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How do we actually put new, empowering beliefs into motion? How do we move from just knowing what needs to change to actually experiencing that change in our daily lives? Today I want to explore your self-talk and show you how you can practically welcome new beliefs that affirm what God says about you.
I’m going to share practical steps for redirecting the internal narrative in your mind—that ongoing conversation you have with yourself throughout the day. Because here’s the truth: your self-talk is either reinforcing beliefs that align with God’s love, truth, and freedom, or it’s keeping you trapped in old survival patterns that are actually disempowering your healing and freedom.
Self-talk is the internal conversation you have with yourself—the ongoing stream of thoughts, commentary, and messages that run through your mind throughout the day. It’s the voice in your head that interprets situations, makes judgments, and narrates your experience.
When life happens, your self-talk acts as the interpreter. It pulls from your worldview and responds accordingly. Much of this inner dialogue comes from what’s stored within your soul—shaped by childhood development, faith upbringing, trauma, neglect, and your learned responses to trials and pain.
The Power of Disempowering Narratives
Many of us struggle with self-talk patterns that actively work against our healing:
* Chronic negativity – feeding off a negative worldview
* Self-pity and victim thinking – staying stuck in helplessness
* Chronic fear – becoming addicted to viewing life through anxiety
* Inner critic – shame, self-hatred, and self-rejection
* Learned hopelessness – believing change isn’t possible
* Constant focus on limitations – “I can’t do this. I cannot take it anymore.”
Here’s the truth: many of these disempowering thought patterns actually started as survival tools. “I don’t trust anyone,” “I don’t let people in,” “Life doesn’t work for me,” “I am unlovable”—these beliefs helped us cope at one time, but now they keep us trapped.
While the old myth that 80% of our thoughts are negative isn’t actually supported by evidence, we can all agree that without intentional guidance, our thoughts can lead us into mental and emotional ditches. Our self-talk can be helpful and empowering, or it can become our harshest critic, disconnecting us from grace and power.
Biblical Foundation for Self-Talk
Scripture gives us beautiful examples of the power of intentional self-talk:
David understood this principle: “Why are you cast down, O my soul? And why are you disquieted within me? Hope in God,
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