In this devastating episode, Charity takes listeners back to 1983 Griffin, Georgia—where racism, silence, and unchecked hatred converged to steal the life of 23-year-old Timothy Coggins. A charismatic, funny, deeply loved young Black man, Timothy was brutally tortured and murdered in an act of racial violence so horrific that it stunned even seasoned investigators. For decades, the truth was buried—covered up by fear, intimidation, missing evidence, and a system poisoned by white supremacy. But time did not erase Timothy’s story. His family refused to forget. And more than 30 years later, a new generation of investigators reopened the case, determined to finally confront the evil that had been allowed to fester in their own community. This episode exposes the brutality of the crime, the deep failures of the initial investigation, the racial terrorism inflicted on the Coggins family, and the relentless work that finally brought Timothy’s killers to justice.This is the story of a life stolen by hate—and a family who never stopped fighting for truth. Content Warning: Racism, hate crimes, torture, and graphic violence.   Episode Highlights Timothy’s life: a beloved, energetic 23-year-old from a tight-knit family known for kindness, loyalty, and community The discovery of his mutilated body in a field near the “Hanging Tree” Evidence showing Timothy had been chained to a truck and dragged, stabbed repeatedly, beaten, and left to die How even local authorities failed to recognize him due to the severity of the injuries The conversation earlier that night where Timothy mentioned he was dating a white woman—an act that enraged local racists Unease at the club: white men waiting outside, warnings ignored, and the moment Timothy was last seen Officer Jordan’s early investigation and how leads pointed to Frank Gebhardt and Bill Moore The sudden shutdown of the case by superiors—later tied to deputies with KKK affiliations Decades of terror directed at the Coggins family: threats, vandalism, intimidation, and violence 33 years of silence… until the case was reopened in 2017 Missing evidence from the original file, raising suspicions of deliberate obstruction Witnesses who finally came forward, sharing decades of confessions and racist bragging by Gebhardt The excavation of Gebhardt’s well using hydrovac technology—and the breakthrough discovery: Shoes matching what Timothy wore A bloodied, slashed shirt A broken knife believed to be the murder weapon Gebhardt’s long history of violence, racism, and bragging about Timothy’s murder Prosecutor Marie Broder’s powerful, emotion-driven approach to the case Testimonies from inmates, former neighbors, white supremacists, and even Gebhardt’s own circle The defense’s disturbing strategy of dismissing witnesses as “trash” The jury’s ultimate decision: Frank Gebhardt — Guilty on all counts. Life in prison. Billy Moore — Pleaded guilty. 20-year sentence. Charges brought against others who obstructed justice, including law enforcement The emotional interaction between Moore’s daughter and the Coggins family after the verdict Telisa Coggins’ powerful reflection on forgiveness and generational resilience The lasting impact of Timothy’s case on investigators, the prosecutor, and the community   Reflection Timothy Coggins was murdered because of the color of his skin and the hateful lies that racism breeds. His case forces us to confront an ugly truth: justice delayed is not just justice denied—it’s trauma prolonged. But Timothy’s family held on to hope, and when a new generation of investigators finally listened, the truth could no longer be buried.This story is a reminder that confronting racism isn’t optional. It’s necessary. And justice, even late, still matters.   Resources & References     How the Lynching of Timothy Coggins Was Finally Solved After 34 Years | GQ  How the racially-motivated cold case murder of young Black man was finally solved decades later - ABC News  The Ha

In this harrowing milestone episode, Charity unpacks one of the most shocking and heartbreaking cases to ever come through the foster care system—the murder of Lisa Knoefel, a dedicated social worker and loving mother, at the hands of the teen she brought into her home to protect. What began as an act of compassion—taking in 16-year-old Sabrina Zunich, a girl with a traumatic past and severe mental health struggles—quickly twisted into something unimaginable. Grooming. Manipulation. A secret relationship. And a murder-for-hire plot orchestrated by the one person Lisa should have been able to trust: her husband, Kevin Knoefel. Charity walks through Sabrina’s turbulent childhood, the psychological vulnerabilities that made her a target, the disturbing evolution of her relationship with Kevin, and the brutal 178-stab murder that shook Willoughby Hills, Ohio. This episode also highlights systemic failures in foster care, the red flags that were missed, and how a teenager in crisis was weaponized by a manipulative adult to destroy the very family trying to help her.   Episode Highlights Lisa Knoefel’s passion for protecting children—and how it tragically cost her life Sabrina’s childhood trauma: addiction, instability, neglect, and mental health struggles The foster care statistics behind placement instability and teen vulnerability How Sabrina initially thrived in the Knoefel home before the dynamic shifted Early red flags: accusations of favoritism, emotional distancing, and inappropriate closeness with Kevin The grooming trajectory: massages, sexual “jokes,” escalating boundaries, and Kevin planning a future with Sabrina Kevin’s manipulation: coercing Sabrina with threats of suicide, love-bombing, and promises of a life together The life insurance motive—$785,000—and the plan to stage a burglary The chilling details of the murder: 178 stab wounds and a bent knife Megan’s courageous 911 call and her attempt to stop the attack Kevin’s suspicious behavior after the murder—calm demeanor, insurance paperwork, visiting Sabrina in jail Sabrina’s eventual cooperation with police and the unraveling of the conspiracy Trial outcomes: Kevin Knoefel — Life in prison + 12 years Sabrina Zunich — Life with parole eligibility in 30 years The deep failures in foster care oversight and ignored warning signs Where the surviving daughters and key figures are now How a system meant to save Sabrina instead placed her in the worst possible home   Reflection Lisa Knoefel spent her life protecting children. She opened her home to a teenager who desperately needed safety. And she was betrayed by the system she trusted and the man she loved.This case is a devastating reminder:When red flags are ignored, vulnerable people pay the highest price. Resources & References   Daughter Gets Life in Foster Mom's Stabbing Death  Oxygen: Sabrina Zunich  State of Ohio Vs. Kevin Knoefel  $6.2 Million Awarded in Lisa Knoefel Murder Case  What You Need To Know About The Sabrina Zunich Case Ahead Of The Premiere Of 'Snapped: Behind Bars  The Tragic Murder of Lisa Knoefel  Relationship Details Revealed Between Husband, Foster Daughter  Lisa Knoefel Murder: How Did She Die? Who Killed Her?  Graphic Details of Woman’s Murder Come Out in Husband’s Trial  Man Manipulated Teenage Foster Daughter to Fatally Stab His Wife  Worth More Dead Than Alive  Sabrina Zunich Teen Killer Murders Foster Mother  'I Was Not Mentally There,' Woman Who Murdered Foster Mom at Foster Dad's Request Says in Prison Interview  40 Foster Children Statistics & Facts: 2025 Data  U.S. Foster Care Statistics 2025  What Impacts Placement Stability?  The Impact of Placement Stability on Behavioral Well-Being for Children in Foster Care      Sign up to be a Patron today! Get access to the Patron-Only Facebook Group, Bonus Episodes, and more.    https://www.escapepod.live    Do you have a story that you want to share with EscapePod? Or do you just want to reach out to us with your comme

In this chilling and emotionally heavy episode, Charity dives into the rare but deeply disturbing world of pregnancy abductions, fabricated pregnancies, and pregnancy denial. Sparked by a previous conversation with guest Vallen Webb, this episode examines how the intense psychological pull toward motherhood can lead to deception, violence, and—tragically—murder. With fewer than 40 documented fetal abduction cases worldwide, these crimes are rare, but their brutality is staggering. Charity breaks down the infamous cases of Lisa Montgomery and Darci Pierce—women who faked pregnancies and ultimately murdered to steal infants—as well as the heartbreaking case of Melissa “Prom Mom” Drexler, whose concealed pregnancy resulted in newborn death. We explore the psychology behind these crimes, what drives women into delusion or desperation, and how trauma, identity, fantasy, and social pressure can merge into catastrophic outcomes. While these cases are extreme, understanding them helps us better identify the red flags and protect vulnerable women and children. This is a difficult episode—but an important one.   Episode Highlights The primal, distorted drive for motherhood and the psychological fracture points that can trigger extreme behavior How fabricated pregnancies escalate into dangerous obsessions A breakdown of one of the most notorious fetal abduction cases: Lisa Montgomery & the murder of Bobbie Jo Stinnett (2004) The 1987 case of Darci Pierce, who murdered Cindy Ray after months of faking a pregnancy The devastating “Prom Mom” case involving Melissa Drexler and neonaticide Why these crimes happen: insights from forensic psychology How trauma, infertility, relationship instability, and identity wounds can fuel delusional pregnancy narratives Why these crimes are so rare—and what early warning signs may look like The societal expectations of womanhood and motherhood that can intensify psychological pressure A reminder that while understanding motivations isn’t excusing them, it can inform prevention Why curiosity can sometimes take you down roads you wish you never saw A call for awareness, empathy, and proactive intervention for women in psychological distress   If You or Someone You Know Needs Help National Domestic Violence Hotline — 1-800-799-SAFE• Text START to 88788• If someone is hiding a pregnancy, showing obsessive pregnancy behavior, or expressing desperation about motherhood, seek help immediately—these situations can escalate quickly.   Resources & References   The Fetal Snatcher: Desperate to Be a Mom  Murder of Bobbie Jo Stinnett  Executions Scheduled for Two Federal Inmates Convicted of Heinous Murders  Statement From the Family of Bobbie Jo Stinnett  Kansan Lisa Montgomery Executed for Killing a Pregnant Woman in 2004 and Stealing Baby  Court Documents in Stinnett Case  Lisa Montgomery: Looking for Answers in the Life of a Killer  'Prom Mom' Released from Prison  'Prom Mom' Case Recalled After Accusations Neptune Teen Killed Her Newborn  New Jersey Mom Accepts Plea Agreement  "Desperate for a Child: On a Muggy Summer Day, Darci Pierce Decided She Would Kill to Have a Baby"  Woman Found Guilty of Killing Pregnant Woman for Her Baby  Pregnant Woman Was Alive When Cut  A Teenaged Mother Gives Birth and Murders Her Baby at the Prom  Executions Scheduled for Two Federal Inmates Convicted of Heinous Murders  A Staged Pregnancy | Most Evil S3 E7 | discovery+  Desperate for a Child : On a Muggy Summer Day, Darci Pierce Decided She Would Kill to Have a Baby  Prom Mom Killers: The Impact of Blame Shift and Distorted Statistics on Punishment for Neonaticide    Sign up to be a Patron today! Get access to the Patron-Only Facebook Group, Bonus Episodes, and more.    https://www.escapepod.live    Do you have a story that you want to share with EscapePod? Or do you just want to reach out to us with your comments and thoughts?   General mail: justbecause@escapepod.live   Submit listener stories: escape

In this episode of The Escape Pod, we confront a sobering truth: the legal shield meant to protect victims of domestic violence can sometimes be little more than paper. Protection orders—also called restraining orders—are often hailed as a first line of defense, but as we’ll hear in today’s stories, their promises of safety are not always enough. Through real cases, data, and expert insights, we explore the deadly gaps in enforcement, the scenarios where orders fail, and the ways the system could evolve to truly safeguard those at risk.   Inside This Episode The Promise and Limitations of Protection Orders Protection orders are court-issued documents intended to keep abusers away from victims, sometimes requiring surrender of weapons and forbidding contact. They can provide relief—but only when they are enforced. Studies show 10–12% of female intimate partner homicide victims had active protection orders at the time of their deaths. Globally, the UN reports that 51,100 women and girls were killed by intimate partners or family members in 2023, revealing the lethal stakes when safety measures fail.   Stories That Highlight the Danger We dive into the harrowing cases of women whose protection orders weren’t enough: Shirley Lowery (1992, Chicago) – Ambushed and killed in a courthouse hallway by her ex-partner before her order could even be served. Tammie Marie Davis (1990, Southern California) – Shot and killed by her ex despite an active restraining order. Donna Montgomery (1995, Indiana) – Murdered at her workplace by her estranged husband shortly after securing an order. Theresa Bender (1993) – Killed by her husband the moment a temporary no-contact order expired. Maria Navarro (1989) – Despite an active order and multiple 911 calls, her abuser killed her, two aunts, and a friend. Betsy Murray – Her husband violated a temporary restraining order 13 times before ultimately killing her. These stories show a stark reality: orders can fail due to poor enforcement, abuser defiance, or gaps in protective measures.   When Orders Escalate Danger Filing a protection order can sometimes provoke abusers, especially in cases involving firearms, stalking, or past severe violence. Research shows that violations often spike shortly after issuance—turning a legal tool into a potential trigger. Risk is especially high where abusers have history of ignoring authority, access to guns, substance abuse, or rural isolation.   When Protection Orders Work Protection orders are most effective when: The abuser respects the law or fears consequences. They are paired with firearm removal laws (e.g., Lautenberg Amendment). There is strong enforcement, community support, and safety planning (locks, workplace alerts, apps for emergencies). Orders are not a standalone solution, but part of a broader safety strategy.   The Bigger Picture While protective orders save lives and reduce costs—NNEDV notes $85 million in savings in Kentucky alone—they are far from foolproof. Survivors and advocates stress that orders must be enforced consistently and combined with resources like shelters, monitoring, and risk assessments. The takeaway is clear: paper protections are only as strong as the teeth behind them.   Key Takeaways Protection orders save lives but are not infallible. Enforcement gaps and abuser defiance are persistent risks. Filing an order can escalate violence in high-risk cases. Effective safety requires a comprehensive approach—legal, practical, and social. Survivors should always consult an advocate before pursuing an order. If you are in danger, reach out to the National Domestic Violence Hotline at 1-800-799-SAFE or text “START” to 88788. RESOURCES:   Femicides in 2023  Woman Slain; Suspect Sets Himself Afire  Husband Kills Wife at Work, Himself  Despite Escorts, Woman Slain by Stalker Husband  Four Shot, Killed After 911 Call Fails to Summon Police  Court Orders in Abuse Cases often Fail to Deter Violence  Operation for Hope Reminds

In today’s episode, we dive into the disturbing intersection of digital obsession, parasocial relationships, online sex work, addiction, and the psychological phenomenon known as hybristophilia—the attraction to criminals. Few cases capture this toxic blend more clearly than the story of Grant Amato, a Florida man who murdered his entire family in 2019 to continue funding a fantasy relationship with a cam model. This case is a haunting example of how unchecked obsession, entitlement, and delusion can escalate into catastrophic violence.   Inside This Episode We walk through: The Amato Family Background Grant, the youngest son of Chad and Margaret Amato, grew up in a stable, financially comfortable household in Chuluota, Florida. Deeply enmeshed family dynamics shaped his early life, with Grant relying heavily on his brother Cody—his closest companion and “favorite person in the world.” Despite privilege and opportunity, Grant struggled to maintain employment and responsibility.   The First Cracks Grant was dismissed from his nurse anesthetist program after a heated argument stemming from a medical error. He later lost a nursing job after drugging patients with propofol to make his night shifts “easier.” After his arrest and job loss, Grant spiraled into isolation—turning to the internet to escape reality.   Digital Desire: The Parasocial Obsession Begins While attempting to become a Twitch streamer, Grant discovered com and became fixated on a Bulgarian cam model named Silvie. He believed he was in a real romantic relationship with her. Grant spent over $200,000 on Silvie—almost all of it stolen from his parents, brother, and aunt through fraud, stolen debit cards, and opened credit lines. Despite the betrayal, his family refused to press charges and tried relentlessly to support him. Intervention, Collapse, and Escape After repeated theft, the family staged an intervention and took Grant to a treatment facility for depression and sex/internet addiction. His father revealed the truth to Silvie, who cut contact with Grant. Margaret smuggled Grant a phone so he could continue talking to Silvie while in treatment. Less than two weeks later, he left the program, returned home, and was given a strict list of rules. January 24, 2019: The Murders Feeling cornered and unwilling to face consequences, Grant murdered: Margaret, shot in the back of the head Chad, shot twice upon returning home Cody, lured into the house with a text sent from their father’s phone He staged the crime scene to resemble a murder-suicide and immediately used public WiFi to reconnect with Silvie using Cody’s bank account. Two of Cody’s coworkers requested welfare checks, leading deputies to the home. The Investigation Grant showed no emotion during questioning and never asked about his family’s condition. Provided contradictory stories and attempted to blame his father. Forensic evidence—including a thumb drive connected after the murders—tied Grant to the crime. The murder weapon was never found. He was convicted in August 2019 and sentenced to life without parole. Hybristophilia & The Women Who Love Killers While in prison: Grant received love letters and formed new parasocial relationships. He even managed to send thousands of dollars to another woman. After the docuseries Control + Alt + Desire aired, another shocking relationship surfaced: The Victoria Goodwin Murder-For-Hire Plot Victoria Goodwin, wife of Ghost Adventures star Aaron Goodwin, began writing to Grant. Their pen-pal exchanges morphed into a romantic affair. Using a contraband phone, they conspired to hire a hitman to kill her husband. She set aside $11,515 and provided schedules, vehicle info, and details. The plot was exposed when prison staff discovered Grant’s phone. Victoria pled guilty to conspiracy to commit murder in April 2025. Why Does This Happen? Understanding Hybristophilia We break down the psychology behind why some women fall in love with viole

Episode Summary  In Part 2 of our deep dive into the Idaho College Student Murders, we turn the focus to the man behind the crime: Bryan Kohberger. This episode explores his past—childhood, adolescence, addiction, mental health struggles, academic obsessions, interpersonal dynamics, and online behaviors—in an attempt to understand what could have driven such calculated brutality.  While no psychological profile can ever justify violence, examining Kohberger’s history helps us piece together the factors that may have shaped his worldview, his anger, and his disturbing pursuit of dominance. From addiction and bullying, to narcissistic traits, misogynistic behavior, and his fixation on criminology, we analyze what is known, what has been theorized, and what remains unsettlingly unclear.  This is not about excusing a murderer—it’s about understanding the intersection of trauma, ego, rejection, and obsession that may have fueled one of the most chilling crimes in recent history.    What We Cover in This Episode  The defense’s attempts to delay trial and build a mitigation case  Claims of autism spectrum disorder, OCD, ADHD, and visual snow syndrome  Kohberger’s teenage addiction to heroin and repeated rehab attempts  His rapid weight loss, subsequent eating disorder, and shift into bullying  Rumors of a childhood car accident and potential trauma  His transition from struggling student to aspiring criminologist  Why classmates describe him as “alpha,” controlling, and socially aggressive  The defense’s challenges to DNA evidence and alternate-suspect theories  Online speculation about motive—revenge, misogyny, narcissism, incel ideology, or the pursuit of the “perfect crime”  Why many believe Madison Mogen was the intended target  Possible sexual motivation linked to digital history  Theories involving his criminology professor and desire for recognition  Why his guilty plea matters for victims’ families and the surviving roommates  His July 2025 sentencing: life in prison    Key Themes & Insights  Narcissism & Dominance Former classmates repeatedly described Kohberger as someone who needed to be seen as superior—physically, intellectually, socially. His behavior aligns with traits often associated with narcissism: entitlement, resentment, lack of empathy, and obsession with power.  Misogyny & Rejection Multiple sources reported female peers felt uncomfortable or unsafe around him. Combined with past disciplinary issues and online behavior, misogyny may have been a significant driving force.  Addiction, Trauma & Identity Heroin addiction, rapid weight loss, hospitalization for an eating disorder, and social ostracization created a volatile mix of insecurity and rage. But millions experience trauma without turning violent. Kohberger’s choices were his own.  Academic Obsession Meets Dark Curiosity His graduate studies on how criminals choose victims—and how they feel afterward—cast a long, disturbing shadow. Was he studying crime, or preparing for one?  Motive Will Never Be Simple Revenge? Sexual fantasy? A desire for control? A failed attempt at committing the “perfect crime”? There is evidence pointing to each, but no single explanation can capture the complexity—or the horror—of his actions.    Resources & Sources Referenced  Bryan Kohberger Prosecutor Reveals Chilling Step-by-Step Account of Murderer’s Blood-lust Killings of 4 Idaho Students   NBC News: Bryan Kohberger Pleads Guilty at Hearing in Idaho College Student Murders   Four The Independent: Four Slain Students, a Weeks-long Manhunt But No Motive - Everything We Know About the Idaho Murders   Reddit: Kohberger’s 2 Main Murder Motives   New York Post: Bryan Kohberger Was an ‘Alpha’ Bully Who ‘Always Wanted to Be Dominant’   New Details of Bryan Kohberger's Addiction Battle and Dark Past Revealed in Idaho Murder Filings   ABC News 7: Bryan Kohberger, Idaho Murders suspect, First Arrested in 2014, Rec

Episode Summary: In November 2022, the quiet college town of Moscow, Idaho was shaken by the brutal murders of four University of Idaho students. In Part 1 of this two-part series, we break down the timeline of the night, the discovery of the crime, and the investigative work that led authorities to their prime suspect: Bryan Kohberger. From chilling behavioral patterns to cutting-edge DNA genealogy, this case is a haunting blend of horror and forensic breakthrough.    What We Cover in This Episode  A walkthrough of the victims' final hours  How surviving roommates unintentionally crossed paths with the killer  Confusing and conflicting early eyewitness accounts  What police found at the crime scene  How a single piece of DNA on a knife sheath cracked the case  The role of investigative genetic genealogy  The search for a white Hyundai Elantra and its connection to Kohberger  His digital footprints: cell phone pings, surveillance video, and online behavior  His criminology background and alarming behavioral patterns  How investigators closed in during the holidays  Kohberger’s guilty plea and what it means for sentencing  The University of Idaho’s response and honoring of the victims    Key Takeaways  This case quickly became one of the most closely watched investigations in the country.  A combination of digital forensics, genealogy databases, surveillance footage, and behavioral profiling led to an arrest.  Kohberger’s academic focus on criminology created disturbing layers of irony in the case.  The surviving roommates’ conflicting memories highlight the trauma and chaos of the event.  The victims—Madison, Kaylee, Xana, and Ethan—were honored with posthumous degrees, and the home where the murders occurred has since been demolished.    Resources & Sources Referenced     Bryan Kohberger Prosecutor Reveals Chilling Step-by-Step Account of Murderer’s Blood-lust Killings of 4 Idaho Students   NBC News: Bryan Kohberger Pleads Guilty at Hearing in Idaho College Student Murders   Four The Independent: Four Slain Students, a Weeks-long Manhunt But No Motive - Everything We Know About the Idaho Murders   Reddit: Kohberger’s 2 Main Murder Motives   New York Post: Bryan Kohberger Was an ‘Alpha’ Bully Who ‘Always Wanted to Be Dominant’   New Details of Bryan Kohberger's Addiction Battle and Dark Past Revealed in Idaho Murder Filings   ABC News 7: Bryan Kohberger, Idaho Murders suspect, First Arrested in 2014, Records Show   How a Family Tree and DNA Identified Idaho Murder Suspect Bryan Kohberger   Idaho Murders Suspect Bryan Kohberger 'Could Walk Free' Due To Bombshell DNA Evidence   Here’s How Bryan Kohberger Got Caught for Idaho Murders   Wikipedia—More Misogyny?   Bryan Kohberger Fired from WSU Teaching Job Days Before Idaho Murders Arrest   Idaho Murder Trial Judge to Allow ‘Bushy Eyebrows’ Testimony   Newly Released Texts and 911 Call Transcript from Surviving Roommates Reveal Panic and Terror   Surviving Roommates Dylan Mortenson and Bethany Funke Call 911   BRYAN KOHBERGER PLEADS GUILTY, His Killings Mapped by a Forensics Expert | Murder Maps | Daily Mail   Theory on Bryan Kohberger’s Motive   Reddit: More Motive Theory   Bryan Kohberger Motive Allegedly Tied to Former Professor   Bryan Kohberger's Defense Submits Theory of Alternate Perpetrator in Idaho Murders     If You or Someone You Know Is Struggling  This episode deals with traumatic and violent content. If you need support, please reach out to trusted mental health resources or crisis hotlines in your area.    Connect With Us  If you have thoughts, theories, or questions about this case, message us on social or email the show. Stay tuned for Part 2, where we dive into motive theories, defense strategies, psychological background, and unanswered questions that still linger.  Sign up to be a Patron today! Get access to the Patron-Only Facebook Group, Bonus Episodes, and more.      https://www.escapepod.live      Do you hav

Guest: Seth Malott, Host of Sober CityTheme: Sobriety, Recovery, and the Power of Honest Conversations Show Summary:In this powerful episode of The Escape Pod, hosts Charity and KB sit down with Seth Malott, the voice behind the Sober City podcast, to unpack what it really means to live beyond addiction. Seth shares his own story of recovery, the inspiration behind Sober City, and the raw truths he’s learned from others walking the same road. Together, they dive into the misconceptions about alcoholism, the impact of America’s growing “sober curious” movement, and the hope that comes when people start telling the truth—out loud. Whether you’re in recovery, love someone who is, or simply want to understand the human side of addiction, this conversation offers both compassion and clarity. It’s a reminder that healing isn’t linear—but it is possible.   Episode Highlights The origin story of Sober City and how storytelling builds community in recovery Seth’s most memorable guest moments—and what they taught him about resilience Common myths about addiction and why shame still silences so many The hidden epidemic of alcohol use disorder in America—and what we can do about it Why the “sober curious” movement is gaining traction Three practical steps for anyone beginning their own sobriety journey Takeaway Addiction thrives in silence. Conversations like this one remind us that recovery grows in connection. Resources & References   Sober City podcast     Sign up to be a Patron today! Get access to the Patron-Only Facebook Group, Bonus Episodes, and more.    https://www.escapepod.live    Do you have a story that you want to share with EscapePod? Or do you just want to reach out to us with your comments and thoughts?   General mail: justbecause@escapepod.live   Submit listener stories: escapeartist@escapepod.live    On Social Media   Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/EscapePod.traumedy   Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/escape_pod_podcast/   YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@Escape_Pod_podcast/videos    Subscribe and listen now- https://linktr.ee/escapepod57701   

Theme: Ethical Dilemmas, Digital Boundaries, and Everyday Chaos Show Summary:In this episode of The Escape Pod, Charity and KB dive into one of the internet’s most brutally honest corners—Reddit’s Am I the A-hole? From overbearing parents and Life360 tracking to messy family drama and relationship double standards, we’re unpacking the moral gray areas that make us all human.You’ll laugh, cringe, and maybe even question your own inner A-hole as we explore how everyday choices—big and small—shape relationships, trust, and personal boundaries. Because sometimes, escaping isn’t about leaving the drama behind… it’s about finally seeing it for what it is.   Episode Highlights: Life360 and Parental Control: How much digital monitoring is too much when your “baby” goes to college? Boundaries vs. Tradition: Should you change a long-standing party plan to fit a new partner’s expectations? Neighborhood Drama: When “mind your own business” becomes fighting words. Family Feuds: The fine line between truth-telling and cruelty in sibling rivalries. Wedding Wars: Who gets the final say when family boundaries clash with love and loyalty? Bonus Chaos: Can “I’m sorry to hear that” really make you the bad guy?   Key Takeaways: The AITA threads reveal how messy modern relationships have become in the digital age. Technology has blurred the line between connection and control. Emotional boundaries matter as much as moral ones—and sometimes even more. No one’s perfect, but accountability starts with honesty (and maybe a little self-awareness).   🎧 Tune In If You Love: True stories that spark debate Moral gray areas and internet drama Real talk about modern relationships Humor with a side of heart Resources & References   Reddit.com   Go to AmItheAsshole  r/AmItheAsshole•     Sign up to be a Patron today! Get access to the Patron-Only Facebook Group, Bonus Episodes, and more.    https://www.escapepod.live    Do you have a story that you want to share with EscapePod? Or do you just want to reach out to us with your comments and thoughts?   General mail: justbecause@escapepod.live   Submit listener stories: escapeartist@escapepod.live    On Social Media   Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/EscapePod.traumedy   Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/escape_pod_podcast/   YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@Escape_Pod_podcast/videos    Subscribe and listen now- https://linktr.ee/escapepod57701         

Escape Pod After Dark: Ghost Stories (Haunted Tech, Time-Travel Ghosts & Shadows at the Door) Ep. 92 Drop Date: 10/29/2025    Summary of Episode It’s Halloween 2025, and the Escape Pod goes After Dark.From haunted laptops and glitchy Canva screens to OneHeart staff members setting off EMF detectors under their desks (yes, seriously), this year’s special blurs the line between the digital and the supernatural.You’ll also hear some of Reddit’s most chilling listener encounters — a mother and daughter’s ghostly time loop, a woman who might’ve seen her future self, and a flat haunted by the footsteps of someone who refuses to leave. So grab your flashlight, your blanket, and maybe… unplug your laptop. Welcome to The Escape Pod: Halloween 2025 — Episode 92.   Episode Highlights OneHeart office hauntings: laptops acting up, EMF spikes, and screens typing on their own. Reddit Story #1 – “So, was I the Ghost?”: A mother and daughter realize they may have met each other decades before one was even born. Reddit Story #2 – “I Think I Was My Own Ghost”: A hilarious and chilling reflection on bad hair days and possible time travel. Reddit Story #3 – “Still Haunts Me Today”: A student flat in Leeds where something unseen walks the halls… and then lies down to listen. Nicole, Kate & Susie share real-life creepy happenings at OneHeart HQ. Traumedy takeaway: Sometimes our ghosts are just echoes — of stress, trauma, or our own unfinished stories. Resources & References   Reddit.com   Sign up to be a Patron today! Get access to the Patron-Only Facebook Group, Bonus Episodes, and more.    https://www.escapepod.live    Do you have a story that you want to share with EscapePod? Or do you just want to reach out to us with your comments and thoughts?   General mail: justbecause@escapepod.live   Submit listener stories: escapeartist@escapepod.live    On Social Media   Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/EscapePod.traumedy   Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/escape_pod_podcast/   YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@Escape_Pod_podcast/videos    Subscribe and listen now- https://linktr.ee/escapepod57701 

Navigating Loss and Embracing Hope — A Conversation with Vallen Webb on Pregnancy, Grief, and Motherhood - Ep. 91 In this powerful and tender episode of The Escape Pod, Charity and KB sit down with Vallen Webb — a mother, creative, and deeply reflective soul — to share her story of losing her daughter, Evelyn, at birth, and what it means to live with both love and loss intertwined. Vallen opens up about the joy of expecting her third child, the heartbreak that followed, and the quiet strength it takes to keep going when the world looks completely different. With raw honesty and openness, she shares how grief reshaped her understanding of motherhood, connection, and what it means to find hope again — not in forgetting, but in remembering with love.   Together, they talk about: The unseen realities of pregnancy and infant loss. The emotional complexity of mothering children both here and gone. How grief changes relationships, identity, and perspective. Why healing is not linear — and how small moments of beauty can still appear in the midst of pain. The power of sharing your story so others know they aren’t alone. This conversation is a safe, compassionate space for anyone navigating loss or holding space for someone who is. Through Vallen’s words, we’re reminded that grief isn’t something to “get over” — it’s something we learn to live with, and even grow from. Resources & References   evelynjamesandco.com The Pregnancy Loss and Motherhood Podcast         Sign up to be a Patron today! Get access to the Patron-Only Facebook Group, Bonus Episodes, and more.    https://www.escapepod.live    Do you have a story that you want to share with EscapePod? Or do you just want to reach out to us with your comments and thoughts?   General mail: justbecause@escapepod.live   Submit listener stories: escapeartist@escapepod.live    On Social Media   Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/EscapePod.traumedy   Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/escape_pod_podcast/   YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@Escape_Pod_podcast/videos    Subscribe and listen now- https://linktr.ee/escapepod57701   

Cellphones. We all have them—and most of us can’t live without them. But could these pocket-sized lifelines actually be quietly sabotaging the next generation’s ability to focus, learn, and succeed? In this eye-opening episode of EscapePod, hosts Charity and KB dig into the growing crisis of smartphone distraction in schools with returning guest Lieutenant Tim Doyle, who spent seven years as a school resource officer. Together, they uncover startling statistics, real-world classroom experiences, and the complex tug-of-war between connection and chaos that phones bring to the modern classroom. From academic decline to rising anxiety rates, this conversation dives deep into the data and dilemmas facing teachers, parents, and students today—and explores how we can help the next generation escape the endless scroll and reclaim their attention.   Episode Highlights & Takeaways The Scale of the Problem 97% of students aged 11–17 use their phones during the school day (Pew Research, 2024). Median in-school phone time: 43 minutes daily, with some students using their phones up to 6½ hours during class time. 72% of high school teachers and one-third of middle school teachers say smartphone distraction is a major problem. Even elementary classrooms are seeing the effects—6% of teachers report regular disruptions from phones among kids as young as five.   Academic Fallout: The Hard Data Students without phones in class score 13–20% higher on exams. Over half (53%) of school leaders say phone use is hurting grades and learning outcomes. Just having a phone nearby—even powered off—can reduce comprehension and focus. The digital divide is widening: students with fewer resources are often hit hardest by these distractions.   The Mental Health Connection Teens with high smartphone use are 2× more likely to experience anxiety and 3× more likely to face depression. Studies from Columbia University link excessive screen time to poor sleep, stress, and self-esteem struggles. A troubling loop emerges: teens feeling down reach for their phones to cope, which often makes symptoms worse. Gender differences exist—problematic use affects 76% of female and 63% of male college students (2024 study).   Guest Spotlight: Lt. Tim Doyle Former school resource officer Tim Doyle shares firsthand stories from his years in the classroom trenches.Key discussion points include: How student behavior and attention have shifted since smartphones became the norm. What’s working—and what’s not—with school cellphone policies. How to gain student “buy-in” for phone-free classrooms. Strategies for balancing safety, connection, and focus.   The Teacher’s Dilemma Educators face a nearly impossible challenge: competing with devices built by behavioral scientists to capture attention.As one teacher put it: “How am I supposed to make the Krebs cycle more interesting than TikTok?” 92% of teachers report smartphone-related disruptions every day. Teachers describe constant multitasking, divided attention, and emotional burnout trying to keep students engaged.   Policy Moves: States Step In As of September 2024, 27 U.S. states have taken action on cellphone use in classrooms. 6 states: pilot programs or recommendations 14 states: statewide legislation in progress Several more: bills under review This shift represents a growing recognition that phone distraction is not just a school issue—it’s a public health concern.   The Bigger Picture: A Generation in Digital Distress Experts like Jean Twenge (Generations, iGen) point to smartphones and social media as major contributors to rising teen depression, loneliness, and self-harm. Cyberbullying remains widespread, and while phone bans can reduce online drama, bullying often persists offline. The connection between digital overload and mental health is no longer anecdotal—it’s statistically undeniable.   Solutions on the Horizon When phones are physically removed from classrooms (not just turned off), st

What happens when two minds fracture in perfect sync? In this chilling episode of EscapePod, Charity and Karabeth unravel the haunting true story of Ursula and Sabina Eriksson—identical twins whose shared descent into psychosis became one of psychology’s most baffling mysteries. From their ordinary beginnings in Sweden to their shocking rampage on a British motorway, this episode explores the rare psychiatric phenomenon known as folie à deux, or “madness shared by two.” How could two people mirror each other’s delusions so completely—leaping into traffic, surviving near-death, and ultimately leaving tragedy in their wake? Join us as we dive deep into the science and psychology behind shared psychosis, twin connection, and the eerie boundary between mental illness and the supernatural.   Episode Highlights & Takeaways The Case The Eriksson Twins — Ursula and Sabina, identical twins from Sweden, lived ordinary lives until May 2008, when they vanished from Ireland and reappeared in England behaving erratically. Motorway Madness — On the M6 motorway, both women ran into oncoming traffic in full view of police and a BBC film crew. Ursula was struck by a truck; Sabina by a car—both miraculously survived. Bizarre Behavior — Despite severe injuries, they fought off rescuers, screamed that people weren’t real, and accused strangers of trying to steal their organs. Tragic Aftermath — Within 48 hours of being released from custody, Sabina fatally stabbed a man who had offered her kindness and shelter, then leapt off a bridge during her escape. The Diagnosis — Psychiatrists identified folie à deux, where a delusion is shared between two closely connected people—one the “primary” inducer, the other the “secondary” believer.   Understanding Folie à Deux Definition: A rare psychiatric syndrome in which a delusional belief is transmitted from one individual to another—often between close relatives or partners. Common Traits: Social isolation, intense emotional bonds, and a dominant/submissive dynamic. Symptoms: Paranoid delusions (persecution, bodily theft, impersonation) and disconnection from reality. Treatment: Separation of the pair, antipsychotic medication, and psychotherapy to rebuild individual reality testing.   The Psychological and Ethical Questions What role does isolation—and the unique twin bond—play in shared psychosis? Why did neither sister test positive for drugs or alcohol? How can delusion seem so real that it overrides survival instinct? Should Sabina have been released from custody so soon after the motorway incident?   Mind, Madness, and Connection This story forces us to confront uncomfortable truths about mental illness, empathy, and identity. When two people share one distorted worldview, it blurs the line between compassion and contagion. Could this “shared madness” be a window into the deep, unspoken link between twins—or simply the tragic result of untreated psychosis?   Episode Takeaway Folie à deux reminds us how fragile the human mind can be—and how easily fear, stress, and emotional connection can twist our perception of truth. It’s a chilling example of how two people can lose themselves inside a single, shared delusion… with deadly consequences.   Resources & References   BBC Documentary: Madness in the Fast Lane  The Twins Who Shared Psychosis  Shared Psychotic Disorder  Shared Psychotic Disorder-2  Ursula and Sabina Eriksson  Madness on the Highway: The Eriksson Sisters' Descent Into Psychosis  r/Unsolved Mysteries: What Was Wrong With the Eriksson Twins?  Twins Ran onto M6 Before One Stabbed Innocent Man to Death  The Story of Sabina and Ursula Eriksson, Identical Twins Who Caused Chaos on M6  Folie à Deux – The Bizarre Tale of Sabina and Ursula Eriksson          Sign up to be a Patron today! Get access to the Patron-Only Facebook Group, Bonus Episodes, and more.    https://www.escapepod.live    Do you have a story that you want to share with EscapePod? Or do you just want to rea

What if your attention wasn’t really your own? In this episode of EscapePod, Charity and Karabeth uncover how algorithms quietly hijack our focus, emotions, and even beliefs. From endless scrolling to the rise of deep fakes, we dive into how AI-driven platforms shape what we see, how we feel, and what we believe—often without us realizing it. But here’s the good news: you can fight back. We’ll share practical strategies for reclaiming your attention, protecting your mental health, and teaching yourself (and your family) the digital literacy skills needed to outsmart the algorithm. Whether you’ve lost hours to dog videos, doomscrolling, or rage-clicking, this episode gives you the tools to escape algorithmic hijacking and take back control of your feed—and your brain.     Highlights Include:  Algorithmic Hijacking Defined: AI-driven platforms curate your feed to trigger emotional reactions—fear, outrage, envy—to keep you scrolling. The Attention Economy: Our focus = their profit. Platforms earn billions while users pay with mental health, time, and trust. Mental Health Impact: Research links algorithm exposure to increases in anxiety, depression, poor sleep, stress, and polarization. The Deepfake Problem: Incidents jumped 19% in early 2025, leading to fraud, cyberbullying, and plummeting trust in media. Real-World Harm: Algorithms have played roles in radicalization and violent events, showing this isn’t just an “online problem.” Brain Science: Dopamine hits from scrolling mimic addiction patterns—rewiring focus, decision-making, and even impulse control. Teens & Social Media: 93–97% of teens are online daily, making them especially vulnerable to comparison culture, FOMO, and misinformation. Digital Self-Defense Tips: Pause before reacting. Check your sources. Curate your feed (unfollow/mute). Diversify your information diet. Practice emotional awareness. Try time limits, detox breaks, and mindful use. Resources & Links     Social Media Algorithms and Mental Health  Social Media Algorithms and Teen Addiction  Social Media’s Impact on Our Mental Health  Mental Health America Issues New Report On Social Media And Youth Mental Health  The Impact of Social Media on Mental Health: What We Know — And What We’re Learning  Social Media, Mental Health and Body Image  Smartphones, Social Media, and Their Impact on Mental Health      Sign up to be a Patron today! Get access to the Patron-Only Facebook Group, Bonus Episodes, and more.    https://www.escapepod.live    Do you have a story that you want to share with EscapePod? Or do you just want to reach out to us with your comments and thoughts?   General mail: justbecause@escapepod.live   Submit listener stories: escapeartist@escapepod.live    On Social Media   Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/EscapePod.traumedy   Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/escape_pod_podcast/   YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@Escape_Pod_podcast/videos    Subscribe and listen now- https://linktr.ee/escapepod57701     

Eligio Bishop’s journey from Harlem street kid to self-proclaimed messiah is a story of charisma, control, and destruction. Preaching a return to nature and freedom from systemic oppression, he built Carbon Nation—a cult that promised community but delivered manipulation, violence, and abuse. From livestreams that drew thousands of followers to brutal assaults, deportations, and tragic deaths, Bishop’s reign as “Natureboy” spiraled into coercion and exploitation. Survivors recount the dark reality behind the glossy YouTube façade—financial control, sexual abuse, and public beatings masquerading as “shadow work.” In 2024, Bishop was convicted of rape and false imprisonment, sentenced to life without parole. But his loyalists still defend him, and his story raises chilling questions: Why do people fall for destructive leaders? And what does it take to escape?   Highlights Include:  Eligio Bishop’s troubled childhood, crimes, and early manipulations His rise on YouTube as “Natureboy,” preaching melanin power & natural living Formation of Carbon Nation: communal living, polyamory, and livestream drama Violence, abuse, and tragedy within the cult—including deaths and deportations The 2022 rape charges and explosive 2024 trial that ended his freedom How charisma, community, and crisis draw people into cults What survivors face when escaping—and resources that can help Resources & Links     Alleged Cult Leader Convicted of Raping Former Cult Member  Who is Natureboy? 'Cult' leader says Kayla Reid can leave at any time  Eco-Radical, Singer, Criminal, Cult Leader: Inside Carbon Nation  Cult expert, former group members testify at rape trial of accused cult leader Eligio Bishop  Watch | Judge gives 'Natureboy' his sentence after guilty verdict on rape charge  Bishop’s Wife Speaks Out About Abuse  Accused cult leader convicted of all counts, including rape, DeKalb County District Attorney’s office says  Members of Carbon Nation Cult Thrown out of Costa Rica/Nicaragua and Panama      Sign up to be a Patron today! Get access to the Patron-Only Facebook Group, Bonus Episodes, and more.    https://www.escapepod.live    Do you have a story that you want to share with EscapePod? Or do you just want to reach out to us with your comments and thoughts?   General mail: justbecause@escapepod.live   Submit listener stories: escapeartist@escapepod.live    On Social Media   Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/EscapePod.traumedy   Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/escape_pod_podcast/   YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@Escape_Pod_podcast/videos    Subscribe and listen now- https://linktr.ee/escapepod57701   

Summary of Episode Delta-8 THC is being marketed as a legal, “safer” alternative to marijuana—but what’s really inside those gummies, vapes, and oils? In this episode of The Escape Pod, we pull back the curtain on Delta-8’s rise, the regulatory loopholes fueling its $10 billion market, and the human cost of untested, mislabeled products. We share heartbreaking stories like Tanner, a four-year-old who died after eating THC gummies disguised as candy, and a Texas teen facing felony charges over a vape pen that couldn’t even be tested properly. From ER visits to criminal cases, the fallout is spreading nationwide—while federal oversight is nowhere to be found. Is Delta-8 really “diet weed”…or a dangerous gamble?   Highlights Include:  What Delta-8 THC actually is and how it’s made Why it’s flooding shelves despite lacking FDA approval The tragic story of Tanner in Virginia Legal chaos in Texas, South Dakota, Indiana, and Wyoming ER visits and poison control calls skyrocketing nationwide Risks hidden behind “innocent” gummy packaging Why lack of federal regulation leaves consumers vulnerable The $10.4 billion Delta-8 industry’s future Resources & Links    Is Delta-8 Safe?  High Schoolers Jailed for Vaping ‘legal Hemp’  Virginia Mom Charged in Death of 4-year-old Son   Rapid City Policing Agencies Target ‘Diet Weed’  Citing New Test Results, Indiana Prosecutors Threaten Criminal Charges if Businesses Don’t Stop Selling Delta-8  Wyoming Lawmakers Look to Control Delta-8  The Curious Case of Delta-8  Delta-8 Legal States 2025  This Drug Gets You High, and Is Legal (Maybe) Across the Country  2025 Regulations for Delta-8 THC: What You Need to Know  Delta-8 and Similar Products Banned in South Dakota      Sign up to be a Patron today! Get access to the Patron-Only Facebook Group, Bonus Episodes, and more.    https://www.escapepod.live    Do you have a story that you want to share with EscapePod? Or do you just want to reach out to us with your comments and thoughts?   General mail: justbecause@escapepod.live   Submit listener stories: escapeartist@escapepod.live    On Social Media   Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/EscapePod.traumedy   Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/escape_pod_podcast/   YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@Escape_Pod_podcast/videos    Subscribe and listen now- https://linktr.ee/escapepod57701   

As we move into Part 2 of our exploration of the Karen Read case, the story shifts from the public comfort of a bustling bar to the shadows of an afterparty where crucial events unfold. Here, the narrative tightens as relationships, phone records, and missing evidence become central to unraveling what happened on that fateful night. In today’s episode, we’ll examine pivotal moments, scrutinize discrepancies, and cover what went down at the trials.    Highlights Include:  Early investigation drama – State Trooper Michael Proctor sent crude texts calling Read a “whack job” and claiming she was “f*****” before the autopsy even happened. Charges escalate – Read was first charged with manslaughter, then indicted for second-degree murder. Conflicting forensics – Prosecutors say taillight fragments and DNA prove she hit John. The FBI says John’s injuries are not consistent with being struck by an SUV. Explosive texts & voicemails – Jurors heard Karen’s dozens of calls and angry voicemails to John the night he died. Shady suspicions – Allegations of cover-ups, missing texts, and whether John ever entered the Albert family’s home. Trial bombshells – A paramedic testified he heard a woman say, “I hit him.” Family friends accused of hiding key details. Proctor forced to read his vulgar, biased texts on the stand. Accusations that evidence was planted. Cause of death mystery – Blunt force trauma vs. hypothermia; the Medical Examiner left John’s manner of death undetermined. Mistrial → retrial – First trial ended in a hung jury. In 2025, Karen faced retrial with even more evidence aired out in public. Verdict – Karen Read was acquitted of murder, manslaughter, and leaving the scene, but convicted of DUI and sentenced to probation. Aftermath – Reports that Karen and her defense attorney are now working on a book and film deal. She also filed a motion to dismiss the civil suit from John’s family.   SOCIAL HASHTAGS:  #KarenReadCase #TrueCrimePodcast #JohnOKeefe #CrimeSceneMystery #CoverUpOrAccident #EscapePodTraumedy #Season2Premiere #JusticeForJohn #NorEasterNightmare #CourtroomDrama #PodcastDrop #CrimeStoryUnfolds    Resources & Links    True Crime Today Podcast: The Trial of Karen Read  A Guide to the Karen Read Case  Karen Read & John O'Keefe's Relationship | Vinnie Politan Investigates  Did Dunkin' Donuts Fight Uncover Deeper Issues in Read, O'Keefe Relationship?  Conspiracy in Canton  A Timeline of the Karen Read Case and the Story Behind the High-profile Massachusetts Murder Trial  Karen Read Case: These Are the Key Players to Know  Karen Read's Angry Voicemails to John O'Keefe  Unpacking the Second Trial and Verdict That Cleared Karen Read of Murder  Lead Investigator in Karen Read Case Fired from Massachusetts State Police After Vulgar Texts  Karen Read Accused of Killing Her Police Officer Boyfriend  Missing Video Footage  Conspiracies, Cover-Up Claims, Dog Bite Analysis Swirl In Case Of Boston Cop ‘Taillight Murder’    AP/Boston Police Department    CBS Boston    Karen Read. Suzanne Kreiter/The Boston Globe via Getty Images      Sign up to be a Patron today! Get access to the Patron-Only Facebook Group, Bonus Episodes, and more.    https://www.escapepod.live    Do you have a story that you want to share with EscapePod? Or do you just want to reach out to us with your comments and thoughts?   General mail: justbecause@escapepod.live   Submit listener stories: escapeartist@escapepod.live    On Social Media   Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/EscapePod.traumedy   Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/escape_pod_podcast/   YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@Escape_Pod_podcast/videos    Subscribe and listen now- https://linktr.ee/escapepod57701 

In the chilling kickoff to Season 2, we unravel the tangled mystery surrounding the death of Boston Police Officer John O’Keefe. After a night of drinking, he’s found lifeless in the snow outside a fellow officer’s home—and his girlfriend, Karen Read, is accused of hitting him with her SUV and leaving him to die in a blizzard. But the defense paints a darker picture: a possible cover-up involving law enforcement, missing surveillance footage, and a web of conflicting evidence. Was this a tragic accident—or something far more sinister? This episode dives deep into the events leading up to that fateful night, the volatile relationship between Karen and John, and the explosive courtroom battle that followed.   Highlights Include:  A nor’easter, a night of drinking, and a body in the snow Broken taillight fragments and a strand of hair on a bumper Angry voicemails and texts that paint a volatile relationship Scratches, a German Shepherd, and theories of a dog attack Missing surveillance footage and suspicious Google searches A courtroom showdown with over 600 exhibits and 70 witnesses A relationship rekindled during the pandemic—and unraveling in tragedy Medical findings that challenge the prosecution’s narrative Resources & Links    True Crime Today Podcast: The Trial of Karen Read  A Guide to the Karen Read Case  Karen Read & John O'Keefe's Relationship | Vinnie Politan Investigates  Did Dunkin' Donuts Fight Uncover Deeper Issues in Read, O'Keefe Relationship?  Conspiracy in Canton  A Timeline of the Karen Read Case and the Story Behind the High-profile Massachusetts Murder Trial  Karen Read Case: These Are the Key Players to Know  Karen Read's Angry Voicemails to John O'Keefe  Unpacking the Second Trial and Verdict That Cleared Karen Read of Murder  Lead Investigator in Karen Read Case Fired from Massachusetts State Police After Vulgar Texts  Karen Read Accused of Killing Her Police Officer Boyfriend  Missing Video Footage  Conspiracies, Cover-Up Claims, Dog Bite Analysis Swirl In Case Of Boston Cop ‘Taillight Murder’  Sign up to be a Patron today! Get access to the Patron-Only Facebook Group, Bonus Episodes, and more.    https://www.escapepod.live    Do you have a story that you want to share with EscapePod? Or do you just want to reach out to us with your comments and thoughts?   General mail: justbecause@escapepod.live   Submit listener stories: escapeartist@escapepod.live    On Social Media   Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/EscapePod.traumedy   Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/escape_pod_podcast/   YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@Escape_Pod_podcast/videos    Subscribe and listen now- https://linktr.ee/escapepod57701     

Imagine meeting someone new, sparks fly, but then your life spirals into a nightmare of endless texts, vandalism, and a murder mystery that sounds straight out of a thriller. This is the chilling true story of Dave Kroupa, a man who found himself at the center of one of the wildest stalking cases of all time.    Highlights Include: A Love Triangle Turns Deadly: Dave Kroupa’s casual dating life spirals into chaos after meeting Cari Farver—who vanishes just days into their relationship. Stalked by a Ghost: Dave and his ex Liz Golyar are bombarded with thousands of threatening messages from someone claiming to be Cari… but no one has seen her in years. A Mother’s Intuition: Cari’s mom, Nancy, refuses to believe her daughter would abandon her son, sparking a deeper investigation. Detectives with Fresh Eyes: A cold case team reopens the file and uncovers disturbing clues that point to a twisted impersonation. The Real Stalker Revealed: Liz Golyar, once the victim, is exposed as the mastermind behind the harassment—and possibly Cari’s murder. Digital Deception & Forensic Breakthroughs: From masked IP addresses to blood hidden under a car seat, the truth finally surfaces. Justice for Cari: A haunting tale of obsession, manipulation, and the relentless pursuit of answers.   Resources & Links   Netflix, Lover, Stalker, Killer (2024) The Mysterious Murder of Cari Farver and How Digital Evidence Helped Crack the Case Horrific Stalking Case Was Jealous Lover's Cover for Murder ‘It can happen to anyone’: Man Shares Story of Stalking, Survival at Omaha Women’s Event Pictures of Liz Golyar (left) and Cari Farver (right) in Netflix's "Lover, Stalker, Killer."  NetflixDave Kroupa Netflix           Sign up to be a Patron today! Get access to the Patron-Only Facebook Group, Bonus Episodes, and more.   https://www.escapepod.live   Do you have a story that you want to share with EscapePod? Or do you just want to reach out to us with your comments and thoughts? General mail: justbecause@escapepod.live Submit listener stories: escapeartist@escapepod.live   On Social Media  Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/EscapePod.traumedy  Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/escape_pod_podcast/  YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@Escape_Pod_podcast/videos

In this delightfully absurd and thought-provoking episode, we dive headfirst into the chaos of escape scenarios with a twist—each one wrapped in a “Would You Rather” dilemma that blends trauma, healing, and hilarity. From dodging donut-wielding ex-cops to navigating the foster care system on a unicycle, we explore the wild ways people might choose to flee their circumstances… if only life came with a costume budget and a flair for the dramatic.   Highlights Include: Choosing between cat video spam or donut-stalking ex-cops Escaping toxic relationships via llama farming or mime therapy Facing court in a clown suit vs. deliberating among pool toys Tackling childhood trauma recovery in rhyme or in a chicken suit And yes, living in a taco-shaped tiny house while wearing a sombrero   Whether you're a survivor, a supporter, or just someone who appreciates the healing power of humor, this episode invites you to laugh, reflect, and imagine your own escape—one ridiculous choice at a time. Tune in for a ride of empathy, absurdity, and escape artistry.   Resources & Links         Sign up to be a Patron today! Get access to the Patron-Only Facebook Group, Bonus Episodes, and more.   https://www.escapepod.live   Do you have a story that you want to share with EscapePod? Or do you just want to reach out to us with your comments and thoughts? General mail: justbecause@escapepod.live Submit listener stories: escapeartist@escapepod.live   On Social Media  Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/EscapePod.traumedy  Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/escape_pod_podcast/  YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@Escape_Pod_podcast/videos