In this episode we ask 4 questions that need to be answered in order to make better repairs in your relationship.
Dr. Tom Philp is the founder of Trauma Free Relationship. He has spent decades working with couples and individuals to help them resolve their relational and attachment traumas and build a safer, more secure relationship.
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FREE Relational Trauma Self-Assessment: https://traumafreerelationship.com/trauma-self-check-guide
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In this episode we are going to discuss attachment anxiety. Like a smoke alarm that is too sensitive, our attachment anxiety can detect danger even when we don't want it too.
If you want to build more trust in yourself and others after suffering from attachment trauma, this channel will provide you with actionable strategies and tactics to help you build a more safe and secure relationship.
Dr. Tom Philp is the founder of Trauma Free Relationship. He has spent decades working with couples and individuals to help them resolve their relational and attachment traumas and build a safer, more secure relationship.
Trauma Free Relationship Website: https://traumafreerelationship.com/
FREE Relational Trauma Self-Assessment: https://traumafreerelationship.com/trauma-self-check-guide
Check out our Weekly Podcast:
Trauma Free Relationship Podcast on Apple Podcast: https://shorturl.at/myobb
Trauma Free Relationship Podcast on Spotify: https://shorturl.at/BwaDP
Find us on Social Media:
Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/traumafreerelationship
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Coaching Program:
Work with me privately – If you’d like to work directly with me to regain trust in yourself and others and create a more safe, secure relationship, just schedule your free Clarity Call so we can map out a customized 3-step action plan to start you on your healing journey.
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Your communication style is directly affected by the way you learned to adapt to your environment. In this episode you will learn how your attachment style developed and how to shift to a more secure style of communication.
Dr. Tom Philp is the founder of Trauma Free Relationship. He has spent decades working with couples and individuals to help them resolve their relational and attachment traumas and build a safer, more secure relationship.
Trauma Free Relationship Website: https://traumafreerelationship.com/
FREE Relational Trauma Self-Assessment: https://traumafreerelationship.com/trauma-self-check-guide
Coaching Program:
Work with me privately – If you’d like to work directly with me to regain trust in yourself and others and create a more safe, secure relationship, just schedule your free Clarity Call so we can map out a customized 3-step action plan to start you on your healing journey.
Sign up for a Clarity Call: https://go.linku.co/widget/booking/XNhN1z7S88osZdl9Eziq
In this episode we discuss how to change your partner by changing the system. If you react differently, it forces your partner to respond differently, thereby changing the pattern.
If you want to build more trust in yourself and others after suffering from attachment trauma, this channel will provide you with actionable strategies and tactics to help you build a more safe and secure relationship.
Dr. Tom Philp is the founder of Trauma Free Relationship. He has spent decades working with couples and individuals to help them resolve their relational and attachment traumas and build a safer, more secure relationship.
Trauma Free Relationship Website: https://traumafreerelationship.com/
FREE Relational Trauma Self-Assessment: https://traumafreerelationship.com/trauma-self-check-guide
Check out our Weekly Podcast:
Trauma Free Relationship Podcast on Apple Podcast: https://shorturl.at/myobb
Trauma Free Relationship Podcast on Spotify: https://shorturl.at/BwaDP
Find us on Social Media:
Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/traumafreerelationship
Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/traumafreerelationship/
Follow Us on YouTube:
YouTube Channel: https://www.youtube.com/@drtomphilp
Coaching Program:
Work with me privately – If you’d like to work directly with me to regain trust in yourself and others and create a more safe, secure relationship, just schedule your free Clarity Call so we can map out a customized 3-step action plan to start you on your healing journey.
Sign up for a Clarity Call: https://go.linku.co/widget/booking/XNhN1z7S88osZdl9Eziq
In this episode you will learn what a trauma bond is, how it forms to an insecure attachment, and safe steps to begin healing from a trauma bond.
If you want to build more trust in yourself and others after suffering from attachment trauma, this channel will provide you with actionable strategies and tactics to help you build a more safe and secure relationship.
Dr. Tom Philp is the founder of Trauma Free Relationship. He has spent decades working with couples and individuals to help them resolve their relational and attachment traumas and build a safer, more secure relationship.
Trauma Free Relationship Website: https://traumafreerelationship.com/
FREE Relational Trauma Self-Assessment: https://traumafreerelationship.com/trauma-self-check-guide
Check out our Weekly Podcast:
Trauma Free Relationship Podcast on Apple Podcast: https://shorturl.at/myobb
Trauma Free Relationship Podcast on Spotify: https://shorturl.at/BwaDP
Find us on Social Media:
Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/traumafreerelationship
Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/traumafreerelationship/
Follow Us on YouTube:
YouTube Channel: https://www.youtube.com/@drtomphilp
Coaching Program:
Work with me privately – If you’d like to work directly with me to regain trust in yourself and others and create a more safe, secure relationship, just schedule your free Clarity Call so we can map out a customized 3-step action plan to start you on your healing journey.
Sign up for a Clarity Call: https://go.linku.co/widget/booking/XNhN1z7S88osZdl9Eziq
In this episode you will learn to recognize the inner child, how the attachment environment shapes the inner child, and the 3 steps necessary to start working on healing the inner child.
If you want to build more trust in yourself and others after suffering from attachment trauma, this channel will provide you with actionable strategies and tactics to help you build a more safe and secure relationship.
Dr. Tom Philp is the founder of Trauma Free Relationship. He has spent decades working with couples and individuals to help them resolve their relational and attachment traumas and build a safer, more secure relationship.
Trauma Free Relationship Website: https://traumafreerelationship.com/
FREE Relational Trauma Self-Assessment: https://traumafreerelationship.com/trauma-self-check-guide
Check out our Weekly Podcast:
Trauma Free Relationship Podcast on Apple Podcast: https://shorturl.at/myobb
Trauma Free Relationship Podcast on Spotify: https://shorturl.at/BwaDP
Find us on Social Media:
Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/traumafreerelationship
Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/traumafreerelationship/
Follow Us on YouTube:
YouTube Channel: https://www.youtube.com/@drtomphilp
Coaching Program:
Work with me privately – If you’d like to work directly with me to regain trust in yourself and others and create a more safe, secure relationship, just schedule your free Clarity Call so we can map out a customized 3-step action plan to start you on your healing journey.
Sign up for a Clarity Call: https://go.linku.co/widget/booking/XNhN1z7S88osZdl9Eziq
In this episode you will discover why you experience shame from your trauma, how it shows up in your relationship, and safe techniques to help you heal from shame that was created from your relational trauma.
If you want to build more trust in yourself and others after suffering from attachment trauma, this channel will provide you with actionable strategies and tactics to help you build a more safe and secure relationship.
Dr. Tom Philp is the founder of Trauma Free Relationship. He has spent decades working with couples and individuals to help them resolve their relational and attachment traumas and build a safer, more secure relationship.
Trauma Free Relationship Website: https://traumafreerelationship.com/
FREE Relational Trauma Self-Assessment: https://traumafreerelationship.com/trauma-self-check-guide
Check out our Weekly Podcast:
Trauma Free Relationship Podcast on Apple Podcast: https://shorturl.at/myobb
Trauma Free Relationship Podcast on Spotify: https://shorturl.at/BwaDP
Find us on Social Media:
Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/traumafreerelationship
Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/traumafreerelationship/
Follow Us on YouTube:
YouTube Channel: https://www.youtube.com/@drtomphilp
Coaching Program:
Work with me privately – If you’d like to work directly with me to regain trust in yourself and others and create a more safe, secure relationship, just schedule your free Clarity Call so we can map out a customized 3-step action plan to start you on your healing journey.
Sign up for a Clarity Call: https://go.linku.co/widget/booking/XNhN1z7S88osZdl9Eziq
In this episode we discuss how trauma impacts our general mental health. By the end you will understand how trauma impacts our relational, emotional, physical, and cognitive health. You will also get some safe ways to improve your mental health whether you are working on your trauma or not.
If you want to build more trust in yourself and others after suffering from attachment trauma, this channel will provide you with actionable strategies and tactics to help you build a more safe and secure relationship.
Dr. Tom Philp is the founder of Trauma Free Relationship. He has spent decades working with couples and individuals to help them resolve their relational and attachment traumas and build a safer, more secure relationship.
Trauma Free Relationship Website: https://traumafreerelationship.com/
FREE Relational Trauma Self-Assessment: https://traumafreerelationship.com/trauma-self-check-guide
Check out our Weekly Podcast:
Trauma Free Relationship Podcast on Apple Podcast: https://shorturl.at/myobb
Trauma Free Relationship Podcast on Spotify: https://shorturl.at/BwaDP
Find us on Social Media:
Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/traumafreerelationship
Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/traumafreerelationship/
Follow Us on YouTube:
YouTube Channel: https://www.youtube.com/@drtomphilp
Coaching Program:
Work with me privately – If you’d like to work directly with me to regain trust in yourself and others and create a more safe, secure relationship, just schedule your free Clarity Call so we can map out a customized 3-step action plan to start you on your healing journey.
Sign up for a Clarity Call: https://go.linku.co/widget/booking/XNhN1z7S88osZdl9Eziq
In this episode you will learn how the body stores trauma, how your nervous system shapes attachment patterns, and how reconnecting to your body helps rebuild trust and safety in your relationship.
If you want to build more trust in yourself and others after suffering from attachment trauma, this channel will provide you with actionable strategies and tactics to help you build a more safe and secure relationship.
Dr. Tom Philp is the founder of Trauma Free Relationship. Hehas spent decades working with couples and individuals to help them resolvetheir relational and attachment traumas and build a safer, more securerelationship.
Trauma Free Relationship Website: https://traumafreerelationship.com/
FREE Relational Trauma Self-Assessment: https://traumafreerelationship.com/trauma-self-check-guide
Check out our Weekly Podcast:
Trauma Free Relationship Podcast on Apple Podcast: https://shorturl.at/myobb
Trauma Free Relationship Podcast on Spotify: https://shorturl.at/BwaDP
Find us on Social Media:
Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/traumafreerelationship
Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/traumafreerelationship/
Follow Us on YouTube:
YouTube Channel: https://www.youtube.com/@drtomphilp
Coaching Program:
Work with me privately – If you’d like to work directly withme to regain trust in yourself and others and create a more safe, securerelationship, just schedule your free Clarity Call so we can map out acustomized 3-step action plan to start you on your healing journey.
Sign up for a Clarity Call: https://shorturl.at/ar01k
In this episode we outline how to build trust after trauma by targeting two systems: the defensive/protective system and the attachment system. By the end of this podcast you will learn how both work to help and protect you, and some safe tips on how to lead more with your attachment drive to build safe and trusting relationships.
In this podcast we are going to talk about how to regain a sense of vulnerability with your partner, AND maintain a sense of safety as well. By the end you will be able to know what vulnerability looks like, what a safe partner looks like, and practical tips to practice both.
In this episode we will debunk 10 myths around relational trauma. By the end you will have more compassion for your healing journey, and begin to see that growth is really possible when we let go of some of the beliefs that surround trauma.
Join us in this episode where we explore how to build self-trust after trauma. By the end you will learn what destroys self-trust, what it looks like in your relationship, and safe tips to begin building self-trust.
In this episode we discuss how to overcome self-abandonment. This coping strategy is learned when others reject or abandon us in our moment of need. As a result we learn to ignore our needs at the expense of the needs of others. Be sure and listen to till the end where we explore ways to stay grounded in our self.
In this episode we tease apart how to understand if your trauma is impacting the relationship, or whether the relationship is the problem. Knowing what to look for and how to ask the right questions can be half the battle. Join us!
Join us in this episode as we reveal the 3 words trauma survivors struggle to say in their relationships. "No," "Help," and "Sorry," are often difficult words so say. Why? Because they come from a place where the trauma survivor was adapting to a maladaptive environment, so these words are associated with more danger than safety.
In this episode we discuss how to prevent from shutting down emotionally in your relationship. We outline where this protective strategy came from, how it shows up, and more importantly ways we can create more flexibility in this style of coping.
In this episode we break down the 5 most common ways past relational trauma can impact your current relationship. These include: Difficulty trusting self and other, emotion disregulation, unhealthy attachment patterns, exaggerated fears of abandonment and rejection, and inability to repair disruption when it occurs. Don't miss this episode!
In this episode we unpack why the fawn response, or people pleasing has become a coping strategy, and how your nervous system learned to use this strategy to keep you safe. We also outline action steps to challenge this pattern so you can feel free to say "no" without the guilt.
In this episode we unpack how to stop the trauma cycle of choosing emotionally unsafe and unavailable partners. We break down this cycles to understand each link in the chain, and more importantly, we walk through how to break this cycle.