Have a question or comment? Send us a text message here. After 27 years of marriage, we have learned that fighting is not only inevitable but it’s actually an important part of a healthy relationship. The key isn’t trying to avoid disagreements altogether, but learning how to navigate them in ways that bring us closer instead of tearing us apart. In this episode, we open up about our journey of learning to fight fair, the mistakes we’ve made along the way, and the powerful shifts that...

Have a question or comment? Send us a text message here. In this special episode, we’re sharing our full love story. From the moment we met in junior high with a simple handshake to 27 years of marriage (and counting). We discuss how our friendship began, the letters we exchanged in school, our first slow dance, and the kiss that changed everything. We reflect on everything from our first slow dance to renewing our vows 25 years later. And how choosing each other young didn’t m...

Have a question or comment? Send us a text message here. What if the classic marriage advice we’ve all heard is just the beginning? In this episode, Joel and I dive into some of the most out-of-the-box tips our listeners have shared—and we’re giving our honest take on whether they helped or hurt our own relationship. From surprising suggestions to unconventional truths, we're unpacking what actually works (and what doesn’t) when it comes to real-life love. If you’re over the one-size-fits-a...

Have a question or comment? Send us a text message here. What if everything you thought you knew about sexual desire was keeping you from the connection you truly want? In this deeply personal episode, we pull back the curtain on our journey through years of sexual disconnect and the breakthrough understanding that finally changed everything. Drawing from Emily Nagoski's revolutionary books "Come As You Are" and "Come Together," we explore the game-changing concept of sexual "acceler...

Have a question or comment? Send us a text message here. In this episode, we introduce the bold concept that is helping Tammy rediscover herself and her dreams. We share how Tammy has spent most of her life putting herself on the back burner to help Joel and the kids reach their dreams. Decades of this left her lost and feeling like she was a sailboat without wind. But that has all changed. Tune in to learn what changed everything for Tammy and how Joel is supporting her in her newfou...

Have a question or comment? Send us a text message here. Sometimes, stepping back is necessary for growth. In this episode of the Married and Naked Podcast, we open up about the challenges that led to a much-needed break from social media and a nerve-wracking step into therapy. From navigating personal struggles with aging parents to strengthening our marriage, we share insights on balance, boundaries, and resilience. Tune in for an honest conversation about life’s unexpected tu...

Have a question or comment? Send us a text message here. As you all know, we have been on a long journey of repairing old wounds and building the marriage we have dreamed of. But the question today is, once you have found your way back to marital happiness, how do you keep it there? Today we are sharing with you three ways we protect our marriage from the things that hurt it in the past. It takes guts to tackle the tough stuff in a relationship, and this episode is a tribute to tho...

Have a question or comment? Send us a text message here. Ever find yourself on a date night that's more squabble than sparkle? We certainly have. On this episode of the Married and Naked Podcast, we're letting you in on the secrets that switched our date nights from battlegrounds to bliss. We're talking about the game-changing playbook that we discovered that's allowed us to side-step the typical tiffs about the kids, the budget, and the never-ending to-do list and help us lea...

Have a question or comment? Send us a text message here. Join us, Tammy and Joel, as we peel back the curtain on family life, sharing the humor and hurdles of our daily dance with life, love, and arguments. Come with us through the maze of managing conflicts in relationships, drawing on our missteps and milestones. You'll hear how we're learning to swap the blame game for a mirror, looking inward to cultivate self-awareness and accountability. It's a raw and honest look at the...

Have a question or comment? Send us a text message here. Today we are setting the record straight on the debate between ACCEPTANCE and SETTLING. Let's clear it up now. Acceptance, as we've discovered, is not about tolerating bad behavior or settling for less, but coming to terms with who your partner truly is. In this episode, we are talking candidly about our journey with acceptance and the role it has played in the transformation of our marriage. And we are debunking the ...

Have a question or comment? Send us a text message here. Last week Tammy shared an innocent post on the MarriedNNaked Instagram listing 10 Questions To Help You Fall In Love Again. Little did she realize the attention this post would get. In this post are 10 conversation starters that can help you reconnect with your spouse. But 43 million views later (and counting), we have been overwhelmed with what people are saying about these questions, both good and bad. We dig into the co...

Have a question or comment? Send us a text message here. In this candid episode of the Married to Naked podcast, we are challenged with questions about erectile dysfunction. We address the reality of erectile dysfunction and break down the fears, and myths in this open discussion on a sensitive topic. Navigating the turbulent waters of physical challenges in intimate relationships can be daunting. But don't fret, we've got you covered with who to turn to if you need help. So, tune in fo...

Have a question or comment? Send us a text message here. From High School Sweethearts to 25 years! Today we are sharing some of our special moments from our vow renewal ceremony and celebration in Cancun. A true dream come true. It was a breathtaking scene as we reaffirmed our love in what turned out to be a day to remember. Also, vow renewal curse? Is that a real thing? And why we took our chances anyway. Here's to 25 years and a life filled with unforgett...

Have a question or comment? Send us a text message here. Ever caught yourself scrolling through your social media feeds, caught up in the glamorous lives others seem to be living? In this Naked Quickie, we confront a prevalent issue: the incessant comparison of our relationships to what we see on social media and the detrimental effects it has on both our personal well-being and the health of our relationships. We dig into why we are naturally drawn to compare ourselves to others, an...

Have a question or comment? Send us a text message here. Just when we thought our schedules couldn't get any busier, we found ourselves juggling our businesses, caring for family members, and grappling with the strain it has put on our relationship. Is it possible to find balance amidst the chaos? Just when we thought we had it figured out we ride the roller coaster of puppy love, profound grief, and an exhilarating adventure to celebrate our love. We're on a raw and honest journey an...

Have a question or comment? Send us a text message here. In this Naked Quicke episode of The Married and Naked Podcast, we dive into helpful tips on how you can support your spouse when they are emotionally hurting or going thru a difficult time. Join us as Tammy shares practical strategies and expert insights to help your spouse feel loved and supported during their difficult time. Sometimes seeing our spouse going thru a tough time can leave us feeling lost and unsure how to...

Have a question or comment? Send us a text message here. In this Naked Quicke episode of The Married and Naked Podcast, we dive into the essential tips to enhance intimacy within your relationship. Join us as Tammy shares practical strategies and expert insights to foster a stronger emotional and physical bond with your partner. Whether you're in a new relationship or have been together for years, this episode provides actionable tips to cultivate a more intimate and fulfillin...

Have a question or comment? Send us a text message here. In this episode of The Married And Naked Podcast, we are diving in and exploring how to navigate crises that arise in your life. Life is filled with unexpected challenges, and these external crises can place significant strain on a marriage. Joel and Tammy share the story of their own current personal crisis that they are facing and the tools that they are learning along the way that are helping them thru. They are...

Have a question or comment? Send us a text message here. In this episode, Joel is putting Tammy on the spot again. His question this week? "What is the best way to fight?" Listen as Tammy shares some tips and strategies, that she has learned and practiced in her marriage, for healthy fighting. We all fight in marriage. So, the goal is not eliminating the fighting but rather learning how to fight in a healthy and productive way. Whether you're newlywed...

Have a question or comment? Send us a text message here. In this episode, The Married and Naked Podcast explores Brene Brown's advice on using the phrase "The story I'm making up is..." and how this simple phrase can help us own our own story in marriage conflicts. When faced with a conflict, we often jump to conclusions and create stories that may not be true and can perpetuate arguments. By using this technique, we can gain clarity and understanding about the stories we make up abo...