Ever find yourself stuck in drama, reacting before you think, or feeling powerless in situations you care about?  In this episode of The Greatness Machine, Donna Zajonc dives deep into the Drama Triangle and its positive alternative, The Empowerment Dynamic (TED). She and Darius explore how cultivating awareness, clarifying intention, and practicing self-compassion can turn automatic reactivity into conscious leadership and personal growth. Donna shares practical strategies for recognizing when we fall into victim, persecutor, or rescuer roles, and how to shift into creator, challenger, or coach roles that empower both ourselves and others. Whether in family life, friendships, or at work, these tools offer a roadmap to more meaningful, effective, and empowered interactions. In this episode, Darius and Donna will discuss: (00:00) Introduction to the Empowerment Dynamic (02:35) Donna Zajonc's Journey and Background (05:34) The Drama Triangle Explained (08:26) The Empowerment Dynamic Framework (11:23) Understanding the Roles in the Drama Triangle (14:15) Shifting from Drama to Empowerment (16:50) The Importance of Awareness and Choice (19:59) Leadership and the Empowerment Dynamic (22:39) Challenging vs. Persecuting Roles (27:29) The Power of Words and Personal Growth (29:12) Understanding the Drama Triangle (31:07) Shifting from Persecutor to Challenger (33:06) The Role of Intention in Communication (34:54) Curiosity as a Tool for Growth (37:00) Navigating the Rescuer Role (38:53) Empowerment Dynamics in Leadership (40:57) The Importance of Self-Compassion (42:50) Tools for Personal and Professional Growth (44:37) Creating a Culture of Empowerment Donna Zajonc, MCC, is the Director of Coaching at the Center for The Empowerment Dynamic, where she designs and facilitates coaching programs based on the TED* framework (The Empowerment Dynamic). A Master Certified Coach since 2013 and recipient of Washington State’s Excellence in Coaching Award in 2017, Donna has been dedicated to professional coaching since 2001. Alongside her business partner David Emerald, she helps coaches and leaders move from the Drama Triangle to the empowering roles of Creator, Challenger, and Coach. Donna lives in the Pacific Northwest, enjoying beach walks, good books, dark chocolate, microbrews, and time with her children and grandchildren. Connect with Donna: Website: https://theempowermentdynamic.com/  LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/donna-zajonc-mcc-612455/  Connect with Darius: Website: https://therealdarius.com/ Linkedin: https://www.linkedin.com/in/dariusmirshahzadeh/ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/imthedarius/ YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@Thegreatnessmachine  Book: The Core Value Equation https://www.amazon.com/Core-Value-Equation-Framework-Limitless/dp/1544506708 Write a review for The Greatness Machine using this link: https://ratethispodcast.com/spreadinggreatness.  Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

What if the way you’ve been winning is actually costing you your freedom? In this milestone 400th episode of The Greatness Machine, Darius Mirshahzadeh goes solo to close out the year with a personal reflection on growth, self-worth, and alignment. Darius shares his annual practice of choosing one word to guide the year ahead, reflecting on a year defined by challenge and revealing the word shaping how he’ll show up in 2026. Along the way, he unpacks patterns many high performers face, proving worth through achievement, contorting to win, and sacrificing sovereignty for success, and why choosing wholeness over hustle changes everything. In this episode, Darius will discuss: (00:00) Celebrating Milestones: Episode 400 and New Year's Eve (02:55) Reflecting on the Word of the Year: Challenge (05:55) Embracing Sovereignty: A New Direction for 2026 Connect with Darius: Website: https://therealdarius.com/  Linkedin: https://www.linkedin.com/in/dariusmirshahzadeh/  Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/imthedarius/  YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@Thegreatnessmachine   Book: The Core Value Equation https://www.amazon.com/Core-Value-Equation-Framework-Limitless/dp/1544506708  Write a review for The Greatness Machine using this link: https://ratethispodcast.com/spreadinggreatness.  Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

How does one go from financial struggle to creating a platform worth nearly $100 billion?  This question encapsulates the extraordinary journey of Shirl Penney, founder, president, and CEO of Dynasty Financial Partners. Beginning in rural Maine where financial stability was difficult to come by, his story is one of grit and determination.  Although Shirl had to overcome early hardships, his desire for education and self-improvement led him to prestigious institutions and eventually to the competitive world of finance. Having navigated and overcome numerous obstacles led to the establishment of Dynasty Financial Partners, a firm he founded with resilience and an innovative mindset.  In this episode of The Greatness Machine, Darius is joined by Shirl Penney to share his compelling journey from the financial struggles of his upbringing in rural Maine to building a financial empire managing nearly $100 billion in assets. The conversation delves into the challenges he faced, the pivotal moments that shaped his career, and the innovative strategies he employed to revolutionize the wealth management industry. Shirl also discusses the importance of resilience, leadership, and maintaining a clear vision in the pursuit of success.  Topics include: Shirl looks back at being homeless to founding Dynasty Financial Partners Improving financial literacy and providing independent financial advice  The origin and motivation behind the creation of Dynasty Financial Partners The impact of Shirl’s upbringing and experiences on his approach to business The value of maintaining a strong corporate culture and significant growth And other topics… Connect with Shirl: Website: https://dynastyfinancialpartners.com/  LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/shirlpenney Connect with Darius: Website: https://therealdarius.com/ Linkedin: https://www.linkedin.com/in/dariusmirshahzadeh/ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/imthedarius/ YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@Thegreatnessmachine  Book: The Core Value Equation https://www.amazon.com/Core-Value-Equation-Framework-Limitless/dp/1544506708 Write a review for The Greatness Machine using this link: https://ratethispodcast.com/spreadinggreatness.  Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

What if the key to unlocking your biggest opportunities wasn’t in the size of your audience—but in the conversations you choose to have? In this solo episode, Darius Mirshahzadeh pulls back the curtain on one of his best-kept secrets: how to use a podcast to build powerful relationships, expand your network, and land your dream clients—without chasing downloads or going viral. He shares the origin story of The Greatness Machine, how it began as a live stream for a book launch, and why focusing on who you interview matters more than how many people are listening. In this episode, Darius will discuss: (00:00) Introduction to Podcasting for Networking (02:08) The Journey of The Greatness Machine (05:55) Building Relationships Through Podcasting (11:56) Podcasting as a Sales Tool (16:08) The Future of Podcasting and Networking Connect with Darius: Website: https://therealdarius.com/ Linkedin: https://www.linkedin.com/in/dariusmirshahzadeh/ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/imthedarius/ YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@Thegreatnessmachine  Book: The Core Value Equation https://www.amazon.com/Core-Value-Equation-Framework-Limitless/dp/1544506708 Write a review for The Greatness Machine using this link: https://ratethispodcast.com/spreadinggreatness.  Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Are you ready to confront the stories you tell yourself and step into your fullest potential? In this episode of The Greatness Machine, Preston Smiles shares his journey of personal growth, from navigating childhood challenges to becoming a world-renowned coach and thought leader. He opens up about the patterns he had to unlearn, including addictive behaviors, identity struggles, and emotional disconnection, and how he learned to cultivate presence, healthy relationships, and leadership within his own family. Preston breaks down how our nervous system, mindset, and body intelligence shape our experiences, and why capacity, not just knowledge, is key to creating lasting transformation. He also introduces “The Bridge Experience,” an immersive workshop designed to help people embody their growth in powerful, practical ways. This conversation is raw, honest, and packed with insights about breaking cycles, expanding capacity, and living a life of love, purpose, and conscious leadership. In this episode, Darius and Preston will discuss: (00:00) Introduction and Guest Introduction (01:47) Preston's Origin Story and Transformation (05:34) The Impact of Childhood Experiences (09:21) Resilience and Adaptation in Adversity (13:15) The Journey of Healing and Self-Discovery (18:49) The Role of Authenticity in Relationships (26:19) Surrendering to a Higher Power and Continuous Growth (30:47) The Leadership Journey: Personal Accountability (32:48) Addiction to Pain: Recognizing Patterns (35:36) Attracting Light and Darkness: The Duality of Existence (38:29) Building Capacity: The Key to Mastery (41:17) The Observer: Identifying Beyond Titles (46:52) The Bridge Experience: Transformative Workshops (54:43) Overcoming Toxic Shame: The Path to Greatness Preston Smiles is an Abundance Coach, transformational speaker, and bestselling author whose journey from surf instructor to multi-millionaire reflects his deep commitment to personal growth and humanity. Known for his high-energy presence and groundbreaking book Spiritual Millionaire: Unlock the 7 Inner Laws of Abundance, Preston has coached over 100,000 people since 2005 and leads global workshops with his wife, Alexi. His work centers on nervous system healing, embodied leadership, and expanded abundance. A former Millennial Mentor of the Year and cover feature of Inspired Coach Magazine, Preston has appeared on top platforms like Impact Theory and The School of Greatness. His bold messages and viral content continue to inspire millions—earning him praise from leaders like Jack Canfield and Michael Beckwith, who call him “unstoppable.” Connect with Preston: Website: https://prestonsmiles.com/  Workshop: https://www.thebridgemethod.org/  Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/prestonsmiles/  Connect with Darius: Website: https://therealdarius.com/ Linkedin: https://www.linkedin.com/in/dariusmirshahzadeh/ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/imthedarius/ YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@Thegreatnessmachine  Book: The Core Value Equation https://www.amazon.com/Core-Value-Equation-Framework-Limitless/dp/1544506708 Write a review for The Greatness Machine using this link: https://ratethispodcast.com/spreadinggreatness.  Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

In our pursuit of wealth, what lessons can we learn from stoicism? Darius Foroux, an investor, entrepreneur, blogger, podcast host, and writer, examines how to achieve lasting wealth and personal fulfillment by exploring stoicism's timeless wisdom. His newest book, The Stoic Path to Wealth: Ancient Wisdom for Enduring Prosperity, serves as a practical guide for integrating stoic principles into financial strategies. Rather than placing a heavy emphasis on external circumstances, Darius Foroux emphasizes the importance of emotional mastery in wealth-building. Through stoic teachings, he highlights moderation, gratitude, and meaningful experiences over material possessions as ways to transition from a scarcity mindset to an abundance mindset. This episode of The Greatness Machine features Darius Foroux to give a sneak peek into his new book, The Stoic Path to Wealth: Ancient Wisdom for Enduring Prosperity, and to delve into the transformation power of stoicism in the pursuit of wealth, emphasizing the emotional resilience and mastery as foundational to financial success. This conversation will also explore the intersection of philosophy and practical financial strategies, providing a compelling framework for enduring prosperity. Topics include: Darius Foroux talks about his motivation for book writing The benefits of managing emotions to build wealth Transitioning from a scarcity mindset to an abundance mindset  The importance of not being overly attached to money Darius Foroux discusses living according to stoicism Prioritizing meaningful experiences over material possessions And other topics… Connect with Darius Foroux: Website: https://dariusforoux.com/  LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/dariusforoux/  Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/dariusforoux/ Book: https://members.dariusforoux.com/stoic-path  Connect with Darius Mirshahzadeh: Website: https://therealdarius.com/ Linkedin: https://www.linkedin.com/in/dariusmirshahzadeh/ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/imthedarius/ YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@Thegreatnessmachine  Book: The Core Value Equation https://www.amazon.com/Core-Value-Equation-Framework-Limitless/dp/1544506708 Write a review for The Greatness Machine using this link: https://ratethispodcast.com/spreadinggreatness.  Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

What if real strength isn’t about power or dominance, but about generosity, courage, and who you stand up for when no one’s watching? In this episode of The Greatness Machine, Darius Mirshahzadeh continues his series on How to Be a Strong Person, focusing on two defining traits: giving more than you take and standing up for the little guy. Darius challenges scarcity thinking and outrage-driven culture, encouraging listeners to lead with abundance, generosity, and integrity. Through personal stories and leadership lessons, he shares how true strength shows up in everyday actions, from supporting others to using influence responsibly. In this episode, Darius will discuss: (00:00) The Rise of Polarizing Content (02:42) Giving More Than You Take (11:01) Standing Up for the Little Guy Connect with Darius: Website: https://therealdarius.com/ Linkedin: https://www.linkedin.com/in/dariusmirshahzadeh/ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/imthedarius/ YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@Thegreatnessmachine  Book: The Core Value Equation https://www.amazon.com/Core-Value-Equation-Framework-Limitless/dp/1544506708 Write a review for The Greatness Machine using this link: https://ratethispodcast.com/spreadinggreatness.  Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

What really drives people to succeed, and how can understanding it transform your teams and relationships? In this episode of The Greatness Machine, Darius sits down with Jennifer Hill, author, entrepreneur, and co-founder of OptiMatch. Jennifer dives into the science of human motivation and connection, explaining how her OptiMatch system measures what drives people and how those motivators impact teamwork, business partnerships, and even personal relationships. She shares insights on how understanding team members’ motivational profiles can reduce friction, improve communication, and create more effective collaboration. Darius and Jennifer explore practical applications of OptiMatch, including assessing startup teams, venture capital investments, and business partnerships. Jennifer also touches on how motivation alignment can predict compatibility beyond business, including in romantic relationships, and gives a sneak peek into her upcoming book, “Recovering Asshole.” In this episode, Darius and Jennifer will discuss: (00:00) Introduction and First Impressions (05:50) Entrepreneurial Beginnings (08:52) The Road to Recruitment (15:03) Personal Development and Transformation (17:58) Understanding the Asshole Within (20:48) The Impact of Humor and Public Perception (23:52) Navigating Career Choices (27:04) Reflections on Wealth and Responsibility (29:55) Energetic Hygiene and Self-Care (30:52) Exploring Sleep Aids and Personal Rituals (33:30) Introducing OptiMatch: A New Business Venture (39:34) Understanding Human Design and Team Dynamics (52:31) The Importance of Motivation in Partnerships (59:23) Overcoming Personal Barriers to Greatness Jennifer K. Hill is an entrepreneur, author, speaker, and thought leader in business and personal development. She co-founded OptiMatch, a platform that helps build high-trust relationships in business, and consults with CEOs to improve team alignment and productivity. Host of the Regarding Consciousness podcast, Jennifer has interviewed global leaders including Dr. Deepak Chopra and Dr. Bruce Lipton. She has authored two books, received a Lifetime Achievement Award from the Visioneers, and is passionate about giving back, having built two schools in developing countries. Sponsored by: Aura Frames: Visit AuraFrames.com and get $35 off Aura’s best selling Carver Mat frame. auraframes.com (promo code DARIUS). Indeed: And listeners of this show will get a SEVENTY-FIVE DOLLAR SPONSORED JOB CREDIT to get your jobs more visibility at Indeed.com/DARIUS Masterclass: Get up to 50% off at MasterClass.com/DARIUS. Shopify: Sign up for your one-dollar-per-month trial and start selling today at shopify.com/darius /podcast10 Connect with Jennifer: Website: https://jenniferkhill.com/  Survey: https://om.app/survey  Email: jennifer@om.app Connect with Darius: Website: https://therealdarius.com/ Linkedin: https://www.linkedin.com/in/dariusmirshahzadeh/ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/imthedarius/ YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@Thegreatnessmachine  Book: The Core Value Equation https://www.amazon.com/Core-Value-Equation-Framework-Limitless/dp/1544506708 Write a review for The Greatness Machine using this link: https://ratethispodcast.com/spreadinggreatness.  Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

How do you go from corporate finance to the bright lights of America's Got Talent? To make the leap from the structured corporate world to the dazzling stage of America's Got Talent, you must shift your mindset and pursue a passion relentlessly. In Oz Pearlman's case, the journey was more than abandoning spreadsheets and boardrooms; it was about embracing a calling rooted in enchanting audiences with mentalism's inexplicable effects. Best known as “Oz the Mentalist,” Oz transitioned from working in a global technology services department to performing on one of the world's biggest talent stages, he transformed himself through courage, determination, and an unwavering belief in the power of the human mind. In this episode of The Greatness Machine, Darius is joined by Oz to talk about his early fascination with magic to becoming a renowned mentalist. They will also delve into the intricacies of this unique career path, discussing the challenges, strategies, and mindsets that have propelled Oz to success.  Topics include: Oz talks about his journey from magic enthusiast to professional mentalist Understanding the difference between a magician and a mentalist Setting quantifiable goals, seeking mentors, and providing value to others Oz reflects on his decision to leave Wall Street for mentalism The value of persistence and hard work over luck Overcoming multiple rejections and pursuing goals  Oz discusses overcoming self-doubt and imposter syndrome And other topics… Sponsored by: Aura Frames: Visit AuraFrames.com and get $35 off Aura’s best selling Carver Mat frame. auraframes.com (promo code DARIUS). Indeed: And listeners of this show will get a SEVENTY-FIVE DOLLAR SPONSORED JOB CREDIT to get your jobs more visibility at Indeed.com/DARIUS Masterclass: Get up to 50% off at MasterClass.com/DARIUS. Shopify: Sign up for your one-dollar-per-month trial and start selling today at shopify.com/darius /podcast10 Connect with Oz: Website: https://www.ozpearlman.com/ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/ozthementalist/ Twitter: https://twitter.com/ozthementalist/  YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@ozthementalist1405  Connect with Darius: Website: https://therealdarius.com/ Linkedin: https://www.linkedin.com/in/dariusmirshahzadeh/ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/imthedarius/ YouTube: https://therealdarius.com/youtube Book: The Core Value Equation https://www.amazon.com/Core-Value-Equation-Framework-Limitless/dp/1544506708 Write a review for The Greatness Machine using this link: https://ratethispodcast.com/spreadinggreatness.  Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

What if the secret to a fulfilled life was as simple as following a set of care instructions — not for a product, but for yourself? In this solo episode of The Greatness Machine, Darius Mirshahzadeh shares powerful reflections on what it means to care for yourself and live wholeheartedly. Inspired by a simple yet profound list of "care instructions for humans," Darius dives into the importance of self-love, growth, and surrounding yourself with people who bring joy and inspiration. From embracing vulnerability and trusting yourself to dancing like no one's watching, this episode is a heartfelt reminder to nurture your well-being. In this episode, Darius will discuss: (00:00) Introduction and Personal Reflections (02:49) Care Instructions for Self-Care (06:01) The Importance of Love and Connection (08:53) Growth Through Environment and Relationships (11:48) Emotional Expression and Self-Trust Sponsored by: Aura Frames: Visit AuraFrames.com and get $35 off Aura’s best selling Carver Mat frame. auraframes.com (promo code DARIUS). Indeed: And listeners of this show will get a SEVENTY-FIVE DOLLAR SPONSORED JOB CREDIT to get your jobs more visibility at Indeed.com/DARIUS Masterclass: Get up to 50% off at MasterClass.com/DARIUS. Shopify: Sign up for your one-dollar-per-month trial and start selling today at shopify.com/darius /podcast10 Connect with Darius: Website: https://therealdarius.com/ Linkedin: https://www.linkedin.com/in/dariusmirshahzadeh/ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/imthedarius/ YouTube: https://therealdarius.com/youtube Book: The Core Value Equation https://www.amazon.com/Core-Value-Equation-Framework-Limitless/dp/1544506708 Write a review for The Greatness Machine using this link: https://ratethispodcast.com/spreadinggreatness.  Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Is your life guided by choice… or by your cosmic design? In this episode of The Greatness Machine, Darius sits down with world-renowned astrologer and psychotherapist Debra Silverman to explore how astrology, psychology, and past-life patterns intersect to shape who we are today. Debra shares how discovering astrology at a young age set her on a path to helping thousands understand themselves through their birth charts. She breaks down the difference between surface-level horoscopes and true chart analysis, and explains why Carl Jung believed psychology was incomplete without astrology. They unpack how planetary influences can impact personality, relationships, purpose, and even rebellion against authority, and how that awareness can become a powerful tool for healing and self-acceptance. In this episode, Darius and Debra will discuss: (00:00) Introduction to Debra Silverman (02:17) Debra's Origin Story and Early Fascination with Astrology (05:06) The Intersection of Astrology and Psychotherapy (10:37) Understanding Astrology: Beyond the Basics (15:24) The Science and History of Astrology (19:14) Applying Astrology in Psychotherapy (25:31) Finding Fulfillment Through Astrology (28:28) The Dance of Ego and Soul (30:47) Understanding the Ego's Role (34:06) Astrology as a Tool for Self-Discovery (37:17) The Intersection of Ego and Soul (40:37) Living in the Present Moment (43:12) Surrendering Control for Inner Peace (51:26) Overcoming Barriers to Greatness Debra Silverman is a pioneering psycho-therapist and astrologer with over 35 years of experience helping people understand their strengths, challenges, and life purpose through an integrated approach to psychology and astrology. Her work has been featured in major publications, conferences, and on radio, and she has applied her expertise in unique settings, including on tour with Sting and The Police and in private school environments. A futurist at heart, she is dedicated to helping individuals, families, and teams cultivate self-awareness, reduce stress, and live with greater clarity and intention. Connect with Debra: Website: https://debrasilvermanastrology.com/  Email: info@debrasilvermanastrology.com  LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/debra-silverman-38946078  Book: https://www.amazon.com/Dont-Believe-Astrology-Therapists-Life-Changing/dp/1250342392  Connect with Darius: Website: https://therealdarius.com/ Linkedin: https://www.linkedin.com/in/dariusmirshahzadeh/ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/imthedarius/ YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@Thegreatnessmachine  Book: The Core Value Equation https://www.amazon.com/Core-Value-Equation-Framework-Limitless/dp/1544506708 Write a review for The Greatness Machine using this link: https://ratethispodcast.com/spreadinggreatness.  Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

What does it take to transform a single business purchase into a $300 million enterprise? Creating a $300 million enterprise from a single business purchase requires both strategic vision and effective management. Dave Lamont's journey exemplifies the key elements necessary for such a transformation.  As the CEO of Renfrew Business Group and president of Renfrew Chrysler, Dave emphasizes that success in business starts with mastering the fundamentals. This means understanding the basics of sales, operations, and financial management. For him, running a car dealership successfully involved creating a strong sales organization and not just reacting to market conditions. In this episode of The Greatness Machine, Darius sits down with Dave to talk about the importance of mastering business fundamentals, the power of mentorship, and the continuous pursuit of knowledge. They will also discuss Dave’s book, Crank It!: A Playbook for Succeeding in Business and Life, where readers will find actionable steps and resources to help them succeed professionally and personally.  Topics include: Dave talks about his background and passion for automotive Acquiring Renfrew Chrysler and thriving through the 2008 economic challenges The importance of being a management-driven rather than market-driven The evolving landscape of the automotive industry  The value of continuous learning and growth at any age Dave discusses his book “Crank It!” and the inspiration behind it Dave shares the challenges of having a learning disability in his youth And other topics… Connect with Dave: Website: https://renfrewchrysler.com/  LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/dave-lamont-851a93aa/  Book: https://www.amazon.ca/Crank-Playbook-Succeeding-Business-Life/dp/1544543921  Connect with Darius: Website: https://therealdarius.com/ Linkedin: https://www.linkedin.com/in/dariusmirshahzadeh/ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/imthedarius/ YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@Thegreatnessmachine  Book: The Core Value Equation https://www.amazon.com/Core-Value-Equation-Framework-Limitless/dp/1544506708 Write a review for The Greatness Machine using this link: https://ratethispodcast.com/spreadinggreatness.  Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

What if real strength isn’t about power or control, but about how safe other people feel in your presence? In this solo episode of The Greatness Machine, Darius introduces the first part of a new series on what it truly means to be a strong person. Reflecting on conversations with family and insights from his upcoming work, he explores why strength starts with making others feel safe and giving more than you take. Darius shares a powerful excerpt from George Bernard Shaw’s “A Splendid Torch,” emphasizing service, purpose, and living for something greater than yourself. He challenges listeners to examine how they show up in their relationships, the energy they contribute to their communities, and whether they are living in a way that builds others up rather than breaking them down.  In this episode, Darius will discuss: (00:00) Introduction to Strength and Relationships (06:28) Creating Safety in Relationships (08:44) The Importance of Giving More Than Taking (16:13) Living a Life of Purpose and Contribution Connect with Darius: Website: https://therealdarius.com/ Linkedin: https://www.linkedin.com/in/dariusmirshahzadeh/ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/imthedarius/ YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@Thegreatnessmachine  Book: The Core Value Equation https://www.amazon.com/Core-Value-Equation-Framework-Limitless/dp/1544506708 Write a review for The Greatness Machine using this link: https://ratethispodcast.com/spreadinggreatness.  Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

What does it take to turn a life of chaos into one of purpose and impact? In this episode of The Greatness Machine, Darius sits down with Andre Norman, author, speaker, and transformational leader whose journey from maximum-security prison to Harvard University is nothing short of extraordinary. Andre opens up about the pivotal moments that changed his trajectory, from leading a prison gang to realizing he was built for something greater. He shares how education, faith, and the right mentors helped him rebuild his mindset and redirect his drive toward helping others do the same. Throughout the conversation, Andre and Darius explore the real meaning of redemption, why self-awareness is key to change, and how people can break free from their environments, no matter how deep the hole seems. In this episode, Darius and Andre will discuss: (00:00) Introduction to Greatness and Transformation (05:13) The Awakening: Setting Goals in Solitary Confinement (12:26) Mental Resilience: Surviving Solitary Confinement (17:15) Breaking the Cycle: From Gang Leader to Harvard Fellow (27:08) The Cost of Incarceration (28:28) Psychological Impact of Imprisonment (29:17) Comparing Global Prison Systems (30:54) The Historical Context of Prisons (32:42) Reforming the Penal System (34:06) Barriers to Change in Corrections (39:39) Rebuilding the System from Scratch (41:37) The Importance of Education (45:11) Changing Outcomes through New Approaches (46:25) Community Involvement for Change (50:52) Overcoming Barriers to Greatness Andre Norman is living proof that second chances are real. Once facing a 105-year prison sentence and leading gang activity behind bars, he turned his life around through education, faith, and determination. Today, as the founder of The Academy of Hope, he works to reduce prison violence and promote rehabilitation. His message of transformation has reached audiences worldwide, from TEDx stages to Harvard University and London Business School. Connect with Andre: Website: https://andrenorman.com/  Website: https://secondchanceuniversity.org/  LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/andre-norman/  Connect with Darius: Website: https://therealdarius.com/ Linkedin: https://www.linkedin.com/in/dariusmirshahzadeh/ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/imthedarius/ YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@Thegreatnessmachine  Book: The Core Value Equation https://www.amazon.com/Core-Value-Equation-Framework-Limitless/dp/1544506708 Write a review for The Greatness Machine using this link: https://ratethispodcast.com/spreadinggreatness.  Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Burnout and stress seem like inevitable companions of success in today's fast-paced world. But what if there was a way to navigate the entrepreneurial roller coaster with greater ease and resilience? Meditation and mindfulness are ancient practices that have tremendous benefits on well-being and performance in the modern business landscape. Oksana Esberard, a seasoned expert in mindfulness and meditation, shares invaluable insights into how these practices can revolutionize your approach to work and life. Drawing from her own experiences and client interactions, she highlights the transformative power of mindfulness in managing stress, fostering emotional intelligence, and enhancing overall well-being. In this episode of The Greatness Machine, Darius is joined by Oksana to uncover practical strategies for seamlessly integrating mindfulness into one’s daily routine, unlocking the potential for a more balanced and fulfilling life. Together, they will share valuable insights into the power of breath work, the art of self-awareness, and the profound impact of these ancient practices on personal growth and holistic well-being. Topics include: Oksana talks about her personal journey to exploring mindfulness and meditation The importance of integrating holistic well-being practices into the business world Taking personal responsibility for creating moments of stillness and self-reflection The value of meditation as a way to disconnect from one’s current state of being The role of mantras in meditation The power of breathwork in meditation and mindfulness Developing awareness and emotional regulation The impact of collective consciousness and culture on individual behavior Implementing mindfulness in organizations And other topics… Sponsored by: Aura Frames: Visit AuraFrames.com and get 45 dollars off Aura’s best selling Carver Mat frame. Next Insurance: Protect your business now. Visit NEXTInsurance.com today.  Connect with Oksana: Website: https://oksanaesberard.com/  Website: https://sattva.me/  LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/mindfulness-meditation-wellness  Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/sattvame/ Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/sanaesberard/  Connect with Darius: Website: https://therealdarius.com/ Linkedin: https://www.linkedin.com/in/dariusmirshahzadeh/ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/imthedarius/ YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@Thegreatnessmachine  Book: The Core Value Equation https://www.amazon.com/Core-Value-Equation-Framework-Limitless/dp/1544506708 Write a review for The Greatness Machine using this link: https://ratethispodcast.com/spreadinggreatness.  Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Ever feel like your life is overflowing—with tasks, possessions, or even relationships? In this episode of The Greatness Machine, Darius Mirshahzadeh unpacks a game-changing lesson from Dandapani, a Hindu priest and former monk, on attention management and the true cost of clutter. From cleaning out his closet to evaluating friendships and business ventures, Darius shares how simplifying life leads to greater focus, less stress, and smarter decisions. If you’re feeling stretched too thin, this episode is your wake-up call! In this episode, Darius will discuss: (00:00) The Power of Attention Management (05:24) Simplicity and Minimalism in Life (10:43) Energy as Your Most Valuable Asset (19:16) Rethinking Possessions and Projects Sponsored by: Aura Frames: Visit AuraFrames.com and get 45 dollars off Aura’s best selling Carver Mat frame. Next Insurance: Protect your business now. Visit NEXTInsurance.com today.  Connect with Darius: Website: https://therealdarius.com/ Linkedin: https://www.linkedin.com/in/dariusmirshahzadeh/ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/imthedarius/ YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@Thegreatnessmachine  Book: The Core Value Equation https://www.amazon.com/Core-Value-Equation-Framework-Limitless/dp/1544506708 Write a review for The Greatness Machine using this link: https://ratethispodcast.com/spreadinggreatness.  Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

What happens when you strip away titles, ego, and identity and choose to build a business and a life rooted in purpose instead? In this powerful episode of The Greatness Machine, Darius sits down with entrepreneur, coach, and aviation innovator Eric Farewell for a deeply honest conversation about identity, business, loss, self-worth, leadership, and the profound transformation that happens when you learn to be fully present. Eric opens up about rebuilding after everything fell apart, redefining success on his own terms, and discovering what truly matters beneath the surface of achievement. Together, Darius and Eric explore the emotional and psychological landscapes behind entrepreneurship and the unexpected clarity that comes when you separate who you are from what you do. In this episode, Darius and Eric will discuss: (00:00) Introduction and Banter (03:02) The Struggles of Writing and AI (05:57) Entrepreneurial Hustle: Past and Present (08:42) Adventures with Tucker Max (14:30) Finding Easy Relationships (17:29) Personal Stories and Reflections (29:23) Eric's Origin Story (30:15) From Aviation to Entrepreneurship (32:52) Life Lessons and Legacy (37:08) The Thrill of Flying (44:04) Transition to Paragliding (45:47) Building a Business with Purpose (48:36) Identity and Titles in Entrepreneurship (51:32) Finding Happiness in Adversity (55:05) The Royal Shift: A New Book (58:14) Mastermind and Community Building (01:01:43) Overcoming Imposter Syndrome Eric Farewell is a coach, author, and entrepreneur dedicated to helping leaders and entrepreneurs build businesses and lives aligned with their true purpose. After launching his first aviation business at 13 and speaking nationally before 20, Eric faced personal challenges, including a broken back, the death of his brother, and a near-collapse of his marriage, that reshaped his approach to life and leadership. Today, he owns multiple companies, is the author of Farewell to Normal, and guides others through personal reinvention, relational healing, and sustainable, mission-driven growth. Connect with Eric: Website: https://ericfarewell.com/ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/ericfarewell/ LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/eric-farewell-0386683  Connect with Darius: Website: https://therealdarius.com/ Linkedin: https://www.linkedin.com/in/dariusmirshahzadeh/ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/imthedarius/ YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@Thegreatnessmachine  Book: The Core Value Equation https://www.amazon.com/Core-Value-Equation-Framework-Limitless/dp/1544506708 Write a review for The Greatness Machine using this link: https://ratethispodcast.com/spreadinggreatness.  Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

What motivates someone to turn their personal challenges into moments of laughter for thousands? For Sara Weinshenk, it was about turning darkness into light, creating punchlines out of pain, and transforming adversity into avenues of connection. Through her comedic lens, she not only navigates her own struggles but also invites others to laugh along with her, sharing in the universal experience of overcoming life’s obstacles.  As a stand-up comedian, writer, and podcaster, Sara managed to transform her trials into triumphs motivated by the catharsis of laughter, the power of storytelling, and the innate human desire to find joy amidst hardship.  This episode of The Greatness Machine will dive into the inspiring journey of Sara Weinshenk, who has mastered the art of turning struggles into motivation to pursue her passions. Darius and Sara will also talk about the relentless grind of stand-up comedy, the importance of repetition and refinement in perfecting their craft, and the highs and lows of the comedy world. Topics include: The importance of following one's passion despite setbacks and societal expectations Sara recalls the challenges of shifting from an unfulfilling job to pursuing comedy How the evolution of social media transformed the landscape for comedians Sara talks about her initial struggles when she began her stand-up career The migration of comedians to Austin during the pandemic Sara shares how her podcasting journey started And other topics… Sponsored by: Aura Frames: Visit AuraFrames.com and get 45 dollars off Aura’s best selling Carver Mat frame. Next Insurance: Protect your business now. Visit NEXTInsurance.com today.  Connect with Sara: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/princessshenk/  Twitter: https://twitter.com/princessshenk/ YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@sweinshenk  Podcast: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/shenk/id1396153950  Podcast: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/this-bitch/id1593036777  Connect with Darius: Website: https://therealdarius.com/ Linkedin: https://www.linkedin.com/in/dariusmirshahzadeh/ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/imthedarius/ YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@Thegreatnessmachine  Book: The Core Value Equation https://www.amazon.com/Core-Value-Equation-Framework-Limitless/dp/1544506708 Write a review for The Greatness Machine using this link: https://ratethispodcast.com/spreadinggreatness.  Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Loyalty—do you give it freely, or do you expect it to be earned? In this solo episode of The Greatness Machine, Darius Mirshahzadeh dives deep into the complexities of loyalty, sharing a pivotal lesson that reshaped his perspective. From early business partnerships to navigating the highs and lows of entrepreneurship, he explores how loyalty can be both a gift and a test. Tune in for raw insights, personal stories, and a thought-provoking take on what it truly means to stand by those around you. In this episode, Darius will discuss: (00:00) The Nature of Loyalty (02:55) Loyalty as a Gift (06:12) Lessons from Business Experiences (11:50) Reframing Expectations of Loyalty (18:00) Understanding Self-Interest in Relationships Sponsored by: Aura Frames: Visit AuraFrames.com and get 45 dollars off Aura’s best selling Carver Mat frame. Next Insurance: Protect your business now. Visit NEXTInsurance.com today.  Connect with Darius: Website: https://therealdarius.com/ Linkedin: https://www.linkedin.com/in/dariusmirshahzadeh/ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/imthedarius/ YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@Thegreatnessmachine  Book: The Core Value Equation https://www.amazon.com/Core-Value-Equation-Framework-Limitless/dp/1544506708 Write a review for The Greatness Machine using this link: https://ratethispodcast.com/spreadinggreatness.  Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

What if the key to success isn’t just mindset, but training your inner world like an athlete trains their body? In this episode of The Greatness Machine, Darius sits down with Joey Klein, Transformation and Mastery Expert and Founder of Inner Matrix Systems, to explore how emotional intelligence, self-awareness, and consistent inner training can transform how we think, feel, and perform. Joey shares his journey from hardship to mastery and offers a practical roadmap for building emotional resilience, finding fulfillment, and leading with clarity and compassion. He explains how our nervous system shapes every decision we make and why lasting success begins with mastering our inner state. This episode is a must-listen for anyone ready to elevate their mindset and create meaningful, sustainable growth. In this episode, Darius and Joey will discuss: (00:00) Introduction and Cultural Observations (02:06) Joey Klein's Origin Story (06:55) The Journey into Personal Development (11:50) Influences of Eastern Traditions (17:50) Dogma vs. Spiritual Experience (23:07) The Journey of Practical Spirituality (26:14) Understanding the Inner Matrix System (30:54) Awareness and Reprogramming Patterns (36:07) Preventing Pain Through Conscious Development (40:17) Engaging with the Inner Matrix Training (47:08) Accessing Resources and Overcoming Barriers Joey Klein is a Transformation and Mastery Expert, Author, Speaker, and Founder & CEO of Inner Matrix Systems, a personal mastery training system for high achievers. He has trained over 84,000 individuals, including executives, entrepreneurs, and athletes, to create lasting fulfillment and impact. Author of “The Inner Matrix” and “Relationship Alchemy,” Joey blends psychology, neuroscience, and ancient wisdom in his work. Based in Colorado, he lives out his values of excellence and integrity while enjoying hiking, skiing, and mountain biking. Connect with Joey: Website: https://www.theinnermatrix.com/grab-your-free-copy  Website: https://joeyklein.com/  Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/therealjoeyklein/  Connect with Darius: Website: https://therealdarius.com/ Linkedin: https://www.linkedin.com/in/dariusmirshahzadeh/ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/imthedarius/ YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@Thegreatnessmachine  Book: The Core Value Equation https://www.amazon.com/Core-Value-Equation-Framework-Limitless/dp/1544506708 Write a review for The Greatness Machine using this link: https://ratethispodcast.com/spreadinggreatness.  Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices