with Mr. PleasureU — adult content creator, entrepreneur, fashion lover, and father of the House of Chanel — for a conversation that is raw, unfiltered, and deeply revealing in all the right ways. From the jump, Derrick makes it clear: he doesn’t run from the smoke, and he doesn’t do interviews… but he said yes to this one.
Micah and Derrick get into everything — the truth about how he entered the industry (from executive director in finance to “from finances to f*cking”), the real story behind the PleasureU brand, and what it actually means to build a business rooted in sexuality, confidence, and community.
They talk side culture, what pleasures surprised him (yes, the nipples), why penetration is overrated, and how putting on a look can instantly make him feel unstoppable. And when the conversation shifts to the critiques and Twitter accusations — from “preying on young gays” to “profiting off others” — Derrick clears every rumor with his whole chest. He breaks down the truth about the 21+ policy, how creators actually get paid, and why so much hate comes from people who secretly want to be in the room.
Micah also gets him talking about ballroom influence, dating culture on Jack’d, body biases, and the real gag: the same people yelling “no fats, no femmes” publicly are the ones in his inbox privately.
This episode is messy, honest, grown, hilarious, and unexpectedly heart-centered — especially when Derrick opens up about helping models start LLCs, build business credit, open bank accounts, and secure real opportunities beyond adult content.
If you’ve ever wanted the unfiltered truth behind PleasureU — the business, the brand, the rumors, the sex, the smoke, and the receipts?
Yeah… we get into all of that.
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The Black Gay Agenda is back with something new — our limited fall and winter series, We Need That — dropping on the 1st and 15th of every month to keep the conversation going between seasons.
In this episode, We Need Cancel Culture, Micah and Alex sit down with award-winning journalist, author, and unapologetic cultural critic Ernest Owens to unpack the truth behind cancel culture — what it really means, who it impacts, and why accountability still matters.
From Kanye West’s ongoing controversies to Kiki Palmer’s Southern Fried Rice moment, Beyoncé and Jay-Z’s relationship with capitalism, and the blurred lines between critique and cancellation, Ernest holds nothing back. Together, they dive deep into how power, privilege, and perception shape who gets canceled — and who gets a pass.
This one’s for the thinkers, the truth-tellers, and the people who believe that calling it out is the first step to change. Because accountability isn’t hate — it’s love in real time.
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The Black Gay Agenda is back with something new — our limited fall and winter series, We Need That — dropping on the 1st and 15th of every month to keep the conversation going between seasons.
In our debut episode, We Need Black Queer Representation, Micah and Alex sit down with Ronald Thomas Hinton — the Afro-Puerto Rican actor, writer, and creator of the acclaimed web series Natives. Together, they explore what it truly means to tell our own stories, the realities of growing up queer and creative in public housing, and why authentic representation matters more than ever.
Ronald opens up about his journey from New York’s Upper West Side to building Natives from the ground up, the importance of community-driven storytelling, and how his work reflects the joy, resilience, and nuance of Black queer life. Plus, the guys get into everything from the influence of Insecure and POSE, to independent filmmaking, and what it takes to sustain creative projects through community support.
This one’s for the dreamers, the disruptors, and everyone pushing the culture forward.Because when we tell our own stories — we shift the narrative.
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Micah B and Alex are ending Season 3 with The After Dark Agenda — and they’ve got special guest Blake Martin in the hot seat for a finale that is equal parts hilarious, unfiltered, and unpredictable.
The night kicks off with a high/low check-in, where the crew swaps the funniest, wildest, and most unexpected moments from their week. Blake wastes no time bringing his signature charm and “after dark” humor, setting the tone for a conversation that’s just as spicy as it is real.
Twitter Talk takes on the annual Red Dress Run and the way it gets the community buzzing every August. From playful debates about men in dresses to where admiration meets attraction, the fellas break down why this tradition always sparks a little controversy — and maybe a little curiosity too.
From there, the conversation slides into relationships, attraction, and the unspoken boundaries that make or break friendships. Blake, Micah, and Alex share personal stories, trade shade, and drop some unexpected gems about dating, desire, and what happens when the lights go out.
And because it’s the finale, the Tens segment turns up the heat — covering turn-ons no one sees coming, petty friendship breakups, accidental nudes, and who they want to see at the table next season.
It’s messy, it’s funny, it’s a little reckless — the perfect way to send Season 3 off with a bang.
Listen now at www.blackgayagenda.com or wherever you get your podcasts.
Hosts: Micah B., Alex Twiggs
Guest: Blake Martin — https://instagram.com/mrblakemartin
Executive Producer & Producer: Micah Butler
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Micah B, Alex, and AP are joined this week by special guest Kyle Price for The Make It A Moment Agenda — a powerful conversation about purpose, storytelling, and creating space for authenticity.
They kick things off with Twitter Talk, diving into a viral thread where a man discovers his ex slept with one of his best friends — and the friend lied about it twice. Micah and Alex unpack the real betrayal: the dishonesty, not the hookup. Is it ever “just sex” when trust is involved? And how do you come back from a broken bond?
From there, they sit down with Kyle Price — actor, activist, and founder of Making It A Moment. The crew explores:
Kyle’s journey from performer to producer — and how his platform centers Black queer joy and healingThe responsibility of being visible in spaces that weren’t built for youWhy chosen family, vulnerability, and legacy are central to his missionThe lessons he’s learned while creating art that affirms and uplifts marginalized voices
It’s a heartfelt, inspiring conversation about turning pain into purpose, and why some of our most meaningful moments come from the most unexpected places.
Listen now at www.blackgayagenda.com or wherever you get your podcasts.
Hosts: Micah B., Alex Twiggs, APExecutive Producer: Micah ButlerProducer: Vell Martin
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Micah B and Alex are back this week with The Evolution Agenda — a reflective conversation about growth, change, and becoming.
They kick things off with Twitter Talk, diving into the recent discourse surrounding food critic Keith Lee. After posting his workout videos, some queer men responded flirtatiously — and his reaction sparked accusations of gay baiting. Micah and Alex unpack the tension between admiration, visibility, and discomfort in the digital age.
From there, the conversation gets introspective as the duo explores their personal and collective evolution — not just this season, but across the years:
It’s honest, vulnerable, and full of gratitude — the kind of conversation that reminds you growth isn’t always pretty, but it’s always powerful.
Listen now at www.blackgayagenda.com or wherever you get your podcasts.
Hosts: Micah B., Alex Twiggs
Executive Producer: Micah Butler
Producer: Vell Martin
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Micah B and Alex are back this week with The Mixed Bag Agenda — a wide-ranging conversation covering everything from pop culture headlines to personal reflections.
They start by asking the question: If someone you’re getting to know forgets your birthday, is that an automatic chop? Is it a dealbreaker or just a misstep? The fellas share their takes.
From there, it’s a mix of hot topics and deeper dialogue, including:
Tyson Beckford’s comments about having no sympathy for Wendy Williams during his appearance on The Breakfast Club
The backlash Devon Franklin is facing for playing a DL pastor in Tyler Perry’s Divorced: Sistas
The challenges and complexities of dating as a Black gay man
The importance of therapy and “doing the work” for healthier relationships
The connection between depression and sex, and other coping mechanisms that don’t always get discussed
It’s unfiltered, layered, and thought-provoking — a real mixed bag in the best way.
Listen now at www.blackgayagenda.com or wherever you get your podcasts.
Hosts: Micah B., Alex Twiggs
Producer: Micah Butler
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Alex and AP are holding it down this week while Micah B steps away to celebrate his birthday — and they’re keeping the conversation rich with The Mentorship Agenda.
In this episode, the duo dives into the importance of mentorship, both in personal growth and within the LGBTQ+ community. From chosen family and peer guidance to professional coaching and spiritual leadership, they explore what true mentorship looks like — and why so many of us are craving connection but struggling to find it. Is mentorship still valued in our community? And if not, how do we change that?
This week’s Twitter Talk Agenda is sparked by a controversial tweet from Milan Christopher, who said:
“Y’all want mentorship from people who don’t like y’all or didn’t even figure it out themselves…”
Whew. The guys break down the tweet, the tension it stirred, and whether we’re asking for mentorship from the wrong people — or in the wrong way.
Reflective, real, and rooted in care, this episode is a love letter to every Black queer person looking for guidance, healing, or someone to pour into them.
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🎙️ Producer: Vell Martin
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Micah B, Alex, and AP are in their soft era this week with a brand-new episode of The Black Gay Agenda — and this one gets up close and personal.
In The Intimacy Agenda, the trio explores what intimacy really means beyond just the physical. From emotional closeness and vulnerability to building deeper connections in friendships and relationships, they open up about the fears, the joys, and the awkward moments that come with getting real with people. Is intimacy something Black queer folks are taught to embrace — or avoid?
This week’s Twitter Talk Agenda sparks a juicy debate: Should Kelly Rowland be opening for Brandy and Monica? Or is that disrespectful to a woman with her own legendary career? The crew weighs in — and you know it gets spicy.
Honest, hilarious, and a little tender — this is an episode you won’t want to miss.
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Micah B is back on the mic — and this week, he’s joined by rotating co-host Alex Pinn for a raw, unfiltered episode featuring artist, podcaster, and cultural critic Parish Halsell, aka P of Pardon Me With P.
In The Pardon Me Agenda, the trio explores radical authenticity, queer Black identity, and creative risk-taking in today’s media landscape. P shares his journey as a multidisciplinary artist and digital storyteller, building a platform rooted in truth, honesty, and bold cultural commentary.
Plus, in our Twitter Talk Agenda, Micah and Alex react to the drama around Cardi B’s new album, where fans are debating whether including “WAP” and “Up” on the tracklist was a savvy move or a lazy rollout.
This episode is packed with real talk, bold opinions, and the unapologetic energy that defines The Black Gay Agenda Podcast. Whether you're here for pop culture, podcasting gems, or powerful perspectives from Black LGBTQ+ voices — you’re in the right place.
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Micah B and Alex are back — and this week they’re welcoming a brand-new voice to the table! Kicking off his four-week guest co-host run is Alex Pinn (@whereisalexpin), bringing fresh perspective and energy to The Black Gay Agenda.
In The Faith and Queerness Agenda, the trio sits down with special guest Kristian A. Smith — pastor, entrepreneur, custom clothier, and founder of The Faith Community (TFC), a digital ministry centering spiritual liberation for all. Together, they dive deep into how queerness and faith can coexist without shame. Kristian shares his journey of deconstructing harmful theology, embracing spiritual freedom, and building affirming spaces for LGBTQIA+ people of faith.
And in this week’s Twitter Talk Agenda, the hosts unpack a viral sermon where a pastor equates submission to God with submission to the police. Is it a stretch — or a dangerous theology?
Bold, enlightening, and rooted in liberation, this episode is a must-listen for anyone navigating spirituality and identity.
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Hosts: Micah B., Alex Twiggs, Alex Pinn
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Micah B, Alex, and Tanner are back with another spicy installment of The Black Gay Agenda — and this week, it’s all about the hot takes.
In this week’s episode, The Hot Takes Agenda, the trio dives into some of the most debated conversations lighting up the timeline. Kicking things off with Twitter Talk, the crew unpacks TS Madison’s appearance on NeNe Leakes’ show, where NeNe claimed that men who date trans women are gay. Is it transphobic? Misunderstood? Or something else entirely?
From there, it’s a no-holds-barred roundtable of opinions you may not agree with:
🔥 Does Tyler Perry’s storytelling harm the image of the Black community?
🔥 Do white women give men more room to express themselves than Black women?
🔥 Why is Tanner over the platinum blonde hair trend on Black men?
🔥 And Micah stirs the Beyhive vs. MJ debate by declaring Beyoncé the greatest entertainer of all time — yes, even over him.
Unfiltered, hilarious, and real — this is The Black Gay Agenda at its boldest.
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Hosts: Micah B., Alex Twiggs, Tanner Beck
Producer: Micah Butler
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Micah B, Alex, and Tanner are back for a special celebration — it’s the 2-year anniversary and 50th episode of The Black Gay Agenda! This week’s episode, The Pride Agenda, is a heartfelt reflection on what Pride truly means through the lens of Black, gay identity.
The trio opens up about their personal coming out journeys, the people who helped them step into their truth, and the experiences that have shaped who they are today. From giving flowers to the legends and mentors who paved the way, to sharing advice for the next generation of Black queer folks — this episode is a love letter to the community.
They also take a moment to reflect on the growth of The Black Gay Agenda — what it’s meant to them, the impact it's had, and what’s next for the platform.
And in this week’s Twitter Talk segment, the fellas tackle a juicy question: Do gays move on too fast in relationships? The answers might surprise you.
Thank you for riding with us for 50 episodes. Here’s to 50 more — and beyond. 🌈✊🏾
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Alex is in the driver’s seat this week with rotating co-host Tanner, and a guest appearance from Micah B, for a raw and necessary conversation: The Gatekeeping Agenda.
Triggered by the DC Pride controversy around rapper Khia — who has a history of homophobic and transphobic remarks — the crew unpacks why gatekeeping LGBTQ spaces is not only valid but essential. They discuss TS Madison’s response, the politics of platforming during Pride, and why our spaces must remain sacred.
The conversation expands to the growing negativity around Pride itself. Is it just about sex and parties? Or is there something deeper we’re missing in the discourse?
And before wrapping, the fellas dive into one last spicy topic: Is it ever okay for your partner to stay friends with their ex? You already know the takes are hot.
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Hosts: Alex Twiggs, Tanner
Guest Appearance: Micah B.
Producer: Micah Butler
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Micah B and Alex are back this week with new rotating co-host Tanner, bringing the energy, the culture, and the conversation. This episode, The Ballroom Agenda, features the incomparable Jeremy Copeland — choreographer, creative director, and ballroom legend.
Together, the crew dives into the world of ballroom, unpacking how the culture shaped Jeremy’s career in entertainment and how it continues to influence pop culture today. They also get real about chosen families, gay house dynamics, and the blurry lines between community and chaos. And yes, Todrick Hall’s name does come up — is he misunderstood, or is there truth to the claims of him being anti-Black?
In this week’s Twitter Talk segment, the hosts tackle the controversial topic of exposing DL men — asking hard questions about accountability, protection, and privacy in the digital age.
This one’s insightful, bold, and dripping in truth. Hit play and join the convo.
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Hosts: Micah B., Alex Twiggs, Tanner
Guest: Jeremy Copeland
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In this episode of The Black Gay Agenda, it’s the midseason finale—and we’re doing things a little differently. Each host brings a surprise wildcard topic to the table, revealed for the first time live on air, leading to one of our most unfiltered and hilarious conversations yet.
We kick things off with dating dilemmas and celebrity crushes, then jump into being flown out and whether that comes with certain expectations. From Shannon Sharpe and race play to the question of dating outside your “type,” nothing is off-limits as we each drop thought-provoking, funny, and sometimes spicy topics on the spot.
What happens when the script is thrown out and nothing is planned? This episode is all about vulnerability, curiosity, and keeping it real—with one final round of laughs and insight as we say goodbye to Dupree as a rotating cohost.
To close things out, we reflect on growth, connection, and what’s next for the show—and we’re just getting started.
🎧 Tap in — because sometimes the best conversations happen when you least expect them.
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In this episode of The Black Gay Agenda, we’re diving into a conversation that’s long overdue — preferences. From dating apps to real-life interactions, we’re unpacking the language we use around attraction and questioning where it really comes from. Are preferences just harmless personal tastes, or do they sometimes mask deep-rooted prejudice?
Micah B, Alex and rotating co-host Dupree are back at the table, and they’re joined by special guest Camron “NappiBoi” Torain for an honest and unfiltered discussion on how fatphobia, femphobia, colorism, and internalized bias show up in our community — and in ourselves.
Is “No Fats, No Fems” a preference or a red flag? What does it mean to decolonize desire? And are our so-called preferences keeping us from real connection?
We close the episode with a call for introspection and accountability, challenging ourselves and our listeners to unpack, unlearn, and move with more intention.
👂🏽 Tap in — because what we call “preference” might be something else entirely.
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In this episode of The Black Gay Agenda, we’re tackling a topic that hits close to home: ghosting. From sudden disappearances to the lingering emotional fallout, we’re breaking down why ghosting happens and how it impacts us.
We kick things off with Twitter Talk, exploring what it looks like when Black parents show up and support their LGBTQ children. Then, we dive deep into the emotional and cultural layers of ghosting — how it can feel like rejection, how it’s often tied to our own trauma responses, and whether silence is ever justified.
Is ghosting a form of emotional survival, or just avoidance in disguise? Have you ever been ghosted, or done the ghosting yourself? We’re getting honest about all of it.
To close things out, we talk about healing and accountability in our relationships, and share an affirmation to hold onto as we move forward with more compassion and clarity.
👂🏽 Tap in — because disappearing isn’t always the answer.
Hosts : Micah B., Justin B Smith, Alex Twiggs, Blake Dupree
Producer : Micah Butler
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