Send us a text What if your stress, your arguments, and your burnout all point to one simple mismatch—using the right energy at the wrong time? We explore a Jungian-informed model of four energies—Stabilizer, Transformer, Initiator, Responder (STIR)—and show how balancing them reduces conflict, eases burnout, and strengthens relationships. Real client stories ground the ideas in clear steps you can use. We start with the Stabilizer: the part that craves order, fairness, and control. Through r...
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Send us a text What if your stress, your arguments, and your burnout all point to one simple mismatch—using the right energy at the wrong time? We explore a Jungian-informed model of four energies—Stabilizer, Transformer, Initiator, Responder (STIR)—and show how balancing them reduces conflict, eases burnout, and strengthens relationships. Real client stories ground the ideas in clear steps you can use. We start with the Stabilizer: the part that craves order, fairness, and control. Through r...
S1E9 The Responder: Learning to Care for Yourself While Caring for Others
Therapy, Coaching & Dreams
34 minutes
1 month ago
S1E9 The Responder: Learning to Care for Yourself While Caring for Others
Send us a text We unpack the Responder style—how nurturing brings safety and connection, and how over-functioning turns love into control. You’ll hear the difference between static care that over-plans every risk and dynamic care that adapts in the moment. We talk through the classic attraction dance: why unintegrated Responders often choose highly driven, aggressive partners, how dependency erodes respect, and where emotional or even physical abuse can take root. Instead of pathologizi...
Therapy, Coaching & Dreams
Send us a text What if your stress, your arguments, and your burnout all point to one simple mismatch—using the right energy at the wrong time? We explore a Jungian-informed model of four energies—Stabilizer, Transformer, Initiator, Responder (STIR)—and show how balancing them reduces conflict, eases burnout, and strengthens relationships. Real client stories ground the ideas in clear steps you can use. We start with the Stabilizer: the part that craves order, fairness, and control. Through r...