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The Secure Love Club Podcast
Mimi Watt
50 episodes
6 days ago
In this episode, we’re talking about the difference between building a life that looks good on the outside and one that actually feels right on the inside. This conversation was sparked by a powerful moment with a woman joining Peacefully Attached — and it opened up a deeper truth so many of us avoid: when our happiness rises and falls based on our relationship status, we’re not living in alignment… we’re outsourcing our fulfillment. We explore how many of us unknowingly build lives for vali...
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In this episode, we’re talking about the difference between building a life that looks good on the outside and one that actually feels right on the inside. This conversation was sparked by a powerful moment with a woman joining Peacefully Attached — and it opened up a deeper truth so many of us avoid: when our happiness rises and falls based on our relationship status, we’re not living in alignment… we’re outsourcing our fulfillment. We explore how many of us unknowingly build lives for vali...
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The Secure Love Club Podcast
Ep #50: Living a Life You’re Proud Of (Not One That Just Looks Pretty)
In this episode, we’re talking about the difference between building a life that looks good on the outside and one that actually feels right on the inside. This conversation was sparked by a powerful moment with a woman joining Peacefully Attached — and it opened up a deeper truth so many of us avoid: when our happiness rises and falls based on our relationship status, we’re not living in alignment… we’re outsourcing our fulfillment. We explore how many of us unknowingly build lives for vali...
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5 days ago
24 minutes

The Secure Love Club Podcast
Ep #49: Things I DIDN’T DO to Attract Secure Love
In this episode, I’m flipping the usual conversation around healing anxious attachment and attracting healthy love. Instead of focusing on what you should do, I’m walking you through the key things I stopped doing — the behaviours, patterns, and unconscious habits I had to let go of in order to create space for secure, grounded love. I share my personal journey of recognising anxious attachment, taking an intentional break from dating, and learning how to stop chasing intensity, proving my w...
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1 week ago
33 minutes

The Secure Love Club Podcast
Ep #48: Doing Things Differently (When the Old Way Doesn’t Feel Good Anymore)
In this episode, I’m inviting you into a powerful reflection on what happens when the way you’ve been living, working, dating, or showing up no longer feels good — even if it once did. Fresh from a deeply activating session with one of my mentors, this conversation is about recognising where you’re living on autopilot, clinging to familiarity over fulfilment, and repeating patterns simply because they feel safe. We explore why change can feel so uncomfortable (even when staying the same hurt...
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2 weeks ago
25 minutes

The Secure Love Club Podcast
Ep #47: How She Remembered Who She Was, Broke Toxic Cycles, And Reclaimed Her Power! Emma’s Journey Inside Peacefully Attached
In this episode, I’m joined by the incredible Emma — a former Peacefully Attached client — for one of the most honest and expansive conversations we’ve had on the Secure Love Club podcast. Emma shares what life looked like before we worked together: moving between anxious and avoidant attachment, repeating toxic relationship cycles, people-pleasing to the point of burnout, and feeling deeply disconnected from her sense of worth. We unpack how trauma, boundary violations, and self-abandonment...
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3 weeks ago
54 minutes

The Secure Love Club Podcast
Ep #46: Your Hard Seasons Are Preparing You for Your Biggest Expansion
In this episode, I’m taking you into a conversation that poured through me fresh from my morning trot. You know those moments where life suddenly clicks, and you see your challenges through an entirely different lens? That’s what today is about. I’m breaking down the biggest lie we tell ourselves — that life should be linear, logical, and pain-free — and showing you why the hard seasons in your life aren’t punishments, but preparation. Preparation for more love, abundance, alignment, and a de...
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1 month ago
26 minutes

The Secure Love Club Podcast
Ep #45: How to Believe Your Dream Relationship Is Actually Possible For You
In this episode, we’re diving into a question almost every woman on the anxious-to-secure path quietly struggles with: “How do I believe the partner I truly want actually exists… and that I’m not delusional for wanting it?” This conversation was sparked by a powerful question from a Peacefully Attached client who had just finished painting a beautiful, detailed vision of her ideal partner, and then immediately felt like it was too good to be true. If you’ve ever felt that too? You’re in the ...
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1 month ago
30 minutes

The Secure Love Club Podcast
Ep #44: Why Low Self-Worth Makes You Chase High-Intensity Relationships
In this episode, I’m pulling back the curtain on one of the most addictive and confusing patterns for anxiously attached women; the chase for high-intensity relationships. You know the ones: the mixed signals, the emotional rollercoasters, the butterflies that feel electric… but end up leaving you anxious, exhausted, and questioning your worth. I’m breaking down why those “sparks” you’re chasing aren’t actually chemistry, they’re activation. You’ll learn how low self-worth wires you to confu...
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1 month ago
44 minutes

The Secure Love Club Podcast
Ep #43: Life Update - Therapy, Business Growth, Moving?!
In this episode, I’m pulling back the curtain and giving you a real, unfiltered life update - the stuff I usually only share with my closest friends. No lessons, no frameworks today… just truth. I’m talking about the unexpected year I’ve spent in Melbourne, the slow unraveling of my mental health these past few months, the impact of pouring everything into my business, and the very real loneliness that can happen when you don’t have community around you. I share why I finally decided to go ba...
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1 month ago
29 minutes

The Secure Love Club Podcast
Ep #42: The Real Secret To Becoming Secure (that no one talks about)
In this episode, I’m talking about something that almost nobody in the anxious attachment / healing space is talking about enough… and yet it’s one of THE most important pieces of what actually gets you secure results. Consistency. Not perfection. Not being “fixed.” Not never slipping up. Consistency. Because the truth is, you will have setbacks on this journey. You will have moments where your old patterns pull you back in. You will have moments of self-sabotage. And THIS is where most peop...
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2 months ago
33 minutes

The Secure Love Club Podcast
Ep #41: Slow Down To Speed Up!
In this episode, I’m diving into why constantly dating, matching, texting, and seeking the next “spark” is actually delaying your love life — not accelerating it. We’ve been sold this idea that the woman who hustles hardest in dating wins. But in reality, the women who find healthy, secure partnership aren’t the ones sprinting from person to person… they’re the ones who pause, reflect, self-resource, and date intentionally. I’m breaking down how slowing down — even taking short breaks from d...
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2 months ago
34 minutes

The Secure Love Club Podcast
Ep #40: Navigating Loneliness While Single
In this episode, I’m opening up about something that’s been sitting heavy on my heart lately - loneliness. Not the kind that comes from not having plans on a Saturday night, but the deeper kind that sneaks in when you’ve done the healing, raised your standards, and are no longer willing to settle for half-love or almost relationships. I’m sharing the truth about what this season of singleness has brought up for me. The moments of peace and freedom, but also the quiet ache of missing connecti...
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2 months ago
18 minutes

The Secure Love Club Podcast
Ep #39: Dating Dry Spells, Sexuality & Feeling ‘Irrelevant’ — The Truth I Haven’t Been Saying
In this unfiltered solo episode, I’m taking you behind the scenes of what’s really been going on in my world — and my heart — lately. This isn’t your typical “dating advice” chat. It’s about the seasons of life where you aren’t dating, where you’re questioning parts of yourself you never expected to, and where you wonder if who you are now still fits the life you once built. After feeling creatively flat and disconnected from my usual spark, a powerful conversation with my mentor cracked me ...
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2 months ago
34 minutes

The Secure Love Club Podcast
Ep #38: Are You Using Your Situationship to Avoid Your Life?
In this solo episode, I’m diving deep into the truth about situationships - not just what they are, but why we find ourselves in them. This conversation was inspired by a listener who shared how much she loved my previous episode on secure situationships, and a private client who realized she was using hers to avoid parts of her life that needed her attention. I’m sharing my own story of how casual dating once became both a healthy outlet and a sneaky form of escapism and how I learned to te...
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2 months ago
39 minutes

The Secure Love Club Podcast
Ep #37: Healing Retroactive Jealousy & Building Self-Trust That Transforms Your Relationships With Emma Elmoza (Part 2)
We’re back for part two of my conversation with embodiment coach Emma Elmoza — and if you haven’t listened to part one yet, go back and tune in first so you’ve got the full context. In this second half of our chat, we move from naming retroactive jealousy into the heart of healing it. Emma shares how she built deep self-trust, confidence, and inner safety — and how those shifts completely transformed the way she experiences her relationship. This conversation will open your eyes to what’s po...
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3 months ago
40 minutes

The Secure Love Club Podcast
Ep #36: Retroactive Jealousy: The Secret Shame Women Carry in Relationships With Emma Elmoza (Part 1)
So many women secretly struggle with this, but almost no one is talking about it… retroactive jealousy. In today’s episode, I’m joined by embodiment coach Emma Elmoza, who opens up about her own journey from insecurity and self-doubt to building deep confidence and self-worth through embodiment work. Together, we explore the concept of retroactive jealousy — what it is, how it shows up in relationships, and why it often comes with so much shame. If you’ve ever spiraled over your partner’s p...
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3 months ago
47 minutes

The Secure Love Club Podcast
Ep #35: The Ripple Effect of Becoming Securely Attached (It’s Bigger Than You Think)
Today, I’m pulling back the curtain on something I’ve seen time and time again in my own journey and in my clients’ lives: when you commit to healing your anxious attachment and developing secure attachment, the ripple effect is massive. This transformation isn’t just about dating or finding “the one.” It shifts your friendships, your career, your self-worth, your hobbies, your boundaries – literally your entire life opens up. In this episode, you’ll hear: - Why anxious attachment keeps you...
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3 months ago
36 minutes

The Secure Love Club Podcast
Ep #34: The Hidden Grief No One Talks About: Missing the Person You Were in a Past Relationship
In today’s episode, I’m sharing a personal story about grief, nostalgia, and the versions of ourselves that relationships leave behind. Sometimes we think we’re yearning for an ex, when really we’re grieving the version of ourselves who existed in that chapter. And while it’s tender and sometimes gut-wrenching, this grief can also be a doorway into growth, self-love, and a deeper understanding of who you are now. What You’ll Learn in This Episode: - The difference between missing a person vs...
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3 months ago
32 minutes

The Secure Love Club Podcast
Ep #33: Expanding Your Capacity For The Relationship & Life of Your Dreams
You don’t get the relationship or life of your dreams just by wanting it harder. You get it by expanding your capacity to hold it. In this episode, I’m breaking down why desire doesn’t equal readiness, the mistakes that keep you stuck even when you’re “doing the work,” and how to stretch your nervous system so you can finally hold more love, success, and visibility without sabotaging it. Inside this episode, you’ll discover: • Why wanting more isn’t the problem (and what really is) • The hi...
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4 months ago
35 minutes

The Secure Love Club Podcast
Ep #32: From Domestic Violence Survivor to Global Coach: Teagan Woodgate’s Story of Strength & Self-Belief
This episode is one of the most powerful conversations I’ve had on the podcast. I’m joined by Teagan Woodgate, founder of Reform Body Coaching, whose journey from surviving domestic violence to creating a thriving global coaching business will leave you feeling both shaken and deeply inspired. Teagan shares openly about her past — the warning signs she missed, the fear that kept her stuck, and the breaking point that finally set her free. We talk about the messy, painful reality of abuse, but...
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4 months ago
1 hour 6 minutes

The Secure Love Club Podcast
Ep #31: Connecting vs. Attaching: The Shift That Will Change Your Love Life
In this episode, I’m sharing an interview I did with my beautiful friend Hillary McVeigh — Human Design teacher, Retreat Facilitator, Certified Coach, intuitive, and the kind of woman who will lovingly see straight into your soul. Before we even hit record, she pulled up my Human Design chart (Vessel of Love, Generator 2/4 for my HD lovers) and read me like a book. Then we went deep into all things dating, love, and self-worth. In this episode, we talk about: • The real difference between c...
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4 months ago
1 hour

The Secure Love Club Podcast
In this episode, we’re talking about the difference between building a life that looks good on the outside and one that actually feels right on the inside. This conversation was sparked by a powerful moment with a woman joining Peacefully Attached — and it opened up a deeper truth so many of us avoid: when our happiness rises and falls based on our relationship status, we’re not living in alignment… we’re outsourcing our fulfillment. We explore how many of us unknowingly build lives for vali...