Send us a text Master Nick and Lady Dee continue to discuss some unusual and obscure fetishes and practices recognizing they are barely scratching the surface of this topic. Master Nick clarifies at the beginning of this episode that he had all the various body fluids on him based on his history as a Firefighter/EMT. When it comes to bodily fluids, there are some kinks they both can relate to, but some that are a little outside their comfort zone. It is important to get consent prior to...

Send us a text Master Nick & Lady Dee express their condolences to those impacted by the UPS tragedy which occurred in their community. Lady Dee provides a quick update on her health and healing. Then they remind listeners to come to Kinktasia and visit their vendor booth where there will be some Dom Life products as well as podcast equipment on Friday (11/14). Listen in as they discuss obscure and unusual fetishes and practices related to BDSM activities. A few like trampling, macrophili...

Send us a text Master Nick and Lady Dee continue their discussion on why submissive submit. Part II focuses on structure, tasks and rejecting tasks from a submissives perspective. Then looks at topping from the bottom, why it may be necessary, how Master Nick appreciated this at the beginning of their relationship and why as a Dom sometimes paying attention to this will allow you to be a better dominant to that submissive. As always, in a D/s dynamic, open lines of communication is a requirem...

Send us a text In this episode Lady Dee and Master Nick explore the reasons submissives submit or, in some cases, choose not to submit. What both situations can tell you about the submissive and why Dom’s should pay attention when a task is not completed as it could have a greater implication than just forgetfulness. Master Nick questions why submissives might choose to not use a safe word even when justified or expected. Lady Dee then asks question everyone has been wondering about – did you...

Send us a text Master Nick and Lady Dee discuss their attendance at the Indiana Leather and Kink weekend in Indianapolis. Covering information on what Leather Clubs are, what classes and education they attended during the weekend, the vendors and products available at the event, as well as the dungeon play. Lady Dee and Master Nick explain how the class on clothespins and clamps led to an eye-opening purchase and experience for Lady Dee. They were both so thankful for the opportun...

Send us a text Master Nick and Lady Dee had a very traumatic three weeks following an automobile wreck that injured Lady Dee with a variety of fractured bones (ribs, knee, pelvis, and vertebrae). Taking this opportunity, they recorded an episode on when outside forces impact your D/s Dynamic. Lady Dee is back in her chair for The DOM Life podcast where she talks about what happened during the wreck as well as the aftermath including details about her injuries and recovery. Master Nick a...

Send us a text Get Ready for Kinktasia 2025 - Master Nick takes complete control over The DOM Life as Lady Dee was in time out due to health issues during the time sensitive interview with Sparkle Moonbeam, aka Shannon, from LiNK, Inc. discussing Kinktasia 2025. Shannon tells all, okay almost all, to The DOM Life on the plans in the works for Kinktasia in Louisville, KY and how it expanded to a 2-day event located at 2 different venues. She details out the Carnival night on Friday at Ar...

Send us a text Master Nick and Lady Dee take the final part of the interview with Sir Dancealot and Erratic Eros to a new level, digging deep into their kinky lives which include Shibari, open and poly relationships, performances, exhibitionism, voyeurism, birthday spankings, trust, sub-space, D/s relationships, outdoor kink and, of course, they circle back around to where it all began and where it will go for the upcoming 2025 Kinktasia scheduled cabaret performances. Join The DOM Life as la...

Send us a text Master Nick and Lady Dee are so excited to have the second performer from the Kinktasia 2024 Burlesque performance, Erratic Eros on the show. We take a step back in time to episode 16 where Master Nick and Lady Dee talk about the amazing performance from Sir Dancealot and Erratic Eros. The only thing about that episode, we didn't know them!!! After meeting Dan at a comedy event, he made sure to invite Eros to the interview so we could get to know him better. To our surprise, th...

Send us a text Master Nick is excited for this long-awaited episode where he and Lady Dee get to introduce Sir Dancealot, Dan, who performed at Kinktasia 2024. Lady Dee selected his burlesque performance as her favorite. In this episode of The Dom Life, Dan will fill you in on how and where to learn Burlesque dancing in the Louisville area. He discusses that in his mind he is at the French Vanilla level of kink and acknowledges that voyeurism and exhibitionism are areas that appeal to h...

Send us a text In Part 2, Master Nick and Lady Dee hear details on some of the national Spankos events including educational classes which have included soaping, strapping 101, negotiations, role playing and even rope. KentuckyGirl talks about an event called Court where there is a “Judge” and how to bring court cases against each other – fun cases. There is a schoolgirl social event for middles which is exactly as it sounds with attitude in a fun way, then there is Detention which was one of...

Send us a text In this Episode Master Nick and Lady Dee receive an education on Spankos. KentuckyGirl tells The DOM Life about some of the standard tools used as a Spanker to include hair brushes, spoons, belts, paddles, and don’t forget the ever-favorite - hands. She provides insight to the Spankos mentality and how it differs from BDSM. Lady Dee was surprised to hear that penetration was not necessary after a good spanking, in fact, it takes away from the experience for KentuckyGirl. ...

Send us a text Master Nick and Lady Dee discuss a common meeting set up by local kink and BDSM communities which are called a slosh or munch. Slosh is when alcohol is involved and it is typically at a bar, while a munch is at restaurants. This is an opportunity to meet other like-minded individuals at a safe, public space. In this episode, they discuss attending an LNK (Louisville Network of Kink) slosh called Cocktails and Conversations where they provide a breakdown of the event. They...

Send us a text As a result of the joke regarding Master Nick napping, he retaliates in this episode by leaving in Lady Dee’s moment of forgetfulness to show all listeners what it’s really like living with her. Still discussing Day 1 from the A Frayed Knot 3-day Self-Tying Summit, the final two classes with RedHoneyRopes and Dirt Queen were detailed out. RedHoneyRopes instructed the class on a chest harness as well as the Futomomo leg tie. Dirt Queen then provided the fundamentals of low...

Send us a text Master Nick wakes up from his nap and engages with Lilith, Mika and Lady Dee who finish the introduction of the Share Bears including how daddy issues, family issues and other trauma brought them into the kink world before moving onto the topic of the day – AFK 3-day Self-tying Summit. Together they walk through some of the classes from the first day before running out of time (again). Master Nick expresses his gratitude for the breakfast provided during the event. The fi...

Send us a text This episode of The Dom Life is almost a Lady Dee take over with Mika & Lilith as guests, while Master Nick is caught sleeping on the job. Lilith & Mika are queer platonic partners, who live life strongly in the kink and BDSM world. Lilith & Mika are both submissives, but Lilith is exploring her switch side. Lilith, a sadomasochist, can take a ton of pain and says she feels giddy at others pain; while Mika identifies as a little and a good girl with an affinity for ...

Send us a text After leaving you hanging last week from Master Nick's question, Sir Dante explains his reasoning for not using his dominance to end a relationship disagreement. Together they discuss what they feel are the best ways to solve miscommunication and misunderstanding while still being in a Dom/submissive relationship. Master Nick and Sir Dante discuss their past experiences with Dom Space but are still eager to learn more from others who can describe the feelings of it. They also t...

Send us a text Do you ever wonder what Dom’s discuss when they get together? It’s usually a wide range of topics with the hopes of expanding personal knowledge and understand different perspectives. A good Dom should always ask questions, gathering as much information as possible. Today, Master Nick and Sir Dante kick of the first episode of Dom Discussions. The discussion covers what makes a good Dom, what does a good Dom do in a BDSM scene which includes the prep, the buildup and immersing ...

Send us a text Master Nick and Lady Dee take a moment to discuss their new Social Media/Marketing Manager Jess, and improvements to The DOM Life podcast which include finding content, camera upgrades, and event attendance. They discuss the A Frayed Knot (AFK) 3-day self-tying summit’s five amazing rope performances which were split with 3 on Friday and 2 on Saturday night. While not a play-by-play, they discuss their thoughts, feeling and try to describe the performances by SnappedGinge...

Send us a text In Part 2, Lady Dee and Zorra spend a hot minute during The DOM Life podcast getting into their past BDSM relationships and the differences between each. They discuss how being in a 24/7 dynamic while in a relationship versus a purely D/S dynamic sometimes impacts the actual power exchange. Lady Dee opens up on how she failed as a full-time Dominant, while Zorra discusses how her contract with Sir Dante differentiates between sassing and bratting. Both Lady Dee and Zorra ...