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What if the tone of your entire building started with the thoughts you practice every day? In this episode of The Principal’s Handbook, we’re digging into how your core beliefs—about yourself, your staff, and your students—shape the way you lead. Your mindset is the emotional filter for your entire building, and often the thoughts running in the background are the ones driving your actions.
You’ll learn how to identify the beliefs influencing your leadership, reframe unhelpful thought patterns, and choose new thoughts that create confidence, calm, and clarity. We’ll walk through simple reflection prompts to help you reset your mindset as you head into the second half of the school year. If you want to lead with intention and set a positive tone for your building, this episode will show you where to begin.
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Does your school need a reset on behavior after the break? January is the perfect time for principals to pause, reflect, and reset Tier 1 behavior supports—before small issues turn into daily fires. In this episode of The Principal’s Handbook, Barb Flowers walks you through how to treat January like a fresh start for behavior systems, even though it’s midyear.
Barb shares real examples from her own school, practical PBIS-aligned strategies, and mindset shifts that help principals move from reactive discipline to proactive systems. If behavior is consuming your day and keeping you from leading the way you want to, this episode will help you start the new year with clarity, consistency, and confidence.
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What if you paused long enough to notice just how far you've actually come this year? In this episode, we’re talking about the power of celebrating your leadership wins—big and small—and why principals rarely give themselves enough credit. I’m sharing simple reflection questions to help you recognize your growth, honor the hard things you navigated, and step into 2026 with intention and confidence.
Reflection Questions in the Episode:
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What would your school—and your life—look like if you protected your time as fiercely as you protect everyone else’s? In this episode of The Principal’s Handbook, we break down the 5 Eight-to-Four Non-Negotiables that help principals get more done during the school day without sacrificing their evenings, weekends, and families. Barb walks you through a free planning guide to help you personalize these non-negotiables for your building. You can get the free guide HERE.
Tune in and give yourself the space to lead with clarity, work with purpose, and go home on time—without guilt.
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Have you noticed that the closer you get to winter break, the quicker every little problem seems to turn into a big one? The weeks leading up to winter break can magnify stress, fatigue, and frustration for both teachers and administrators — and if you’re not intentional, that negativity can spread fast.
In this episode of The Principal’s Handbook, we unpack why December tends to amplify overwhelm and reactivity in school cultures and what it means for you as a leader. You’ll learn how to recognize the emotional patterns that surface this time of year, understand what your staff is really needing beneath the complaints, and lead your building with steadiness when everyone else feels on edge.
Tune in to explore leadership mindsets, emotional regulation tools, and practical moves that help you create stability, support your teachers, and keep your school grounded through one of the hardest months of the year — without burning yourself out in the process. Whether your staff is drained, irritable, or simply “over it,” this episode will help you show up with clarity, compassion, and confidence.
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Are behavior expectations slipping as holiday events, assemblies, and schedule changes take over your building? December can be exciting, but it can also be one of the toughest months for student regulation, staff consistency, and Tier 1 fidelity. In this episode, we unpack why behaviors tend to increase before break, what students may be silently carrying into the holidays, and how leaders can bring calm, clarity, and predictability when routines start to unravel.
If you want to finish the semester strong without lowering expectations, this episode will help you refocus on what matters most and lead with intention—no matter how festive (or chaotic) it gets.
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As a principal, it’s easy to pour everything into your school and forget about yourself. But your mental health matters—because a healthy, grounded leader creates a healthy school.
In this episode of The Principal’s Handbook, Barb Flowers shares three essential strategies to protect your well-being as a school leader. You’ll learn how to:
Whether you’re feeling stretched thin or simply need a reset, this episode will remind you that taking care of yourself isn’t selfish—it’s essential leadership.
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What sets strong instructional leaders apart from those just managing the day-to-day? In this episode of The Principal’s Handbook, you’ll learn five key traits that help principals lead learning, not just logistics.
You’ll discover:
If you’ve ever felt pulled away from instructional priorities by constant fires, this episode will help you refocus on what matters most—growing teachers, improving learning, and leading with purpose.
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Have you ever walked into a PLC and instantly felt the tension in the air? In this episode of The Principal’s Handbook, Barb unpacks why some teacher teams just can’t seem to get along—and what you can do about it as a leader.
You’ll learn:
Tune in to gain clarity, confidence, and a practical plan for your most challenging team dynamics.
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As principals, it can feel impossible to step away from the building—whether you’re sick, at PD, or attending district meetings. The guilt, the worry that everything will fall apart, and the pressure to be present 24/7 can take a toll. In this episode of The Principal’s Handbook, Barb Flowers unpacks why leaving the building matters for both your staff and your own well-being.
You’ll learn:
Your leadership is measured not by how much your school needs you in the moment, but by how well it functions when you’re not there. Tune in for practical tips and mindset shifts to help you leave the building—without guilt—knowing your systems and people can handle it.
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Few moments feel as draining as picking up the phone after a discipline referral—only to face an upset, defensive parent on the other end. The pushback can trigger doubt, defensiveness, and second-guessing. But here’s the truth: conflict with parents doesn’t have to derail you. It can actually become a chance to strengthen trust and connection.
In this episode of The Principal’s Handbook, Barb Flowers shares how to stay calm and lead with confidence when emotions run high. You’ll discover:
If parent conflicts leave you feeling rattled or reactive, this episode will give you the mindset and tools to stay grounded, lead with calm authority, and turn challenges into opportunities for connection.
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Teacher evaluations are one of the few times principals get to step fully into the role of instructional leader—but too often they become rushed, compliance-driven, or even discouraging for staff. In this episode of The Principal’s Handbook, Barb Flowers unpacks how to make evaluations a meaningful, growth-oriented process instead of just another checkbox.
You’ll learn:
Barb also shares her simple structure for balancing clarity, encouragement, and accountability—so evaluations truly help teachers grow while staying manageable for principals.
If you’ve ever struggled to find that balance between supportive feedback and honest evaluation, this episode will give you a framework you can use right away.
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Discipline is one of the most draining parts of a principal’s job—not just because of student behavior, but also the ripple effects with staff, parents, and even your own energy. Without the right systems and boundaries, discipline can feel like it takes over your entire life.
In this episode, I’ll walk you through practical ways to lead discipline with confidence without burning out in the process.
You’ll learn:
Finally, I’ll leave you with a simple challenge: create one new boundary around discipline this week. Because when you protect yourself first, discipline feels lighter and leadership becomes more sustainable.
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Do you ever think, “If they really knew me, they’d realize I’m not ready for this”? You’re not alone. In this episode of The Principal’s Handbook, Barb dives into the reality of imposter syndrome—the self-doubt that makes you question your skills, experience, and belonging.
Drawing from her own journey as a young administrator and seasoned principal, Barb normalizes these feelings and shares practical strategies to quiet your inner critic. You’ll learn:
By the end, you’ll walk away with mindset shifts and daily practices to push past self-doubt and step fully into your role as a leader.
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As principals, most of us entered education because we care deeply about kids—we’re naturally empathetic. But leadership also requires authority: the ability to set direction, uphold standards, and make tough calls. The challenge? Finding the balance between the two.
In this episode, Barb Flowers unpacks the tension between empathy and authority and why both are essential for effective leadership. You’ll learn:
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Struggling to feel confident in your leadership role? This episode with AP and doctoral researcher Stan Koterba explores how self-efficacy—your belief in your ability to lead—directly connects to how you manage your time, set boundaries, and build sustainable routines. We’ll talk imposter syndrome, email habits, delegation, and the mindset shifts that help principals stop overworking and start leading with clarity.
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What if your identity as a principal isn’t fixed—but a choice you get to make every day? In this episode, we’re diving into the powerful concept of identity and how it shapes your leadership. Barb unpacks the 1.0 vs. 2.0 self exercise—one of her favorite coaching tools—to help you reflect on who you’ve been and intentionally step into who you want to become.
You’ll walk away with a practical strategy you can use for yourself and your teachers to foster growth, boost confidence, and shift out of burnout-inducing patterns.
Inside this episode:
This episode will inspire you to take control of your narrative and lead with intention. Your 2.0 self is waiting—tune in now!
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In this episode, we’re tackling one of the biggest challenges principals face: discipline. If you’ve ever felt like student behavior consumes your entire day, leaving you drained and reactive, you’re not alone.
I’ll walk you through the common traps principals fall into — reacting emotionally, taking behavior personally, and rushing to consequences — and share mindset shifts that will help you lead discipline with clarity, calm, and confidence.
Whether you’re handling discipline with or without an assistant principal, these strategies will help you reclaim your time, reduce stress, and actually change behavior in the long run.
Is your PBIS Tier 2 system supporting students—or overwhelming your staff? In this episode of The Principal’s Handbook, Barb Flowers shares why Tier 2 behavior systems are often the trickiest to implement and exactly how her team transformed theirs from a paperwork-heavy burden into a simple, sustainable support system for students and teachers.
You’ll learn:
Listen to Episode 105: Why Tier 1 Behavior Systems Are a Game Changer (And What to Do If You Don’t Have One)
If you're building your Tier 2 system (or need to fix a broken one), this episode will give you clarity, confidence, and practical next steps.
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Are you tired of feeling like there’s never enough time to get it all done? In this episode of The Principal’s Handbook, we dive into Master Your Week: Planning Tips for Principals. Join Barb Flowers, certified life coach and experienced principal, as she unpacks how intentional planning can transform your efficiency, reduce stress, and even help you walk out the door by 4 p.m.
Barb shares her personal planning system — blending digital and paper calendars — and reveals how a simple weekly planning session can create mental clarity, improve meetings, boost productivity, and even support better delegation. You'll also hear mindset shifts that will change how you think about your time and effectiveness as a school leader.
Whether you’re a seasoned planner or someone who avoids calendars, this episode will give you practical strategies to reclaim your time and lead with confidence. Tune in to learn how to structure your week so your priorities get done — without taking work home every night.
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