#10 DIFFERENCE MAKERS FIGHT THE “RETURN”

Keywords

life transformation, difference makers, self-deception, prayer, personal growth, overcoming struggles, faith, commitment, mental picture, cost of transformation

Summary

In this episode, the hosts discuss the challenges faced by difference makers in their journey of life transformation, particularly the tendency to revert to old habits and lifestyles. They introduce three powerful weapons to combat this return: truthful perspective, the one way weapon, and the weapon of picture. The conversation emphasizes the importance of understanding the cost of life transformation, recognizing self-deception, and the role of prayer in supporting others through their struggles. The hosts encourage listeners to be compassionate guides, helping others navigate their paths towards meaningful change.

Takeaways

·      The battle of the return is a common struggle for difference makers.

·      Truthful perspective is essential in fighting the return to old habits.

·      Life transformation often requires enduring pain and struggle.

·      Self-deception can lead to a false narrative about one's past.

·      Reminiscing can be destructive if it leads to pride and self-deception.

·      Difference makers must frequently check if their hearts are pointed towards God.

·      Small course adjustments can help individuals stay on track with their transformation.

·      Prayer is a powerful tool in difference making and personal growth.

·      The supernatural is necessary to overcome natural instincts.

·      Encouraging others to pray can lead to deeper understanding and healing.

Sound Bites

"Life transformation requires the test of pain and struggle."

"Every person can stay on course with life transformation."

"Only the supernatural can exceed the power of the natural."

Chapters

00:00The Battle of the Return

04:46Three Weapons to Fight the Return

09:23The Cost of Life Transformation

14:11Self-Deception and Reminiscing

18:57The Compass of Life Transformation

23:47The Power of Prayer in Difference Making

#9  DIFFERENCE MAKERS PURSUE DECISIONS

Keywords

#difference making#life transformation#decisions#Holy Spirit#God as Father#suffering#glory#podcast#differencemakers

Summary

In this podcast episode, the hosts discuss the concept of difference making and how it relates to life transformation. They emphasize the importance of making life transformational decisions and illustrate this through a story of a woman overcoming her fears. The conversation explores three anchor decisions that can lead to significant life changes: being led by the Holy Spirit, understanding God as our Father, and embracing suffering for glory. The hosts encourage listeners to engage in these practices to foster personal growth and transformation.

Takeaways

·      Difference-making is a decision by decision work.

·      Life transformation requires life transformational decisions.

·      Being led by the Holy Spirit is essential for transformation.

·      Understanding God as our Father is crucial for relationship health.

·      Suffering can lead to glory and transformation.

·      Every person can experience great life transformation.

·      Life transformation is always a relational process.

·      You can let your tears of suffering flow out to God.

·      Great difference makers value the work of the cross.

·      Faith extends beyond present circumstances into eternity.

Titles

Transformational Decisions for a Meaningful Life

The Journey of Difference Making

Sound Bites

"Difference-making is a decision by decision work."

"You cannot find God or be led by God."

"Life transformation is always a someone thing."

Chapters

00:00Introduction to Difference Making

01:06The Power of Life Transformational Decisions

05:17Three Anchor Decisions for Transformation

06:54Being Led by the Holy Spirit

14:22Understanding God as Our Father

19:07Suffering for Glory: A Path to Transformation

26:14Conclusion and Call to Action

#8 DIFFERENCE MAKERS ARE TRUST BUILDERS

Key Words

Keywords

trust, difference makers, heart motivations, integrity, commitment, spiritual warfare, relationships, influence, love, humility

Summary

In this podcast episode, the speakers discuss the essential role of trust in making a difference in people's lives. They emphasize that trust is built through the heart motivations of Christ such as commitment, integrity, and discernment. The conversation explores how to establish and maintain trust, the dangers of promise-making, and the importance of spiritual warfare in nurturing relationships. Listeners are encouraged to reflect on their own motivations and the impact of their actions on others' trust.

Takeaways

Trust is the foundation for making a difference.

Commitment is more important than making promises.

Integrity and humility are key to maintaining trust.

Spiritual warfare can challenge trust in relationships.

Asking God for guidance is essential in decision-making.

Trust grows when we face challenges together.

Difference makers should focus on being committers, not promise makers.

Understanding the enemy's attacks trust in difference making relationships is crucial.

Building trust requires consistent effort and love.

Trust can be established through shared experiences and support.

Titles

The Heart of Trust in Difference Making

Building Trust: The Key to Influence

Sound Bites

"Trust is the goal, how do we get trust?"

"We should be looking for committers and that's what we want to be."

"What part of trust that I have with this person is the enemy attacking?"

Chapters

00:00 Building Trust as a Difference Maker

12:12 The Role of Integrity in Trust

17:59 Discerning Trust in Relationships

Keywords

stumbling, preventative measures, difference makers, societal impact, healing, obstructions, economy, mindset

Summary

The conversation focuses on the importance of adopting preventative measures to avoid stumbling in life, rather than merely addressing the consequences after they occur. It emphasizes the role of difference makers in guiding others to navigate obstructions proactively, highlighting the implications of stumbling and its effects on the mindset.

Takeaways

·      The most important point of difference-making with stumbling is to teach people.

·      Living preventatively of stumbling is crucial.

·      It's better to deal with obstructions before they occur.

·      Stumbling affects not just individuals but society as a whole.

·      Difference makers should focus on helping those who stumble.

·      Our world reflects the stumbling mindset of individuals.

·      Preventative measures can lead to better outcomes.

·      Understanding the after effects of stumbling is essential.

·      Helping others navigate their stumbles is a key role.

Titles

Navigating Life's Obstacles: A Preventative Approach

The Ripple Effect of Stumbling on peoples lives

Sound bites

"Preventative measures are key"

"Difference makers economy is stumbling"

"Help people that are stumbling"

Chapters

00:00 Introduction to Stumbling and Its Impact

00:47 Confronting the Controlling Guidance

#6 COMPASSION THE HEART OF A DIFFERENCE MAKER

Keywords: compassion, difference maker, Christ, love, suffering, community, outreach, heart, determination

Summary: In this episode, the hosts discuss the essential role of compassion in being a difference maker. They explore how true compassion involves suffering alongside others and how it is rooted in Christ's love. Through personal stories and biblical references, they emphasize the importance of stepping into others' pain and being a representative of Christ's love in difficult situations. The conversation culminates in a call to action, encouraging listeners to actively seek out opportunities to show compassion in their communities.

Takeaways

·      The most important ingredient in a difference maker is compassion.

·      Compassion means suffering with someone else.

·      Christ's compassion is a powerful force for change.

·      Divine appointments can lead to meaningful connections.

·      Experiencing compassion can bring peace in chaotic situations.

·      Christ-hearted compassion requires action and presence.

·      Walking into suffering is essential for true compassion.

·      You cannot help others without first experiencing compassion yourself.

·      Compassion links us to Christ's love and purpose.

·      Being a difference maker involves actively seeking out those in pain.

Titles:

The Power of Compassion in Making a Difference

Walking with Christ: The Heart of a Difference Maker

Sound Bites:

"Compassion is suffering with somebody."

"Jesus was moved by compassion."

"Divine appointments just appear."

Chapters

00:00The Heart of a Difference Maker

09:31Understanding Compassion

19:27Walking into Suffering

28:04Becoming a Christ Representative

Keywords: Christian life, heart change, personal struggle, transformation,

Summary: This conversation explores the subject of difference making through 3 transformative  heart changes with God, emphasizing how to prepare people for heart change by talking about what their life could look like “After” they make a decision with God.

Takeaways

·      There are three important “AFTERS” with God that people need to pursue for lasting life change.

·      These changes coincide with people's struggles in life.

·      Understanding how people change is crucial.

·      Personal transformation is a journey.

·      Heart change events are pivotal in difference making.

·      Openness to change is often born from struggle.

·      The conversation focuses on the 3 AFTER decisions people have to make for change.

·      Exploring spirituality can lead to profound insights.

Titles

·      The Journey of Heart Change

·      Transformative Struggles have 3 AFTER answers from God

Sound Bites

"Three “AFTERS” with God bring change"

"Struggles create an openness to decision for life change"

"How do people change?"

Chapters

00:00 The Three AFTER Changes will change your life

00:23 Understanding the Path to Change

Keywords

difference making, confrontation, core values, loving confrontation,  heart change, prayer, community, outreach

Summary

In this episode, the hosts discuss the importance of confrontation in the context of difference making. They share personal stories and biblical references to illustrate how loving confrontation can lead to heart change and influence in people's lives. The conversation emphasizes the need for compassion and understanding when addressing the struggles of others, and how to approach these situations with the right mindset and words.

Takeaways

·      Confrontation can lead to positive change for everyone involved.

·      It's essential to ask yourself: What Jesus would say ? In difficult situations.

·      Confrontation should focus on the situation, not the person.

·      People often find themselves in bad situations due to life circumstances, not intentional choices.

·      Loving confrontation is a valuable skill in the difference-making economy.

·      Words of truth and hope can inspire change in others.

·      Confrontation should aim to restore and uplift, not shame.

·      Every person can influence others through godly confrontation.

·      Leave room for people to process and change at their own pace.

·      Encouragement can plant seeds of hope in those who are struggling.

Titles

·      The Art of Loving Confrontation

·      Transforming Lives Through Confrontation

Sound Bites

"What would Jesus say?"

"Confront the situation, not the person."

"Let God work upon people's hearts."

Chapters

00:00 Introduction to Difference Making

01:49 The Power of Confrontation

07:21 Loving Confrontation in the Difference Making Economy

11:13 The Problem is Usually an Erosion of Core Values

14:49 Confrontation as a Tool for Change

20:37 Wrapping Up: The Importance of Confrontation

Keywords

encouragement, difference-making, faith, God's love, Barnabas, spiritual growth, community support, personal stories, transformation, hope

Summary

In this episode, the speakers discuss the transformative power of encouragement in making a difference in people's lives. They share personal stories, particularly focusing on a woman named Dawn, who found hope and healing through encouragement. The conversation emphasizes the importance of understanding God's love us and how He can guide individuals on their spiritual journeys. The speakers highlight the role of encouragers, using the biblical figure Barnabas as a model for how to uplift others and foster faith. The episode concludes with a challenge to listeners to actively encourage those around them.

Takeaways

·      Encouragement is the language of difference makers.

·      God's love is a central theme in encouragement.

·      Encouragement can lead to transformation and healing.

·      Being an encourager is a vital role in faith communities.

·      Barnabas serves as a model for Christ-hearted encouragement.

·      Encouragement helps people persevere through struggles.

·      It's important to see people through the lens of God's grace.

·      Encouragement means: “To bring courage to others” for life change.

·      Listeners are challenged to encourage those around them.

Sound Bites

"If it's not encouraging, it's not God."

"Encouragers help people to persevere."

"You can be a Christ-hearted encourager."

Chapters

00:00 The Power of Encouragement

04:08 Understanding God's Love and Encouragement

09:31 The Role of Encouragers

13:48 Lessons from Barnabas: A Christ-Hearted Encourager

20:28 Becoming a Difference Maker through Encouragement

Keywords

difference making, heart, divine appointments, compassion, life change, Jesus, outreach, community, prayer, transformation

Summary

In this podcast episode, the speakers discuss the importance of being watchful for opportunities to make a difference in people's lives through compassion and divine appointments. They share personal stories and biblical references to illustrate how to recognize and respond to these moments, emphasizing the need for an alert heart aligned with Jesus's mission of life change. The conversation encourages listeners to step out of their comfort zones and engage with others, trusting in God's guidance and presence.

Takeaways

·      Watch for God’s Spirit to talk to your heart for guidance in difference-making opportunities.

·      Look beyond routine to see the real needs of others around you.

·      Jesus is always after a life change.

·      Embrace the messiness of making a difference.

·      Give yourself space and time to discern divine appointments.

·      Every person can make a difference by being watchful.

·      Focus your attention on the person you are helping.

·      Don't short-change a divine appointment with superficial solutions.

·      Be aware of the impact of life changes on the people around them.

·      Trust in the Holy Spirit to guide your interactions.

Titles

·      The Heart of Difference Making

·      Embracing Divine Appointments

Sound Bites

"Come home. Come home."

"Jesus is dangerous."

"You can pray for a sick dog."

Chapters

00:00 The Heart of Difference Making

10:51 Divine Appointments and Life Change

In this episode of 'Time for a Difference', hosts David and Joy Skelton explore the profound impact of being a difference maker in the community. They discuss the costs associated with making a difference, emphasizing the importance of stepping out of comfort zones and the sacrifices involved. The conversation highlights the parable of the Good Samaritan as a model for compassion and the necessity of building partnerships to effectively support those in need. The episode encourages listeners to embrace their roles as difference makers and to actively engage in their communities.