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The Narcissist's Worst Nightmare

Meaghan Webster

28 episodes

5 days ago

You’re not grieving a breakup. You’re grieving the abuse. You’re grieving the illusion you attached to, and the version of them that never existed. In this episode, Meaghan Webster breaks down why the grief hits hardest after the abuse ends, why your nervous system stays hooked to the fantasy, and what it takes to rebuild the version of you the illusion buried. If you’re ready to heal the trauma bond, rebuild your identity, and rise into the woman you were meant to be, join RRR Membership. Su...

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You’re not grieving a breakup. You’re grieving the abuse. You’re grieving the illusion you attached to, and the version of them that never existed. In this episode, Meaghan Webster breaks down why the grief hits hardest after the abuse ends, why your nervous system stays hooked to the fantasy, and what it takes to rebuild the version of you the illusion buried. If you’re ready to heal the trauma bond, rebuild your identity, and rise into the woman you were meant to be, join RRR Membership. Su...

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Episodes (20/28)

The Narcissist's Worst Nightmare

Grieving the Illusion: Mourning the Relationship That Never Existed

You’re not grieving a breakup. You’re grieving the abuse. You’re grieving the illusion you attached to, and the version of them that never existed. In this episode, Meaghan Webster breaks down why the grief hits hardest after the abuse ends, why your nervous system stays hooked to the fantasy, and what it takes to rebuild the version of you the illusion buried. If you’re ready to heal the trauma bond, rebuild your identity, and rise into the woman you were meant to be, join RRR Membership. Su...

5 days ago

8 minutes

The Narcissist's Worst Nightmare

The Black Cat Dating Code: 18 Red Flags That Don’t Look Like Red Flags

You think it’s chemistry when it’s actually your nervous system screaming… In this episode, Meaghan Webster exposes the 18 red flags that don’t wave, they whisper. The ones that feel like connection, safety, “soulmate energy” but are really control, projection, and manipulation dressed up as love. You’ll learn how to stop gaslighting your own intuition, read your body’s first warning signs, and break the trauma bond that keeps chaos feeling like home. Because once you know the code, red fl...

1 week ago

17 minutes

The Narcissist's Worst Nightmare

The Narcissist Discard: Closure You’ll Never Get and the Freedom You Deserve

The discard isn’t a breakup. It’s an emotional assassination. One day, you’re their everything. Next, you’re blocked, erased, and replaced… Left trying to understand how someone could love you and destroy you in the same breath. This episode breaks it all down… The mechanics of the discard, the trauma bond that keeps you hooked, and why your body reacts like it’s dying. You’ll learn what grief windows are, how to regulate through withdrawals, and how to give yourself the closure they n...

1 week ago

12 minutes

The Narcissist's Worst Nightmare

Boundaries as Foreplay: Desire and Standards After Abuse

You were never “too much.” You were just in rooms that required you to shrink. This episode will change the way you see boundaries forever. Because boundaries aren’t walls - they are how you turn safety into seduction and standards into foreplay. I’m walking you through what it means to set boundaries with yourself first, how to reset your standards after abuse, and how to stop confusing availability with alignment. This isn’t about playing hard to get. It’s about being too grounded to chase....

2 weeks ago

14 minutes

The Narcissist's Worst Nightmare

Recognizing the Subtle Signs of Abuse Before It Escalates

Abuse doesn’t always scream - sometimes, it whispers. It hides inside love, care, and kindness. In this episode, Meaghan Webster breaks down the quiet erosion, the isolation disguised as protection, the apology used as control, and the sensitivity weaponized to silence you. You’ll learn how to recognize the patterns that most women miss: How subtle control rewires your nervous system to mistake chaos for connection.Why empathy and loyalty become dangerous when they’re unreciprocated.The...

2 weeks ago

13 minutes

The Narcissist's Worst Nightmare

Date Yourself First - How to Make Singleness Sacred and Become Untouchable After Abuse

You don’t need another partner - you need a mirror. You’ve already done the hard part: You left. You healed. You stopped mistaking pain for passion. Now it’s time to make your singleness sacred - the season where you turn freedom into fire. In this episode of The Narcissist’s Worst Nightmare, Meaghan drops the truth no one tells you after abuse: The most magnetic, peaceful, powerful woman you’ll ever become is the one who learns to date herself first. Inside: The nervous-system detox th...

3 weeks ago

16 minutes

The Narcissist's Worst Nightmare

The Hook on the Hurt: Why Pain Feels Like Proof (and How to Break the Bond)

You don’t miss them - you miss the chaos your body called love. In this episode, Meaghan breaks down how abusers weaponize your deepest wounds… The Abuser Trinity: Abandonment, Shame, and Scarcity that keep you hooked in cycles that make pain feel like proof. You will learn what’s actually happening in your body, how to starve the trauma bond without feeding the drama, and what peace feels like when it finally stops scaring you. Send me a DM on Instagram and tell me what landed for you. Joi...

3 weeks ago

15 minutes

The Narcissist's Worst Nightmare

The Shadow Contract: The Parts of You That Chose the Pattern (and How You End It)

What if the pattern wasn’t punishment? It was a promise your shadow made to keep you safe… This episode dives into the invisible contracts your nervous system wrote in survival and the vows that keep you chasing chaos, mistaking intensity for intimacy, and calling pain proof. We’re breaking the spell and rewriting the contract. You’ll learn: • Why healed women still feel “the pull” toward what hurts • The difference between intuition and trauma instinct • How to make ...

4 weeks ago

17 minutes

The Narcissist's Worst Nightmare

The Trauma Bond Explained: Why You Stay When You Want to Leave

You didn’t stay because you’re weak. You stayed because your nervous system was hijacked. The trauma bond is the reason you went back after the lies, manipulation, and gaslighting. In this episode, I break it all down: • What a trauma bond actually is and why it feels stronger than love • How reward, punishment, and relief condition your body to crave the abuser • The first cracks that weaken the tether so you can finally leave without looking back • What ancho...

1 month ago

9 minutes

The Narcissist's Worst Nightmare

Pleasure Mapping After Abuse: Reclaiming Your Body as Sacred

After abuse, your body doesn’t feel like home. Desire feels like danger. You second-guess every flutter, every spark, every time your body lights up. Is it attraction or is it another trap? That’s why we do pleasure mapping. It’s not about bubble baths or sex toys. It’s retraining your nervous system so you can tell the difference between chemistry and chaos. In this episode, we go all in on: • How abuse hijacks your turn-on and wires panic as passion • Why self-exp...

1 month ago

11 minutes

The Narcissist's Worst Nightmare

Daddy Issues & the Mother Wound: The Trauma That Chooses Your Partner

Everyone jokes about daddy issues. They turn it into a meme, a punchline, a quirky red flag in dating. But here’s the savage truth: daddy issues aren’t funny. And the mother wound isn’t either. These wounds aren’t quirks. They’re blueprints. They dictate who you chase, who you tolerate, and why you keep calling chaos chemistry. They’re the reason you stayed with a narcissist. They’re the reason you mistook punishment for passion. They’re the reason you still swipe past the safe me...

1 month ago

10 minutes

The Narcissist's Worst Nightmare

The Covert Narcissist: The Abuser You Don’t See Coming

Not every narcissist is loud. Some don’t scream, they sigh. They don’t rage, they sulk. They don’t demand, they manipulate quietly. That’s the covert narcissist. The abuser you don’t see coming. In this episode of Narcissist’s Worst Nightmare Podcast, I’m pulling the mask off the “soft” abuser: • The sensitivity, victimhood, and mirroring they use as bait • The micro-gaslighting and silent punishments that make you doubt yourself • Why you stay longer with a covert abuser than an overt on...

1 month ago

11 minutes

The Narcissist's Worst Nightmare

Your Trauma Inheritance and Dating After Abuse

You don’t just inherit your dad’s eyes or your mom’s laugh. You inherit their patterns. The chaos your mother tolerated. The silence your father carried. The abuse nobody named. That’s why calm feels boring. That’s why chaos feels like chemistry. That’s why you keep swiping past safety and running straight back to what feels like home even when home was hell. In this episode, I break down how trauma inheritance scripts who you chase after abuse, why safe love feels wrong until yo...

1 month ago

14 minutes

The Narcissist's Worst Nightmare

Post Separation Abuse: How to Anchor Instead of Collapse

Seperating from a narcissist doesn’t mean the abuse is over… it means they change the rules of the game. The rage texts, the custody games, the courtroom dramatics... They are all designed to hijack your nervous system and prove they still own you. But here’s the truth narcissisits don’t want you to hear: you don’t have to collapse. You can anchor. And when you do, you not only reclaim your own peace you show your kids what safety actually feels like. In this episode, I’m breaking down ...

1 month ago

7 minutes

The Narcissist's Worst Nightmare

Why Chaos Still Turns You On Dating After a Narcissistic Relationship

If you’ve ever wondered why you keep swiping on chaos and skipping over safe love, this episode will wake you up... Here’s the truth: Trauma becomes your type when you’ve survived a narcissist. Your body was trained to crave highs and lows, to mistake chaos for chemistry, to feel more alive in pain than in peace. That’s not attraction... it’s conditioning. In this episode of Narcissist’s Worst Nightmare, I’m pulling apart why dating after a narcissist feels so twisted and how to finally...

1 month ago

8 minutes

The Narcissist's Worst Nightmare

The Leash Disguised as Love: How Narcissists Keep You Hooked

If you’ve ever felt like you were addicted to the very person who was destroying you and this episode will show you why. Narcissists don’t love. They condition. The grand gestures, the sudden silence, the fireworks after punishment and none of it was love... It was control, designed to hook your nervous system like a slot machine. In this episode of Narcissist’s Worst Nightmare, I’m exposing the hidden language of manipulation: - Why love bombing was never romance - it was bait. - H...

1 month ago

9 minutes

The Narcissist's Worst Nightmare

Empathy With a Blade: Turning the Narcissist’s Favorite Supply Into Power

Every empath has two awakenings. The first one breaks you. The second one makes you untouchable. When your empathy has no boundaries, you’re the narcissist’s dream: supply on tap, endless forgiveness, zero resistance. They’ll hijack your sensitivity, drain you dry, and convince you it’s love. But then comes the mirror moment - when all the pieces you’ve been holding for everyone else drop back into your hands. That’s when discernment is born, when “no” becomes holy and you stop being p...

1 month ago

13 minutes

The Narcissist's Worst Nightmare

The Most Radical Thing You’ll Ever Do is Apologize to Yourself

You’ve been waiting for closure. For the apology. For someone else to hand you peace. But here’s the truth — the only person who needs to apologize is you. In this episode of Narcissist’s Worst Nightmare, we go deep into why self-blame shows up after abuse, how forgiveness cuts the last thread of control, and why apologizing to yourself is the power move that makes you untouchable. This is not soft, it’s savage. This is how you stop rehearsing shame, break the cycle, and take your life back. ...

2 months ago

13 minutes

The Narcissist's Worst Nightmare

From Target to Trigger: Why You Can’t Outrun Narcissistic Conditioning

If you don’t heal after narcissistic abuse, you don’t just risk attracting another narcissist — you risk becoming the toxic one yourself. You think you’re protecting yourself, but really? You’re handing new people the bill for damage they didn’t cause. You’re recreating the cage — even when the door’s wide open. In this raw, unapologetic episode, Meaghan Webster rips apart the myths around “moving on” and gets to the brutal truth: you cannot outrun narcissistic conditioning. If you don...

2 months ago

14 minutes

The Narcissist's Worst Nightmare

Leaving the Narcissist Isn’t the Victory- Here’s the Brutal Truth About What Comes Next

Leaving a narcissist is not just about walking out the door. It’s a war inside your body, your mind, and your soul — and nobody tells you how brutal it really is. In this episode of Narcissist’s Worst Nightmare, Meaghan Webster rips apart the lie that leaving is “the end” and gives you the raw strategy to not just escape, but to survive, rebuild, and own your power so completely that a narcissist can’t touch you again. You’ll hear: Why “just leaving” is the most dangerous advice survivors get...

2 months ago

19 minutes