Featuring Kash (@YourSexologistBestie) & Chris (@Big_Black_Supervillain)
(@TheSoftAndTheStrong)
In The Gift Of Presence, Kash and Chris open a two-part conversation centered on what it truly means to show up for yourself and your partner. Part 1 focuses on emotional safety, intentional care, and the quiet power of presence as the foundation for intimacy, confidence, and connection.
This episode explores how daily rituals, self-care, and shared moments of attention shape desire and deepen bonds, not through performance, but through awareness. From wellness to pleasure, Kash and Chris demonstrate how softness and strength can coexist, creating space for trust, curiosity, and growth inside a relationship.
Products featured across Parts 1 & 2 include:
Delicious Encounters, Moisturizing Body Oil Spray, Petal Pleaser, The Manifest Collection, Pragmatism, Sugah Daddy, Smooth Operator, Head To Toe, Fresh, Haute Cakes, Velvet, Groove Panty Vibe, Bust A Move, and Keep Your Cool.
This episode reflects the heart of Business of Pleasure, where wellness meets intimacy, presence becomes a gift, and connection is cultivated with intention.
Part 2 will continue the journey with deeper exploration, playful discovery, and expanded conversation.
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Featuring Kash (@YourSexologistBestie) & Chris (@Big_Black_Supervillain)
(@TheSoftAndTheStrong)
In The Gift Of Presence, Kash and Chris open a two-part conversation centered on what it truly means to show up for yourself and your partner. Part 1 focuses on emotional safety, intentional care, and the quiet power of presence as the foundation for intimacy, confidence, and connection.
This episode explores how daily rituals, self-care, and shared moments of attention shape desire and deepen bonds, not through performance, but through awareness. From wellness to pleasure, Kash and Chris demonstrate how softness and strength can coexist, creating space for trust, curiosity, and growth inside a relationship.
Products featured across Parts 1 & 2 include:
Delicious Encounters, Moisturizing Body Oil Spray, Petal Pleaser, The Manifest Collection, Pragmatism, Sugah Daddy, Smooth Operator, Head To Toe, Fresh, Haute Cakes, Velvet, Groove Panty Vibe, Bust A Move, and Keep Your Cool.
This episode reflects the heart of Business of Pleasure, where wellness meets intimacy, presence becomes a gift, and connection is cultivated with intention.
Part 2 will continue the journey with deeper exploration, playful discovery, and expanded conversation.
In Part 2 of our Men’s Health Month feature, @_WolfTaylor and @YourSexologistBestie dive further into the intersections of pleasure, sex, religion, and the taboos that shape how men learn to show up in intimacy. The conversation gets honest, insightful, and unexpectedly hilarious when Kash surprises Wolf with a curated set of Bedroom Kandi essentials… and his reactions are priceless.
Featured items include the Sidekick sleeve, Silk lubricant, the R&B rechargeable C-ring, Eros Pheromone Body Spray, our Fine Men’s Scrub in the Eros fragrance, and the Velvet Organic Sugar Scrub. Wolf gets hands-on learning about enhancing sensation, boosting confidence, and elevating his entire pleasure routine.
We talk about unlearning shame, redefining masculinity through wellness, and the freedom men find when they finally give themselves permission to explore pleasure without judgment. It is equal parts comedic, vulnerable, and deeply necessary.
Join us for Part 2 as The Business of Pleasure continues creating space for men to grow, heal, laugh, and honor their bodies in new ways.
PT 2, let’s get into it.
Part 1 took us from the bathroom to the edge of the bedroom… but Part 2? We are diving straight into the bedroom just in time for the launch of Bedroom Kandi’s 12 Days of Christmas celebration.
For the next 12 days, a new item drops at 30 percent off every single day and stays on sale until the end of the 12th day. If you want to understand how to use these goodies, what they feel like, and why they make perfect gifts, this is the episode you do not want to miss.
In this special Black & Gold Week continuation, @YourSexologistBestie, @CallMeCoach.MrsBellamy & @yesssterday test, taste, and react to some of Bedroom Kandi’s most loved bedroom essentials:
• The Edible Massage Oil Trio, a sensual blend in Strawberry 🍓, Watermelon 🍉, and Vanilla 🍦
• The Edible Massage Candle Duo, a delicious melt-and-pour experience in Mango 🥭 and Pineapple 🍍
• The Sweet Spot, our honey-flavored warming arousal gel that brings instant heat and deep sensitivity
Plus, a lineup of toys designed to deliver unforgettable pleasure:
• The Petal Pleaser, our flower-shaped flicking stimulator
• Candy Kisses, a silky gold vibe made for precision and power
• Groove, the remote-operated panty pleasure system for play anywhere
• Love Life Krush, our app-controlled G-spot vibe and kegel trainer with sound-responsive technology
• The Womanizer Duo, the legendary clit-air suction + G-spot vibration combo
The reactions were priceless, the products were a hit, and the gift ideas are top-tier whether you’re stuffing stockings or planning your own naughty-and-nice wishlist.
Tune in and tap in.
This Part 2 episode kicks off 12 days of pleasure, play, and presents — Bedroom Kandi style.
Part 1 of our Black and Gold Week Kickoff takes us from the bathroom straight into the bedroom as we celebrate 25 percent off all regular priced Bedroom Kandi products. With @yeesssterday and @mrsbellamy.callmecoach, we hosted a full Black and Gold pleasure party packed with wellness, grooming and intimacy gems.
Bathroom Essentials
Where the glow-up begins:
• MANIFEST Foaming Face Wash and MANIFEST Moisturizer, our men’s skincare duo designed to deeply cleanse, hydrate and keep the skin smooth, fresh and balanced.
• Pragmatism Beard Oil, a conditioning blend that softens the beard, boosts shine and nourishes the skin underneath.
• Eros Shave Cream, a rich, luxurious formula that gives a close, irritation free shave.
• Premonition Men’s Pheromone Cologne, crafted to enhance scent, confidence and attraction.
• Haute Cakes Intimate Elixir, formulated to fight odor causing bacteria with a coconut oil base while leaving you smelling like warm cake all day.
• Butter Me Up Body Butter, a deep moisture body treatment that melts into the skin for all day softness and glow.
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Bedroom Essentials
Where softness meets wildness:
• Massage Oil Trio, edible oils in watermelon 🍉, strawberry 🍓 and vanilla 🌼 to set the mood, awaken the senses and glide effortlessly across the skin.
• Light My Fire Massage Oil Candle, a soy based edible candle that melts into a warm massage oil for sensual temperature play.
• Sweet On Me Buttercream Icing, an edible arousal cream safe for the external genitals, designed to enhance blood flow, increase moisture and boost sensation.
• Stamina Male Prolonging Spray, a topical delay formula to support longer lasting pleasure.
This kickoff episode blends intimacy, grooming and irresistible touch as we get ready for the biggest sale week of the year.
@businessofpleasurepod, hosted by @yoursexologistbestie
Powered by Bedroom Kandi, rooted in empowerment, education and earning through pleasure and wellness.
As we step into Men’s Health Month, Wolf Taylor brings a grounded, honest voice to a conversation men rarely get space to have. Wolf, creator of the Halfway Up Podcast, talks about growing up with a strong family and faith foundation while also realizing in adulthood that some tools he needed simply were not passed down. Not out of neglect, but because every generation teaches from what they knew.
We dig into how many men today are thrown into pressure, responsibility, and emotional silence long before they are prepared for it. That silence shows up in their mental health, their intimacy, their relationships, and their ability to perform. We talk about the rise in anxiety, depression, and performance challenges in younger men and why men need safe places to be vulnerable without their masculinity being questioned.
This episode keeps the heart of Business of Pleasure at the center, focusing on wellness, emotional safety, and how Bedroom Kandi continues creating judgment free spaces where people can learn, connect, and heal through community. Part One ends midway through our Adult Edutainment segment, so tap back in for Part Two as we take the conversation even deeper.
PART TWO! Watch the second part of our episode where @YourSexologistBestieKash links up with @master_radiant — sensual Dom, educator, and embodiment of calm control — for a deep dive into the art of pleasure, power, and presence. 😈
From impact to intention, Kash and Master Radiant explore how kink can serve as both release and restoration — where safe touch, guided pressure, and intentional restraint help the body let go of what the mind holds on to. They unpack the psychology of pleasure, how negotiation builds safety, and why aftercare is just as sexy as foreplay.
This episode reminds us that kink isn’t just about dominance or pain — it’s about trust, healing, and the confidence that comes from knowing what (and who) moves you.
🖤 Products Featured:
• Spread Desire Spreader Bar
• Bonds Of Desire Ankle & Wrist Restraints
• Heart Desires Paddle
• Royal Treatment Your Highness
This Kinktober, @YourSexologistBestieKash links up with @master_radiant — sensual Dom, educator, and embodiment of calm control — for a deep dive into the art of pleasure, power, and presence. 😈
From impact to intention, Kash and Master Radiant explore how kink can serve as both release and restoration — where safe touch, guided pressure, and intentional restraint help the body let go of what the mind holds on to. They unpack the psychology of pleasure, how negotiation builds safety, and why aftercare is just as sexy as foreplay.
This episode reminds us that kink isn’t just about dominance or pain — it’s about trust, healing, and the confidence that comes from knowing what (and who) moves you.
🖤 Products Featured:
• Spread Desire Spreader Bar
• Bonds Of Desire Ankle & Wrist Restraints
• Heart Desires Paddle
• Royal Treatment Your Highness
🎙️ Business of Pleasure – Episode 40: Rated R For Radiant
Hosted by @YourSexologistBestieKash
Featuring special guest @master_radiant
⚠️ Trigger Warning: This episode contains discussions of domestic violence, reproductive trauma, and child loss.
In this heartfelt and healing episode of The Business of Pleasure, your sexologist bestie Kash sits down with Dannie of Diamond Daddy— jewelry designer, diamond specialist, and survivor — for an intimate conversation on love, loss, and the journey to rediscovery after abuse.
Both women open up about their personal histories with domestic violence. Kash shares how witnessing and experiencing abuse — even before recognizing it as abuse — shaped her own understanding of love, safety, and boundaries. Together, they unpack the complexity of realizing you’re being mistreated only once it becomes physical, and the emotional patterns that make so many survivors second-guess their pain.
Dannie courageously details her story — surviving domestic violence, enduring reproductive trauma and child loss, and finding the strength to rebuild her life and heart. Her story is one of rebirth: from pain to proposal, she found a love that honors her healing, safety, and wholeness.
✨ Topics include:
• Recognizing emotional and psychological abuse before it turns physical
• The generational echoes of trauma and survival
• Healing from reproductive trauma and child loss
• Relearning intimacy and trust after abuse
• Rediscovering self-worth and creating space for love again
💼 Adult Edutainment Segment:
Kash highlights Bedroom Kandi’s Royal Treatment Collection, featuring tools that nurture safety, self-connection, and sensual healing — including The Queen vibrator, Get In Touch finger vibe, and Delicious Encounters lubes. These products are designed to help survivors rebuild intimacy with their bodies in a way that feels safe, empowering, and affirming.
🎧 Tune in to this emotional yet empowering conversation on reclaiming pleasure, love, and purpose after survival — a reminder that even the deepest scars can heal, and every woman deserves her royal treatment.
Touch is more than physical… it’s connection, communication, and one of the most powerful love languages we have. 💆🏽♀️💋
In this Pro Touch Month kickoff episode of the Business of Pleasure Podcast, @YourSexologistBestie sits down with Mama Dee — sensual healer, erotic masseuse, and founder of @d.vine.touch — to explore the sacred and sensual side of touch. Together they dive into the emotional, spiritual, and physical power of hands-on connection, and how intentional touch can soothe trauma, spark intimacy, and help you reconnect with your own body.
Kash also breaks down the difference between sensual and erotic touch, shares tantric principles, and reveals how nervous system regulation and self-awareness can turn simple touch into full-body healing.
This episode features Bedroom Kandi’s new Pro Touch Collection:
💫 Warm Me Up – reusable heating pad for soothing warmth
💫 Massage Oil Trio – for glide and sensory exploration
💫 Get In Touch – finger vibrator with 20 vibration patterns
💫 Make Me Over – discreet hand-strap vibe in a luxury compact
✨ Because sometimes, the softest touch has the strongest impact.
As we close out Self-Care September and Mental Health Awareness Month, we sit down with NY Times Best-Selling Author, media personality, and sex-positive pioneer Mandii B (aka @fullcourtpumps) — host of Whoreible Decisions, Decisions, Decisions, Selective Ignorance, and more — for a deeply honest, liberating conversation about breaking free from boxes, owning your voice, and the climb that made it all worthwhile.
From achieving recognition as a big voice in sex-positive conversations to the discouraging moments that came with her rise, Mandii shares how she continues to reinvent herself while staying true to her power. Alongside her partner Weezy WTF, she became a New York Times Best-Selling Author, and today she continues to expand her influence across multiple platforms — proving there’s no limit to what women who refuse to be boxed in can achieve.
Follow Mandii B:
Instagram & X: @FullCourtPumps
In Part 2 of The Inner Kid conversation, @KentJonesOfficial, @Big_Black_Supervillain, @Tahoe_TV, and @YourSexologistBestie dive deeper into the idea of making space for our inner teenagers—the “big kids” inside us who never fully got their moment. From sneakers and video games to the hobbies and passions we once couldn’t afford, the things we chase as adults often connect back to pieces of ourselves that were left behind. Instead of weaponizing those joys in relationships, we ask: what happens when we honor them, and how does that shift intimacy, safety, and emotional connection?
The guys open up on how seeing the “baby picture” version of your partner can change the way you love them, and why everyone deserves to be seen in every phase they’ve lived through. We close with a little fun, gifting Kent some of Bedroom Kandi’s Manifest Men’s Care, Eros head-to-toe balm, and Black Excellence soap set—plus a live demo of our Lovelife Krush, the sound-responsive toy that had the whole room in awe. A mix of emotional transparency and playful exploration, this episode is all about living without boundaries and creating space for the versions of ourselves that still deserve care.
Season 3 of The Business of Pleasure keeps the energy high and the conversations raw. In PART 1 of this episode, Your Sexologist Bestie @yoursexologistbestie is joined by @kandi, @tahoe_tv, @big_black_supervillain (the other half of The Soft & The Strong), and Grammy-nominated artist @kentjonesofficial.
We open with Kandi sharing a saving grace tip using Bedroom Kandi’s Nourish Whipped Body Butter before she dips out — then the conversation takes off. From Kent’s rise in the music industry to his bold transparency about his foot fetish (something he’s spoken about on The Breakfast Club and Angela Yee’s Lip Service), we dive into how pleasure, kinks, and lifestyle intersect with growth.
Kent reflects on how even the things that once defined his joy — like his love of feet — have evolved, pushing him to explore new spaces, like submission and kink dynamics. Chris opens up about aftercare in their relationship, and the guys expand the conversation into something deeper: the little boy and teenage self that still live inside us, and the need to make room for those parts of ourselves in adulthood.
This episode is an emotional and sensual roller coaster — touching on everything from sexual exploration to emotional transparency, and how true intimacy means caring for the whole person, inside and out.
In this episode of The Business of Pleasure, Your Sexologist Bestie Kash and BK Founder Kandi Burruss sits down with Bedroom Kandi top performers and Consultant Advisory Council leaders LaDonya "Lady D" McClure and Anisha Robinson.
Together, they dive into what it really takes to keep intimacy alive — from everyday sensuality to the art of creating pleasure-centered experiences in and out of the bedroom. With years of success as BK leaders, LaDonya and Anisha share how their journeys have been fueled not just by business wins but by a deeper understanding of self-care, confidence, and connection.
This episode blends laughter, candid talk, and a few naughty insights 😉 — proving that when women own their pleasure, they own their power.
In this episode of The Business of Pleasure, Your Sexologist Bestie Kash is joined by Bedroom Kandi founder Kandi Burruss and influencer Tahoe for a no-holds-barred conversation with the larger-than-life Mr. Organik.
Known for his disciplined lifestyle, fitness, and entrepreneurial hustle, Mr. Organik opens up about his brand, his mindset, and the routines that fuel his success. But the conversation doesn’t stop there — things get wild when the crew dives into his dating life, relationships, and the reality that even a man this confident still has room to grow when it comes to women, romance, and intimacy.
It’s raw, funny, and eye-opening — a mix of business talk, magnetic energy, real talk about love and sex, and BK product play woven throughout. If you’ve ever wondered how discipline, manifestation, and masculinity collide with vulnerability and growth, this episode will have you locked in.
In Part 2 of this deeply intimate episode, Chris and Kash go beyond playful banter and dive straight into the real—unpacking fears, emotional weight, and the truth behind what it means to love boldly while still healing.
Kash opens up about the silent fears she carried at the beginning of their relationship—how loving a man who felt like home came with the terrifying possibility of losing him. Chris listens in real time as she shares parts of her heart he never knew existed, reminding us that even in healthy love, there are shadows we don’t always talk about.
Together, they reflect on the importance of creating safe emotional spaces in relationships—where vulnerability isn’t punished, truth isn’t weaponized, and intimacy is built not just through touch, but through trust.
They also explore the ways pleasure and emotional safety are connected, and how their Bedroom Kandi favorites (like the Mic Drop Wand and the Head to Toe balm) become tools for both sensual care and bonding.
This is more than a podcast episode—it’s a love-u-ment.
🎧 Tune in for:
• How fear shows up even in healthy relationships
• What emotional safety looks like for high-functioning women
• Creating soft space for masculine healing
• Why pleasure and vulnerability are lovers, not opposites
Part 2 reminds us that real love doesn’t avoid the hard conversations—it thrives in them. And when you’re brave enough to speak your truth, the right partner won’t run—they’ll reach deeper.
🧠❤️ When a Man Cries, Listen Closely…
In this powerful first half of the episode, Kash (@YourSexologistBestie) invites you into her love life—not for spectacle, but for expansion. Joined by her partner Chris (aka Supervillain), the two unpack his evolving relationship with pleasure across different life stages: before marriage, during it, post-divorce, and now.
What begins as a conversation about intimacy and masculine vulnerability quickly deepens when they discuss the accident that nearly took Chris’s life—and how it became one of their most profound, non-sexual experiences of intimacy. Chris opens up about pain, recovery, and what it meant to feel truly cared for by a partner, leading to a moment of raw emotion that closes the episode.
This is the kind of emotional honesty we don’t often hear from men… but Kash brings it out with care, curiosity, and love.
Part 2? Let’s just say—she gets into the other head and a whole lot of BK for pleasure and wellness 😏
🎧 Watch now and subscribe to @BusinessOfPleasurePod
In this grown and grounded episode of The Business of Pleasure, I’m joined by Ro from the 237 No Place Like Home podcast—a Brooklyn husband, father, and real one with insight for days. This convo is for anyone wondering what intimacy looks like when you’ve been committed for the long haul—and why the mindset of a mature man hits different than the typical “young dude energy.”
We talk about what it means to show up for your partner and your community, how Black men can model intimacy and leadership for younger generations, and the responsibility that comes with love, growth, and longevity. Ro breaks down how he keeps things fresh in marriage, what intimacy really means to him, and why it’s deeper than sex—it’s legacy.
We also explore the difference between being performative vs. being present, how emotional awareness shapes connection, and why seasoning your sex life isn’t just about toys—it’s about effort, creativity, and care.
🛍️ BK Products Featured:
• Head to Body Body Balm – because touch matters
• Embrace C-Ring – for couples looking to spice things up and stay connected
This episode is full of gems from a man who’s living it, not just talking about it.
This episode of The Business of Pleasure is more than just laughs and lipstick—though we have plenty of that too. I’m joined by my Delusional Bestie, Billy the Bad Guy, and we go from twerking to truth-telling as we explore what it really means to choose yourself—loudly, confidently, and sometimes painfully.
We talk about the decisions we make in the name of love that are really rooted in survival, and what it feels like to set boundaries that make you the “bad guy” in someone else’s story. We reflect on identity, healing, and how to show up fully as you are.
Then we switch gears with some Bedroom Kandi fun—featuring our Them Moisturizing Balm, Pride Lipstick Collection, harnesses, our Rainbow Dildo, and Male Pleasure Sleeve—plus tips for loving the love below, no matter your anatomy. And of course we talked pheromones and grooming to make sure Billy spent men’s health month right!
A little shade, a lot of heart, and some damn good pleasure gems.
This Father’s Day, we’re giving men more than a tie—we’re giving real talk, real pleasure, and real tools to stay ready. 💪🏽🌹 In this episode of The Business of Pleasure, Tahoe and Kash dive into men’s health, performance anxiety, touch starvation, and the truth about ED. We’re breaking myths, exploring the male G-spot (no entry required 😏), and testing how well Tahoe really knows his own D.
Featuring BK’s Stamina Spray, Sidekick Pleasure Sleeve, oral sex cards, and role-play dice—because pleasure is part of your wellness plan too.
In this episode of The Business of Pleasure, @YourSexologistBestie Kash sits down with chemist and product developer Angela Solomon—founder of Sunshine Creations and one of Bedroom Kandi’s original beta consultants. Angela shares how her Caribbean roots and background in biology and chemistry led her to create a skincare product to help a loved one, which blossomed into a full collection now offered by Bedroom Kandi. The two discuss Caribbean hygiene culture, the quiet labor women carry in caring for men, balancing motherhood and business, and Angela’s journey from consultant to formulator. Plus, with Father’s Day around the corner, Kash plugs BK’s current promo: spend $100 and get a free Men’s Grooming Kit—or join the Bedroom Kandi community for free.
Shop or join now: https://poplme.co/bedroomkandi
Kasha started as a Bedroom Kandi consultant… but working hard and showing up got her all the way to top team leader, CAC leader, national top performer, Director of Training & Development, and now Master Trainer, influencer, board-certified clinical sexologist, and host of The Business of Pleasure podcast.
Her journey even led to a feature on The Real Housewives of Atlanta and a presentation spot at Kandi’s iconic Dungeon Show.
In this solo episode, @YourSexologistBestie Kash opens up about the highs, the heartbreak, the hustle—and how Bedroom Kandi gave her more than a business… it gave her a family.
Products mentioned in this episode:
Allure, Amaze, Cuddle, Queen, Petal Pleaser, Love Triangle, Velvet, Makeup Brushes, Soft Spoken Suede, Delicious Encounters Lube, Revitalize Me
Shop her faves + join the BK movement (for free!): https://poplme.co/bedroomkandi
Featuring Kash (@YourSexologistBestie) & Chris (@Big_Black_Supervillain)
(@TheSoftAndTheStrong)
In The Gift Of Presence, Kash and Chris open a two-part conversation centered on what it truly means to show up for yourself and your partner. Part 1 focuses on emotional safety, intentional care, and the quiet power of presence as the foundation for intimacy, confidence, and connection.
This episode explores how daily rituals, self-care, and shared moments of attention shape desire and deepen bonds, not through performance, but through awareness. From wellness to pleasure, Kash and Chris demonstrate how softness and strength can coexist, creating space for trust, curiosity, and growth inside a relationship.
Products featured across Parts 1 & 2 include:
Delicious Encounters, Moisturizing Body Oil Spray, Petal Pleaser, The Manifest Collection, Pragmatism, Sugah Daddy, Smooth Operator, Head To Toe, Fresh, Haute Cakes, Velvet, Groove Panty Vibe, Bust A Move, and Keep Your Cool.
This episode reflects the heart of Business of Pleasure, where wellness meets intimacy, presence becomes a gift, and connection is cultivated with intention.
Part 2 will continue the journey with deeper exploration, playful discovery, and expanded conversation.