
Consent is binary. People are not.
In this bonus episode of The Kink Compass, Chris explores the uncomfortable but necessary reality of grey areas in consent. Not to excuse harm, but to prevent it. Starting from the powerful reminder that subspace is not an alibi, this episode unpacks how consent can quietly fail through assumption, silence, and unspoken pressure, long before anyone thinks a line has been crossed. A thoughtful reflection on communication, power, and responsibility, and why clarity, not smoothness, is the heart of ethical kink.