Want to get access to our episodes 48 hours EARLIER? Subscribe and become FAMILY at http://www.patreon.com/thexrossroadz. 🎙️ We're back with Part 2 of "Bridging the Gap," where we continue our chat with the insightful (and hilarious) Stevon Lewis, MFT. We're digging deeper into the Xennial experience and uncovering ways that Impostor Syndrome shows up in our lives...and relationships. Stevon offers practical tips for embracing your uniqueness and projecting confidence and authenticity...

Want to get access to our episodes 48 hours EARLIER? Subscribe and become FAMILY at http://www.patreon.com/thexrossroadz. In PART ONE of this episode, we're smack dab inside the vortex of generational quirks and self-doubt with our returning guest and fan-fave, Stevon Lewis, MFT. Ever feel like you're stuck between cassette tapes and TikTok trends? You're not alone! Xennials—those of us who danced through the analog age and into the digital era—often find ourselves straddling two worlds with...

Want to get access to our episodes 48 hours EARLIER? Subscribe and become FAMILY at http://www.patreon.com/thexrossroadz. Are you single and near hitting the big 4-0? Or maybe you're just curious about what it's like to be riding solo in your forties? Well, in this episode we're discussing what it's like to be single (or single again) your 30s and 40s. Join us as we chat about everything from embracing the freedom of solo adventures to conquering the dating scene with all its modern twists ...

Want to get access to our episodes 48 hours EARLIER? Subscribe and become FAMILY at http://www.patreon.com/thexrossroadz. In today's episode, we dive headfirst into the rollercoaster that is modern relationships—seatbelts optional but highly recommended—rolling up our sleeves and tackling a topic that can feel like a plot twist in a rom-com: cheating. 🤯 Let's unravel the mystery of what cheating really is—because let's be real, it's not just sneaky texts or those "work happy hours" that see...

Want to get access to our episodes 48 hours EARLIER? Subscribe and become FAMILY at http://www.patreon.com/thexrossroadz. We've all been there, right? That nagging little voice in your head that whispers, "Are you sure you're good enough?" Well, it's time to turn down the volume on that inner critic and crank up the tunes of self-belief! In this episode, we're serving up a hearty helping of tips to help you tackle those pesky doubts and build a rock-solid foundation of confidence. We'll sha...

Want to get access to our episodes 48 hours EARLIER? Subscribe and become FAMILY at http://www.patreon.com/thexrossroadz. In this episode, we're diving into the art of friendship—because let's face it, having a solid friend is kinda like having your own personal cheerleader, but with fewer pom-poms and more emotional support. 🤗 We're sharing our thoughts on how to be there for your peeps when life gets a bit too real. Whether it's offering a shoulder to cry on or just knowing when to send th...

Have you ever felt your heart drop when a loved one starts a sentence with, "Can I be honest?" Or maybe you've been the one tiptoeing around feedback like it's a landmine. Well, you're not alone. In this episode, it gets real about criticism—what it is, what it isn't, and how on earth it can actually be constructive. Join Barz & Dre Renee to unpack the art of giving and receiving criticism without triggering a family feud or a friendship fallout. They even share candid anecdotes from the...

Welcome to a 2-part deep dive that's as real as it gets. Join us for an unfiltered chat with Dr. Harold Eugene Vann II, a former pastor who's bravely pulling back the curtain on his life in his upcoming book, The Black Couch: A Memoir of a Pastor's Private Pain in Public Places. In Part 2, we dig deeper into his journey of redemption and healing. Dr. Vann opens up about the courage it took to confront his past, embrace vulnerability, and ultimately find peace. It's a story of resilience, hop...

Welcome to a 2-part deep dive that's as real as it gets. Join us for an unfiltered chat with Dr. Harold Eugene Vann II, a former pastor who's bravely pulling back the curtain on his life in his upcoming book, The Black Couch: A Memoir of a Pastor's Private Pain in Public Places. In these episodes, Dr. Vann takes us on a heartfelt journey through his personal history—a saga filled with feelings of abandonment and inadequacy. This isn't just another tale from the pulpit; it's a raw, honest loo...

In this episode, we journey through the nuances of friendships that Xennials, and honestly anyone, can relate to. We explore how friendships blossom, change, and sometimes fade, much like the seasons themselves. Ever wondered if the way you became friends matters in the long run? We tackle this question head-on, and discuss safeguarding our friendships with honest conversations and how to keep those connections strong amidst life's chaos, including the ever-tricky balance of money, car...

This week, we're diving headfirst into the world of first dates and how the game has changed since we were passing handwritten notes or anxiously waiting by a landline. Remember those simpler times? Well, buckle up, because dating in the age of social media is a whole new ballgame! Join us as we reminisce about our early dating days and compare them to the swipe-right culture of today. We're breaking down the modern criteria that have emerged, like social media stalking (ahem, "research"), an...

Hey there, Roadies and RoadDawgs! Grab your favorite beverage and settle in, because we’re back with a brand-new season of XrossroadZ Podcast, and this one’s extra special. Not only are we celebrating our fourth birthday (can you believe it?), but we’re diving deep into the heart of what makes being a Xennial so uniquely... us. Ever wonder how the name XrossroadZ came to be? We’re spilling the tea on our origin story, tracing back to those early days when we were all about the "he said, she ...

Can you believe it? EPISODE 50! That's right! Make sure that you listen right away. We have some news that you may want to know. Oh yeah, remember to SUBSCRIBE and share us with someone else! This week, your #favepodcastpair talks about S-E-X. Tune in and weigh in on questions like, "does size matter" and thoughts about body counts, positions and even faking orgasms. There's no limit to this conversation, and Barzini pushes the envelope while Dre tries to reel him in...as always. Drop ...

Here at the Xross RoadZ, we have an audacious 10,000 subscriber goal and we want YOUR HELP to reach it. If you're not currently subscribed, don’t sit at a literal crossroads, click the button and tell 2 friends. Then tell them to tell 2 friends to do the same! This week's "DA FUQ?" leads into answering listener questions about protocol in relationships. Your #favepodcastpair talks through several scenarios from how couples manage social media to accepting a drink from another man in your par...

Here at the Xross RoadZ, we have an audacious 10,000 subscriber goal and we want YOUR HELP to reach it. If you're not currently subscribed, don’t sit at a literal crossroads, click the button and tell 2 friends. Then tell them to tell 2 friends to do the same! Social media moves fast, so this story has come and gone on social media, but it still gives us the same response, "DA FUQ?" This week we discuss age gaps in relationships, but specifically a story we found where a 40 something year ol...

Here at the Xross RoadZ, we have an audacious 10,000 subscriber goal and we want YOUR HELP to reach it. If you're not currently subscribed, don’t sit at a literal crossroads, click the button and tell 2 friends. Then tell them to tell 2 friends to do the same! Have you watched this week's episode of #InsecureHBO? #SeasonByeve Episode 3 dives into Lawrence & Condola's tumultuous relationship as new co-parents. This was such a HOT TOPIC that we had to go live for this week's episode. Join ...

Here at the Xross RoadZ, we have an audacious 10,000 subscriber goal and we want YOUR HELP to reach it. If you're not currently subscribed, don’t sit at a literal crossroads, click the button and tell 2 friends. Then tell them to tell 2 friends to do the same! Congratulations Dre Renee'! It's official. Hashtag Boo is now Husband Boo!!! While this week's episode celebrates the newlyweds, your #favepodcastpair spends some time talking about being single, enjoying singlehood and preparing for y...

Here at the Xross RoadZ, we have an audacious 10,000 subscriber goal and we want YOUR HELP to reach it. If you're not currently subscribed, don’t sit at a literal crossroads, click the button and tell 2 friends. Then tell them to tell 2 friends to do the same! We are ONE week from the ONE YEAR mark. Can you believe it? Your #favepodcastpair has been with you every week and we've loved every moment of it. We are also just a hop, skip and a jump away from Dre's nuptials to "Hashtag Boo" and thi...

Here at the Xross RoadZ, we have an audacious 10,000 subscriber goal and we want YOUR HELP to reach it. If you're not currently subscribed, don’t sit at a literal crossroads, click the button and tell 2 friends. Then tell them to tell 2 friends to do the same! You ever broken up with an ex (or ended a situationship), and wind up "circling the block" for another pass? Find out which of your #favepodcastpair says yes and which says no. Then, drop a comment and join the conversation! Subscribe...

Here at the Xross RoadZ, we have an audacious 10,000 subscriber goal and we want YOUR HELP to reach it. If you're not currently subscribed, don’t sit at a literal crossroads, click the button and tell 2 friends. Then tell them to tell 2 friends to do the same! The past week has been interesting. Netflix released the fifth (and final?) Dave Chappelle comedy special on its platform where Dave speaks candidly to the LGBTQIA+ community with reference to his previous specials and commentary he’s b...