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The Happy Wife Mentor I Stop arguing, Get the love you want, feel connected to your spouse again
Jenny Gremillion- Certified Coach for Women & Podcaster
26 episodes
2 weeks ago
The purpose of this podcast is to equip women with the strategies, mindset and tools they need to have a loving, connected marriage...for life! We discuss how the culture has gotten us off track and how we can take back our power as women to have the relationship of our dreams! We will uncover feminine wisdom and how to apply to modern day marriage to get the love you want from your man. Learn how to argue less, have a more peaceful home and truly be happier than you’ve ever been before!
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The purpose of this podcast is to equip women with the strategies, mindset and tools they need to have a loving, connected marriage...for life! We discuss how the culture has gotten us off track and how we can take back our power as women to have the relationship of our dreams! We will uncover feminine wisdom and how to apply to modern day marriage to get the love you want from your man. Learn how to argue less, have a more peaceful home and truly be happier than you’ve ever been before!
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Episodes (20/26)
The Happy Wife Mentor I Stop arguing, Get the love you want, feel connected to your spouse again
Ep. 25: The Courage to Pivot - A Personal Podcast Update
Welcome back to The Happy Wife Mentor Podcast!   In this heartfelt and deeply personal episode, Jenny shares an important announcement — a temporary pause for the podcast — and opens her heart to reflect on the journey of the last six months. From gratitude for the global community that has grown since the podcast launched, to the honest realities of capacity, family needs, health, and self-care, this episode is both a closing and an invitation. Jenny walks listeners through the importance of practicing what we preach as women, especially when it comes to rest, creativity, and honoring the season we’re in. She shares why creativity has always been a cornerstone of her own self-care, how it supports joy and emotional health in marriage, and why sometimes the most loving thing we can do for ourselves and our families is to pause and realign. This is not a goodbye — it’s a “see you soon,” with a hopeful vision for a future season focused on creativity, feminine expression, and joy-filled living.   What you’ll learn: Why self-care isn’t optional — it’s foundational to marriage and family health How to honestly assess your capacity and recognize when it’s time to pause Why creativity is a feminine gift that brings healing, joy, and renewal How laying something down for a season can be an act of wisdom, not failure Encouragement to reevaluate what truly matters in this current season of life If you’ve been feeling stretched thin, disconnected from joy, or longing for more creativity and rest, this episode offers permission to pause, realign, and choose what nourishes your heart without guilt.   Chapters:00:00 Gratitude to Listeners01:14 Pausing the Podcast03:05 Taking My Own Coaching Advice04:57 A Vision for Season 206:44 Encouragement for Marriage & Growth08:27 Final Thank You & Temporary Farewell 📩 Connect with Jenny. Email Coaching@JennyGremillion.com 📱 Follow Jenny on Instagram: @JennyGremillion🎧 Catch up on past episodes of The Happy Wife Mentor Podcast on Apple Podcasts | Spotify 👯‍♀️ Share this episode with a friend who may need permission to rest, create, and choose joy in this season. 👉 Stay subscribed so you’ll be the first to know when Season 2 launches👉 Follow along for updates, encouragement, and future creative conversations👉 Get access to Jenny’s free guide: Unlock Your Soft Power: The Feminine Way to Get More Help At Home👉 Connect with Jenny Gremillion: Join The Happy Wife Club on Facebook
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2 weeks ago
9 minutes

The Happy Wife Mentor I Stop arguing, Get the love you want, feel connected to your spouse again
Ep. 24: 3 Ways to Accept Yourself Wholeheartedly and How It Transforms Your Marriage
Welcome back to The Happy Wife Mentor Podcast!   In this episode, Jenny dives into a topic that is often overlooked but is transformative for your marriage: accepting yourself wholeheartedly. Jenny shares how embracing your authentic self—your emotions, gifts, and quirks—can create a more loving, supportive, and fulfilling relationship with your spouse. For women who are creative, sensitive, or deeply connected to their feminine design, self-acceptance can feel scary. Jenny talks about how societal expectations, perfectionism, and past experiences can create walls that prevent us from fully showing up in our marriages—and how to break those barriers.   What you’ll learn: How to drop self-criticism and cultivate compassion for yourself Why celebrating who you truly are strengthens your marriage How embracing your emotions instead of hiding them is a superpower in relationships How to balance your feminine sensitivity with the masculine dynamics of your marriage Practical strategies to stop projecting self-judgment onto your spouse If you’ve been feeling disconnected from yourself or showing up on autopilot in your marriage, this episode will help you shift from self-pressure to self-acceptance — creating a warmer, softer, more connected space for both you and your husband.   Chapters: 00:44 Episode Introduction 01:03 Why Accepting Yourself Feels Scary 02:20 Tip #1: Drop Self-Criticism & Practice Compassion 04:03 The Mirror Effect 04:47 Tip #2: Celebrate Who You Truly Are 06:11 Embracing Differences as Strength, Not Conflict 07:47 Tip #3: Accept Your Emotions Instead of Fighting Them 09:42 Relearning Your Feminine Design After Years in Masculine Environments 11:09 Recap 13:39 Closing 📩 Connect with Jenny. Email Coaching@JennyGremillion.com 📱 Follow Jenny on Instagram: @JennyGremillion 👯‍♀️ Share this episode with a friend who struggles to accept herself fully—help her unlock freedom, joy, and a stronger marriage.   👉 Listen to The Happy Wife Mentor Podcast on Apple Podcasts | Spotify to never miss an episode! 👉 Subscribe now and get instant access to Jenny’s free guide: Unlock Your Soft Power: The Feminine Way to Get More Help At Home 👉 Connect with Jenny Gremillion: Instagram | Join The Happy Wife Club on Facebook
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3 weeks ago
14 minutes

The Happy Wife Mentor I Stop arguing, Get the love you want, feel connected to your spouse again
Ep. 23: Keeping the Peace In Your Marriage Holiday Edition
Welcome back to The Happy Wife Mentor Podcast!   The holiday season is here, and for many of us, that means extra busyness, stress, and pressure — especially in our marriages. In this episode, Jenny Gremillion shares five practical tips to help you navigate the Christmas season with peace, joy, and love in your marriage. Jenny talks about her own experiences balancing holiday prep, creative projects, family traditions, and self-care — all while keeping her marriage strong. She reminds us that our energy, planning, and mindset directly affect our home and relationships. Whether you’re juggling parties, shopping, traditions, or family travel, this episode will help you prioritize what truly matters, communicate your needs with clarity, and let go of the unrealistic expectations that often steal our joy.   What you’ll learn: How to make a simple, realistic holiday plan to reduce stress How to prioritize what matters most and avoid overwhelm Why self-care is essential to showing up as your best self in marriage How to ask for help and communicate your desires without guilt or tension How to let go of perfectionism and be fully present with your family How gratitude and presence transform the holiday season in your home and marriage If the thought of the holiday rush makes you tense, this episode is a roadmap for keeping peace in your marriage and joy in your home.   Chapters: 00:44 Episode Introduction 01:33 The Holiday Hustle 02:24 Tip #1 - Make a Plan 04:32 Tip #2 - Prioritize What Matters Most 05:45 Tip #3 - Remember Your Self-Care 06:45 Tip #4 - Get Vulnerable & Ask for Help 09:32 Tip #5 - Let Go of Perfectionism 11:09 Recap 12:29 Closing   📩 Connect with Jenny. Email Coaching@JennyGremillion.com 📱 Follow Jenny on Instagram: @JennyGremillion 👯‍♀️ Share this episode with a friend who is feeling the holiday stress. Help her keep peace and joy in her home this season.   👉 Listen to The Happy Wife Mentor Podcast on Apple Podcasts | Spotify to never miss an episode! 👉 Subscribe now and get instant access to Jenny’s free guide: Unlock Your Soft Power: The Feminine Way to Get More Help At Home 👉 Connect with Jenny Gremillion: Instagram | Join The Happy Wife Club on Facebook
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1 month ago
13 minutes

The Happy Wife Mentor I Stop arguing, Get the love you want, feel connected to your spouse again
Ep. 22: Has Hunting Season Got You Feeling Resentful? 3 Tips To Shift Things
Welcome back to The Happy Wife Mentor Podcast!   In this episode, Jenny gets real about a topic that so many Southern wives quietly struggle with: resentment during hunting season. If your husband disappears into the woods every weekend while you’re home juggling kids, practices, and endless responsibilities… this one is for you. Jenny shares her personal story of how deer season used to create major friction in her home — from feeling abandoned to feeling unappreciated — and the emotional spiral that happens when you’re doing everything alone. But she also walks you through the exact shifts she made to soften resentment, communicate clearly, and actually feel more connected to her husband… even when he’s in the deer stand. You’ll learn how unmet desires fuel resentment, why vulnerability creates safety instead of conflict, and how a daily gratitude practice can transform irritation into connection. No guilt. No martyrdom. Just honest ownership and tools that bring peace back into your home. This episode is your roadmap for reclaiming your happiness, communicating your limits without drama, and creating a marriage where both of you feel seen, supported, and understood — even during hunting season.   What you’ll learn: Why resentment almost always points to an unmet desire How to identify your real need (not just the surface frustration) The right way to ask your husband for what you want — without triggering defensiveness How to communicate limits without complaining or shutting down Why jealousy or frustration is often a signal that you need time away too Practical ways to get support when responsibilities stack too high How daily gratitude rewires resentment into understanding The difference between being a “porcupine wife” and being approachable, soft, and seen If hunting season has turned into tension season, this episode will help you shift the atmosphere from resentment to appreciation — and bring back the warmth, teamwork, and connection you actually want.   Chapters: 00:44 Episode Introduction 01:08 Personal Backstory: How It All Started 02:09 The Reality of Hunting Life 02:53 The Resentment Season 03:50 Tip #1 — Identify the Real Need 05:52 Tip #2 — Learn Vulnerability & Asking Clearly 08:08 Tip #3 — Gratitude That Softens Resentment 08:25 A Real-Life Reframe 10:21 Honest Disclaimer 10:37 Final Recap 12:04 Closing   📩 Connect with Jenny. Email Coaching@JennyGremillion.com 📱 Follow Jenny on Instagram: @JennyGremillion 👯‍♀️ Share this episode with a friend who silently struggles every hunting season. She doesn’t have to navigate resentment alone.   👉 Listen to The Happy Wife Mentor Podcast on Apple Podcasts | Spotify to never miss an episode! 👉 Subscribe now and get instant access to Jenny’s free guide: Unlock Your Soft Power: The Feminine Way to Get More Help At Home 👉 Connect with Jenny Gremillion: Instagram | Join The Happy Wife Club on Facebook
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1 month ago
13 minutes

The Happy Wife Mentor I Stop arguing, Get the love you want, feel connected to your spouse again
Ep. 21: Feeling Disconnected? Shift Your Focus to Reconnect
Welcome back to The Happy Wife Mentor Podcast!   In this episode, Jenny dives deep into the real reason many wives feel disconnected in their marriage—not because everything is falling apart, but because the brain naturally fixates on what’s wrong. She breaks down how your focus becomes the filter for your entire experience… and how a simple shift in what you look for can completely transform the way you feel, respond, and connect with your husband. Jenny shares vulnerable stories from her own marriage—specifically how money used to be a major trigger—and unpacks why the brain gravitates toward frustration, disappointment, and worst-case assumptions (even when your relationship is stable and loving). You’ll learn why your attention works like a spotlight, how negativity bias forms neural pathways, and how daily intentional focus can reshape the emotional atmosphere in your home. This episode is your practical roadmap to shifting from tension to tenderness, from criticism to connection, and from feeling like “everything is wrong” to realizing much more is going right than you think. No perfection required. No pretending. Just honest awareness and small, steady mental shifts that open the door to softness, emotional safety, and genuine closeness with your husband.   What you’ll learn: The real reason your brain notices every little thing your husband doesn’t do How negativity bias narrows your view and drains connection Why focusing on problems makes them feel bigger than they actually are How to interrupt a negative thought spiral in 10 seconds The power of the Reticular Activating System (RAS) and how to use it in your marriage How appreciation rewires your brain—and warms your relationship Why tiny daily shifts matter more than dramatic fixes Practical steps to become softer, more inviting, and easier to connect with If your marriage has felt emotionally flat, heavy, or stuck in old patterns, this episode will help you finally understand why—and show you the exact mindset shift that opens the door to connection, peace, and emotional safety again.   Chapters: 00:43 Episode Introduction 01:07 When Money Became the Trigger 02:47 Understanding the Focus Trap 05:22 How Negativity Shapes Your Marriage 06:00 Reclaiming Your Power Over Your Thoughts 06:35 How to Shift Your Focus Daily 09:08 The Transformation Inside the Marriage 09:51 Why Couples Drift Apart And How to Reverse It 10:16 Closing Challenge 📩 Connect with Jenny. Email Coaching@JennyGremillion.com 📱 Follow Jenny on Instagram: @JennyGremillion 👯‍♀️ Share this episode with a friend who needs the reminder that her focus has the power to transform her marriage from the inside out.   👉 Listen to The Happy Wife Mentor Podcast on Apple Podcasts | Spotify to never miss an episode! 👉 Subscribe now and get instant access to Jenny’s free guide: Unlock Your Soft Power: The Feminine Way to Get More Help At Home 👉 Connect with Jenny Gremillion: Instagram | Join The Happy Wife Club on Facebook
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1 month ago
11 minutes

The Happy Wife Mentor I Stop arguing, Get the love you want, feel connected to your spouse again
Ep. 20: The Unexpected Way Creativity Heals Disconnection in Marriage
Welcome back to The Happy Wife Mentor Podcast!   In this episode, Jenny explores the powerful connection between creativity and emotional closeness in marriage. She shares her own journey of rediscovering creativity after years of operating almost entirely in her masculine — focused, driven, productive, and constantly in “get it done” mode. Jenny explains how many wives unintentionally disconnect from their feminine essence by abandoning their creative side, and how this shift can quietly impact polarity, joy, and intimacy at home. When we step back into creativity — whether painting, gardening, baking, dancing, or simply playing again — we return to our natural softness, presence, and feminine radiance… and our husbands feel the difference.   What you’ll learn: How growing up and work environments can condition women into masculine mode Why creativity is a core expression of femininity The difference between masculine “production” and feminine “play” How creative flow brings you back to the present — and back to yourself Why joy and softness naturally draw your husband closer Simple ways to reintroduce creativity into everyday life If your marriage has been feeling a little routine or muted lately, this episode will show you how creativity can reawaken joy, spark curiosity, and bring back that warm, connected energy between you and your husband.   Chapters: 00:44 Episode Introduction 02:04 Accidentally Living in Masculine Mode 03:05 Understanding Polarity in Marriage 05:01 The Flow State That Changes Everything 06:02 Everyday Ways to Be Creative Again 07:45 From Porcupine to Magnetic 10:15 Gentle Reflection 11:35 Closing   Reflection Prompt What did you love doing as a child just for fun with no goal or outcome?How can you bring even 10 minutes of that creativity back into your week?   📩 Connect with Jenny. Email Coaching@JennyGremillion.com 📱 Follow Jenny on Instagram: @JennyGremillion 👯‍♀️ Share this episode with a friend who has been feeling “burned out” or hardened by life. She may just need permission to play again.   👉 Listen to The Happy Wife Mentor Podcast on Apple Podcasts | Spotify to never miss an episode! 👉 Subscribe now and get instant access to Jenny’s free guide: Unlock Your Soft Power: The Feminine Way to Get More Help At Home 👉 Connect with Jenny Gremillion: Instagram | Join The Happy Wife Club on Facebook
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1 month ago
12 minutes

The Happy Wife Mentor I Stop arguing, Get the love you want, feel connected to your spouse again
Ep. 19: The Surprising Habit That Pushes Your Husband Away
Welcome back to The Happy Wife Mentor Podcast!   In this episode, Jenny shares a powerful truth that may surprise you: the habit of being “helpful” might actually be pushing your husband away. From offering reminders and unsolicited advice to micromanaging the details of his life, many wives think they’re supporting their husbands — but what he feels is control and criticism. Jenny opens up about her own journey of realizing how this habit, rooted in love and good intentions, can quietly break polarity and connection in marriage. She explains why men often pull away when they feel mothered, how to recognize when “helpfulness” has turned into control, and what it looks like to make The Feminine Shift — a gentle, powerful return to trust, respect, and emotional closeness.   What you’ll learn: The difference between being helpful and being controlling Why “helpful in wife language” often sounds like “micromanaging” in husband language How mothering your husband kills attraction and polarity What The Feminine Shift looks like in everyday moments How to rebuild trust and closeness by letting him lead Simple ways to stop overhelping without losing connection If you’ve been feeling a subtle distance in your marriage, this might be the exact shift you’ve been missing to bring back the spark and connection you desire.   Chapters: 00:43 Introduction 01:41 The Habit of Being Helpful 02:35 Why “Helping” Can Feel Like Controlling 04:36 The Hidden Impact - It Breaks Polarity 05:42 The Feminine Shift 07:29 Restoring Connection Through Trust 08:15 Reflection & Journal Prompt 08:58 Closing   📩 Connect with Jenny. Email Coaching@JennyGremillion.com 📱 Follow Jenny on Instagram: @JennyGremillion 👯‍♀️ Share this episode with a friend who loves to “help”. She might discover that the secret to deeper connection isn’t doing more, but trusting more.   👉 Listen to The Happy Wife Mentor Podcast on Apple Podcasts | Spotify to never miss an episode! 👉 Subscribe now and get instant access to Jenny’s free guide: Unlock Your Soft Power: The Feminine Way to Get More Help At Home 👉 Connect with Jenny Gremillion: Instagram | Join The Happy Wife Club on Facebook
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2 months ago
10 minutes

The Happy Wife Mentor I Stop arguing, Get the love you want, feel connected to your spouse again
Ep. 18: How Hyper Independence Can Hurt Your Marriage
Welcome back to The Happy Wife Mentor Podcast!   In this episode, Jenny dives deep into a common struggle for many wives — hyper independence — and how it silently creates distance in marriage. You’ll discover why that “I’ll just do it myself” mindset feels safe but actually blocks connection, disrupts polarity, and keeps your husband from stepping into his masculine role. Jenny shares her personal journey of realizing how independence rooted in self-protection can unintentionally build walls instead of bridges — and how she learned to soften without losing her strength. You’ll walk away with practical steps to practice feminine receptivity, express vulnerability in healthy ways, and make space for your husband to lead.   What you’ll learn: What hyper independence looks like in marriage (and where it comes from) How it disrupts masculine and feminine polarity Why being “strong” all the time can lead to emotional distance How to soften without feeling weak or losing your power Simple ways to express needs and desires vulnerably How practicing feminine receptivity restores balance and connection If you’ve been feeling exhausted, carrying too much, or like your husband has checked out — this episode is for you.    Chapters: 00:43 Episode Introduction 01:37 What Hyper Independence Looks Like 03:53 Why Hyper Independence Disrupts Polarity 05:27 How to Soften Without Losing Your Strength 07:56 Practice Feminine Receptivity 08:53 Reflection & Recap   📩 Connect with Jenny. Email Coaching@JennyGremillion.com 📱 Follow Jenny on Instagram: @JennyGremillion 👯‍♀️ Share this episode with a friend who’s been trying to “do it all.” Remind her that softness and strength can coexist beautifully.   👉 Listen to The Happy Wife Mentor Podcast on Apple Podcasts | Spotify to never miss an episode! 👉 Subscribe now and get instant access to Jenny’s free guide: Unlock Your Soft Power: The Feminine Way to Get More Help At Home 👉 Connect with Jenny Gremillion: Instagram | Join The Happy Wife Club on Facebook
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2 months ago
11 minutes

The Happy Wife Mentor I Stop arguing, Get the love you want, feel connected to your spouse again
Ep. 17: What is Masculine and Feminine Polarity in Marriage
Welcome back to The Happy Wife Mentor Podcast!   In this episode, Jenny unpacks masculine and feminine polarity — what it really means, why it matters in marriage today, and how to restore the attraction and balance that keeps love alive. You’ll discover how polarity affects everything from communication to intimacy, why hyper-independence can unintentionally push your husband away, and how small shifts in your energy can reignite his leadership and desire to connect. Jenny shares real-life examples, simple mindset changes, and practical steps you can start applying today — no complicated strategies, just awareness and intentional softness that create magnetic results.   What you’ll learn: What polarity really means in marriage (and why it’s not just a buzzword) How masculine and feminine energies complement each other Why being in your masculine all the time leads to disconnection and burnout How to restore balance by softening your energy — without losing your strength Three simple shifts that reignite attraction and connection If you’ve been feeling like roommates or business partners instead of lovers, this episode may be the key to bringing back the spark and connection you’ve been missing.   Chapters: 00:43 Why Polarity Matters 02:00 What Polarity Really Means in Marriage 03:29 How Hyper-Independence Breaks Connection 04:38 How to Restore Polarity 05:08 Shift #1: Receive Instead of Overdo 05:45 Shift #2: Express Desire, Not Control 06:53 Shift #3: Trust His Leadership 08:12 The Power of Polarity in Action 09:13 Closing & What’s Next     📩 Connect with Jenny. Email Coaching@JennyGremillion.com 📱 Follow Jenny on Instagram: @JennyGremillion 👯‍♀️ Share this episode with a friend who needs the reminder that softness doesn’t mean weakness — it’s what makes connection magnetic.   👉 Listen to The Happy Wife Mentor Podcast on Apple Podcasts | Spotify to never miss an episode! 👉 Subscribe now and get instant access to Jenny’s free guide: Unlock Your Soft Power: The Feminine Way to Get More Help At Home 👉 Connect with Jenny Gremillion: Instagram | Join The Happy Wife Club on Facebook
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2 months ago
10 minutes

The Happy Wife Mentor I Stop arguing, Get the love you want, feel connected to your spouse again
Ep. 16: How to Train Your Brain to See What's Right In Your Marriage
Welcome back to The Happy Wife Mentor Podcast!   Do you ever catch yourself focusing on what your husband isn’t doing, what’s wrong in your relationship, or what you wish would change? You’re not alone — and there’s actually a scientific reason for it. In this episode, Jenny unpacks why our brains are wired to spot what’s wrong (hello, Reticular Activating System!) and how that default setting can steal your joy and satisfaction in marriage. She shares biblical truth and practical tools to help you retrain your mind to see what’s right — and start creating more peace, gratitude, and connection in your home.   What you’ll learn: Why your brain naturally notices the negative first How to “take every thought captive” and make it obedient to Christ The power of your inner dialogue — and how to shift it A simple daily exercise to train your brain to see what’s going right Why focusing on gratitude can transform how you feel about your marriage If you’ve been feeling frustrated or stuck seeing only what’s wrong in your marriage, this episode will help you shift your focus and your heart toward what’s good again.   Chapters: 00:43 The Struggle to See the Good 02:15 Key #1: Your Brain Is Wired to Spot What’s Wrong 03:11 Key #2: Take Every Thought Captive 04:13 Key #3: Train Your Brain to See What You Want to See 05:47 Why This Works: Science and Scripture Alignment 06:55 Challenge: The 10 Things Exercise   📩 Share your takeaway or story with Jenny. Email Coaching@JennyGremillion.com 📱 Follow Jenny on Instagram: @JennyGremillion 👯‍♀️ Share this episode with a friend who’s been struggling to see the good in her marriage — this mindset shift could change everything.   👉 Listen to The Happy Wife Mentor Podcast on Apple Podcasts | Spotify to never miss an episode! 👉 Subscribe now and get instant access to Jenny’s free guide: Unlock Your Soft Power: The Feminine Way to Get More Help At Home 👉 Connect with Jenny Gremillion: Instagram | Join The Happy Wife Club on Facebook
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2 months ago
8 minutes

The Happy Wife Mentor I Stop arguing, Get the love you want, feel connected to your spouse again
Ep. 15: Why The 5 Love Languages Left Me Feeling Burned Out In My Marriage
Welcome back to The Happy Wife Mentor Podcast!   In this week’s episode, Jenny shares a bold and refreshing take on one of the most popular marriage books of all time — The 5 Love Languages by Gary Chapman. While the book has helped many, Jenny opens up about why it actually left her feeling burnt out and resentful in her own marriage. She breaks down four reasons why “The 5 Love Languages” can unintentionally create imbalance in your relationship — and what to focus on instead to build real connection, respect, and joy with your husband. From overgiving and hidden resentment to the trap of “tit-for-tat” thinking, this episode challenges wives to rethink what true love and partnership look like — without losing yourself in the process.   What you’ll learn: Why trying to “do” your husband’s love language can leave you feeling drained How “tit-for-tat” thinking keeps you focused on what he’s not doing Why doing more isn’t the key to deeper love Why you deserve all five love languages — not just one The better way to build connection through self-care and feminine receiving If you’ve been feeling distance in your marriage, gratitude may be the exact shift that brings back joy and closeness.   Chapters: 00:43 Why I Don’t Recommend “The 5 Love Languages” 01:51 Personal Story 03:05 Reason #1 – Overgiving Leads to Resentment 03:42 Reason #2 – The Trap of “Tit-for-Tat” Thinking 04:31 Reason #3 – Doing More Isn’t the Answer 05:41 Reason #4 – Why Settle for One Love Language? 06:39 Recap 08:38 Challenge & Invitation   🔥 Missed the 7 Keys to Love & Connection in Marriage mini series? Start here: Episode 8 – Key #1: Create a Vision for Your Marriage Episode 9 – Key #2: Take Excellent Care of Yourself Episode 10 – Key #3: Practice the Art of Respect Episode 11 – Key #4: Stop Controlling Him Episode 12 – Key #5: Practice Feminine Receptivity Episode 13 – Key #6: Learn to Be Vulnerable Episode 14 – Key #7: Practice Gratitude 📩 Share your thoughts on this episode. Email Coaching@JennyGremillion.com 📱 Follow Jenny on Instagram: @JennyGremillion 👯‍♀️ Share this episode with a friend who’s ever felt burned out from trying to “do it all” in her marriage.   👉 Listen to The Happy Wife Mentor Podcast on Apple Podcasts | Spotify to never miss an episode! 👉 Subscribe now and get instant access to Jenny’s free guide: Unlock Your Soft Power: The Feminine Way to Get More Help At Home 👉 Connect with Jenny Gremillion: Instagram | Join The Happy Wife Club on Facebook
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2 months ago
10 minutes

The Happy Wife Mentor I Stop arguing, Get the love you want, feel connected to your spouse again
Ep. 14: Mini Series: 7 Keys to Love & Connection in Marriage – Key #7: Practice Gratitude
Welcome back to The Happy Wife Mentor Podcast!   In this episode of our 7 Keys to Love & Connection in Marriage Mini Series, Jenny dives into Key #7: Practice Gratitude. If you’ve ever found yourself in a funk, focusing on what your husband isn’t doing right, you know how easy it is to spiral into negativity. But what if the key to turning it all around is as simple as shifting your focus? Jenny shares why gratitude is a total game-changer in marriage and how it can transform criticism into connection. You’ll discover three simple, practical steps that help you retrain your brain to notice the good, express it daily, and build a lasting culture of appreciation in your marriage. What you’ll learn: Why your brain is wired to notice the negative — and how to change it How the Reticular Activating System works to filter what you focus on The surprising impact of saying “thank you” every single day Why expressing gratitude softens your heart (and his) How to build a gratitude habit that shifts the culture of your marriage If you’ve been feeling distance in your marriage, gratitude may be the exact shift that brings back joy and closeness. Chapters: 00:43 Why Gratitude Is a Game-Changer in Marriage 02:45 Step 1 – Shift Your Focus With Gratitude 04:26 Step 2 – Express It Daily 05:08 Step 3 – Make Gratitude a Habit 05:58 Recap & Challenge 📩 Share your wins and takeaways. Email Coaching@JennyGremillion.com 📱 Follow Jenny on Instagram: @JennyGremillion 👯‍♀️ Share this episode with a friend who needs the reminder that gratitude is powerful in marriage!   👉 Listen to The Happy Wife Mentor Podcast on Apple Podcasts | Spotify to never miss an episode! 👉 Subscribe now and get instant access to Jenny’s free guide: Unlock Your Soft Power: The Feminine Way to Get More Help At Home 👉 Connect with Jenny Gremillion: Instagram | Join The Happy Wife Club on Facebook
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3 months ago
8 minutes

The Happy Wife Mentor I Stop arguing, Get the love you want, feel connected to your spouse again
Ep. 13: Mini Series: 7 Keys to Love & Connection in Marriage – Key #6: Learn to be Vulnerable in your Marriage
Welcome back to The Happy Wife Mentor Podcast!   In this episode of our 7 Keys to Love & Connection in Marriage Mini Series, Jenny dives into Key #6: Learn to be Vulnerable in your Marriage. Vulnerability is scary — it feels risky, uncomfortable, and even dangerous if you’ve been hurt in the past. But it’s also the secret ingredient to intimacy and deep connection in marriage. Jenny opens up about her own struggles with defensiveness, how arguments with her husband led them to marriage counseling, and the breakthrough that came when she began practicing vulnerability instead. You’ll learn three practical ways to let your guard down, share your true feelings, and invite your husband into a deeper emotional bond with you. What you’ll learn: Why intimacy requires courage and openness How defensiveness shuts down connection (and what to do instead) The power of saying “Ouch” instead of arguing Why letting your tears flow is healthy and healing How saying “I can’t” helps prevent resentment and burnout The importance of healing past hurts that make vulnerability feel unsafe If you’ve been feeling distance in your marriage, these shifts may be exactly what you need to turn things around. Chapters: 00:00 Introduction 00:55 Why Vulnerability Is So Hard in Marriage 02:44 The Magnetic Wife Method Is Now Open 03:55 Tip #1: Say “Ouch” Instead of Defending Yourself 05:34 Tip #2: Let the Tears Flow 06:26 Tip #3: Say “I Can’t” Without Guilt 08:47 Healing Past Hurts Around Vulnerability 10:36 Recap & Challenge   🔥 The doors are open to The Magnetic Wife Method — join as a founding member now and get lifetime access to future groups! 📩 Share your wins or questions. Email Coaching@JennyGremillion.com 📱 Follow Jenny on Instagram: @JennyGremillion 👯‍♀️ Share this episode with a friend who needs the reminder that vulnerability is powerful, not weak.   👉 Listen to The Happy Wife Mentor Podcast on Apple Podcasts | Spotify to never miss an episode! 👉 Subscribe now and get instant access to Jenny’s free guide: Unlock Your Soft Power: The Feminine Way to Get More Help At Home 👉 Connect with Jenny Gremillion: Instagram | Join The Happy Wife Club on Facebook
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3 months ago
13 minutes

The Happy Wife Mentor I Stop arguing, Get the love you want, feel connected to your spouse again
Ep. 12: Mini Series: 7 Keys to Love & Connection in Marriage – Key #5: Practicing Feminine Receptivity The Art of Receiving
Welcome back to The Happy Wife Mentor Podcast!   In this episode of our 7 Keys to Love & Connection in Marriage Mini Series, Jenny dives into Key #5: Practicing Feminine Receptivity: The Art of Receiving. If you’ve ever found yourself thinking, “I’ve got it, I can do everything myself,” this episode will hit home. Jenny opens up about how her own hyper-independence left her feeling resentful and disconnected — even though she thought she was being strong and capable. You’ll discover why receiving is a core part of feminine energy, how refusing help can shut down connection, and why learning to receive is actually a sign of strength and confidence.   What you’ll learn: Why “doing it all” often leads to hidden resentment Two everyday ways to practice receiving (and why they feel so vulnerable) How accepting help and compliments makes you more feminine and confident Three surprising benefits of becoming a good receiver in marriage Why receiving opens the door to more love, connection, and blessings in your life If you’ve been carrying the load alone, these shifts may be exactly what you need to feel cherished, supported, and connected again.   Chapters: 00:00 Introduction 01:05 The Struggle with Independence & Resentment 02:57 Invitation to The Magnetic Wife Method 03:43 Two Ways to Practice Receiving 05:30 Three Reasons Why Good Receivers Are More Confident 07:24 Recap & Weekly Challenge 🔥 Be the first to get info on my upcoming group program (seats are limited!) by joining the priority list here: The Magnetic Wife Method Priority List 📩 Want to share your own Happy Wife Review? Email Coaching@JennyGremillion.com 📱 Follow Jenny on Instagram: @JennyGremillion 👯‍♀️ Share this episode with a friend who needs the reminder that receiving is part of feminine strength!   👉 Listen to The Happy Wife Mentor Podcast on Apple Podcasts | Spotify to never miss an episode! 👉 Subscribe now and get instant access to Jenny’s free guide: Unlock Your Soft Power: The Feminine Way to Get More Help At Home 👉 Connect with Jenny Gremillion: Instagram | Join The Happy Wife Club on Facebook
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3 months ago
9 minutes

The Happy Wife Mentor I Stop arguing, Get the love you want, feel connected to your spouse again
Ep. 11: Mini Series: 7 Keys to Love & Connection in Marriage – Key #4: Stop Controlling Him
Welcome back to The Happy Wife Mentor Podcast!   In this episode of our 7 Keys to Love & Connection in Marriage Mini Series, Jenny dives into Key #4: Stop Controlling Him — a sneaky way wives can unintentionally disrespect their husbands. Jenny shares her own story of being shocked to discover just how much control showed up in her marriage, even when she thought she wasn’t “that kind of wife.” From childhood wounds that led to hyper-independence, to everyday habits like correcting how he drives or handles money, Jenny unpacks the hidden ways control creeps in — and why it’s such a major turnoff for husbands. You’ll discover how “helpfulness” can often feel like “control” to your man, why it comes from fear and mistrust, and practical ways to stop controlling so you can build back respect, connection, and attraction in your marriage. What you’ll learn: The surprising everyday behaviors that come across as controlling Why “helpful in wife language” often translates to “controlling in husband language” How childhood disappointments and trauma fuel hyper-independence Why men pull away when they feel controlled (and what attracts them back) The freedom that comes when you trust him to lead and make decisions If you’ve been feeling distant in your marriage, these shifts may be exactly what you need to bring back the closeness and connection you’re longing for. Chapters: 00:00 Introduction 01:02 Realization About Control 02:24 Invitation to The Magnetic Wife Method 03:03 Personal Story: Childhood & Hyper-Independence 05:48 Ways Wives Control Without Realizing It 08:37 Why We Control: Root Causes 09:45 How to Stop Controlling 10:18 Recap & Challenge 🔥 Be the first to get info on my upcoming group program (seats are limited!) by joining the priority list here: The Magnetic Wife Method Priority List 📩 Want to share your own Happy Wife Review? Email Coaching@JennyGremillion.com 📱 Follow Jenny on Instagram: @JennyGremillion 🎧 Related Episodes: Episode 1 | Episode 2  👯‍♀️ Share this episode with a friend who needs the reminder that respect > control in marriage!   👉 Listen to The Happy Wife Mentor Podcast on Apple Podcasts | Spotify to never miss an episode! 👉 Subscribe now and get instant access to Jenny’s free guide: Unlock Your Soft Power: The Feminine Way to Get More Help At Home 👉 Connect with Jenny Gremillion: Instagram | Join The Happy Wife Club on Facebook
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3 months ago
13 minutes

The Happy Wife Mentor I Stop arguing, Get the love you want, feel connected to your spouse again
Ep. 10: Mini Series: 7 Keys to Love & Connection in Marriage – Key #3: Practice the Art of Respect
Welcome back to The Happy Wife Mentor Podcast!   We’re continuing our 7 Keys to Love & Connection in Marriage Mini Series with Key #3: Practice the Art of Respect. Just like women crave love, men crave respect. It’s like oxygen to them. Jenny shares her personal growth journey in this area and the surprising ways she discovered she wasn’t showing respect in her own marriage. In this episode, Jenny walks through four powerful tips to help you shift your mindset and daily habits so your husband feels trusted, respected, and honored. From simple changes like not interrupting to letting him lead with decisions, you’ll see how these strategies can completely change the tone of your relationship. What you’ll learn: Why respect is as vital to men as love is to women Four practical tips for showing respect in everyday life The subtle behaviors that unintentionally emasculate men How to use a heartfelt apology to restore connection If you’ve been feeling distance in your marriage, these changes may be exactly what you need to turn things around. Chapters: 00:00 Introduction & Episode Hook 01:12 Key #3: Practice the Art of Respect 04:52 Invitation to The Magnetic Wife Method 05:31 Tip #1: Expect the Best 06:30 Tip #2: Stop Helping 09:56 Tip #3: Embrace “Whatever You Think” 12:25 Tip #4: Stop Disrespectful Behaviors 14:23 Recap of the Four Tips 15:40 Challenge & Reflection Exercise     🔥 Be the first to get info on my upcoming group program (seats are limited!) by joining the priority list here: The Magnetic Wife Method Priority List 📩 Want to share your own Happy Wife Review? Email Coaching@JennyGremillion.com 📱 Follow Jenny on Instagram: @JennyGremillion 👯‍♀️ Share this episode with a friend who needs the reminder that respect is the key to connection!   👉 Listen to The Happy Wife Mentor Podcast on Apple Podcasts | Spotify to never miss an episode! 👉 Subscribe now and get instant access to Jenny’s free guide: Unlock Your Soft Power: The Feminine Way to Get More Help At Home 👉 Connect with Jenny Gremillion: Instagram | Join The Happy Wife Club on Facebook
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4 months ago
18 minutes

The Happy Wife Mentor I Stop arguing, Get the love you want, feel connected to your spouse again
Ep. 9: Mini Series: 7 Keys to Love & Connection in Marriage – Key #2: Taking Excellent Care of Yourself
Welcome back to The Happy Wife Mentor Podcast!   We’re continuing our 7 Keys to Love & Connection in Marriage Mini Series with Key #2: Taking Excellent Care of Yourself. If you’ve ever felt overwhelmed, burnt out, or like you just want to run away, this episode is for you. Jenny shares her own story of being a “Yes Girl” who tried to do it all — from elaborate birthday parties to volunteering and working full-time — and how it eventually caught up with her in burnout. She opens up about the real cost of neglecting self-care and why it’s nearly impossible to be patient, loving, and respectful in your marriage when you’re running on empty. You’ll walk away with three practical tips to help you stop the cycle of exhaustion, release perfectionism, and start filling your cup again — guilt-free. What you’ll learn: Why “always saying yes” robs you of the energy your marriage needs How to rediscover what actually makes you happy (and make time for it daily) Why crankiness and resentment are signs of self-care neglect The surprising freedom that comes with letting go of perfectionism How to stop comparing yourself to highlight reels on social media If you’ve been waiting for permission to slow down and start putting yourself back on the list, consider this your sign. Chapters: 00:00 Introduction to Key Number Two 01:02 A Happy Wife Review 01:54 How Always Saying Yes Stole My Self-Care 04:25 Invitation to The Magnetic Wife Method 05:04 Tip #1: Make a List of 25 Things You Love 07:31 Tip #2: Know Your Limits 08:46 Tip #3: Let Go of Perfectionism 10:23 Recap & Challenge 🔥 Be the first to get info on my upcoming group program (seats are limited!) by joining the priority list here: The Magnetic Wife Method Priority List 🎧 Also listen to Episode 5 - How to Have Fun in Your 40s (referenced in today’s episode) 📩 Want to share your own Happy Wife Review? Email Coaching@JennyGremillion.com 📱 Follow Jenny on Instagram: @JennyGremillion 👯‍♀️ Share this episode with a friend who needs the reminder that self-care is not selfish!   👉 Listen to The Happy Wife Mentor Podcast on Apple Podcasts | Spotify to never miss an episode! 👉 Subscribe now and get instant access to Jenny’s free guide: Unlock Your Soft Power: The Feminine Way to Get More Help At Home 👉 Connect with Jenny Gremillion: Instagram | Join The Happy Wife Club on Facebook
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4 months ago
12 minutes 47 seconds

The Happy Wife Mentor I Stop arguing, Get the love you want, feel connected to your spouse again
Ep. 8: Mini Series: 7 Keys to Love & Connection in Marriage – Key #1: Create a Vision for Your Marriage and Focus on It
Welcome back to The Happy Wife Mentor Podcast! We’re kicking off a brand-new mini-series — 7 Keys to Love & Connection in Marriage — and today’s episode is all about Key #1: Creating a Vision for Your Marriage and Focusing on It. Jenny shares a powerful personal story about seeing an older couple’s quiet affection and realizing that you can’t get to where you want to be in your marriage if you don’t know where that is. She helps you create a picture of your dream marriage and then shows you how to keep it front and center… even when life gets messy. You’ll learn how to swap control for connection, replace fear with faith, and build a habit of gratitude that keeps you anchored to hope. What you’ll learn: Why control and intimacy can’t coexist in marriage Four questions to help you move from fear to faith How to hold onto God’s promises in hard seasons A simple daily gratitude practice that transforms your perspective Why your vision should guide your choices every day If you’re ready to create a marriage that feels intentional, connected, and full of love, this episode will give you both the inspiration and the practical steps to start today. Chapters: 00:00 Introduction to the Mini-Series 01:01 Main Story & Inspiration 03:09 Practical Step #1: Faith Over Fear 05:40 Practical Step #2: God’s Promises 06:35 Practical Step #3: Gratitude Practice 08:05 Recap & Encouragement   📩 Want to share your own Happy Wife Review? Email Coaching@JennyGremillion.com 📱 Follow Jenny on Instagram: @JennyGremillion 👯‍♀️ Share this episode with a friend who’s building a vision for her marriage!   👉 Listen to The Happy Wife Mentor Podcast on Apple Podcasts | Spotify to never miss an episode! 👉 Subscribe now and get instant access to Jenny’s free guide: Unlock Your Soft Power: The Feminine Way to Get More Help At Home 👉 Connect with Jenny Gremillion: Instagram | Join The Happy Wife Club on Facebook
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4 months ago
9 minutes 52 seconds

The Happy Wife Mentor I Stop arguing, Get the love you want, feel connected to your spouse again
Ep. 7: 4 Tips on How to Get More Help Around the House
Welcome back to The Happy Wife Mentor Podcast!   Are you constantly tired, overwhelmed, and feeling like the only one responsible for everything at home? You’re not alone… and you don’t have to keep carrying it all. This episode is for the woman who feels resentful, burnt out, and stuck doing everything alone. Jenny opens up about the mental and physical toll of trying to be “Superwoman” and shares the four powerful strategies that helped her shift the dynamic in her home and get the help she needed. You’ll learn why doing everything yourself is not the badge of honor it seems, how to set boundaries without guilt, and what you might unknowingly be doing that shuts down your partner’s willingness to help.   What you’ll learn: Why saying “I can’t” is the most honest act of self-care How “fixing” what your husband does could be backfiring The secret power of gratitude for shifting your household dynamic Why letting go of perfection is the first step toward peace and partnership A mindset challenge that will help you reset how help flows in your home If you’re ready to stop doing it all and start receiving more support without nagging or frustration, this episode gives you the tools and permission to make that change.   Chapters: 00:00 Introduction & A Happy Wife Review 02:02 The Modern Wife’s Load 03:27 Tip 1: Know Your Limits 04:25 Tip 2: Don’t Undo His Efforts 05:55 Tip 3: Thank Him for What’s Going Right 06:51 Tip 4: Let Some Things Go 08:25 Recap 09:26 Challenge & Call to Action   📩 Want to share your own Happy Wife Review? Email Coaching@JennyGremillion.com 📱 Follow Jenny on Instagram: @JennyGremillion 👯‍♀️ Share this episode with a friend who’s juggling all the things and needs support!   👉 Listen to The Happy Wife Mentor Podcast on Apple Podcasts | Spotify to never miss an episode! 👉 Subscribe now and get instant access to Jenny’s free lead magnet: Unlock Your Soft Power: The Feminine Way to Get More Help At Home 👉 Connect with Jenny Gremillion: Instagram | Join The Happy Wife Club on Facebook
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4 months ago
10 minutes 44 seconds

The Happy Wife Mentor I Stop arguing, Get the love you want, feel connected to your spouse again
Ep. 6: How to Have Better Communication in Marriage
Welcome back to The Happy Wife Mentor Podcast!   Do you ever find yourself thinking, “If we just communicated better, our marriage would be so much better”? You're not alone, and this episode is for you. This week, Jenny dives into one of the most common challenges women bring up in their relationships: communication. But instead of vague advice, Jenny breaks down exactly what women really want when they say, “We need better communication,”and how to actually get it. Through personal stories, mindset shifts, and three powerful tips you can start using today, you'll learn how to stop turning small conversations into conflict, open the door to deeper connection, and start feeling seen, heard, and appreciated again. What you’ll learn: What “better communication” really means for wives The #1 skill that makes your husband want to open up (hint: it’s not talking) Why being vulnerable (not defensive) is the real game changer How to clearly express your desires without nagging or guilt Phrases like “I hear you,” “ouch,” and “I would love…” that can transform your dynamic If you’ve been stuck in cycles of misunderstandings, arguments, or resentment, this episode will help you reset the tone in your marriage, and bring emotional intimacy and connection back to the forefront. Chapters: 00:00 Introduction and Happy Wife Review 02:02 What “Better Communication” Really Means 03:16 Tip 1: Become a Better Listener 05:19 Tip 2: Be Vulnerable 08:06 Tip 3: Express Desires Clearly 10:44 Recap and Encouragement   📩 Let Jenny know which tip you’re going to try this week! 📱 Instagram: @JennyGremillion 📧 Email: Coaching@JennyGremillion.com   👉 Listen to The Happy Wife Mentor Podcast on Apple Podcasts | Spotify to never miss an episode! 👉 Subscribe now and get instant access to Jenny’s free lead magnet: Unlock Your Soft Power: The Feminine Way to Get More Help At Home 👉 Connect with Jenny Gremillion: Instagram | Join The Happy Wife Club on Facebook
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5 months ago
12 minutes 45 seconds

The Happy Wife Mentor I Stop arguing, Get the love you want, feel connected to your spouse again
The purpose of this podcast is to equip women with the strategies, mindset and tools they need to have a loving, connected marriage...for life! We discuss how the culture has gotten us off track and how we can take back our power as women to have the relationship of our dreams! We will uncover feminine wisdom and how to apply to modern day marriage to get the love you want from your man. Learn how to argue less, have a more peaceful home and truly be happier than you’ve ever been before!