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The Ultimate Intimacy Podcast
Nick and Amy with The Ultimate Intimacy App
435 episodes
2 days ago
We talk about this all the time on the Ultimate Intimacy podcast — emotional intimacy and sexual intimacy go hand in hand. You can’t expect a strong sex life if you’re not emotionally connected first. For most people, especially many women desire doesn’t start in the bedroom. It starts with feeling heard, valued, and emotionally safe. If that connection is missing, sexual intimacy often disappears right along with it. That’s why when couples say, “Our intimacy isn’t where we want it to be,” w...
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We talk about this all the time on the Ultimate Intimacy podcast — emotional intimacy and sexual intimacy go hand in hand. You can’t expect a strong sex life if you’re not emotionally connected first. For most people, especially many women desire doesn’t start in the bedroom. It starts with feeling heard, valued, and emotionally safe. If that connection is missing, sexual intimacy often disappears right along with it. That’s why when couples say, “Our intimacy isn’t where we want it to be,” w...
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Sexuality
Education,
Society & Culture,
Self-Improvement,
Health & Fitness,
Relationships
Episodes (20/435)
The Ultimate Intimacy Podcast
432. Don't Have The Intimate Life You Want? Do These Emotional Intimacy Things First
We talk about this all the time on the Ultimate Intimacy podcast — emotional intimacy and sexual intimacy go hand in hand. You can’t expect a strong sex life if you’re not emotionally connected first. For most people, especially many women desire doesn’t start in the bedroom. It starts with feeling heard, valued, and emotionally safe. If that connection is missing, sexual intimacy often disappears right along with it. That’s why when couples say, “Our intimacy isn’t where we want it to be,” w...
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3 days ago
28 minutes

The Ultimate Intimacy Podcast
431. Love Doesn’t Assume... Love Asks, Love Listens And Love Responds
One of the fastest ways intimacy erodes in marriage is through assumption. We assume our spouse knows what we need. We assume they understand how we feel. We assume love means they should just “get it.” But marriage doesn’t work on mind-reading as we have talked about before, it works on communication. When we assume things, we stop asking questions. And when we stop asking questions, we stop truly knowing our spouse. Over time, those assumptions turn into unmet expectations, and unmet expect...
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1 week ago
24 minutes

The Ultimate Intimacy Podcast
430. Setting Goals That Actually Stick To Help Your Marriage In 2026
In this episode of The Ultimate Intimacy Podcast, Nick and Amy break down how couples can stop “trying harder” and start creating real, lasting change in their marriage and good marriage goals couples should set for 2026 to help them find Ultimate Intimacy in their relationship. If you haven't already, go check out the Ultimate Intimacy App in the app stores, or at ultimateintimacy.com to find "Ultimate Intimacy" in your marriage. It's FREE to download and so much fun! Find out why close to 1...
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1 week ago
31 minutes

The Ultimate Intimacy Podcast
429. Why The Lower Desire Spouse Needs To Initiate Once In A While
In many marriages, the higher-desire spouse ends up being the one who always initiates sex. Over time, that dynamic can leave the lower desire spouse feeling pressured, and the higher-desire spouse feeling unwanted or unseen. But here’s the truth: when the lower-desire spouse initiates, it can be incredibly powerful. It communicates love, desire, safety, and “you matter to me” in a way words alone never could. In this episode, Amy and Nick dive into 12 fun, flirty, and confidence-boosting way...
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2 weeks ago
31 minutes

The Ultimate Intimacy Podcast
428. Is The Sexual Intimacy In Your Marriage Controlled By One Spouse?
In most marriages (whether done intentionally or unintentionally), the lower desire spouse typically has complete control and say so when it comes to sex. They determine "if" a couple is going to have sex, "when" they are going to have sex, and everything related to sex in the relationship. Many husbands have expressed to us that they are the higher desire spouse and are scared to initiate sex with their wife for fear of rejection, having it cause an argument or conflict, and many othe...
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2 weeks ago
44 minutes

The Ultimate Intimacy Podcast
427. Interview With World Renowned Author Dr. Gary Chapman Of The 5 Love Languages
In this episode of the Ultimate Intimacy Podcast, we (Nick and Amy) sit down with world-renowned author and counselor Dr. Gary Chapman, best known for The 5 Love Languages. With over 20 million copies sold and translations in more than 50 languages, Dr. Chapman has helped millions of couples transform their relationships. We talk with Gary about why it’s so vital to know and speak each other’s love languages, how to keep your spouse's “love tank” full, and why listening to understand, not jus...
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3 weeks ago
46 minutes

The Ultimate Intimacy Podcast
426. The Most Common Mistakes That We As Couples Make In Marriage
Even the strongest couples can fall into trap of making "common" mistakes that can slowly erode connection and intimacy. These mistakes often happen when we get complacent and think things are going well. In this episode, Nick and Amy share the top mistakes couples make, and the practical steps they used to rebuild trust and strengthen their own marriage. Whether you’re newly married or have been together for decades, this episode is packed with insights, stories, and actionable advice ...
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3 weeks ago
34 minutes

The Ultimate Intimacy Podcast
425. Stop "Trying" & Start "Doing" - 4 Steps To Breaking Your Bad Habits In Marriage & Life With Nate Whitson
How often do you tell yourself, or hear from your spouse the phrase "I will try harder" and things never seem to get better? Things don't get better just by trying... you have to have a game plan and start doing. In this very impactful episode of the Ultimate Intimacy Podcast, we interview Nate Whitson where he reveals how to finally stop "trying" and actually start "doing" when it comes to breaking bad habits in your marriage, or in your personal life. He share the 4 things you can start doi...
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4 weeks ago
45 minutes

The Ultimate Intimacy Podcast
424. Monotony & Marriage: How To Turn The Daily Grind And Boredom Into Something Good
Is your daily life starting to feel like a copy-paste loop? Wake up, work, errands, dishes, Netflix, sleep and repeat? Feeling like the movie ground hog day? Do you feel bored in your life and marriage. You’re not alone, MANY couples feel this exact same way. In this episode of the Ultimate Intimacy Podcast, we dive into a wonderfully practical and hope-filled conversation based on a fantastic blog article written by our good friend Nate Klemp, co-author of The 80/80 Marriage. Whether y...
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1 month ago
40 minutes

The Ultimate Intimacy Podcast
423. The Clear Signs That You're Putting Your Kids Before Your Marriage. Are You Doing These Things?
Are you unknowingly putting your marriage on hold while you pour everything into parenting? In this episode of The Ultimate Intimacy Podcast, Nick and Amy break down the 7 signs that your kids may be taking priority over your relationship. Are your decisions centered around your kids’ schedules and activities? Do date nights rarely happen because you’re “too busy”? Do you feel guilty spending time alone together even though it hardly ever happens? Is there no time or energy left for your spou...
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1 month ago
34 minutes

The Ultimate Intimacy Podcast
422. Our Addiction To Technology Is Literally Destroying Our Marriages
We have discussed in previous episodes the impact social media and our addictions to our screens is having on our marriages and relationships. In this episode, Nick and Amy interview Nate Klemp who is in the process of writing a new book titled "OPEN: Finding Freedom in a Screen Addicted and Divided World" which was released in 2024. We discuss many of the damaging effects our screens are causing to our marriages and to society. If you want to get a copy of this book, you can find it on the a...
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1 month ago
45 minutes

The Ultimate Intimacy Podcast
421. DESIRE DECEMBER Is Here... And Your Marriage Is Going To Love It!
DESIRE DECEMBER is here and this is exactly what your marriage needs. I don't know what kind of write up to do to explain what this episode is.. so you will just have to listen to the podcast episode to find out :) If you haven't already, go check out the Ultimate Intimacy App in the app stores, or at ultimateintimacy.com to find "Ultimate Intimacy" in your marriage. It's FREE to download and so much fun! Find out why close to 1M people have downloaded the app and give it such high ratings an...
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1 month ago
21 minutes

The Ultimate Intimacy Podcast
420. Jealousy Impacting Your Marriage? Pets, Phones, Kids, Social Media...
Do you find yourself getting jealous because your spouse gives more attention to the kids, their phone, or even the dogs? Does everything else seem to take priority over your marriage? Or are you feeling jealousy due to some of the things that your spouse does? Jealousy in marriage is more common than we admit, and it can quietly erode even the strongest relationships. Jealousy causes resentment and frustration which can continue to grow. In this episode of the Ultimate Intimacy Podcast, we e...
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1 month ago
31 minutes

The Ultimate Intimacy Podcast
419. Is Your Nightly Bedroom Routine Impacting Your Intimate And Emotional Connection? Poll Answers
Ever wonder why you and your spouse feel distant by the end of the day? It might have nothing to do with big issues and everything to do with your evening and bedtime routine. In this episode, we share some very simple things that our audience shared from our Instagram survey, like spending 30 minutes talking, putting phones away at 8, cuddling, or praying together, small habits that can be marriage changing. These intentional moments help you connect emotionally, spark intimacy, and en...
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1 month ago
26 minutes

The Ultimate Intimacy Podcast
418. When Husbands Feel Like Home Is Heavier Than Work: Viral Video Discussion & How Wives Can Bring More Peace
A video of ours recently went viral showing husbands sitting in their cars after work, and it sparked a huge conversation, why do some men need these few minutes before coming inside? Sometimes home can feel heavier than work, and that moment in the car gives a pause to transition from stress to family life. In this episode, we dive into how wives, and husbands, can create a peaceful, positive home environment that encourages connection, calm, and intimacy. We also discuss how the oppos...
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1 month ago
35 minutes

The Ultimate Intimacy Podcast
417. Help! Why Am I Not Attracted To My Spouse Anymore? Answers with LMFT Kevin Johnson
In this episode of The Ultimate Intimacy Podcast, we’re diving into a topic we honestly never expected to cover, but It’s one of the most vulnerable, painful, and confusing issues couples face, yet it’s far more common than most people realize. Over the past year, we’ve received countless messages from both husbands and wives who feel distressed, ashamed, or completely lost because their attraction toward their spouse has changed, or they say they aren't attracted to them anymore and don't kn...
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1 month ago
34 minutes

The Ultimate Intimacy Podcast
416. What Is Our Relationship With Anxiety? How To Manage It On A Personal Level And In Marriage With Kevin Johnson
In this episode of The Ultimate Intimacy Podcast, Nick and Amy sit down with Kevin Johnson for an open and relatable conversation about anxiety, a topic that touches nearly everyone in one form or another. Anxiety is a normal function of life, and it shows up differently for each of us. It might surface when we’re speaking in front of a crowd, navigating unfamiliar places, facing personal pressures, or simply trying to keep up with life. For some people, it’s a manageable background hum; for ...
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1 month ago
30 minutes

The Ultimate Intimacy Podcast
415. Over 1 Billion Women Are Currently Going Through This Life Altering Thing That Impacts Marriage - Must Listen Interview
In this eye-opening episode of The Ultimate Intimacy Podcast, Nick and Amy have an amazing interview with an expert discussing perimenopause and menopause—a stage that will affect over 1 billion women worldwide in the coming years. Did you know that around 47 million women enter menopause every year, yet many feel unprepared for the changes in their bodies, hormones, and intimate relationships? Nick and Amy and their guest Jesse dive into the physical, emotional, and relational shifts that co...
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2 months ago
43 minutes

The Ultimate Intimacy Podcast
414. Ladies Turn... The Things That She Wants In The Bedroom
In this episode of the Ultimate Intimacy Podcast, Amy and Nick turn the tables to talk about what wives really want in the bedroom, and it’s probably not just what you think. Drawing from listener feedback, polls, and real conversations, we uncover the deeper desires that make intimacy meaningful for women. Join us for an open, encouraging, and funny discussion that might just change the way you think about connection in your marriage. If you haven't already, go check out the Ultimate Intimac...
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2 months ago
30 minutes

The Ultimate Intimacy Podcast
413. The "Other" Things That Husbands Want In The Bedroom That Might Surprise You
In this candid episode, Amy and Nick share 5 things about each other that you probably didn't know about them, before diving into the “other” things that husbands secretly crave in the bedroom .. and no, it’s not what you might think! Based on polls, real listener feedback, and honest conversations, we’re unpacking the other desires that often go unspoken. From deeper connection and affirmation to playfulness, curiosity, and feeling pursued, this episode goes beyond the physical to expl...
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2 months ago
37 minutes

The Ultimate Intimacy Podcast
We talk about this all the time on the Ultimate Intimacy podcast — emotional intimacy and sexual intimacy go hand in hand. You can’t expect a strong sex life if you’re not emotionally connected first. For most people, especially many women desire doesn’t start in the bedroom. It starts with feeling heard, valued, and emotionally safe. If that connection is missing, sexual intimacy often disappears right along with it. That’s why when couples say, “Our intimacy isn’t where we want it to be,” w...