Personal life episode loading! I'm giving you all an update on my love life, which seems appropriate all things considered. The last time I gave an update, I complained about a first date gone wrong. Have things changed since then?... See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

I hope to share an interview I conducted. Thus far the audio cuts in and out and I can't be heard sometimes. I need more time to tweak it. I'll talk about my personal life next week if I can't salvage the audio, or I'll talk about pop culture. Stay safe and warm. I hope you're enjoying your holiday season thus far. See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Marcus warns "Don't be a lover boy," but I disagree. After getting betrayed by your partner of 4 years, it's understandable why he'd say that. Jeff didn't just steal, he had a whole other boyfriend and relationship that Marcus didn't know about. This breakup was brutal. In hindsight Marcus says there was one major red flag that shouldn't be overlooked. See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

I'm sharing one of my own worstships, about a guy I dated named Clyde. This episode first ran late last year - it was two episodes, but I merged it into one for this throwback. I should have a new interview up next week! Enjoy. See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

What happens the only time I tell y'all that I'm going on a first date? I have to embarrass myself by giving an unexpected update. It has been forever since someone didn't want to go on a second date with me. I can't even remember when that was. I had fun on my date and I teach others how to only have good first dates. Ok, let's get to it already. Enjoy. See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Madison makes great TV, but she's the girlfriend from hell. Next we have Annie, who gets drunk and picks fights. Her ex-boyfriend says Annie exhibited the same behavior when they were together, before or after her DUI arrest (I'm unsure but I mention it). And last but not least, KB is 27 years old (when Love Is Blind was filmed) and she says she wants Edmond to put a baby in her next year.... YIKES! The bar does not have to be in hell, ladies! And acting like Madison & Annie when you're dumped is toxic and SO STRANGE. I have so many questions! The audio quality on this episode is pretty bad. I apologize. See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

I outline why Kalybriah "KB" Haskin, the Black social worker on Love Is Blind season 9, is toxic. KB is beautiful, kind, and patient but she shouldn't want her man to get into a fist fight on her behalf. She also shouldn't talk about her promiscuous past while denying her nerdy fiance the cookie, and she shouldn't argue with her partner in public when she could have some respect and save the argument for when they're at home. I like KB and I want her to succeed. She's done the best she could given the weirdo she ended up with, but it's time to dissect when KB is in the wrong because some of her missteps are common - talking about being promiscuous with a partner who doesn't know what promiscuity is?! I had to call her out. See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

I read an excerpt from my Dating Hacks chapter from my book, So Drunk A Tooth's Gotta Go. I also explain why it's good to talk to someone you meet (online or offline) about sex before it happens. I've dodged bullets this way and you will too! I recorded this yesterday, before getting ready for a date - I'll give an update. I forgot to share more personal stories so I imagine I'll record a part 2 on this topic sometime in the future. Get your copy of my book on Amazon. See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Part 3 of our exclusive interview with Aleks Filmore, author of The Worst Boyfriends Ever, is easily one of my favorites! He speaks candidly on what it's like being a gay man in Romania vs. Belgium. Did you know some people had to run gay clubs in their house?! Gasp. We also discuss Aleks' next book, (it should drop early next year), what made him cry, and so much more! Aleks does not hesitate to self-reflect. It's so refreshing to hear about his journey. I also ask him to send me nudes. My inbox is waiting. I'll keep you all posted. In the meantime, I'm gonna try to get him to interview me soon. It's payback time? I explain during the episode. Enjoy. The Worst Boyfriends Ever is peak entertainment! It's 25 chapters about 25 of Aleks' worstships. Grab a paperback for only $10! The ebook is only $4.99. See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Aleks Filmore, author of The Worst Boyfriends Ever, talks about dating someone with elaborate kinks. He also dated a man in his 30s, who needed his mom's approval for everything, then there was a pathological liar who lived in a fantasy world... I also drag Aleks for being for the streets! After we talk about some of Aleks' worstships, I ask him about the dating scene in Europe. This episode ends on a cliffhanger, but part 3 drops next week. I learned a lot about dating in Romania vs. Belgium and you will too (in next week's episode). The Worst Boyfriends Ever is peak entertainment! It's 25 chapters about 25 of Aleks' worstships. Grab your copy for only $10! See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Aleks Filmore wrote the shocking and entertaining book, The Worst Boyfriends Ever. I enjoyed his book so much, I asked for an interview. The Gambler Swindler asked Aleks' for his credit card and used him for his entire credit limit! In this episode, we also talk about a pathological liar Aleks dated. The Worst Boyfriends Ever is 25 chapters about 25 of Aleks' worstships. It's only $10! I can't wait to share part 2 & 3 of our interview the next few weeks. Some of Aleks' exes are terrible. What a wild ride. Aleks removed his picture from his profile. So sorry you can't see what I'm talking about when I say he's handsome. Enjoy part 1 of our exclusive with the talented author of The Worst Boyfriends Ever. See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Dropping some life updates on y'all and reminding you NOT to listen to terrible dating advice from people who love & care about you. Don't fall for that trap! I'm also moving in less than 2 months and I can't decide if I'm happy for Summer Walker. Her new man looks old AF and she's in her late 20s. See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

I have a new interview coming next week! We're getting back to the basics - one on one interviews with people discussing their worstships. In the interim, I've recapped the Love Is Blind UK season 2 reunion. I think the show is broken. People can find everlasting love on reality TV, but I feel like there's a cultural difference with UK men. They're far more concerned with the optics, Javen's clownery excluded, than American men are. Love Is Blind UK didn't work the second season. Let's get into it. See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Pop culture corner is back. Love Island USA season 7 reunion recap... Olandria cries about Huda's racist fans. Huda did nothing to stop them. Nic was also reportedly crying about Huda's racist fans - that footage was edited out, along with Jeremiah's rant about Huda's abuse. Are Love Island producers racist, or are they working overtime to try to protect Huda's image? I forgot to mention that Netflix staff confirmed that Huda Mustafa lied, she can speak openly about dating Louis. I also forgot to mention that Huda says "I love you!" to manipulate others. SHE IS THE ABSOLUTE WORST and I hope she fades into oblivion yesterday. See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

I recorded like a 20+ minute episode about Ollie Sutherland of Love is Blind UK season 1 and Perfect Match on Netflix. I came to his defense, but I sounded like an Ollie apologist so I didn't release that episode. People need to leave AD alone and focus on their own miserable or non-existent relationships. I wish AD & Ollie all the best. Ollie needs someone kind and patient and AD is both of those things. Relax. And if they're doomed, the world will keep spinning. I choose to send these two love & light. Whatever you do, if you're a single woman, avoid men like Ollie if you want a peaceful existence. I hope he's grown since filming Perfect Match. See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

I did not agree with, or get along with, my guest Yousef Benhamida, which makes for an entertaining episode? I've rearranged the order of the audio clips so that we get into it right from the start. Then the interview officially starts around the 11 minute mark before we start arguing again (around the 30 minute mark). We spoke about what’s wrong with partying like a rockstar when you’re wealthy, how he attracted beautiful women by driving a Ferrari, what someone needs to become a successful entrepreneur, meeting women in the wrong places at the wrong time and more. Enjoy.  One Million Dollars, Hot Girls and a Ferrari is available on Amazon.  See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

I know comics and writers and business owners... A lot of people put pressure on themselves to get their follower count up when "Your followers aren't your supporters!" I explain why I say that. I also talk about giving my first acceptance speech for my book's first award. Then I won another award yesterday. Shout-out to all those who've already bought my book, So Drunk A Tooth's Gotta Go! See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Cierra Ortega is the perfect example of what I wrote about in "The Truth About Breakups" chapter of my book, So Drunk A Tooth's Gotta Go. Love Island USA's Cierra and Nic had what I call a "drive-by relationship." That's why she's hurting right now. I defend Cierra's accidental mishap and I read an excerpt of my book in this episode! I'll have updates on what I'm doing soon (in next week's episode). Let's remember how much it sucks to be trying to get over someone you were barely with. We've all been there, but how soon we forget. Get your copy of my book on Amazon. Thanks y'all! See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Huda Mustafa breaks the internet with her Call Her Daddy interview. I focus on what other podcasters didn't focus on - Huda as a parent, throwing Cierra Ortega under the bus (as if Cierra isn't going through enough), going to the hospital after Jeremiah was sent home, and more. Huda shocked everyone by talking about her childhood before slamming her baby daddy, her castmates, admitting to wanting Ace, sex with Chris Seeley and more. Many lies were told. Most of the interview was BS. We've watched the show. See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

I'll give Huda credit for doing some sh!t on TV we've never seen before, but that's about it. I think she's a monster and I want to dissect her apology tour, minus the apology, appearance she had on the Call Her Daddy podcast yesterday. There's too much for me to get into to rush through recording an episode right now. It's coming. Sorry for the delay this week! See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.