
In this episode, I sit down with Hunter Mobley—Enneagram teacher, lawyer, former pastor, and author of Letting Go, Finding You—to talk about what it really means to listen to your life, especially when it no longer fits the plan.
Hunter’s story doesn’t follow a straight line. He started in law, pastored for six years, and now finds himself in a vocational mosaic—teaching Enneagram workshops, guiding contemplative cohorts, and practicing estate law in a way that feels more like family counseling than courtroom battles. Along the way, he’s learned that transition isn’t something to push through—it’s something to pay attention to.
We talk about the power of the Enneagram—not just as a personality tool, but as a companion for soul work—and why every number holds both a curse and a hidden gift. Hunter unpacks why slowing down can feel terrifying, what’s actually waiting for us on the other side of ego, and how discernment can become a sacred practice—not just a productivity hack.
If you’re in a season where you’re wondering what’s next, unsure how to move forward, or afraid to stop moving altogether—this conversation will meet you there.
Takeaways:
👉 “Everything contains its opposite.” Why your personality might be hiding the truest thing about you.
👉 Hunter shares how pride (his passion as a Type 2) masked his need for help—and how humility has become a lifeline.
👉 “I’m not trying to be an Enneagram evangelist. I’m an evangelist for tools.”
👉 We talk about why some spiritual growth efforts actually build ego—and how contemplative practice can undo what performance reinforces.
👉 “Flourishing, for me, means showing up in ways that are truest to who I am—regardless of how it’s received.”
👉 We explore stances, spiritual intelligence centers, and how each number is invited into a different kind of growth.
👉 What if the stuck season is actually the teacher?
👉 Hunter introduces us to the Quaker practice of a “Clearness Committee”—and how it can transform our discernment.
This episode is for anyone who’s tired of five-step spirituality, sensing that they’re being invited into deeper soul work, or looking for language to name what’s shifting in their identity and vocation.
📝 Show Notes: https://itstheinbetween.com/episode19-hunter-mobley/