and we’re backkk… hi, hello, it’s been awhile! let me divulge what i’ve learned while i’ve been away, between breakups, friends and self discovery, it’s been anything but smooth sailing!! intro/outro music by Good Nuuz https://on.soundcloud.com/t74hJ93Zag3CDpX99

It's been a while...

while I've been away I've upgraded, evolved, levelled up... 

basically I've just been spending all my time healing, working through trauma, started to love myself, been learning accept my self completely.

It's been an intense journey, filled with pain, the love I've always dreamed of and shedding a life and a version of myself that had to go.

I cant wait to tell you everything, the chaos, the experiences, the wildness that these past few months have been.

I've missed this, I hope you've missed me..

we have so much to catch up on xx

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why have I always been so unsuccessful on my quest for love? 

Recollecting myself after coming out a repeating scenario with my mum, I've been hit with finally acknowledging abandonment wounds and how those wounds have played a role in my behaviours when searching for a relationship and why I have so desperately wanted one.

Not going to lie this felt like I was going to therapy with myself as the therapist but when is it not?

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Having come out of a hard place and putting the work into bettering myself, I feel blessed to share a conversation on all things healing with SOLCHLD. SOLCHLD/Aurora is a Singer, songwriter, poet, actor, a multidisciplinary artist. She is exudes heart and soul into everything she does and you can feel it by just listening to her song ‘Cancer Moon’. Having had similar experiences growing up as Black women in Australia and journey of healing, we thought it would be perfect to just chat and reflect. You can find SOLCHLD on instagram @aurora_solchld and you can find me on instagram @theundecidedgenz

coming off of a emotional breakdown, i talk about the confusion of what to do and who I want to be, the fear of choosing different programming, when is being alone healthy and necessary. really just me talking to myself about myself. If you enjoy please let me know, leave a review or send through a message to @theundecidedgenz or @ally_malcolm stay tuned for the episode where i talk about being fat:)

listen in while I ramble about not existing, shame and are we all fake if we are being so called real? sat in a dark room with the ambient noises of my heater, I open up and get vulnerable. and because i exist off of reassurance please let me know if you enjoyed this… @theundecidedgenz on instagram listening to this episode may raise issues for you and if this is the case I encourage you to reach out to any mental health services in your country the following services are for anyone in Australia Lifeline- 13 11 14 Suicide Call Back Service- 1300 659 467

Ally updates us all on her dating life and discusses whether or not we should give people the chance to grow. She then launches into everything about hating men and proposes a step to it overcome the patriarchy.. easy right? Then to round off the episode Ally discussing some juicy people picks! For extra content follow along on instagram, tiktok and youtube @theundecidedgenz For more Ally find her @ally_malcolm

Ally discusses everything surrounding people pleasing, what are the signs you’re a people pleaser, where does it originate from and in what ways does she it effect her. She then touches on the idea that embarrassment might just be a choice or is it built in us? Following these discussions she rounds off this podcast with some juicy people pick dilemmas! For extra content follow along on instagram, tiktok and youtube @theundecidedgenz For more Ally find her @ally_malcolm

SUBSCRIBE so you don't miss a future episode of The Undecided Gen Z... Anonymously submit a people pick/dilemma/secret or unpopular opinion: https://forms.gle/St4aMxKWkDyFXVbz8 Our insta: @theundecidedgenz  Ally's insta: @ally_malcolm  Theo's insta: @theo.mccoy See more of us on YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCp1HphuU6aiebdWP8AcdwAQ ...or TikToK: https://tiktok.com/@theundecidedgenz

we have a lot to talk about.

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on this week’s ep… theo wants to enforce mandatory non-COVID related lockdowns & ally broke down and had an awkward moment with a man at her house. we talk wordle & how it saved one grandma's life before getting into a discussion on where you are, there you be, and whether every person feels like they are special. we also chat about what defines a date, theo pitches why every time you hang out with someone it's technically a date AND we rehash a dark moment in our friendship history... which may include ally throwing some wild allegations. plus we give the world's greatest advice when we chat dilemmas about being a virgin in university and friends not showing that they care about you. hit SUBSCRIBE so you don't miss a future episode of the undecided gen z... anonymously submit a people pick/dilemma/secret or unpopular opinion for us to discuss on the pod: https://forms.gle/St4aMxKWkDyFXVbz8 our insta: @theundecidedgenz   ally's insta: @ally_malcolm   theo's insta: @theo.mccoy see more of us on youtube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCp1HphuU6aiebdWP8AcdwAQ ...or tiktok: https://tiktok.com/@theundecidedgenz

on this week’s ep… 2022 is upon us and we have returned full throttle... but have both our co-hosts? just kidding, yes they're both here. today we talk companionship & whether it's necessary (or can u be satisfied without finding love?), taking sperm from your dead partner in order to have a baby (and would we donate our own?) and discuss the age old question... is having one kid with no siblings child abuse? also we float the idea of having a baby together & discuss why it would definitely not survive, and answer a juicy dilemma about a very rough family situation. 

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On this week’s ep… it’s No Nuance November so of course we get into all our spicy takes & hear some juicy opinions from the listeners.

We’re also back together in person for the first time in 6 months, so chat about what we been up to. Ally is living her best return-to-hometown main character life, and Theo is busy finding a reality tv show for us to star on. How would we fare on the Amazing Race?

We also chat mixed-race couples, getting smarter, technology advancements, having worms in your butt… and other places and how people used to meet up without being able to text on the way.

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On this week's ep… we discuss ghosting, when its ok & how to reject someone if you don't just wanna leave them hanging. We try sumn new and listen to some listener voice memos sharing their wild ghosting experiences. We also chat the Astroworld sitch & posting pics of your pets to plant trees... Ally also dumped her therapist & Theo still doesn't understand nutrition.

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On this week's ep… it's Halloween and therefore only fitting that we turn to the scariest topic of conversation of all... our listeners' dilemmas! We turn to you guys & give our best effort of providing (unintentionally worthless) advice to your issues. We chat being in love with your boyfriend's best friend, suspecting your dad is cheating, body/comparison issues, being confused with your sexuality & going through your parents phone...

We also get into our personal driving insecurities, why scary movies suck, and Ally's big wake up call to adulthood this week.

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On this week's ep… Ally is back and comes in hot with a major update to her post-Ally Bachelorette romantic journey. There’s a development. We get into the return of Adele and how much we simply cannot relate to her, the engagement of Kourtney Kardashian and Travis Barker and the pressures of marriage before taking a turn for this week’s death recap… discussing the tragic Alec Baldwin shooting & updates to the Gabby Petito case.

We also gawk in disbelief at the trauma dumping therapist TikTok that went off this week and apparently Ally has made her therapist cry… Is that a thing?

We also dish our very helpful advice on some dirty viewer dilemmas.

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On this week's episode... we chat with Australian singers & semifinalists on latest season of the The Voice Australia... Sian and Jordan Fuller!

Sian and Jordan are Australian teens & siblings who recently participated on The Voice, where they destroyed the competition and sung their (very talented) hearts out until being savagely cut from the comp. We chat their entire experience on the show, including the reality of their audition process, what it's like doing a BLIND audition and having FOUR chairs spin for you, how the coaching process played out and what they really thought about Guy Sebastian and Rita Ora...

We also get into some of the juicy behind the scenes of filming reality tv, and get to know Sian and Jordan a bit more personally, including their dream role in a musical, what their relationship is really like and their dreams for the future.

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On this week's episode... we talk the bizarre transitional period of switching from young person, to still young person, but legally defined as an adult! We chat through deciding what to do with your life after school, the options available, is it possible to WASTE your 20's? is there a correct pathway? and delve into working, the 9-5 lifestyle, unexpected costs of adulthood, the ins & outs of moving out of home, TAXES, superannuation and all that good stuff.           

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On this week's episode... we have a HUGE LIFE ANNOUNCEMENT (...kinda... hopefully...) which may involve packing up our lives entirely. We talk Squid Game; why everyone is obsessed, foreign media representation, would you risk your life for an amount of money, and get into the internet takeover that has been couch guy. 

We also chat petty red flags, and a juicy AITA which involves a teacher, an influencer, and a leaked video.

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On this week's episode... Ally has hit a mental low and we get deep for a minute as we talk disassociating, and losing control of yourself. Theo's ready to move overseas and we chat packing up your life, travel bugs and the issues of routine/productivity culture.

Survivor has canned the phrase 'Come on in guys!', and we discuss our views on the word 'guys', gendered language & the ARIAs (Australian Music Awards) removing gendered awards.

Gabby Petito is still missing, which leads us into a discussion on online detectives, how obsessed we get with things on the internet, the blur between reality & fiction and how it's getting harder to tell the difference and it's ALL VERY SCARY!!!!

We also get into some juicy Am I the Assholes? diving into awkward fiancé rent situations and what you would do if your fam showed up on your honeymoon.

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