Welcome to The Neurodivergent Lounge
A comfortable space for uncomfortable growth.
After years of trying systems that didn’t fit my ADHD/autistic brain, I stopped forcing change—and started researching myself. This podcast shares that journey.
Each episode blends raw, honest conversation with real research at the intersection of neurodiversity and neuroplasticity. You’ll hear from neurodivergent voices, researchers, and evidence-based studies that finally make it all click.
No fluffy hacks. No pressure to mask. Just insight that helps you understand your beautifully different brain.
What makes this different?
The Lounge was built alongside SORA Ally—an AI companion that draws from academic research to help neurodivergent folks create success systems that actually work.
Every episode here is grounded in the same research that powers SORA.
SORA ALLY 2.0 Coming. Cleaner, Simpler and more Impactful Results.
Whether you’re exploring how your brain works, or building your own neurodivergent toolkit, this podcast gives you the foundation to advocate with clarity and live with confidence.
Pull up a chair. Rewire your mind. You belong here.
Welcome to The Neurodivergent Lounge
A comfortable space for uncomfortable growth.
After years of trying systems that didn’t fit my ADHD/autistic brain, I stopped forcing change—and started researching myself. This podcast shares that journey.
Each episode blends raw, honest conversation with real research at the intersection of neurodiversity and neuroplasticity. You’ll hear from neurodivergent voices, researchers, and evidence-based studies that finally make it all click.
No fluffy hacks. No pressure to mask. Just insight that helps you understand your beautifully different brain.
What makes this different?
The Lounge was built alongside SORA Ally—an AI companion that draws from academic research to help neurodivergent folks create success systems that actually work.
Every episode here is grounded in the same research that powers SORA.
SORA ALLY 2.0 Coming. Cleaner, Simpler and more Impactful Results.
Whether you’re exploring how your brain works, or building your own neurodivergent toolkit, this podcast gives you the foundation to advocate with clarity and live with confidence.
Pull up a chair. Rewire your mind. You belong here.
The Neurodivergent Lounge Season 2 Episode 7
From Lying to Authentic Communication
Summary
In this episode of The Neurodivergent Lounge, host Marie Martin delves into the complexities of survival lying, particularly in the context of relationships shaped by financial control and emotional safety. She shares her personal journey of recognizing the patterns of lying that stemmed from childhood experiences and how they manifested in her marriage. The conversation explores the importance of authentic communication, the challenges of breaking free from financial dependency, and the journey towards self-discovery and independence. Marie emphasizes the need for supportive relationships that foster growth rather than control, ultimately leading to a healthier understanding of truth and connection.
Takeaways
Survival lying is a learned behavior from childhood.
Financial control can create a dynamic of dependence in relationships.
Authentic communication is about connection, not just truth-telling.
Leaving a controlling relationship can be a path to healing.
It's important to recognize when you're in survival mode.
The patterns of lying can be automatic and reflexive.
Building financial independence is crucial for personal freedom.
Supportive relationships help in recognizing one's potential.
The goal is to be known by those who can receive your truth.
Healing requires breaking free from toxic dynamics.
Titles
Unraveling Survival Lying
Breaking Free from Financial Control
Sound bites
"I learned to lie to stay safe."
"The lying was a survival mechanism."
"I was navigating an impossible situation."
Chapters
00:00 Understanding the Survival Lie
02:33 Patterns of Deception in Relationships
08:53 Breaking Free from Financial Control
15:51 The Journey to Authentic Communication
20:24 Embracing Freedom and Healing
Keywords
survival lying, financial control, authentic communication, neurodivergent, relationships, self-discovery, emotional safety, truth-telling, personal growth, healing