🎧 The Ladies’ Play Den — Confidence, Consent & Knowing When to Walk Away
In this episode of The Ladies’ Play Den, Mrs. Doll and Bex sit down for a candid, unfiltered conversation about how women actually experience the lifestyle — the nerves, the confidence, the moments of doubt, and the importance of trusting your gut.
From first events and body confidence to nonverbal communication, consent, and knowing when to remove yourself from a situation, this episode focuses on real experiences and honest lessons learned — without pressure, performative expectations, or sugarcoating.
💬 In this episode:
• Learning to trust your gut in play spaces
• Nonverbal communication and reading the room
• Solo dynamics vs. couple dynamics
• Hard limits, soft boundaries, and personal comfort
• Body confidence, vulnerability, and showing up as yourself
• Knowing when to lean in — and when to walk away
If you’ve ever had questions, nerves, or feelings you didn’t know where to put, you’re welcome here.
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🎧 Inside the House Party: Who Gets Invited, Who Doesn’t, and Why
The Professor and Chuck D break down the real dynamics behind lifestyle house parties—how invitations actually work, what hosts consider when putting together a guest list, and why some nights take off while others stay quiet. They talk through comfort levels, personalities, room flow, and the unspoken social cues that shape the entire night.
From guest mix chemistry to unexpected moments, freak energy, shy energy, and how newbies influence the vibe, this conversation lays out what really makes a house party smooth, awkward, chaotic, or unforgettable.
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🎧 The O’Zone: Open Zone of Naughty Exploration (ft. Travis Ray)
The Professor and Chuck D welcome Travis Ray to introduce the O’Zone—a brand-new immersive experience mixing BDSM, kink, swingers, poly, performers, costumes, and big-club energy. With more than 20 years in the lifestyle and 23 years producing events, Travis breaks down why the O’Zone is a melting pot built for both newcomers and veteran kinksters.
From themed zones and four-stage performer setups to VIP balcony access, exclusive drinks, photo ops, and a CND-vetted guest list, the O’Zone aims to create a safe, high-energy, inclusive environment unlike anything else in the Twin Cities.
The O’Zone is a CND-sponsored event. Full details and ticketing will be available on CND, Eventbrite, and the official O’Zone groups on Facebook and Reddit.
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Hosts — The Professor & Chuck D
Guest — Travis Ray
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Music — Victoria
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🎧 The Ladies’ Play Den: What Women Wish Men Knew (Part 2)
Mrs. Doll and Bex return inside The Ladies’ Play Den with The Dean and Lindsay from Pleasure Alchemy for a deeper and more direct conversation about what women truly wish men understood in the lifestyle. From pressure and pacing to reading energy, approaching respectfully, navigating mismatched chemistry, and understanding consent beyond the surface level, this episode is honest, funny, and grounded in lived experience.
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Guests — The Dean & Lindsay (Pleasure Alchemy)
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Photography — Passionscapes
Music — Victoria
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🎧 The Ladies’ Play Den: Confidence, Nerves & the Secrets We Finally Say Out Loud (Part 1)
Season 4 opens inside The Ladies’ Play Den, where Mrs. Doll and Bex sit down with The Dean and Lindsay from Pleasure Alchemy for one of the most honest and relatable conversations we’ve recorded. From confidence highs to anxiety spirals, awkward moments, overthinking, attraction, emotional crashes, and real connection, this episode dives into the inner world of women navigating the lifestyle in all its messy, beautiful, human detail.
This episode ends mid-conversation — make sure you’re subscribed, because the discussion continues in Part 2 this Thursday.
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Music — Victoria
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🎧 Blue Pills, Dino Suits & the Halloween Sh*tshow — Part 2
This episode picks up right where Tuesday left off — The Professor, Chuck D, Mrs. Doll, and the Producer dive straight into the deep end with part two of the wildest Halloween takeover recap we’ve ever done.
We’re talking bedroom boosters, bad condoms, lingerie chaos, the truth behind “soft dick debriefings,” and why newbie swingers panic under pressure. Mrs. Doll joins the crew, Chuck D taps out for a nap, and the recap derails beautifully from there.
If you survived Halloween, you’ll laugh. If you missed it, you’ll understand why this one may go down as the most packed, chaotic, ridiculous, and unforgettable event in D&D history.
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🎧 Black Friday, Blue Pills & The Sex Worker Dilemma — The Down & Dirty Crew Gets Candid
The Professor, Chuck D, and the Down & Dirty Productions crew are back — and this episode goes off the rails in all the right ways. From planning the infamous Black Friday Mansion Lingerie Party to debating sex work ethics and bedroom boosters, this one has everything that makes the Down & Dirty Podcast what it is: raw, funny, and brutally honest.
Plus, the team revisits the wildest and worst venues they’ve ever hosted — from the legendary Riverwood Resort to the ill-fated White Bear Lake takeover — and serve up a few hard-won lessons for anyone navigating the lifestyle scene.
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🎧 Under the Bed, Behind the Lens — Loft Tales, Loyalty Tests & Lifestyle Lessons
The Down & Dirty crew goes on location — broadcasting live from a high-rise loft packed with cameras, cocktails, and chaos. Between photo flashes and a few wardrobe malfunctions, Mo, Chuck D, and guest Adam (“Soldier”) serve up one of the most unfiltered episodes yet.
It’s wild, hilarious, and unexpectedly wise — proof that even in the lifestyle, loyalty and boundaries matter as much as chemistry.
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Hosts — The Professor, Mrs. Doll, Chuck D
Guest — Adam (“Soldier”)
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Music — Victoria
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🎧 Bisexual Men in the Lifestyle — Boundaries, Desire & What Really Happens in Play (Pt. 2 w/ Lex & Dr. Dew)
In Part 2, the conversation shifts from identity to real-life encounters: boundaries, curiosity, chemistry, comfort levels, accidental contact, intentional play, and what actually happens when bisexual men navigate threesomes and group dynamics.
In this episode:
This episode completes the arc, offering clarity, education, and real experiences that help couples navigate bisexual curiosity and comfort with more honesty and less fear.
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🎧 Bisexual Men in the Lifestyle — Stigma, Curiosity & Coming Out (Pt. 1 w/ Lex & Dr. Dew)
In Part 1, The Professor and Mrs. Doll sit down with Lex and Dr. Dew for a vulnerable, honest conversation about what it means to be a bisexual man in the lifestyle. Labels, fear, curiosity, coming out inside a relationship—this is the emotional foundation that so many couples quietly navigate.
In this episode:
This episode lays the groundwork for Part 2, where the team dives into what bisexuality looks like during actual play.
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It’s your Halloween hotel-takeover crash course: costumes that actually work in crowded spaces, how to handle the 10:30 lingerie change without stress, and newbie survival tips that keep the weekend fun and consent-forward. The Professor, Mrs. Doll, and Chuck D share what to pack, how to pace, and how to plan your night so you make it through the main event and the after-party.
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Hosts — The Professor, Mrs. Doll, Chuck D
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🎃 Eye Candy Halloween Hotel Takeover Preview
The Professor, The Dean, and The Prince preview the Eye Candy Halloween Hotel Takeover at The Glow in Sioux Falls — featuring a Friday masquerade with a 10:30 lingerie change, Saturday pool party, room crawl, 8–1 main event, and upstairs after-party. They also recap Northern Invasion and discuss bar bottlenecks, updated host-hotel rates, and key newcomer PSAs: create a CouplesNextDoor profile to RSVP (free trial counts), book the host hotel to keep full takeovers viable, dress up, pack lingerie, pace drinks (especially at the pool and room crawl), and plan both nights. Producer David also plugs Caliente Latin Night at the Blue Saloon and the #Save2ndBase contest.
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Scarlet is back for Part 2 to go deeper on what happens when swinging collides with polyamory. From EMDR and brainspotting to jealousy, veto power, and talking with kids, this conversation is candid, practical, and very real.
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Dean’s Surprising Porn Tastes — Voyeurism, Wax, and Boundaries
What happens when your porn searches surprise even your closest friends? In this candid roundtable, the crew dives into unexpected categories, real-life voyeurism, and the awkward truth about grooming and boundaries. From Chuck D’s waxing confessions to washcloth debates and “never again” moments, nothing is off-limits in this laugh-out-loud community episode.
In the mix: porn categories that shocked the hosts, why voyeurism feels hotter than you think, anal play honesty, and the reminder that talking about boundaries and aftercare makes the fun better for everyone.
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The Professor recaps the White Party energy and looks ahead to a stacked fall: Sioux Falls’ Hoedown weekend, a new Minneapolis bar takeover on October 4, and the big one—WC Halloween—where we’ll record our first-ever live Down & Dirty podcast on-site.
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Recorded live at a pool party, the crew tackles a spicy audience question: are soft swap couples welcome—and what happens when jealousy shows up? The answer: these parties are appreciation first, not about who’s hooking up. From the difference between jealousy and envy to the real “are you good?” check-in, this micro episode keeps it raw, funny, and useful for anyone navigating the lifestyle together.
In the mix: soft swap etiquette, why honesty beats ego, a candid jealousy story from Chuck D, and the reminder that this is supposed to enhance your relationship—not replace it.
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Scarlet joins The Professor, Mrs. Doll, and Chuck D for a candid Part 1 on what happens when swinging collides with polyamory. From jealousy breakthroughs to therapy insights and parenting in open relationships, this episode brings real talk and practical takeaways you won’t hear anywhere else.
Series: This is Part 1 of 2. Don’t miss the conclusion in S3E18, airing October 7.
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The Professor and Chuck D face off on public play “points”: does joining the Mile High Club really score higher, or is two-woman in-seat action riskier (and hotter)? From movie theater tactics to afterparty burnout, orgy suite debates, and the line between soft and full swap — this 16-minute micro pulls no punches.
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🎧 The Phone Store Confession — How We Accidentally Recruited the Entire Staff (White Party Details Inside)
What starts as a simple broken phone turns into one of the funniest, most chaotic lifestyle stories we’ve ever told. From unintended exposure to accidental recruiting, this episode is a perfect mix of comedy, real-life awkwardness, and lifestyle curiosity.
Then the crew jumps into everything you need to know about the upcoming White Party takeover—outfits, energy, expectations, hotel layout, and why this event hits different.
In this episode:
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From Indecent Proposal to Eyes Wide Shut to the short-lived series Swingtown, the crew debates how Hollywood portrays swinging — and why it never matches the real thing. Along the way, they unpack ENM terms like “nesting partner,” joke about how quickly kids pick up on adult dynamics, and close with a brutally honest Would You Rather that only Chuck D would deliver.
This mini-episode keeps it fast, funny, and real: what TV gets wrong, what real life looks like, and how language, family, and boundaries actually play out in the lifestyle. If you’ve ever yelled at your screen during a “swinger” storyline, this one’s for you.
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Event Tie-In: Labor Day Pool Party — Aug 30, 2025 (planned live recording)