
Your calendar is empty for January. That's not flexibility - that's a blank canvas waiting for other people's urgent to fill it.
In this week's episode I'm sharing what came up in leadership workshops and client sessions about building team capability, recognizing stress addiction, and protecting strategic time before reactive work takes over.
We're exploring:
→ The 3 Before Me rule - how to stop being the bottleneck and build team capability (even though it takes longer upfront)
→ When high performance becomes stress addiction - why thriving on chaos isn't sustainable excellence and the crash always comes
→ The empty calendar trap - why you need to block strategic time first and the AAA Framework that shows you exactly what to protect
Workshop participants realized 40-50% of their time goes to Avoid activities - reactive, urgent work that drains energy. One client acknowledged "I thrive on stress. I find joy in the challenges" then asked "But is this sustainable?"
If taking time off feels boring, if calm feels uncomfortable, if you need the chaos to feel alive - you're not a high performer. You're addicted to stress.
Listen now - link in bio.