Send us a text Ever been the life of the party—and then felt the crash after? We dig into the “dynamic feminine” energy: the magnetic spark that says the unsaid, generates fun, and moves people forward, but can also ignore limits, dodge accountability, and create chaos when it runs the show. Together, we map where this energy shines at work and at home, and where it needs a counterbalance to sustain trust, health, and momentum. We call this person The Transformer. We start with a real-world ...
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Send us a text Ever been the life of the party—and then felt the crash after? We dig into the “dynamic feminine” energy: the magnetic spark that says the unsaid, generates fun, and moves people forward, but can also ignore limits, dodge accountability, and create chaos when it runs the show. Together, we map where this energy shines at work and at home, and where it needs a counterbalance to sustain trust, health, and momentum. We call this person The Transformer. We start with a real-world ...
Send us a text Ever been the life of the party—and then felt the crash after? We dig into the “dynamic feminine” energy: the magnetic spark that says the unsaid, generates fun, and moves people forward, but can also ignore limits, dodge accountability, and create chaos when it runs the show. Together, we map where this energy shines at work and at home, and where it needs a counterbalance to sustain trust, health, and momentum. We call this person The Transformer. We start with a real-world ...
Send us a text Episode 7: The Four Personality Styles We continue the discussion of personality. We propose that there are four aspects or expressions of personality. Those four aspects include a dynamic energy, a static (or stabilizing) energy, a feminine expression and a masculine expression. These combine to create four different personality types. Most everyone has within them the possibility of accessing any of these types, though there is typically a dominant type. The four types are as...
Feminine, masculine and androgynous characteristics are in every person. This is not a description of male versus female. Rather it is an acknowledgement that human personality has a broad spectrum of expression, and we might benefit greatly from better understanding of those parts of ourselves that dominate our personality and those parts that have remained undeveloped. Cohosts Dee Kelley and Jim Shalley provide some pathways for understanding and growth. Here are some of the issues they cov...
This episode explores the dynamic and static components of our personality. Cohosts Dee Kelley and Jim Shalley provide useful examples of how these different styles complement one another and antagonize one another. Some of the key points include the following: 1. A dynamic energy or style is typically action-oriented, creating movement and change. A static energy or style organizes, puts systems in place and manages. 2. A person who has an overtly stat...
Send us a text The cohosts present the Stabilizer personality style, referred to as a static-masculine energy. Everyone has this within them. For some it is dormant and rarely accessed, and for others it is their dominant style. This style is discussed, both in its healthy form and in it dysfunctional form. It is also compared to the other three styles (Initiator, Transformer and Responder). Here are some of the key issues discussed. 1. What is your natural style and is it...
Episode three continues the discussion of our family of origin and its affects on our current relationships. Here are some of the key concepts and questions. 1. How did your parents handle emotions? (This is not about blaming anybody; it is just diagnostic.) 2. Do you see any similarities between how your parents handled emotions and how you handle emotions in your current relationships? 3. Each child is raised in a different family ...
Episode two explores how our family of origin affects our adult relationships, particularly in how we handle our emotions. Below are some key ideas and questions considered by your cohosts, Dee Kelley and Jim Shalley. 1. First let’s consider that you are not in a bad marriage. Instead it might be things you don’t yet understand about your family of origin. 2. Consider your family of origin, and how, as a child, you formed attachments to your emotions (o...
This opening episode of the first season of Therapy, Coaching & Dreams (TCD), provides an introduction to therapy and life coaching. The cohosts provide answers to such questions as… Why do people seek help? What keeps people on the path of self exploration? What is the difference between symptom relief versus dealing with core issues? What is organizational coaching? How does therapy and c...
Send us a text Ever been the life of the party—and then felt the crash after? We dig into the “dynamic feminine” energy: the magnetic spark that says the unsaid, generates fun, and moves people forward, but can also ignore limits, dodge accountability, and create chaos when it runs the show. Together, we map where this energy shines at work and at home, and where it needs a counterbalance to sustain trust, health, and momentum. We call this person The Transformer. We start with a real-world ...
