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In this episode of the Prenup Podcast, host Lilli speaks with journalist Josie Cox about her journey from journalism to focusing on gender economics. They discuss the gender pay gap, the challenges of balancing motherhood and career, and the evolving dynamics of parenting. Josie shares her insights on the stigma surrounding prenups and the importance of financial conversations in relationships. The conversation highlights the need for women to take control of their financial futures and the significance of partnership in navigating these challenges.

Takeaways

• Josie Cox emphasizes the importance of storytelling in journalism.
• The gender pay gap remains a significant issue in the economy.
• Motherhood often leads women to take professional steps back.
• Parenting dynamics have evolved, with more hands-on involvement today.
• Prenups are becoming more common as women gain financial independence.
• Women are increasingly seeking freelance and entrepreneurial opportunities.
• Unpaid labor should be recognized as valuable work.
• Open communication about finances is crucial in partnerships.
• Financial trauma can impact discussions about money and prenups.
• The societal conditioning around money and power still affects relationships.

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In this episode of the Prenup podcast, Lilli interviews Logan Gentry, an executive coach and former pastor, who shares his unique journey from engineering to ministry and coaching. They discuss the importance of premarital counseling, the challenges of marriage and divorce, and the dynamics of co-parenting. Logan emphasizes the need for open communication, financial discussions, and the role of therapy in personal growth. He also provides practical advice for maintaining healthy relationships, including regular planning meetings and making memories together.

Takeaways

• Logan Gentry emphasizes the importance of joy and generosity in philanthropy.
• His journey from civil engineering to pastoral leadership highlights the blend of faith and practical application.
• Living in New York City challenged his faith and forced a nuanced understanding of spirituality.
• Premarital counseling should expose gaps in relationships before marriage.
• Financial conversations are crucial in premarital counseling to avoid future conflicts.
• Many couples drift apart after having children due to logistical chaos.
• Therapy can help individuals confront their own issues and improve relationships.
• Co-parenting requires negotiation and communication, similar to running a business.
• Regular planning meetings can help couples stay aligned and connected.
• Creating memories together strengthens family bonds and relationships.

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summaryIn this episode of the Prenup Podcast, Lilli interviews Gianna Biscontini, a lifestyle designer and wellness founder. They discuss Gianna's journey into wellness and psychedelic medicine, her upbringing in rural Pennsylvania, her experiences in college, and her marriage to Will. The conversation delves into the challenges of their marriage, the eventual divorce, and Gianna's reflections on love, life choices, and the importance of self-discovery. They also explore the concept of prenups and postnuptial agreements, emphasizing the need for clarity and safety in relationships.

takeaways

• Gianna emphasizes the importance of being authentic in therapy and wellness.
• Nature has always been a source of comfort and home for Gianna.
• Her journey into wellness was influenced by her experiences in California.
• The significance of mentorship and guidance in personal development.
• Marriage can bring both stability and constraints to personal growth.
• Gianna's divorce was a pivotal moment for her self-discovery.
• She believes in the importance of financial independence for women.
• Prenups can provide clarity and safety in relationships.
• Postnuptial agreements can help couples navigate changes in their relationship.
• Love and compassion are essential in navigating human relationships.

In this episode of the Prenup Podcast, host Lilli interviews Sol Lee, CEO and co-founder of Neptune, a startup focused on helping couples navigate prenups. Sol shares her personal journey, including her childhood experiences with divorce, her career in finance and venture capital, and her transition to entrepreneurship. The conversation delves into the importance of financial independence, the complexities of prenup discussions, and the innovative approach Neptune takes to simplify the prenup process for modern couples. Sol emphasizes the need for open communication in relationships and the value of understanding financial dynamics before marriage.

• Sol Lee is the CEO and co-founder of Neptune, a prenup-focused startup.
• Her childhood experiences with divorce influenced her career choices.
• Financial independence is crucial for women, as emphasized by Sol's mother.
• The prenup process can be complex and emotionally charged.
• Open communication about finances is essential in relationships.
• Neptune aims to simplify the prenup process using technology.
• Couples should explore prenups to understand their financial dynamics better.
• The importance of having separate legal representation in prenup agreements.
• Creative solutions in prenups can foster positive relationship dynamics.
• AI cannot replace the value of human connection in relationships.

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In this episode of the Prenup Podcast, host Lilli speaks with matrimonial and family lawyer Jackie Combs about the importance of prenups, cohabitation agreements, and navigating the complexities of family law. Jackie shares her journey into family law, the significance of financial transparency in relationships, and how to approach prenups with fairness and equity. They discuss the challenges faced by blended families, the common pitfalls in prenups, and the role of divorce lawyers in ensuring a smooth process. Jackie emphasizes the need for open communication about finances and the benefits of being proactive in legal matters related to marriage and divorce.

Takeaways

• Prenups should be discussed well before engagement.
• Cohabitation agreements help define property rights in relationships.
• Family law operates on principles of equity and fairness.
• Stay-at-home parents should protect their financial interests in prenups.
• Identifying financial blind spots is crucial before marriage.
• Open communication about finances strengthens relationships.
• Divorce doesn't have to be contentious; amicable solutions exist.
• Postnuptial agreements can address changes in circumstances after marriage.
• Understanding the legal implications of prenups is essential.
• Consulting multiple attorneys can provide clarity and confidence.

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In this episode of The Prenup Podcast, host Lilli engages in a heartfelt conversation with Courtney Heisen, a realtor at Compass New York. They explore Courtney's upbringing in New Jersey, the impact of her parents' divorce, and the lessons learned from her family's dynamics. The discussion delves into Courtney's own experiences with relationships, including her engagement and subsequent breakup, as well as her mother's journey through divorce and remarriage. The conversation emphasizes the importance of communication, the role of prenups in modern relationships, and the complexities of navigating love and loss.

Takeaways

• The impact of parental divorce can last a lifetime.
• Communication is key in any relationship, especially during tough times.
• Prenups should be normalized as part of the marriage process.
• Grief can significantly affect relationship decisions.
• Courtney's mother was a strong role model
• Navigating relationships requires understanding and compromise.
• It's important to reflect on past relationships for personal growth.
• The stigma around prenups often stems from misunderstandings.
• Every relationship teaches valuable lessons, even if they end.

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In this episode of the Prenup Podcast, Lilli and Hilary Hebrank discuss the importance of prenups and cohabitation agreements, emphasizing the need for open communication about finances and responsibilities in relationships. They explore the emotional aspects of prenups, the necessity of planning for the unexpected, and the role of pets in cohabitation agreements. The conversation also touches on the costs associated with weddings compared to prenups, the need for financial literacy, and the importance of normalizing written agreements in all living situations.

takeaways

• Prenups are not just for the wealthy; they are for everyone.
• Cohabitation agreements can protect both partners before marriage.
• Open communication about finances is crucial in relationships.
• Understanding the emotional aspects of prenups can ease the process.
• Financial literacy is essential for making informed decisions.
• Planning for the unexpected is a responsible approach to relationships.
• Pets should be considered in cohabitation agreements.
• The cost of a prenup is often less than wedding expenses.
• Normalizing written agreements can prevent future conflicts.
• A prenup serves as a playbook for navigating a relationship.

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In this episode of the Prenup Podcast, intimacy coach and sexologist Natassia Miller shares her journey from finance to sexology, discussing the importance of open communication in relationships and the connection between finances and intimacy. She emphasizes the need for couples to navigate their sexual expectations and the dynamics of parenthood while maintaining a strong emotional connection. Natassia also provides valuable resources for enhancing sexual relationships and tools for fostering intimacy.

• Intimacy coaching is essential for healthy relationships.
• Childhood influences shape our understanding of sexuality.
• Open communication is key to resolving conflicts in relationships.
• Financial dynamics can impact intimacy and relationship satisfaction.
• Understanding each other's sexual needs is crucial for connection.
• Parenthood can change relationship dynamics significantly.
• Couples should prioritize their sexual relationship and communicate openly about it.
• Exploring sexual wellness can enhance intimacy between partners.
• Resources like books and podcasts can help couples navigate their sexual lives.
• Creating shared experiences can strengthen the bond between partners.

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In this episode of the Prenup Podcast, Lilli speaks with GG Mirvis, founder of Desolas Mezcal, about her journey in the alcohol industry, her relationship with her fiancé, and the importance of communication and boundaries in relationships. They delve into the significance of prenups, not just as a financial safeguard but as a means to foster open conversations about expectations and values in marriage. The discussion also touches on the dynamics of love, self-identity, and the realities of divorce, emphasizing the need for honest dialogue before tying the knot.

• GG Mirvis is the founder of Desolas Mezcal.

• Communication styles in relationships can vary significantly.
• It's important to get over disagreements quickly in relationships.
• Setting boundaries is crucial for healthy relationships.
• The dynamics of relationships change when family is involved.
• Prenups can protect personal and business assets in marriage.
• Open conversations before marriage can lead to a stronger union.
• Divorce does not equate to failure; it's a part of life.

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In this engaging conversation, Lilli and James explore the complexities of relationships, parenting, and the impact of divorce. They discuss James personal experiences, the challenges of balancing family and career, and the importance of open communication about finances and parenting styles. The conversation also delves into the significance of prenups and how they can serve as a tool for clarity and peace of mind in relationships. Ultimately, the discussion highlights the need for forgiveness and understanding in navigating life's challenges.

• Parenting requires a balance of discipline and understanding.
• Divorce can be a complex emotional journey, especially with children involved.
• Open communication about finances is crucial before marriage.
• Prenups can help set clear expectations and reduce conflict.
• Forgiveness is essential for personal peace and moving forward.
• Childhood experiences shape parenting styles and expectations.
• Navigating co-parenting requires mutual respect and understanding.
• Life's challenges often prompt reevaluation of personal happiness and relationships.

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In this episode of the Prenup Podcast, Lilli speaks with Meg MacPherson, CEO and founder of The 16th, about her journey through divorce, personal growth, and the importance of understanding relationships. Meg shares her experiences moving to New York, navigating family dynamics, breaking generational traumas and the lessons learned from her past relationships. The conversation emphasizes the significance of self-discovery, the role of prenups in protecting oneself, and the journey of finding love again after heartbreak.

• She reflects on her family dynamics and the impact of her parents' divorce.
• Meg never had a model for a healthy adult relationship.
• The importance of a prenup was highlighted in her marriage.
• She experienced a slow burn of unhappiness in her marriage.
• Meg realized she lost her sense of self during her marriage.
• She emphasizes the need to be good with oneself before entering a relationship.
• The conversation touches on the importance of emotional health and self-care.
• Meg's journey includes navigating relationships from high school to adulthood.

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In this episode, Lilli speaks with Kayleigh Christina, co-founder of Clearstem, about her journey through personal struggles with acne, the founding of her skincare company, and her experiences with marriage and divorce. They discuss the importance of self-discovery, emotional health, and the lessons learned from past relationships. Kayleigh shares her insights on finding love again, the significance of financial transparency in relationships, and her hopes for the future, including parenthood and building a life with her fiancé. The conversation emphasizes the value of open communication and the importance of understanding oneself and one's partner.

• Kayleigh struggled with acne and found a solution through Clearstem and her Co Founder Danielles solutions.
• The importance of understanding root causes in health and skincare.
• Self-discovery is crucial in personal growth and relationships.
• Emotional health plays a significant role in navigating relationships.
• Divorce can be a complex emotional journey, but it can lead to growth.
• Finding love again requires understanding past experiences and lessons learned.
• Financial transparency is essential in a relationship, especially for founders.
• Discussing prenups can create peace and understanding in a relationship.
• Parenthood requires open communication about values and expectations.
• Building a life together involves shared goals and mutual support.

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In this episode of the Prenup Podcast, Lilli speaks with Jenny Hutt, a family law attorney, about her journey into family law, the emotional complexities of divorce, and the importance of prenuptial agreements. They discuss the need for financial transparency in relationships, the creative solutions that can be included in prenups, and the impact of divorce on families. Jenny shares her insights on how to approach discussions about prenups with partners and emphasizes the importance of considering children's well-being during divorce proceedings.

• Jenny Hutt transitioned to family law after personal experiences with divorce.
• Divorce can be an emotional and overwhelming process for many individuals.
• Prenups are often misunderstood but can serve as a form of 'divorce insurance.'
• Financial transparency is crucial in relationships to avoid complications during divorce.
• Creative solutions can be included in prenups to protect both partners' interests.
• Divorce costs can escalate quickly, making it essential to approach the process thoughtfully.
• Emotional intelligence plays a significant role in navigating family law cases.
• The stigma around prenups can be reduced by normalizing conversations about them.
• Legal separations are different from divorce and have specific implications in New York.
• It's important to prioritize children's well-being during divorce proceedings.

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In this conversation, Vanessa Rissetto shares her transformative experiences at Hoffman, her childhood influences, and the dynamics of her marriage and divorce. She discusses the importance of financial transparency, the role of prenups, and how to build healthy co-parenting relationships. Vanessa emphasizes the need for clear communication in relationships and reflects on the lessons learned from her experiences, ultimately advocating for self-love and understanding in navigating love and partnerships.