The High Conflict Blueprint | for Stepmoms Dealing with a Toxic or Narcissistic Ex
The High Conflict Blueprint
32 episodes
6 days ago
Imagine having a system where you can stop spiralling within 30 minutes after you’ve been triggered by the ex. Not three hours. Not three days. 30 minutes. That's what we're talking about today. You know you shouldn't engage when she sends those messages. You know you should have boundaries. You know you should stay calm. But here's the problem. You can't. You’re triggered. And even though you told yourself you wouldn't engage this time – you find yourself doing it anyway. You respond. ...
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Imagine having a system where you can stop spiralling within 30 minutes after you’ve been triggered by the ex. Not three hours. Not three days. 30 minutes. That's what we're talking about today. You know you shouldn't engage when she sends those messages. You know you should have boundaries. You know you should stay calm. But here's the problem. You can't. You’re triggered. And even though you told yourself you wouldn't engage this time – you find yourself doing it anyway. You respond. ...
When You Keep Doubting Yourself & Wondering If You're the Problem // 27
The High Conflict Blueprint | for Stepmoms Dealing with a Toxic or Narcissistic Ex
14 minutes
1 month ago
When You Keep Doubting Yourself & Wondering If You're the Problem // 27
There's this question mark that seems to follow you everywhere. It causes you to hesitate before walking into school events. To second-guess when helping the kids with homework. "Do I even belong in this family?" You didn't used to feel this way. You came into this relationship confident. Ready to be part of the family. But now you wonder if maybe the ex is right. Maybe you are overstepping. Maybe you’re not helping. Maybe they'd be better off without you. Everyone tells you she's just ...
The High Conflict Blueprint | for Stepmoms Dealing with a Toxic or Narcissistic Ex
Imagine having a system where you can stop spiralling within 30 minutes after you’ve been triggered by the ex. Not three hours. Not three days. 30 minutes. That's what we're talking about today. You know you shouldn't engage when she sends those messages. You know you should have boundaries. You know you should stay calm. But here's the problem. You can't. You’re triggered. And even though you told yourself you wouldn't engage this time – you find yourself doing it anyway. You respond. ...