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The Common Veterans
Kenneth Holmes | Jeff Schrock | Fred Schlorke | Tony Buoscio | Casey Hendrickson
43 episodes
6 days ago
The Common Veterans is a podcast created by veterans, for veterans, exploring topics that matter most to the veteran community. From personal stories and shared experiences to deep dives into ethical, moral, and societal issues, each episode brings an authentic voice to conversations that resonate. Whether it's navigating post-military life, discussing mental health, or exploring subjects like ethics, morality, and religion, The Common Veterans is a place for open dialogue and community. Join us as
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The Common Veterans is a podcast created by veterans, for veterans, exploring topics that matter most to the veteran community. From personal stories and shared experiences to deep dives into ethical, moral, and societal issues, each episode brings an authentic voice to conversations that resonate. Whether it's navigating post-military life, discussing mental health, or exploring subjects like ethics, morality, and religion, The Common Veterans is a place for open dialogue and community. Join us as
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The Common Veterans
Season 3: Episode 17 - Crossing the Generational Divide

Veterans of different eras come together to share how military life and reintegration have evolved across generations. From early conflicts to modern warfare, this episode explores what has changed, what hasn’t, and how camaraderie continues to bind Veterans together.

I. Introduction

The episode opens with reflections on how service differs by decade while the core experience of wearing the uniform remains the same.

Toast

“A toast to those who came before, those who serve now, and those finding their way home.”

Special guests from different services and generations are welcomed into the conversation to help bridge the generational gap.

II. Boot Camp to Battle – Then vs Now

Veterans discuss enlistment periods spanning several decades and how the military experience has evolved over time.

What Has Changed

  • Discipline and leadership styles
  • Living conditions and military pay
  • Equipment and uniforms

Communication Home

  • Letters versus phone cards versus smartphones
  • Basic training calls home
  • Communication from combat zones
  • The shift from handwritten letters to emails

Dining Facilities and Food

  • C-Rations
  • K-Rations
  • MREs
  • Modern DFACs

III. Coming Home – Then vs Now

Reintegration into civilian life is examined across different wars and eras, highlighting how each generation faced unique challenges when returning home.

Conflicts discussed include:

  • World War I
  • World War II
  • Korea
  • Vietnam
  • Grenada
  • Iraq
  • Afghanistan
  • Iraq (post-9/11)
  • Modern conflicts and emerging global tensions

Gear, Tech, and the Evolution of War

  • Protective gear and survivability
  • The role of media in shaping public perception
  • Weapons systems and ammunition
  • Communications, GPS, and battlefield awareness

IV. The Common Thread: Camaraderie

Despite generational differences, one constant remains — camaraderie. Veterans discuss how brotherhood has endured while the way it’s expressed has changed between older and newer generations.

V. Closing

The episode wraps up with announcements and reminders about upcoming Veteran-focused events.

  • Poker events
  • Battle of the Bands (including sign-ups)
  • InVets Summits
  • Remembering and honoring those who served

VI. We Are The Common Veterans

No matter the era, the mission, or the uniform, the bond of service endures. This is The Common Veterans.

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2 weeks ago
2 hours 10 minutes 55 seconds

The Common Veterans
Season 3: Episode 16 - A Home Base

Veteran Homeless

Veterans face unique housing challenges that ripple through lives and families. In Michiana, the gap between need and available, affordable units is painfully real. This episode explores practical steps to find stable housing and rebuild the sense of home many of us carry with us from service.

We begin by laying out the common barriers: rising rents, credit challenges, lingering service-related injuries, and the mental health struggles that complicate steady employment and stable tenancy. Rural and urban landscapes create different roadblocks—transportation and isolation in smaller towns, competition and higher costs in cities. Transitional moments like ETS, post-deployment, and retirement are high-risk periods where small setbacks can become long-term instability.

Next we take a close look at local supports. Organizations like FreedomSystem.org and Mishawaka Troop Town work to connect Veterans to immediate shelter, case management, and community. Miller’s Veterans program at the South Bend shelter provides structured support that helps people regain footing, though funding, space, and staffing remain constant challenges.

We also offer practical actions. Veterans should connect with county VSOs and nonprofit case managers who know HUD-VASH, SSVF, and local voucher systems. Consider creative housing: shared homes, micro-housing units, and modular builds can provide quicker, affordable options. Family and support networks remain vital—sometimes the path to stability is a shared roof while benefits and income get sorted.

For property owners and neighbors, the episode outlines how small measures make a difference: flexible lease terms, willingness to accept alternative documentation, and partnering with local groups to vet applicants. Community volunteers can help with move-in assistance, furniture drives, and mentoring.

Finally, we reflect on what “home” means: it’s more than shelter. Home is routine, safety, dignity, and a place to reconnect with purpose after service. The episode closes with resources, encouragement, and a call to action: build bridges, not barriers, and help Veterans find a place to belong.

Listen, share, and join the conversation—because when a Veteran finds a home base, the whole community is stronger.

Additional practical tips:

Start with documentation: pull together DD-214, ID, proof of income, and any medical records that support disability claims. These documents speed up eligibility reviews for VA and local programs. If your credit report has errors, dispute them early; small clerical fixes can open rental doors.

Emergency funds and stabilization: SSVF and local charities can provide short-term payments for deposits and first month’s rent. Ask about budgeting help and connections to employment supports to reduce future risk.

Housing alternatives to explore: contact community land trusts, faith-based housing cooperatives, and nonprofit developers focused on affordable units. Shared housing networks, where Veterans rotate responsibilities, can reduce costs and build peer support. Tiny home villages and modular units are increasingly used as transitional or permanent solutions.

Longer-term strategies: work with VSOs to pursue service-connected benefit claims, apply for supportive housing like HUD-VASH, and enroll in employment or training programs tied to stable income streams. Advocate for local policy changes: inclusionary zoning, landlord incentives, and funding for supportive services.

Community involvement: volunteer at shelter programs, support fundraisers for local Veteran housing initiatives, and encourage local leaders to prioritize Veteran homelessness prevention. Landlords can partner with nonprofit case managers to mitigate perceived rental risks.

Closing encouragement: finding a home base takes teamwork. If you’re a Veteran, reach out—help is available. If you’re a neighbor or community leader, consider how small, concrete steps can change a life, and let's make a difference!

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1 month ago
2 hours 14 minutes 10 seconds

The Common Veterans
Season 3: Episode 15 - From Rations to Recipes

Episode Summary: This week, we’re talking about how Veterans transition from mess hall meals and MREs to home cooking. From field hacks and chow hall laughs to the joy of sharing a meal with family again — this one’s all about food, memories, and connection.

“To the ones that were the best barracks cooks with the hot plate they weren’t supposed to have… to the Divine Intervention that got us through mess hall chow (unless you were Air Force)… to those that learned to eat and keep eating — to the Common Veteran!”

WE ARE THE COMMON VETERANS

Mess Hall Memories

We kick off with stories from the good ol’ days — favorite chow hall dishes, ridiculous MRE hacks, and the never-ending battle of “edible versus questionable.” From Ranger pudding to cheese crackers in beef stew, we share how troops got creative when options were limited.

Of course, every branch had its own version of “fine dining.” Army chow halls, Navy galleys, and the always-too-fancy Air Force DFACs — all came with stories, laughter, and a sense of family that food always seemed to bring.

Cooking for the Soul

After the service, many of us found that cooking became more than survival — it became therapy. A way to reconnect with family, community, and even ourselves. We talk about how food helps with healing, rebuilding, and finding a little peace in the process.

Rations to Restaurants

From field rations to Friday night favorites, we shout out local restaurants that serve the community — and maybe warn about a few “stay away from” spots too! We also talk about national chains that give back on Veterans Day like Texas Roadhouse and Applebee’s. Food tastes better when it’s shared — especially with a good cause behind it.

The Recipe Exchange

We swap recipes, share some kitchen fails, and laugh through it all. Here’s one we mention in the episode: Barracks Jalapeno Chicken

A field hack turned comfort food — ground beef, broth, veggies, and crushed cheese crackers for a crunchy twist. Quick, simple, and tastes like home (or at least the barracks on a good day).

Find more recipes and submit your own at FreedomSystem.org or tag us on social media with #CommonVeterans.

Closing Thoughts

Share a meal this week — cook something with family, invite a buddy over, or just eat together. Food connects us, heals us, and reminds us that we’re never alone.

Upcoming: Don’t miss our Remember Event on November 8, 2025 — doors open at 1700 hours (5 PM), dinner at 1830 (6:30 PM). It’s going to be one for the books.

Next Episode: A Home Base — we’ll tackle Veteran housing challenges with local Veteran Jim Metherd and explore what it takes to create stable homes at Mishawaka Troop Town.

“From rations to recipes, it’s not just about what’s on the plate — it’s about who’s at the table.”

WE ARE THE COMMON VETERANS

Season 3, Episode 15 • Produced by The Common Veterans • Find us on Spotify, Apple Podcasts, and at FreedomSystem.org

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2 months ago
2 hours 13 minutes

The Common Veterans
Season 3: Episode 14 - The Battle Within

The Common Veterans – Season 3, Episode 14: The Battle Within

Some battles aren’t fought on the field—they’re fought within. The Common Veterans continue their candid conversations about mental health, PTSD, and the resources available to support those dealing with invisible wounds.

Welcome Back to the Fight

Case of the Mondays: “This one’s for the Veterans who fight battles no one else sees.”

Toast of the Week: “To those who wake up and keep fighting the day—even when they don’t want to.”

Understanding the Battle Within

PTSD, trauma, and moral injury manifest differently for everyone. Invisible symptoms like anger, numbness, hyper-vigilance, and quiet guilt can creep into daily life. Stigma around mental health still keeps many Veterans from reaching out.

Honest reflections from the Common Veterans dive into what it means to live with PTSD, Shell Shock, and Neurosis. As Friedrich Nietzsche said, The hardest enemy to face is the one that lives in your head.

The Good, The Bad, and the Bar Tab

Veterans cope in various ways:

  • Healthy outlets: fitness, peer groups, creative work, reconnecting with purpose.
  • Unhealthy outlets: isolation, alcohol, pretending “everything’s fine.”

Humor can help—but sometimes it hides the real struggle. Remember: coping is the start of the journey, not the end.

The Front Line

The conversation turns to families and supporters—spouses, friends, parents, kids, and fellow Veterans. Trauma can impact relationships, communication, and trust. Guidance for supporters:

  • Don’t try to “fix” the Veteran.
  • Listen, stay patient, and take care of yourself.

Programs like 4 Vets By Vets provide safe spaces for peer connection and healing. Camaraderie goes beyond friendship—it’s about finding a brother or sister in arms.

Picking Up the Right Weapons

Therapy, group support, EMDR, mindfulness, mentoring, and faith can all play a role in healing. Veterans may resist counseling, feeling “impervious to psychoanalysis,” but modern methods sometimes help. And yes, getting your arse to church can help too.

Resources for support include:

  • VA programs, local community options, Veteran nonprofits
  • 988 – Veterans Crisis Line, then Press 1

Healing doesn’t make a Veteran less of a warrior—it proves you still are. Remember, “Until Valhalla” is reserved for those who die in combat; surviving doesn’t diminish your service.

Breaking the Cycle – From Surviving to Living

Trauma can echo into the next generation and community. Veteran social clubs often debate what counts as combat experience, highlighting generational differences. Breaking the cycle requires:

  • Forgiveness of oneself
  • Choosing to think and talk differently
  • Peer leadership and mentorship

Sharing stories and guiding fellow Veterans helps create a cycle of support rather than isolation.

The Battle Isn’t Over, But You’re Not Alone

The Common Veterans roundtable wraps up with a collective message: You’re not broken. You’re battle-tested. Reach out to a brother or sister in arms, talk, and connect.

Next Episode: Episode 15 – From Rations to Recipes: Veterans share stories of mess hall meals, favorite recipes, and how they adapt cooking skills to civilian life.

Closing Toast: “To the warriors still fighting the unseen war — we see you, we stand with you, and we’ll hold the line until you’re ready to join us again… WE ARE THE COMMON VETERANS!”

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2 months ago
2 hours 22 minutes 25 seconds

The Common Veterans
Season 3 — Episode 13: Veterans in Entrepreneurship

Hosts: Kenny Holmes, Jeff Schrock, Tony Buoscio

Guest: Ty Bancroft — The Bancroft Companies

In this episode we highlight Veterans who’ve built businesses and share practical tips for entrepreneurial success. We talk about stories and lessons from founders like Matt Best (Black Rifle Coffee), John Burk (Shell Shock CBD), Daniel Alerik (Grunt Style), and our guest, Ty Bancroft of The Bancroft Companies.

Introducing Ty Bancroft

Ty served as an Army Combat Medic and went on to build The Bancroft Companies — a Veteran-owned firm that delivers electrical and utility solutions, roadway lighting, and specialty directional drilling under roads, bridges, and rivers. We cover his military background, business journey, how family influenced the business (including his brother), and what drives the company’s commitment to integrity and quality.

Deep Dive — Veteran Entrepreneurship

  • The spark: Why Veterans start businesses — purpose, ownership, and using military-honed skills in new ways.
  • Common challenges: financing, translating military experience to civilian markets, and building networks outside the military.
  • Success strategies: what worked, what didn’t, and practical tactics for launching and scaling.
  • Tips for aspiring Vet-preneurs: real, tactical advice from people who’ve been there.


We invite listeners to follow, subscribe, and share. Join us at upcoming FreedomSystem.org events:

  • Remember — November 8, 17:00
  • Road Bike Ride — 9/27, Abshire Park, Goshen, IN, 10:00 AM
  • Mountain Bike Ride — 10/4, Bonneyville, 9:00 AM
  • Bridge the Gap — monthly, 1st Friday, INVets, 17:00


Toast

Delivered by Kenny with Jeff and Tony chiming in:

“Here’s to the Veterans who traded their rifles for risk, their boots for business plans, and their battle buddies for boardrooms. May your mission always be clear, your coffee always be strong, and your success stories always inspire the next generation. To Vet-preneurs—cheers!”

WE ARE THE COMMON VETERANS

Next Episode — Episode 14: The Battle Within

We’ll have candid conversations about mental health, PTSD, and the resources that support Veterans. This episode digs into trauma, recovery, and how friends, family, and communities can help. Perfect for anyone who wants to better support a Veteran facing internal battles.

If you enjoyed this episode, please subscribe on your preferred podcast platform, share with a friend, and drop us a review. Follow FreedomSystem.org for more events and resources for veterans.

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3 months ago
2 hours 11 minutes 54 seconds

The Common Veterans
Season 3, Episode 12: Don’t Stop Believing

How Veterans can leverage military skills to build networks and navigate civilian careers.

To the Veterans who never stopped believing — in themselves, in their brothers and sisters, and in the future. We’ve all been those “streetlights, people, livin’ just to find emotion, hidin’ somewhere in the…” well, usually the VFW or the local dive bar. May we carry the skills we earned in service into every new mission, building bridges, networks, and opportunities. Here’s to resilience, camaraderie, and never giving up on the journey ahead. Cheers!

This episode of The Common Veterans is brought to you by Mission: Communicate, a Veteran-owned marketing company that helps businesses and nonprofits share their story, and by Winter Oak Studios, founded by T.C. Miller, author of BlackStar Ops, with our own Jeff Schrock contributing as co-author. Their support keeps this conversation alive.

Veterans leave the service with powerful skills — leadership, discipline, adaptability, and teamwork — that translate directly into civilian careers. The real challenge is confidence: learning how to own your background, not downplay it. Many of us have seen how quick decision-making, problem solving, and grit gave us an edge in the civilian workplace. These qualities don’t just fade when the uniform comes off.

But resumes alone aren’t enough. Networking is what opens doors. For many Veterans, this can feel uncomfortable — the fear of being misunderstood or stigmatized is real. Too often, companies say they’re “Veteran Friendly” when really what we need are organizations that are “Veteran Ready.” Veteran Friendly means the welcome mat is out. Veteran Ready means there’s a real plan: mentorship, resources, and pathways for growth. The difference is everything.


LinkedIn is a great place to start. Build a profile that translates military service into civilian terms and join Veteran-specific groups to expand your circle. Local networking apps like Nextdoor can also open doors to jobs, services, and visibility for Veteran-owned businesses. Private communities matter too — FreedomSystem.org’s social site (currently on Facebook, soon moving to our website) offers a safe Veteran-only space. Platforms like Together We Served help you reconnect with old comrades and form new bonds. These networks work best when we don’t just log in, but actively show up and participate.

Navigating the civilian career landscape also requires strategy. Informational interviews are a great way to learn about industries before committing. Mentorship is huge. Every Veteran benefits from both having a mentor and becoming one. Research organizations before interviews, tailor your cover letters, and don’t forget to follow up. Balance humility with confidence — don’t minimize your value, and don’t be afraid to ask for help. Pride comes before the fall.


And when it comes to mental health, remember that help isn’t limited to the VA. Programs like H.A.P.P.Y. provide independent psychological support without the red tape. Sometimes what we need most is someone outside the system who understands the challenges we face.


Stories like John Burk’s remind us that refusing to give up and continuing to network can lead to meaningful civilian careers. Our tenacity and resilience carry us through, proving we never stop believing in ourselves or in each other.


So here’s your call to action: reach out to IN Vets or similar organizations that focus on Veteran employment, and take a moment this week to update your LinkedIn profile. You already have the skills — it’s time to share them with the world.


We are The Common Veterans — and we don’t stop believing.


Next time, join us for Episode 13: Veterans in Entrepreneurship, where we highlight Veterans like Ty Bancroft and John Burk who’ve built their own businesses, and share tips to help you succeed as a Vet-preneur.

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4 months ago
2 hours 17 minutes 43 seconds

The Common Veterans
Season 3: Episode 11: With a Little Help from My Friends

The Gap We’re Closing

Transitioning from military to civilian life can feel like stepping off a moving train. The speed changes, the rules change, and—surprise— and no one issued you a manual. That’s where mentorship and camaraderie step in. This episode digs into how Veterans can leverage local programs, especially county VSOs and groups like IN Vets and FreedomSystem.org, to build a real support network that lasts.

Why Mentorship Works

Mentorship isn’t a buzzword; it’s a battle buddy in peacetime. Peer mentors get the culture, the tempo, and the unspoken stuff. They help decode resumes, demystify interviews, and translate “I was NCOIC” into something hiring managers recognize. More importantly, they restore the rhythm of teamwork we miss after ETS/retirement.

  • Trust: Shared experience builds instant credibility.
  • Navigation: From VA claims to first civilian job, someone’s already walked that path.
  • Belonging: The feeling of “I’ve got your six” doesn’t have to end at the gate.


Making Your County VSO Work for You

A VSO—Veteran Service Officer—is one of the most overlooked resources in a county. They’re trained to help you navigate VA claims, connect to benefits, and point you toward organizations that can support you. But here’s the catch: they can only help if you actually sit down with them.

  1. Show up: Schedule an appointment and bring your DD214.
  2. Be specific: Tell them what you need—healthcare, education, housing, claims.
  3. Follow up: Paperwork isn’t glamorous, but persistence wins the day.


IN Vets (and leaders like MSgt (Ret.) Victoria Molnar) partner with VSOs and employers to turn “good ideas” into working pipelines—mentors, job placements, and community supports that actually answer the call.

LDRSHIP: Values that Still Punch Above Their Weight

From the early 2000s playbook, the Army Values still apply off-duty and off-base. The full acronym is LDRSHIP:

  • Loyalty
  • Duty
  • Respect
  • Selfless Service
  • Honor
  • Integrity
  • Personal Courage


These aren’t just posters on a wall—they’re a roadmap for building trust in a world that doesn’t run on rank structure. Carrying these values forward keeps the uniform’s spirit alive in civilian life.

One Team, One Fight

There’s a reason “One Team, One Fight” sticks. No matter the branch, service era, or MOS, we share the same struggle in transition. It’s not about competing for resources; it’s about linking arms and reminding each other that camaraderie is still the mission. Whether you’re talking to your VSO, plugging into IN Vets, or sitting across from a fellow Veteran at the bar, remember: none of us do this alone.

The Truth: Adulting is Dumb

Paying bills, juggling insurance, and learning how to “network” doesn’t hold a candle to a field exercise or a deployment tempo. Civilian life can feel like death by paperwork. But mentorship, VSOs, and camaraderie soften the blow. It may still be dumb—but it doesn’t have to be lonely.

The Toast We Missed

Somewhere in the episode, we forgot our toast—classic. So here it is now: "To the mentors who guide, the VSOs who fight the paperwork battles, and the friends who keep us grounded. One Team, One Fight. Cheers!"

Till Next Time

So whether it’s through ⁠IN Vets⁠, your local ⁠VSO office⁠, or simply reaching out to a buddy who might need it, remember: none of us have to do this alone. With a little help from our friends, we can continue to live with purpose, pride, and community.Until next time: PEACE

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4 months ago
1 hour 53 minutes 39 seconds

The Common Veterans
Season 3: Episode 10: Married to a Veteran (The Spouse Episode)

Married to a Veteran – The Spouse Episode

Season 3, Episode 10 of The Common Veterans

When we think of service and sacrifice, it’s easy to focus on the Veteran — but what about the ones who held the line back home? In this episode of The Common Veterans, Jeff Schrock sits down with two of those very people: Sarah Holmes (wife of Army Veteran Kenny Holmes) and Katy O'Toole (wife of Marine Veteran Adam O'Toole). And when Jenn Schlorke couldn’t make it, her husband — and our own Fred Schlorke — stepped up to represent their marriage and share his perspective on the Veteran-spouse dynamic.

This isn’t just another military conversation — it’s the real, unfiltered experience of the military and Veteran spouse. From the stress of deployments to the chaos of solo parenting, from missed milestones to the small victories of surviving the homefront, these conversations give us a candid look into what it truly means to be married to a Veteran.

The Other Side of Service

Jeff opens with a toast to the ones who made sure there was still a home to come back to. While the service member was away, training or deploying, these spouses became the cook, the disciplinarian, the financial planner, the home repair expert, and the emotional anchor for their families.

Meet the Guests

  • Sarah Holmes – wife of Kenny Holmes, Army Veteran
  • Katy O'Toole – wife of Adam O'Toole, Marine Corps Veteran
  • Fred Schlorke – filling in for his wife Jenn Schlorke, sharing the Veteran’s side of marriage dynamics

Each guest shares stories of family life, marriage, and the challenges and triumphs that come with balancing service and home life.

Life Behind the Scenes

What happens to a marriage under the strain of military life? How do kids process having a parent deployed to a war zone? How does a spouse stay connected to someone on the other side of the world — and keep a family running in the meantime?

We explore all of these questions and more. The spouses — and Fred — discuss the long nights of worry, the exhaustion of being "everything to everyone," and the surprising moments of pride that come from being part of a military family.

Reintegration and Post-Service Life

What happens after the uniform comes off? The conversation shifts to the complexities of reintegration — reconnecting as a family, adjusting to civilian life, and redefining family roles after years of deployments and duty stations.

Real Talk and Reflections

From funny stories about miscommunications and military quirks that never die, to heartfelt reflections on personal growth, each guest offers insights that any military family — or civilian curious about military life — will appreciate.

Final Thoughts

The episode wraps with reflections on what people often misunderstand about military and Veteran spouses, along with what each guest is most proud of from their family’s journey.

Whether you’re a Veteran, a spouse, a family member, or just someone curious about military life, this episode offers a perspective rarely shared but deeply important.

Listen now to Season 3, Episode 10: Married to a Veteran — only on

The Common Veterans

.Up Next on The Common Veterans:

Episode 11: The VFW Episode — The Common Veterans dive into the VFW, the American Legion, and the DAV. What works, what doesn’t, and the quirky traditions that come with them.

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5 months ago
2 hours 4 minutes 58 seconds

The Common Veterans
Season 3: Episode 9: Game Night and Interview with John Burk

Roll for initiative! In this high-spirited episode, the crew sits down to talk about the games that shaped them—on and off the battlefield. From heated rounds of beer pong in the barracks to late-night strategy battles over Axis & Allies, games have always been a part of the Veteran experience.

But this week isn't just about dice and drinks—we're proud to welcome our keynote speaker for the 2025 Remember Event: John Burk. A no-nonsense Army Infantry Veteran, entrepreneur, motivational speaker, and gamer, John brings raw honesty, humor, and energy to everything he touches. Whether you're familiar with his “In the Arena” brand or just hearing him for the first time, you'll understand why we’re fired up to have him speak at Remember.

Games: Then and Now

We talk about:

  • Games we played during deployments (some regulation… some not)
  • Drinking games that taught us more than just how to chug
  • The creative games that built morale when nothing else could
  • How gaming has evolved into therapy, connection, and camaraderie in civilian life

John Burk: In His Own Words

In his interview, John shares stories from his time in uniform, insights into why play and laughter matter, and what fuels his passion for the Veteran community. He’s brutally honest, legitimately funny, and deeply committed to serving beyond the uniform.

Gaming Communities & Veteran Nonprofits

We also spotlight gaming orgs doing real work:

  • Alpha Nerds Guild – Co-founded by Kenny and John, connecting Vets through gaming
  • Warrior Veteran Gamers
  • Stack Up – Bringing mental health & gaming together

Looking for Games?

We suggest a few to get the party started at home: Cards Against Humanity, Axis & Allies, Dungeons & Dragons, and a few of our own twisted creations (like Leftdiculous).

Remember 2025 – A Tease

Get ready: this year’s Remember Event is shaping up big.

  • Keynote: John Burk
  • Live music & community gathering
  • Dinner from Chubby Trout & Smoking Fatties – two meats and a dessert

Challenge to Our Listeners

Got a wild game story or a custom Veteran-themed game idea? Send it in! Winners get Common Veterans swag or free Remember tickets.

Next Up: “What Does the Wife Say?”

Next week, we hand the mic to military spouses. Jeff Schrock leads a conversation about their role, resilience, and what it’s really like being married to the military. Don’t miss it.

Cheers to the games that got us through, and the people we played them with.

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6 months ago
2 hours 4 minutes 51 seconds

The Common Veterans
Season 3: Episode 8: You Can't Do That

For those who’ve served, transitioning to civilian life can feel like entering a different world. In Episode 8: You Can’t Do That, the hosts of The Common Veterans take a humorous but honest look at what doesn’t translate from the military to the civilian world—and how Veterans are forced to adjust.

Field Habits Die Hard

From combat parking at Target to scanning rooms like a security team, old habits are hard to break. Military communication styles—direct and loud—don’t always fly in corporate settings. Even eating habits, like wolfing down meals in two minutes, raise eyebrows.

Kenny zeroes in on his biggest pet peeve: posture. “Even my kids. Stand up straight—it’s not that hard!”

Mentality Misfires

It’s not just behaviors—it’s mindset. Mission-first urgency doesn’t always mesh with civilian workflows. Tony admits, “I have trust issues when people say they’ll finish something.” Without structure or hierarchy, projects get lost and leadership gets muddy.

Fred adds, “Too many chiefs, not enough Indians,” calling out a common frustration in decentralized civilian teams. And while vulnerability is encouraged in civilian spaces, veterans are often wired to push through silently.

“We were taught to suffer in silence. Civilians expect you to speak up.”
“In the military, failure meant someone could die. Out here, it just means a reschedule.”

Relearning the Rules

Fred sums up the emotional difference: “Bad things happen and you have to move on.” That kind of resilience is misunderstood outside the military. Dark humor, another survival tool, often misfires in civilian life.

Jeff reflects on the struggle of forming trust and relationships. In a roundtable, each host shares something they’ve had to “unlearn” after taking off the uniform—things that helped in service, but don’t always help after it.

What’s Next

In Episode 9: Game Night, the team shifts gears for a fun night of games and camaraderie. From strategy to laughter, it’s a reminder that joy and bonding still have a place in post-service life.

Whether you served or support someone who did, this episode delivers truth, laughs, and insight you don’t want to miss.

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6 months ago
2 hours 28 minutes 42 seconds

The Common Veterans
Season 3, Episode 7: Trust Me, I Am From the Government

The Common Veterans explores the seven most dangerous words in the world. In this episode, we dive deep into the promises, pitfalls, and realities of government systems affecting Veterans’ lives—blending candid discussions, expert insights, and real-life experiences.

Sponsors

  • Winter Oak Studios
  • Mission: Communicate

Setting the Stage

Government programs have long been touted as a safety net for Veterans. From the GI Bill and VA Home Loan to the Vet Center and VA Healthcare, they promise opportunity, stability, and care. But how often do those promises match reality?

  • What they should do: Provide support, healthcare, and reintegration tools.
  • What they actually do: Often underdeliver due to red tape, underfunding, or misunderstanding.

Navigating the Systems VA Healthcare

VSOs can be a lifeline—or a liability. A caring VSO can save lives. An indifferent one can cost them.

Breaking It All Down

We examine the contrast between bureaucracy and humanity. Systems often forget who they are meant to serve. We ask: Who watches the watchers?

We also tackle the civilian-military cultural divide—a source of many of these disconnects.

What’s Working

  • Faith-based and nonprofit programs that deliver real community outreach
  • Pilot programs unburdened by legacy bureaucracy

Enter FreedomSystem.org & Common Veterans

FreedomSystem.org exists because the system wasn’t enough. Built by Veterans, for Veterans, we focus on:

  • Suicide prevention
  • Camaraderie
  • Real-world solutions

Final Thoughts

  • Don’t wait for broken systems to fix themselves—self-advocate or find someone who will.
  • Community over complacency: Have your Veteran connect with peers, even if they're Navy.

Final Toast:

“Here’s to the brothers and sisters we’ve lost—may their memories stay sharp and their legacies never fade. And here’s to those still with us—may we share laughter, carry each other’s burdens, and never forget the bond we earned.

Sláinte.

” Next Episode

Episode 8: GAME NIGHT

We mix camaraderie with competition as Veterans and guests connect over games and good times—celebrating the unique bonds of service through joy and play.

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7 months ago
1 hour 41 minutes 50 seconds

The Common Veterans
Season 3 - Episode 6 - Time

Through music, the Common Veterans reflect on the songs that helped them survive the suck… and maybe even dance in the rain with a poncho and an MRE.

I. Introduction

In this episode, we dive into how music shaped our military experiences—from boot camp blues to barracks karaoke. Shoutout to our sponsors: FreedomSystem.org, your go-to for veteran support, and whoever left that Bluetooth speaker in the latrine… thank you for your service.

II. Setting the Stage

Music during service wasn't just background noise—it was therapy, a hype man, and sometimes the only thing louder than our senior NCOs. From Metallica to Motown, it helped us cope, push through, and occasionally start unauthorized dance battles.

III. Personal Reflections

The team shares personal tracks that carried them through the chaos. Warning: this part contains feelings… and Nickelback. Judge us, we dare you.

IV. Stories Behind the Music and Needs

  • Then and Now: How “Fortunate Son” hit different during field ops. Even though it was a protest song!
  • Resonance Today: These tracks still slap—PTSD-approved.
  • New Civilian Jams: From war drums to dad rock.


V. Final Thoughts

Music connects Veterans across time and branches. Got a track that got you through it? Send it our way. Unless it’s the Barney theme—then we need to talk.

VI. Closing

Thanks for tuning in, sharing your earbuds, and not judging our playlists (too harshly). Next time, we’re tackling military portrayals in Hollywood—so expect lots of yelling at movie screens.

To close this episode… we raise our canteen cups in a toast: To music, to memory, and to that one guy who thought “Eye of the Tiger” was a lullaby. Hooah.

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8 months ago
1 hour 36 minutes 32 seconds

The Common Veterans
Season 3 - Episode 5 - Hollywood
Episode 5: Hollywood

In this episode of The Common Veterans, we take on Hollywood and its portrayal of the military. What’s real, what’s exaggerated, and what just makes us laugh? Before we roll, check out FreedomSystem.org for upcoming events, including our charity poker night and cook-off fundraiser.

Call to Action: Subscribe, rate, and share. Support Veterans by spreading the word. Sponsored by VFW Post 985, FreedomSystem.org, and local Vet orgs.

What Hollywood Gets Right
  • Camaraderie: Films like Band of Brothers show real brotherhood.
  • Leadership Stress: Black Hawk Down captures the burden of command.
  • Combat Trauma: Lone Survivor highlights emotional strain.
  • Tech Advisors: When movies use real Vets, the details shine.
What Hollywood Gets Wrong
  • Combat Scenes: Infinite ammo and bad tactics? Nope.
  • Ranks & Jargon: They mess this up constantly.
  • PTSD Tropes: Not every Vet is broken or explosive.
  • Stereotypes: It’s not all Rambo or sadness.
  • Bad Examples: Jarhead 2, we’re looking at you.
Favorite Military Movies

Each host shared their favorites and broke them down:

  • Full Metal Jacket – Boot camp? Spot on. The rest? Meh.
  • Saving Private Ryan – D-Day opening still unmatched.
  • American Sniper – Powerful but polarizing.

We also laughed at a few ridiculous ones. Not naming names… yet.

Hollywood vs. Reality

Media shapes public views of Veterans. Unrealistic films cause real harm. We need Veteran voices in film to tell it straight. Honest storytelling helps with reintegration and destroys stereotypes.

Outro

Next Episode: Time – A look at the music that got us through it all. From deployment tracks to post-service playlists, it’s going to be deep.

Shoutout to all supporting orgs, listeners, and Vets doing the work every day. Stay strong, stay proud, and share the mission.

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8 months ago
1 hour 58 minutes 26 seconds

The Common Veterans
Season 3: Episode 4: Honkey Tonk Bar Association
Honky Tonk Bar Associations – The Common Veterans Podcast

Honky Tonk Bar Associations – The Common Veterans Podcast

Don't worry—we aren’t showing up in boots to ruin their black-tie affairs. But we do see these organizations for what they are, and in this episode, we break down the VFW, DAV, American Legion, and even our own FreedomSystem.org. What do they do well? Where do they fall short? And most importantly, how can they actually help Veterans?

Breaking Down the Big Names

  • VFW (Veterans of Foreign Wars) – Open to combat veterans, great for camaraderie and advocacy, but struggles with modernization.
  • American Legion – Open to all who served, active in local events and scholarships, but some posts feel outdated.
  • DAV (Disabled American Veterans) – Focused on service-connected vets, excellent for claims assistance but lacks the social aspect.
  • FreedomSystem.org – Open to anyone with a DD-214, offering camaraderie programs (Combatives, Mountain & Road Biking, Youth Baseball, Common Veterans), plus unique events like Battle of the Bands and Battle of the Meats.
  • Other Notables – AMVETS, Marine Corps League, VVA, and other niche veteran organizations.

What They Actually Do for Veterans

  • VA Claims & Support – Who actually helps veterans navigate the VA system?
  • Camaraderie & Community – Some posts are thriving, others feel like retirement homes. Why?
  • Legislative Advocacy – Which orgs are truly fighting for veterans in Washington?
  • Financial & Emergency Assistance – What’s out there for vets who need urgent help?
  • Employment & Transition Programs – Some are great, others barely exist. Who’s stepping up?

Where the Disconnect Happens

Why do so many of these places feel outdated and unwelcoming to younger veterans? The struggle is real when it comes to engagement, leadership stagnation, and adapting to the new generation of veterans.

Making These Orgs Work for Us

  • Younger Vets Taking Charge – How can we change these organizations instead of letting them fade?
  • Adapting to Stay Relevant – What needs to change to bring these groups into the future?
  • FreedomSystem.org Leading the Way – What we're doing differently to keep veterans engaged and supported.

Final Thoughts & Next Episode

If we don’t step up, these organizations either die out or continue the same cycle of irrelevance. So, what’s the solution? Tune in for our breakdown, share your thoughts, and get involved.

Next Episode: Hollywood – We take on military movies, what they get right, and what they get horribly wrong.

🎧 Listen now on Spotify or your favorite podcast platform.

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9 months ago
2 hours 3 minutes 46 seconds

The Common Veterans
Season 3: Episode 3: Phreaks on a LEash

Intro & Banter

Before we dive into the madness, a quick shoutout to our sponsor, Winter Oak Studio. If you’re looking for high-quality custom woodwork, whether it’s for your home, office, or something special, check them out!

Now, let’s talk about why we’re here: Phreaks on a Leash. Yeah, it’s a nod to Korn, but more importantly, it describes the absolute circus that our military has become under weak and misguided leadership.

Who is Pete Hegseth?

Pete Hegseth is a former Army officer, Fox News contributor, and a staunch advocate for military tradition. He’s been vocal about the damage done by politically driven policies, calling for a return to warfighting basics.

What Makes Him Different?

  • Woke Policies in the Military – Hegseth argues that political correctness is undermining combat effectiveness.
  • Recruitment Failures – The numbers don’t lie. The military is struggling to meet its quotas.
  • Rebuilding Readiness – He’s pushing for a focus on physical fitness, discipline, and warfighting capability over social experiments.

The ‘Phreaks’ Running Wild

Recruitment and Retention are Tanking

  • Lowered Standards – Physical fitness requirements have been adjusted, discipline has weakened.
  • Cultural Shift – Military culture has been diluted.
  • Public Perception – The military is no longer seen as an elite institution.

Fire Watch: What to Keep an Eye On

  • Hegseth’s first 100 days – What immediate changes will he make?
  • Recruitment strategies – Will we see a reversal in enlistment trends?

Closing Thoughts

Uncle Pete has a long road ahead, but one thing is clear: change is coming. Whether you agree or disagree with Hegseth’s policies, the military needs a course correction.

Next Episode Teaser: ‘Honkey Tonk Bar Associations’

We’re diving into veteran organizations like the VFW, DAV, and American Legion. Are they helping vets like they should?

Final Toast & Call to Action

Want to support veteran camaraderie? Visit FreedomSystem.org, check out our upcoming events, and follow The Common Veterans podcast on all platforms.

Until next time—stay sharp, stay strong, and never let the phreaks run wild. Cheers!

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10 months ago
1 hour 15 minutes 37 seconds

The Common Veterans
Season 3 Episode 2: Another, Another Brick in the Wall
Breaking the Wall: Veterans and Career Transitions

By The Common Veterans

Reintegration into civilian careers can feel like slamming your head against a brick wall. For many veterans, translating military experience into civilian job qualifications is an uphill battle. Resumes get overlooked, HR departments misunderstand skill sets, and the struggle to fit into the civilian workforce becomes a frustrating ordeal. But here’s the truth: Veterans bring leadership, discipline, and problem-solving skills that businesses need—if they can recognize them.

The Language Barrier

One of the biggest challenges veterans face is how military experience is perceived. A squad leader isn’t just someone who “led a team”—they managed logistics, training, crisis response, and personnel development. A logistics officer didn’t just “move supplies”—they coordinated multimillion-dollar operations under extreme pressure. But too often, resumes filled with military jargon don’t translate into terms hiring managers understand.

Cracking the Code

The key to breaking this wall? Speaking the right language. Veterans need to frame their experience in a way that resonates with civilian employers. Instead of listing an MOS code, break it down into transferable skills:

  • Squad Leader → Operations Manager / Project Manager
  • Combat Medic → Emergency Medical Technician / Healthcare Specialist
  • Logistics Officer → Supply Chain Manager / Procurement Specialist
Resources for Success

Veterans don’t have to navigate this alone. Programs like SkillBridge, Hiring Our Heroes, and Onward to Opportunity offer career training, internships, and direct hiring pipelines. Networking is another major factor—most jobs are found through connections rather than job boards. Platforms like LinkedIn can be an invaluable tool for making those connections.

What Employers Need to Know

For companies, hiring veterans isn’t about charity—it’s about tapping into a disciplined, adaptable workforce. Employers who understand the value of military experience gain employees who excel in leadership, teamwork, and problem-solving.

The Next Mission

The military trained us to complete missions under pressure. Transitioning to civilian careers is just another mission—one that requires the right strategy, tools, and support. If you’re a veteran struggling with career reintegration, remember this: You are not alone. Resources are out there, networks are available, and success is possible.

For more insights and veteran support programs, visit FreedomSystem.org. Let’s break this wall together.

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10 months ago
1 hour 55 minutes 4 seconds

The Common Veterans
Season 3 Episode 1: The Reintroductions
The Common Veterans Podcast: Season 3, Episode 1

The Common Veterans Podcast: Season 3, Episode 1 – The Reintroductions

January 27, 2025

The Common Veterans Podcast is back for Season 3! In The Reintroductions, the hosts reintroduce themselves and discuss their mission alongside the work of FreedomSystem.org.

Meet the Hosts

  • Kenny Holmes: Medically retired Army veteran (Iraq 07-08), President of FreedomSystem.org, and a jack-of-all-trades.
  • Jeff Schrock: Retired Air Force Chief Master Sergeant, former police officer, and author.
  • Anthony Buoscio: Navy veteran, IT Director, and Bud Light connoisseur.
  • Fred Schlorke: Retired Army Colonel, medical doctor, and FreedomSystem.org Vice-President.
  • Casey Hendrickson: Syndicated radio host, former Army, with a background in CNC and 3D printing.

Podcast Mission

  • Helping veterans reintegrate into civilian life
  • Bridging the gap between civilians and veterans
  • Promoting camaraderie and veteran-focused programs

FreedomSystem.org: Veteran Support Programs

  • Veteran’s Baseball & Softball: Coaching and community engagement.
  • Poker Tournaments: Fundraising and camaraderie.
  • 4 Vets By Vets: Battle of the Bands, Battle of the Meats.
  • Combatives Training: Self-defense and discipline.
  • Mountain & Road Biking: Fitness and mental health support.
  • Hometown Heroes: Honoring local veterans.
  • The Remember Event: Annual gathering to honor fallen comrades.

Why This Matters

Strengthening veteran communities and helping civilians understand their challenges.

Next Episode: "Another Brick in the Wall Part II"

Discussing the transition from military to civilian careers.

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11 months ago
1 hour 28 minutes 48 seconds

The Common Veterans
Episode 15 : Let's Talk About Series - Religion
Common Veterans: Episode 15 - Let’s Talk Politics Common Veterans: Season 2 Addendum Episode 15: Let’s Talk Series: Politics

In this episode of The Common Veterans podcast, part of the "Let's Talk About" series, we break the rule: “Never talk politics, religion, or money at the dinner table.” We’ll dive into politics, its intersection with military life, and a political card game for a bit of fun (and maybe some chaos).

Who Are We?

Each host shares their perspective, kicking off with Casey explaining the rules of "Leftdiculous", a political card game. Before playing, we discuss what politics means to us as veterans, exploring its personal and military implications.

Politics and the Military

We explore how politics shapes the military through current events and historical decisions:

  • Pete Hegseth: A potential DoD director pick by Trump.
  • General Chris Donahue: His career has faced Senate roadblocks.
  • Tulsi Gabbard: A former Congresswoman and Army officer as an intelligence pick.

These discussions show how decisions in Washington impact military life.

Politics Game Night

We play "Leftdiculous", a game blending humor with political scenarios. Our rule is simple: Play the game or lose. It’s a fun way to explore political debates and spark productive conversations.

Special Outpost: Stolen Valor

We address accusations of stolen valor against one of our own. Every veteran here has been vetted, and we stand by their integrity. This segment explores what stolen valor means and how to counter misinformation.

Season 3 Preview

Season 3 will explore life after service, from transitioning to civilian life to advocacy and creative outlets. With 24 episodes, we’ll highlight how veterans thrive beyond their military careers.

Thank you for supporting The Common Veterans. Politics can be divisive, but as veterans, we bring a unique perspective. Stay tuned for more as we wrap up Season 2 and prepare for an exciting Season 3!

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1 year ago
1 hour 27 minutes 49 seconds

The Common Veterans
Episode 14: Let's Talk Series - Ethics and Morality

Welcome back to The Common Veterans podcast! We’re excited to bring you another episode in our "Let's Talk About" series, where we dig deep into issues that impact Veterans and service members. Today, we’re taking on the complex topic of Ethics and Morality—a subject that touches every part of life, but one that takes on unique meanings in the military and Veteran communities.

Understanding Ethics and Morality in a Military Context

When we talk about ethics and morality, we’re discussing the foundation of how we judge right from wrong and act accordingly. For many of us, these ideas are first shaped at home, through family, school, and community. But in the military, our understanding of ethical behavior often evolves, shaped by rigorous training, the demands of service, and the moral challenges that arise in situations most civilians will never encounter.

In this episode, we’ll explore these foundational concepts and dive into what makes ethical behavior distinct from moral beliefs. For some, ethics are the rules or principles set by society or institutions, while morality often reflects our personal values. We’ll reference insights from our recent discussion on religion to frame these differences and understand how they’re viewed within military life.

Facing Ethical Challenges in Service

One of the most unique aspects of military service is how it presents ethical challenges that are rarely found in civilian life. In the field, service members may face difficult decisions that test their values and beliefs. How do you act when commands or circumstances push those boundaries? When is following an order the ethical thing to do, and when might it conflict with personal morality?

Military codes of conduct are designed to provide structure and guidance during high-stress situations, but real-life scenarios often don’t fit neatly within any rulebook. Whether it’s a decision made in combat, a command that seems morally gray, or the ethical responsibilities of leadership, these experiences create moments that shape a person’s ethics and morality for a lifetime.

Living with Military Ethics in Civilian Life

After returning to civilian life, Veterans often find that the ethical framework developed during service doesn’t always align with what they encounter in the civilian world. The transition can be challenging, as situations that once seemed clear-cut in the structured environment of military life may feel complex and ambiguous back home.

This experience is sometimes referred to as "moral injury," a term for the internal conflict that arises when a person’s actions—or the actions they’ve witnessed—violate their core moral beliefs. For many Veterans, moral injury is one of the hardest wounds to heal, but fortunately, there are resources and communities offering support. In this episode, we’ll touch on some of these resources and discuss ways that Veterans can find healing and adapt to their post-service lives.

Looking Ahead: Politics

To close out today’s episode, we’re excited to announce that our next "Let’s Talk About" installment will focus on Politics. It’s a topic that plays a significant role in military and Veteran life, influencing everything from policy to personal perspectives. In this next conversation, we’ll discuss how political issues impact those who serve, and we’ll share insights on the role of political beliefs within the Veteran community.

Thank you for joining us as we dive into these meaningful conversations. Make sure to subscribe, share your thoughts, and stay tuned for our next episode!

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1 year ago
1 hour 41 minutes 45 seconds

The Common Veterans
Episode 13: Let’s Talk Series: Religion

In this episode of The Common Veterans podcast, we continue our "Let's Talk About" series by diving into the topic of religion. We explore what religion means, its role within the military, and how it impacts the lives of Veterans. Whether deeply religious or not, we open the floor for a thoughtful discussion on how faith and spirituality intersect with military life.

Introduction to the “Let’s Talk About” Series

Our “Let’s Talk About” series is a space for veterans to explore important topics in a deeper way. We started with Religion, with upcoming episodes focused on ethics, morality, and politics. Each discussion brings forward the unique perspectives of service members and Veterans.

Defining Religion

Religion is a system of beliefs, values, and practices that helps people understand the world and their place in it. However, it’s important to distinguish religion from denominations—religion refers to broad traditions like Christianity or Islam, while denominations are branches within those religions, such as Catholicism or Methodism.

Religion in the Military

The military is a place of religious diversity, where service members from various backgrounds and faiths come together. Religion often provides a sense of comfort and strength during difficult times, such as combat deployments. In this episode, we explore how religion shapes service members’ lives and how the military accommodates diverse faith practices.

Veterans and Faith

After transitioning out of the military, faith continues to play a key role in the lives of many Veterans. Religion or spirituality often helps Veterans cope with challenges like PTSD or loss. Some reconnect with traditional religious communities, while others find solace in alternative spiritual practices like meditation or nature.

Next Episode: Ethics and Morality

Stay tuned for our next episode on Ethics and Morality, where we’ll dive into the foundations of ethical behavior and moral decision-making, especially in the military context.

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1 year ago
2 hours 19 seconds

The Common Veterans
The Common Veterans is a podcast created by veterans, for veterans, exploring topics that matter most to the veteran community. From personal stories and shared experiences to deep dives into ethical, moral, and societal issues, each episode brings an authentic voice to conversations that resonate. Whether it's navigating post-military life, discussing mental health, or exploring subjects like ethics, morality, and religion, The Common Veterans is a place for open dialogue and community. Join us as