In this episode, I'm getting deeply personal about the nuances of trust in relationships and why it's not just about doing your own work. This is about the sacred dance between evolution and acceptance, and how to know when you're growing together versus when you're growing apart. You'll hear about my own journey from a family that modeled emotional distance to creating conscious partnership, the "changer" versus "acceptor" archetypes in relationships, and why my Gene Keys literally wire me to never stop evolving. I'm sharing David Deida's framework for the three stages of love and how they map to the Gene Keys frequencies, plus the hardest truth of all - sometimes loving someone means setting them free, especially when they have a self-fulfilling prophecy that they're unworthy of love. This includes my vulnerable story about growing up watching my parents turn their backs on each other and a client's powerful journey of walking away with complete peace. What we're covering: Sacred intimacy: fully allowing and embracing your partner's shadows, strengths, and everything in between The "changer" vs "acceptor" archetypes and why women often carry the emotional evolution load David Deida's three stages of love mapped to Gene Keys shadow, gift, and siddhi frequencies How to use your Gene Keys profile (especially the red spheres) to understand relationship patterns When growing apart means it's time to honor what is and walk away with love Ready to Transform From the Inside Out? If this episode cracked something open and you're ready to do the deep work of creating conscious partnership (whether that's healing your current relationship or preparing for your next one), I have a few spots open for 1:1 coaching. This is shadow work, Gene Keys integration, and learning to trust your deepest knowing. Send me a DM when you're ready to transform love from the inside out. Love this episode?  Screenshot this and share it to your stories - tag me @iamkaijadawn! And hit subscribe so you never miss an episode. ✨ Be brave, not perfect, my babe! Xx, Kaija . . . Disclaimer: This podcast shares personal stories, experiences, and reflections on relationships, consciousness work, and personal growth. The content is not intended as a substitute for professional mental health support, medical advice, or therapeutic treatment. If you're experiencing crisis, abuse, or severe mental health symptoms, please reach out to a qualified professional. Your journey is your own - trust yourself to know what support you need and when you need it.