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Trent Stewart Leadership Podcast
Living on Mission in Everyday Life

Have you ever walked away from a conversation and thought, “That wasn’t random. That was God.” Maybe it started with small talk about work or the weather but somehow, it turned toward hope, healing, or even Jesus. What if those moments weren’t interruptions but invitations from God? Today, we’re diving into how to live on mission in your everyday life, and how to see every conversation as a divine appointment.

What is a Divine Appointment?

  • Any God -ordained moment when he brings two people together to encourage, bless, or share the Gospel.
  • We usually miss these opportunities because we’re busy and distracted.
  • God is always at work, before us, around us, through us, and He often speaks through those ordinary moments with extraordinary intention.

Phillip the Evangelist (Acts 8):

  • Philip obeys because he’s not just busy for God, he’s sensitive to God.
  • You can be doing ministry and still miss the mission if you aren’t listening to His Spirit.
  • Develop a holy attentiveness to the what the Spirit is doing around you; be on the lookout.

“When you’re looking, you’ll start seeing.”

Engaging in Spiritual Conversations:

  • Philip doesn’t lead with a sermon or a theological argument; he simply asks a good question.
  • You don’t need a seminary degree to engage in spiritual conversation.
  • You need a heart of compassion, a spirit of curiosity, and a willingness to speak when the Holy Spirit prompts you.
  • When God prompts you to speak, trust that He is already working in that person's life.

“Don’t discount the value of your obedience just because you don’t see immediate results.”

The Legacy of Charlie Kirk:

  • Charlie was committed to engaging the culture with the truth of Scripture, even amidst hostility.
  • You’re either shaping culture, or being shaped by it.
  • The Gospel isn’t just something we preach in church; it’s the lens through which we see everything.

"Truth sounds like hate to those who hate truth."

Having a Sense of Urgency

  • Philip didn’t delay; he acted immediately.
  • A simple question can lead to a divine encounter that transforms someone’s life.
  • There are over two billion people in the world who have never heard the gospel.
  • 82% of people say they would attend church if someone invited them.

“We aren’t lacking opportunity. We’re lacking urgency.”

How Do I Start Living on Mission?

  1. Pray for one divine appointment every day.
  2. Be mindful and willing to follow the prompting of the Spirit.
  3. Ask questions.
  4. Share your story.
  5. Lead someone through Christ Killers book.
  6. Leave the results to God.

Bottom Line: When you live on mission, there's no such thing as random. When you obey the Spirit, even small conversations can carry eternal weight.

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3 months ago
24 minutes 21 seconds

Trent Stewart Leadership Podcast
Episode 39: When Tragedy Strikes – Processing the Death of Charlie Kirk

Episode 39: When Tragedy Strikes – Processing the Death of Charlie Kirk

This week has been heavy. The tragic loss of Charlie Kirk has left many of us brokenhearted, wrestling with questions of evil, justice, and God’s purposes. But here’s the truth: even in the darkest moments, God is still working. Nothing is wasted in His hands.
In today’s episode, we’re processing the heartbreaking death of Charlie Kirk and asking: Where is God when tragedy strikes? We’ll look to Romans 8:28 and see why it’s not just a verse to memorize, but a rock to stand on.

 

“And we know that for those who love God all things work together for good, for those who are called according to his purpose.” (Romans 8:28)

“We know.” This is not a guess or blind faith; this promise is rock solid.

·       The promise is for those who love God.

·       The promise is for those called according to His purpose.

·       The promise stands firm not because of our performance, but because of God’s purpose.

·       It’s God’s love and God’s work, not ours, that keeps this promise true for us.

“Your love for God may be shaky, but His call on your life is unshakable.”

Three ways God uses ALL THINGS, even suffering, for our good:

1.     To Deepen Our Devotion

“Count it all joy, my brothers, when you meet trials of various kinds, for you know that the testing of your faith produces steadfastness…” (James 1:2-4)

·       Evaluate trials through the lens of eternity

·       Joy is delight in God in the middle of pain

·       Steadfastness is remaining under the pressure 

2.     To Advance the Gospel

“What has happened to me has really served to advance the gospel, so that it has become known throughout the whole imperial guard…” (Philippians 1:12-13)

·       Paul’s pain had a purpose.

·       We don’t know the why, but we can know and trust God is at work.

3.     To Bring Us Back to Him

“Godly sorrow brings repentance that leads to salvation and leaves no regret…” (2 Corinthians 7:10)

·       Suffering wakes us up

·       The Holy Spirit is working, drawing us to do more, to bring us back to our purpose in Christ.

Examples from Scripture:

·       Joseph said to his brothers, “You meant evil against me, but God meant it for good…” (Genesis 50:20)

·       Job lost everything and still declared, “The Lord gave and the Lord has taken away; blessed be the name of the Lord.” (Job 1:21)

·       Esther was placed in a pagan king’s court “for such a time as this” to save her people.

·       The Cross was God’s plan to save the world.

“Romans 8:28 isn’t a vague encouragement. It’s a battle cry.”

 

Bottom Line: The trial might bend you, but it will not break you, because if you love God and you're called according to His purpose, nothing is wasted.


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3 months ago
27 minutes 38 seconds

Trent Stewart Leadership Podcast
Real Friends: Why You Can't Follow Jesus Alone

Episode 38: Real Friends: Why You Can’t Follow Jesus Alone

Have you ever felt completely alone, even in a crowded room? Maybe you're surrounded by classmates, coworkers, or followers online, yet deep down, you're starving for something real. What if I told you that your loneliness isn't a flaw? It's a signal. It's a holy ache, pointing you to the kind of friendship your soul was made for.

 

Today’s episode is not just about friendship. It’s about spiritual growth. It’s about how God designed your soul to grow and thrive, and why you’ll never become the leader He’s calling you to be if you’re alone. Real friends don’t just make life better – they make you more like Jesus.

 

The Most Connected Generation is also the Loneliest:

·       Almost half of Americans say they feel alone 

·       43% believe their relationships aren’t meaningful.

“We were created for deep connection, but we’ve become professionals at pretending we’re just fine while we quietly drown in isolation.”


What Happens When We Don’t Have Real Friendships? 

·       We lose perspective 

·       We isolate

·       We grow selfish

·       Our health suffers

“Loneliness isn’t just about the absence of people. It’s about the absence of meaningful connection.”


A Real Friend Helps You Grow Closer to Jesus:

·       Proverbs 13:20

·       The people closest to you either pull you toward Jesus or away from Jesus

·       All friendships share a common bond. When the common bond of a friendship is Jesus, it changes everything. 

·       Proverbs 18:24

“If you want a real friend, you’ve got to start being a real friend.”


Why Small Groups are so Important:

·       A small group is not just another church activity. It’s a place where you can be real, ask honest questions, be with people who will point you to Jesus, help you study the Bible, celebrate your wins, and pray with you.

·       The theological anchor of why real friendship is so important goes back to Genesis.

·       Gensis 1:26: “Let us make man in our image.” - Community is seen in the Godhead

·       Genesis 2:8: “It is not good for man to be alone.” – Isolation is a spiritual danger.

·       Because of sin, we run from the relationships and settle for shallow connections.

·       Ephesians 4:1-3: You need to be connected to God’s people through a local church to “walk in a manner worthy of your calling.”


Roadblocks to Real Friendships:

·       Busyness - Even good things can become barriers to God’s best for you.

·       Laziness

·       Spiritual Apathy – people don’t care enough about Jesus to care about the people who follow Him


How to Prioritize Gospel-Centered Relationships:

“If you want real friends, you’ve got to make space for them.”

·       Show up – go to small group. Don’t just attend, engage.

·       Open up – let people see the real you

·       Reach out – don’t just wait for an invitation. Jesus was always the initiator.


Bottom Line: You were made for community, and real friends don't just make life more fun, they help you follow Jesus.

 


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4 months ago
24 minutes 55 seconds

Trent Stewart Leadership Podcast
Don’t Waste Your Life – Four Phases of a Calling

What if the biggest threat to your calling isn’t failure—but comfort?

In this episode, Pastor Trent unpacks a powerful message from Acts 20:22–24 that reveals four phases every leader walks through when God calls them to step into something greater. If you’ve ever felt a divine nudge, battled fear of the unknown, or wondered how to move forward when life gets hard—this message is for you.

We’re not called to live a safe life. We’re called to live a significant one. Don’t settle for success that’s void of purpose. Learn to recognize the Spirit’s prompting, embrace uncertainty with confidence, endure opposition with faith, and live on mission with gospel urgency.

Key Scripture: “And now, compelled by the Spirit, I am going to Jerusalem, not knowing what will happen to me there… However, I consider my life worth nothing to me; my only aim is to finish the race and complete the task the Lord Jesus has given me—the task of testifying to the good news of God’s grace.” — Acts 20:22–24 (NIV)

In This Episode You’ll Learn:

  • Why Deo Pneuma moments (being “compelled by the Spirit”) are critical to your calling
  • How to move forward in “confident uncertainty” even when you don’t know what’s next • What to expect when opposition comes—and how to push through it
  • Why a clear sense of mission matters more than comfort or security
  • How to stop chasing success and start pursuing significance
  • Practical leadership questions to ask yourself in every phase of your journey
  • Why your story, your obedience, and your courage matter for God’s Kingdom

Episode Highlights:

  • The Mission Beneath the Process - You’re not in a holding pattern. God is refining you for His purpose—today.
  • Phase 1: A Nudge You Can’t Ignore – Learn how to discern the Holy Spirit’s prompting.
  • Phase 2: Confident Uncertainty – Why God often gives light for only the next step.
  • Phase 3: Expect Opposition – Faithfulness doesn’t guarantee ease. It guarantees resistance.
  • Phase 4: A Mission That Matters More Than Comfort – Purpose always outweighs security.

Leadership Challenge: Identify which phase you’re in—and take your next step with courage.

Reflection Questions:

  1. What’s a God-given nudge you’ve been ignoring?
  2. Are you waiting on full clarity before stepping out in faith?
  3. How has fear, opposition, or comfort kept you from moving forward?
  4. What mission would you be willing to give your life to?

Challenge of the Week: God isn’t calling you to a safe life—but a significant one. Don’t waste your life. Take the next step He’s calling you to.

Resources Mentioned:

  • Main Text: Acts 20:22–24 (NIV)
  • Visit trentstewart.org to subscribe and get free access to the "How to Pray" video course.
  • Connect on socials to stay up-to-date with content and leadership insights.

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6 months ago
15 minutes 10 seconds

Trent Stewart Leadership Podcast
“A Holy Unrest: When Your Soul Wants More”

Welcome to the Trent Stewart Leadership podcast! I’mhere to help everyday leaders make every day count. My goal is to help you growas a leader and make a difference in your church, business, and home byinfluencing others to look to Jesus.

 

Episode 36: “A Holy Unrest: When Your Soul WantsMore”

What if yourdissatisfaction isn’t a problem to be solved—but a gift from God? What if theache inside you isn’t meant to be silenced by more noise or numbed by morestuff, but awakened into something eternal? Today, we’re talking about thatdivine discontent—that holy unrest—andwhat it really means to thirst for God.

 

When your body isthirsty, it’s not just a mild suggestion—it’s a desperate signal. Your brain istelling you, “You need water to live.” If that’s true physically—how much moreessential is the spiritual thirst within us?

 

We try to quenchthe thirst of our souls in different ways that might feel satisfying in the moment—but actually make things worse. Thisis because we often drink from the wrong spiritual cups.

 

Cups We Reach For:

·     Entertainment, achievement, appearance,relationships

·     It might feel good going down, but it’s notgoing to fill us.

·     What tastes good to our flesh often harms oursoul.

·     These cups are designed to gratify your sensesand not nourish your spirit.

·     We laugh, indulge, chase while quietly dying ofspiritual dehydration

 

King David Truly Thirsted for God (Psalm 63):

·     To thirst for God, you have to know who God is(v1-2)

·     Thirst changes your perspective of God (v3)

·     Thirst leads to worship (v4-5)

·     Thirst awakens spiritual attentiveness (v6-8)

·     Are you thirsting for God?

 

Symptoms of Spiritual Dehydration:

·     Negative attitude – complaining has become yourdefault

·     Loss of purpose – you’re just going through the motions

·     Increased appetite for sin – and less convictionwhen you indulge

·     Apathy towards Jesus – you’re not against Him,you just don’t care about Him

·     Lack of gratitude – you only focus on thenegative

 

Only Jesus Can Quench the Thirst of Your Soul:

·     We naturally thirst for love, friendships, andhappiness

·     God designed your body to tell you when you’re thirsty,so you won’t die of dehydration

·     The love, acceptance, hope and peace you need isfound in Jesus, the Living Water

 

When your spirit is craving more, run to Scripture, runto prayer, and drink deep of the living water that Jesus promises to give youwhen you worship Him.

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7 months ago
28 minutes 24 seconds

Trent Stewart Leadership Podcast
How Jesus Fulfills Your Deepest Need

Welcome to the Trent Stewart Leadership podcast! I’m here to help everyday leaders make every day count. My goal is to help you grow as a leader and make a difference in your church, business, and home by influencing others to look to Jesus.

Episode 34: “How Jesus Fulfills Your Deepest Need”

What’s your biggest need today? Most of us immediately know what that is. It might be a financial need, it might be healing, or maybe it’s a relationship you need restored. We all have needs and they all feel urgent. Today we’re going to talk about how Jesus fulfills your deepest needs.

In Luke 5:17-26, we read the story of a paralyzed man whose friends went to extreme measures to bring him to Jesus. They lowered him through a roof, expecting a miraculous healing, but Jesus says something unexpected, “Friend, your sins are forgiven.”

1. Jesus Knows Your Deepest Need.

  • Jesus started with the man’s spiritual condition instead of just healing him physically.
  • Our greatest need is spiritual health and that starts with God’s forgiveness.
  • At the core of every human being is the need to be reconciled to God.

2. Jesus Wants to Meet Your Biggest Need.

  • Jesus wanted them to understand that He was God in the flesh.
  • Jesus proved His authority to forgive sin by healing the man.
  • Sometimes we’re so focused on our immediate need that we forget Jesus is working on something greater.
  • I think I know what I need, but I can trust that Jesus KNOWS what I need.  

3. Jesus Heals Every Day.

  • In John 14:12, Jesus says, “Whoever believes in me will also do the works that I do; and greater works than these will he do” 
  • God has blessed humanity with medicine so that our needs can be met.
  • We see God heal people every day through the use of technology.

4. Sometimes What You Think You Need Isn’t Your Deepest Need.

  • Whatever your biggest need is, it’s tied to your spiritual health.
  • God wants you to be spiritually healthy.
  • The problems in your life become tests.
  • Will you trust God? Will you depend on Him? Will you repent of sin? Will you humble yourself and say you’re sorry?

It’s all part of the journey of growing closer to Christ. We have to go through challenges to grow. Trust that God knows what you need and is giving it to you right now. Thank Him in advance and trust Him in the waiting.

How Do We Respond?

  1. Be honest about your commitment to Christ.
  2. Be a friend who brings people to Jesus.
  3. Be filled with praise, and share your story.

Jesus fulfills our deepest needs. He knows exactly what you need today. You can rest in that. The question is, will you trust Him?

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10 months ago
14 minutes 23 seconds

Trent Stewart Leadership Podcast
Hanging Out with God

Episode 33: “Hanging Out with God”

Just as a car's fuel gauge lets you know when you're running low on gas, there are signs when your spiritual life is running on empty. Anxiety, frustration, stress, anger, and depression can be indicators that you need to refuel spiritually. Daily habits, such as time spent in God’s Word and in prayer, are essential to keeping your spiritual tank full.


Who we are is shaped by the commitments we make and habits we develop. The good news is you can start new habits that will transform your life, and I believe one of the most powerful habits you can develop is spending time with God. 


The Apostle Paul writes to the Philippian church:

“Therefore my dear friends, just as you have always obeyed, so now, not only in my presence, but even more in my absence, work out your own salvation with fear and trembling. For it is God who is working in you both to will and to work according to his good purpose.” (Philippians 2:12-13)


  • To “work out your salvation” means to be on a path of growth. 
  • Are you on a path of growth? What steps are you taking?
  • An authentic Christian will develop the habit of spending time with God. 
  • Paul is saying, “When I was with you, teaching you, leading you, you were growing. Now that I’m gone you must continue to grow even though I’m not there.” 


We can’t just depend on Sunday mornings. It requires more. 


Some Truths about Spiritual Growth:

  • Your relationship with God is meant to grow.
  • Spiritual growth is a lifelong journey.
  • Developing spiritual habits helps you grow on your own.


The Habit of Having a Daily Devotion:

  • If the only time you eat is on Sunday, you’re going to be a starving Christian.
  • You must be able to feed yourself spiritually.
  • Hanging out with God is consistent time in His Word and in prayer. 


What Happens When You Hang Out with God?

  • He changes your heart. “Create in me a pure heart, O God, and renew a steadfast spirit within me.” (Psalm 51:10)
  • He gives you direction. “Your word is a lamp for my feet, a light on my path." (Psalm 119:105)
  • He offers His presence during your problems. “He comforts us in all our affliction, so that we may be able to comfort those who are in any kind of affliction, through the comfort we ourselves receive from God.” (2 Corinthians 1:4)


Practical Tips: What to do when you sit down with your Bible.

  • Manage your expectations – Change happens over time with consistency.
  • Start with Prayer – Ask God to open up your heart to the truth.
  • Read the Bible – There’s no set amount; the important thing is that it’s consistent.
  • Ask Questions: What do I learn about God? What do I learn about myself? What is God telling me to do?
  • Close with Prayer – Make the Scripture personal by praying it for yourself.


Resource: “How to Pray,”  a seven-session online course on how to develop your prayer life. Available at trentstewart.org.


PETS Acronym:

  • P – Promise to hold on to
  • E – Example to follow
  • T – Truth to put into action
  • S – Sin to confess


I hope this episode inspires you to develop the habit of spending time with God. This simple practice is going to fuel your faith in ways you've never imagined.

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11 months ago
24 minutes 49 seconds

Trent Stewart Leadership Podcast
Branded by Commitment

The brands that we love are known for something. They’re known for their quality. They’re known for being cool or for looking good. They’re known for something that we like, and that’s why we acquire them. That’s why we want to wear them. But what are you known for? What’s your “brand”? 

 Today, we’re talking about what it means to be branded by a commitment and what it would look like for you to commit this year, specifically to God and a church. 


Put a Stake in the Ground.

  • Make a commitment. 
  • Make a change.
  • Claim this decision.
  • What stakes do you need to put in the ground before the year ends?

 

Paul writes to the church in the city of Colossae:

“We always thank God, the Father of our Lord Jesus Christ, when we pray for you, since we heard of your faith in Christ Jesus and of the love that you have for all the saints.” (Colossians 1:4)

 They were known for their commitment to Jesus – “we heard of your faith in Christ Jesus…”

  • Their reputation preceded them. People knew about their faith.
  • Do people know you as a follower of Jesus? Have people heard of your faith?
  • What would it look like for you to be known as a person who is committed to Jesus?

 

They were known for their commitment to their church family – “… the love that you have for all the saints.”

  • Attend church on Sunday and spend time in a small group.
  • Our culture has a consumer mindset when it comes to church.
  • Don’t treat God’s church like a restaurant.
  • Go where God calls you to go and commit to helping resolve issues and making ministry better.

 

When You’re Committed, You Get:

1. Help to Strengthen Your Faith - “For this reason also, since the day we heard this, we haven’t stopped praying for you.” (Colossians 4:9)

  • Your church family prays for you.
  • Everybody needs at least one prayer partner.


2. Help to Guide Your Decisions - “We are asking that you may be filled with the knowledge of his will in all wisdom and spiritual understanding,…” (Colossians 4:9)

  • Everybody has the potential to drift from the Lord.
  • Be alert to behavioral changes in the people in your life.
  • The responsibility to keep one another from drifting is a group thing.


3. “So that you may walk worthy of the Lord, fully pleasing to him: bearing fruit in every good work and growing in the knowledge of God.”  (Colossians 4:10)

  • The whole point is so that you walk worthy of God.
  • Pleasing God, producing fruit by your actions, and knowing God’s will.
  • When you struggle to know God’s will, your church friends, leaders, and pastors will help you make decisions.

 

As we get ready to close out this year, think about what decisions you need to make. I encourage you to put a stake in the ground that you will be committed to the Lord and committed to a church. 

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1 year ago
22 minutes 9 seconds

Trent Stewart Leadership Podcast
Branded as a Disciple of Jesus

Welcome to the Trent Stewart Leadership podcast! I’m here to help everyday leaders make every day count. My goal is to help you grow as a leader and make a difference in your church, business, and home by influencing others to look to Jesus. 

Episode 31: “Branded as a Disciple of Jesus”

We all like various brands. Maybe you love Lulu Lemon, or Nike, or Apple. Whatever brand you think is cool, you begin to subscribe to. Cost doesn’t matter because you’ve been convinced that this particular brand offers a superior product. Because of marketing and the quality of the product, these brands become known for something.

So, what’s your brand as a human being? In other words, what are you known for? Today we’re going to explore the idea of being branded. Not by the latest fashion trend, but as a disciple of Jesus Christ.

What are you going to be known for?

“From now on, let no one make trouble for me; for I carry the marks of Jesus branded on my body.” - Galatians 6:17 (NRSV)

  • The Apostle Paul made it clear that he belonged to Jesus.
  • He was persecuted for preaching the Gospel and had the scars that proved his devotion to  Jesus.
  • True followers of Jesus want to be known as such.
  • If you’re a follower of Jesus you might not get invited to the party, you might not make the sale, some people may not want to be around you.
  • Are you willing to follow Jesus anyway?


What does it mean to be branded as a disciple of Jesus?

“And he said to them, “Follow me, and I will make you fishers of men.” – Matthew 4:19

  • Someone who is committed to follow Jesus
  • Do you spend time with Jesus?
  • You can’t be a part-time disciple. It’s a full-time relationship.


You will grow spiritually when you spend time with Jesus.

“If you want to be my disciple you must come and follow me, because my servants must be where I am. And if they follow me, the Father will honor them.” – John 12:26


Three important truths about spiritual growth:

1. Spiritual Growth is a CHOICE.

  • “If you want to be my disciple…”
  • You’ve got to want it.
  • Spiritual growth is not automatic. It’s intentional.


2. Spiritual Growth is a COMMITMENT.

  • “… you must come and follow”
  • It’s going to take action.
  • Any kind of commitment is going to require change.
  • You can’t be committed to everything.
  • Spiritual mentors & coaches help us sort through our commitments when we over commit, and prod us along when we don’t want to make commitments.


3. Spiritual Growth is a RELATIONSHIP.

  • “… be where I am.”
  • It’s not about rules, rituals, formulas, or expectations you have to meet.
  • Spiritual growth is about being with Jesus in a relationship.


“He appointed twelve, whom he also named apostles to be with him, to send them out to preach.” - (Mark 3:14)

  • Jesus helped 12 guys grow spiritually as leaders to send them out to preach.
  • Small Groups model that relational approach.
  • Not everyone will be called to full-time ministry, but we all have the capacity to grow and then lead other people in their faith journey.


What does it mean to be with Jesus?

  • Are you talking to Him consistently?
  • “Pray without ceasing.” (1 Thessalonians 5:17)
  • Prayer is really just having a conversation with Jesus.
  • The more you grow spiritually, the more you’re able to determine God’s voice.
  • The more time you spend with Him and in the Word of God, the more you’ll be able to apply it to your life.
  • The more you’re around godly people, the more you’ll be influenced to be godly.


We should be seeking to be branded as a disciple of Jesus and want others to know that’s the brand that we care about.

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1 year ago
19 minutes 9 seconds

Trent Stewart Leadership Podcast
You Are Saved to Serve

We’re continuing in this series about purpose. Why are we here? What is the point of life? Why do I exist?

Well, if God is the Creator, and we believe that He is, then there is meaning to why He created us. Ephesians 2:10 says, “For we are His workmanship, created in Christ Jesus for good works, which God prepared beforehand that we should walk in them.” We can either pursue the purpose God created us for, or we can ignore it.

We've talked about how both worship and becoming more like Jesus are a part of what it means to fulfill the purpose that God has given to us. Today, I want to focus on the idea that you are saved to serve. God didn’t just save you for eternal life, He saved you to fulfill a purpose in this life, and part of that is learning to serve.

The Church is a lot like a team sport.

  • Players on a successful team figure out what they’re good at.
  • If a team doesn’t have everyone doing their role, they’re not going to be successful.
  • As a church, we function like a team to accomplish God’s mission of making disciples by serving in our local church.

1 Corinthians 12:7 says, “A manifestation of the Spirit is given to each person for the common good.”

Every Believer has a Spiritual Gift.

  • You were given a spiritual gift at the moment of salvation.
  • A spiritual gift is different than a natural ability.
  • Only believers in Jesus Christ have spiritual gifts.

Every Believer is Gifted to Help the Entire Church.

  • Spiritual gifts are used to benefit other people, and for the common good of God’s church.
  • Some might feel like they can’t find their place, or they don’t belong.
  • 1 Corinthians 12:16 – “If the ear should say, “Because I am not an eye, I do not belong to the body,” that would not make it any less a part of the body.”

Every Believer is Important and Necessary.

  • When you’re not fulfilling your role on the team in the body of Christ, the whole body suffers.
  • It’s unnatural to see a body part not attached to a body – that’s what it’s like to be a Christian who is not attached to a local church body. It doesn’t feel right.
  • God designed you to make a contribution and gave you specific gifts to fulfill a role.
  • Every single gift is vital to the success of the church.

What Does God Want You to do with Your Spiritual Gift?

1. Discover it.

  • 1 Corinthians 14:1 – “Eagerly desire spiritual gifts.”
  • Learn what you’re gifted at by taking an assessment, a class, or by trying different ministries.

2. Develop it.

  • Just because you're gifted at something doesn't mean that you're going to be great at it on day one.
  • 1 Timothy 4:14 – “Don't neglect the spiritual gift that is in you.”
  • You are neglecting your gift when you’re not seeking to develop it.

3. Use it.

  • 2 Timothy 1:6 – “Fan into flame the gift that God gave you.”
  • Do the thing that you feel like you’re gifted to do.
  • Commit to a church and God will use you in the church.
  • Find that place of service to use the gifts that God has given to you.
  • God saved you so that you would serve Him through His church.
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1 year ago
22 minutes 29 seconds

Trent Stewart Leadership Podcast
You Were Created to be Like Jesus

God is the Designer of the world and because there is a Designer, there is a design for your life. If there is a Maker, there is meaning. Ephesians 2:10 says, “For we are His workmanship, created in Christ Jesus for good works, which God prepared beforehand that we should walk in them.” Before you were even born, God had you in mind. He loved you, and He created you for specific work. There’s a purpose for your life. It’s important to determine what that is. You can either pursue your purpose and try to accomplish it, or you can ignore it. 

1.        Commit to God’s Plan.

·      Romans 3:23 – We’ve all sinned and fall short of God’s glory.

·      There’s no way you can live a good enough life to get to heaven.

·      Romans 10:9 – Has there been a moment in your life when you’ve asked Jesus for forgiveness and surrendered your life to Him?

·      Putting your faith in Jesus is the first step to committing to God’s plan.

·      If you haven’t committed your life to Jesus you are rejecting God’s plan for your life and your purpose.

·      Jesus said, “I am the way, the truth, and the life. No man comes to the Father but by me.”

·      You have to decide to either accept Jesus’ words as truth, or reject them.

 

2.        Commit Yourself to Change the Way You Think.

·      Ephesians 4:22 – It’s not enough to just stop doing bad things. You have to think differently. 

·      We must be informed by the Word of God and begin to think like Jesus.

·      As humans, we copy the behavior of other people.

·      Romans 12:2 – Don’t copy behaviors and customs of the world, but let God transform you into a new person by changing the way you think.

·      As God transforms you from the inside out, you begin to understand His perfect will for your life.

·      Christians must let God’s Word show them the right way to think about situations and issues in the world.

·      What I saw on a mission trip to Venezuela changed the way I think.

 

3.        Commit Yourself to Develop Christ-like Character.

·      Ephesians 4:24 - The goal of becoming like Christ is to live a more righteous, holy life.

·      We’re not trying to become more righteous so that we can earn heaven.

·      Heaven is a gift God gives us solely based on faith in Christ alone.

·      Becoming more like Christ is a continuous journey. We have a long way to go!

·      God uses us as we surrender our actions and attitudes to Him. 

·      As we seek to become more like Him, He uses us to impact other people.

·      If you choose to ignore your purpose, life will continue to feel meaningless.

 

The only way we begin to find true meaning and purpose in life is by committing ourselves to God's plan, changing how we think, and allowing our character to be developed by Jesus. As we do that, we truly worship God and embrace him as our Lord.


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1 year ago
22 minutes 54 seconds

Trent Stewart Leadership Podcast
You are Wired for Worship

There’s a reason why Rick Warren’s book, “Purpose Driven Life” is the greatest selling book outside of the Bible. People want to know what their purpose is! Why are we here? What’s the point of life? Today, we’re starting a new series of episodes that will help you understand what God’s purpose
for your life actually is.


God created you:

  • If there is a Designer, there is a design for your life.
  • If there is a Maker, there is meaning to life.
  • Isaiah 64:8 – There is purpose behind God’s creation.
  • You can pursue your purpose, or you can ignore it.
  • Ephesians 2:10 – God has prepared things that He wants us to do.

You are wired to worship:

  • Acts 17:22-31 – They had thousands of false gods to worship, but were still empty because they didn’t know the one true God.
  • God is the giver and creator of all things. (v24-25)
  • God’s great purpose for our life is to seek Him and know Him. (v27-28)
  • To embrace your purpose, you must repent of your sin and turn to Jesus (v30)

Worship is the desire of the human soul:

  • It’s not just what religious people do. Everybody is worshipping something.
  • To worship something is to give value to it. To deem it worthy of your time, talents, and energy.
  • An idol is anything that we value more than God.
  • We’re wired to worship God, but we find idols to worship instead.


Worship is not just experienced by what we say, it’s confirmed by how we live.

  • There’s a trail of our time, devotion, possessions and money that leads to the throne of our heart.
  • Look at the evidence of your life to determine what you’re worshipping.
  • Romans 12:1 – there’s improper worship
  • “Worship is the believer’s response of all that they are – mind, emotions, will, body – to what God is and says and does.” – Real Worship by Warren Weirsbe
  • Worship is your response to God in view of His mercy.

In view of God’s mercy, the proper response is to give Him our entire life.

  • The definition of God’s mercy is not getting what you deserve.
  • Instead of getting the punishment we deserve, Jesus takes the punishment for us.
  • When we understand how great God’s mercy is, it’s good and right to surrender everything to Him.
  • You are wired for worship. God created you to know Him and worship Him.
  • Are you living a life of sacrifice, service, and worship to God?
  • When you elevate your worship, you’re going to elevate your life.
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1 year ago
21 minutes 42 seconds

Trent Stewart Leadership Podcast
What To Do When You're Sad

As you go through different seasons of life, you’re going to face sad situations. You’ll potentially experience depression. It’s just part of life. God gave us emotions, so it’s ok to be sad, but God doesn’t want you to be sad forever. He wants you to learn from the sad times in your life.

Life is more than the feelings you feel. Life is about the choices that you make. Today I want to help you make every day count by helping you learn how to deal with sadness.

God uses sadness to help you.

  • Culture teaches us that being sad is a bad thing.
  • When we’re around people, we try to hide our sadness.

Read 1 Samuel Chapter 1.

  • Hannah is depressed because she can’t have children.
  • The emotional pain she’s in is so severe, she can’t eat.
  • What can we learn from how Hannah responds to her sadness?

1. Hannah goes to church. (v9)


  • She went to the temple to worship God.
  • If you’re sad, you’re going to want to stay at home and isolate.
  • If God’s going to use the sadness in your life, you have to get out of bed and worship with God’s people.

2. Hannah prays to God. (v10)

  • She runs to God for help.
  • When you’re sad, talk to God, lay your heart out to Him.
  • Access my free video course called, “How to Pray”

3. Hannah admits how she feels (v15)

  • She was honest about her sadness and shared it with Eli the priest.
  • Stop trying to pretend that you’re not sad.
  • Don’t be ashamed of how you feel.
  • Galatians 6:2 – “Bear one another’s burdens, and so fulfill the law of Christ.”
  • God will put people in your life to help bear the burden you’re experiencing.


4. Hannah talks to a spiritual leader. (v15-16)


  • That person will be able to encourage you in your time of need.
  • Maybe it’s a counselor, pastor, small group leader, or a trusted friend.
  • Just as every sports team needs a coach to guide them to victory, we all need a spiritual leader who will coach us through life’s problems.


5. Hannah eats. (v18)

  • You need physical refreshment.
  • Food is an important part of our physical health, but also our emotional health as well.
  • If you eat bad food, you’re going to feel bad.
  • You need proper nutrition, exercise, sunshine.
  • Get outside, take a walk, get some fresh air, decide to start eating healthier.


6. Hannah believes God will help her. (v18)

  • People can see sadness on our face.
  • God had not yet answered her prayer, yet her face was no longer sad.
  • What changed was her attitude.
  • Her face reflected what she believed in her heart.
  • Maybe you need an attitude change.

Instead of thinking everything and everyone is against you, would you have the boldness to start believing that God is for you and that He is going to answer you?

  • God is going to show up in your life.
  • Hope comes from the belief that God’s going to take care of you.
  • Hannah doesn’t know for sure that God is going to give her a child, but her belief was there.
  • Hannah wasn’t focused on what she didn’t have, she was focused on what God was going to do.

“And the Lord remembered her. And in due time Hannah conceived and bore a son, and she called his name Samuel, for she said, “I have asked for him from the Lord.” (1 Samuel 1:19-20)

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1 year ago
27 minutes 14 seconds

Trent Stewart Leadership Podcast
Choose Joy

When someone asks, “How are you feeling today?” our typical response is “I’m good!” whether we’re feeling good or not. We’re usually unaware of how we’re feeling because we don’t think about it. Emotions are triggered by the
events that happen in our life, and they kind of just happen. You don’t have to tell yourself to feel happy when you win, you’re just happy. You don’t have to tell yourself to feel sad or angry when you lose, the anger just comes out. But here’s the thing, you get to choose how long those emotions stick
around.

Instead of your emotions controlling you, we need to learn how to choose them because life is more than the feelings that you feel. Emotions come and go. The more you learn to control your emotions, the healthier and more
successful in life you will be.


Live on Devotion, Not on Emotions

  • Some of us are living on our emotions; whatever we feel, we do.
  • To find purpose in life, you need devotion to Jesus.

Choose Joy

  • There’s a difference between being happy and being joyful.
  • Happiness is a feeling. Joy is a decision.
  • Joy isn’t based on how well your day is going. Joy is a state of mind.
  • Choose joy because happiness isn’t enough.
  • Happiness is achieved by external things. Joy happens internally.
  • John 15:10


Three Things that Kill Your Joy:


1. Selfishness

  • I want what I want, and I don’t care how it makes other people feel.
  • We think it will bring us joy, but it does the opposite.
  • James 4:1 - The root problem of relational difficulties is a power struggle between two selfish, insecure people.
  • The solution is to grow up and stop being so self-centered.
  • If you want joy in your life you have to get the focus off yourself and onto other people.

2. Comparing

  • Causes sadness and depression
  • Instead of celebrating others, we become jealous.
  • Social media might be one of the most devastating things in our culture today.
  • What would happen to your emotional health if you deleted that app from your phone for one week?

3. Fear

  • We fear that we aren’t good enough, we fear the future, that we’re not going to be able to solve the problems in our life.
  • But what if things actually work out the way that you hope?
  • God says, don’t fear because He’s with you no matter what happens. (Isaiah 41:10)
  • Why did I spend so much time obsessing over the negative things that might happen? I let fear control me instead of enjoying my life.

Three Ways You Can Have Joy:

1. Focus on GIVING rather than RECEIVING.

  • This is what it means to love.
  • God is love. (1 John 4:8)
  • God gives good gifts. (James 1:17)
  • God gave us His Son. (John 3:16)
  • You can give without loving but you can’t love without giving.

2. Focus on HEALING rather than HURTING.

  • You’re going to get hurt by people, even those who love you deeply.
  • It’s how you handle the hurt that makes the difference
  • Human nature is to hold on to the hurt.
  • Forgive because you’ve been forgiven (Colossians 3:13)
  • There’s no value in obsessing over pain.

3. Focus on GOD’S POWER rather than YOUR PROBLEMS.

  • Trust in God at all times. (Psalm 62:8)
  • He’s in control, can repair every hurt, and can help even when the situation seems hopeless.
  • Focusing on your problems will make you miserable.
  • Focusing on your faith in Jesus and His power will bring joy.

God created you for more. He created you for purpose. He created you for joy. Life is more than the feelings that we have. It’s about living with devotion and not emotion. As you start doing these things, you’re going to find more joy in your life.

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1 year ago
20 minutes 30 seconds

Trent Stewart Leadership Podcast
Putting on the Armor of God

How do we prepare to defend ourselves against spiritual attacks? In Ephesians 6, Paul tells us to put on the full armor of God. This gives us the mentality that we are in a fight.

Put on the whole armor of God, that you may be able to stand against the schemes of the devil. For we do not wrestle against flesh and blood, but against the rulers, against the authorities, against the cosmic powers
over this present darkness, against the spiritual forces of evil in the heavenly places. - Ephesians 6:11-12


We’re in a spiritual battle. The enemy is trying to steal, kill, and destroy everything that God wants to do in your life. Scripture gives us ways to fight this battle against the spiritual forces in the present darkness.


Stand therefore, having fastened on the belt of truth, and having put on the breastplate of righteousness, and, as shoes for your feet, having put on the readiness given by the gospel of peace. 16 In all circumstances take
up the shield of faith, with which you can extinguish all the flaming darts of the evil one; and take the helmet of salvation, and the sword of the Spirit, which is the word of God. - Ephesians 6:14-17


As a follower of Jesus, we have authority over the demonic influences in our life but if we’re not wearing the armor of God, we can’t fight the battle effectively.


If you want God’s power, you have to wear God’s armor.

1. The Belt of Truth (v14)

  • One of Satan’s primary attacks is lies.
  • The best defense against lies is truth.
  • Jesus is truth. (John 14:6)
  • Fight by knowing, believing, and living out the truth of God’s Word.

2. The Breastplate of Righteousness (v14)

  • Part of your identity as a follower of Jesus is that you are righteous.
  • God doesn't see your work; He sees the work of Christ in you.
  • We fight the enemy’s attack by knowing who we are in Christ.
  • As we live out the righteousness of Christ in our life, it begins to fight against those thoughts in our head.

3. The Right Shoes (v15)

  • The Greek word translated as “stand” is a military term that means to hold your position.
  • When the enemy attacks, you have to stand your ground by:
    1) Submitting your life to God (James 4:7)
    2) Being self-controlled and alert (1 Peter 5:8)
    3) Prayer (James 5:16)

4. The Shield of Faith (v16)

  • When you’re in an intense battle, it’s going to require endurance.
  • God responds to those who trust in His sufficiency in the midst of our weakness – this is faith.
  • When you have faith in the midst of the arrows that Satan is throwing at you, God is going to give you victory.
  • Your faith is what gets God’s attention.

5. The Helmet of Salvation (v17)

  • The helmet protects the most important part of your body.
  • The battle you’re fighting is in your mind. Book by Mel Robbins, “The Five-Second Rule” provides a practical way to fight against anxiety and negative thoughts.
  • 1 Thessalonians 5:8-9 – the helmet is the hope of salvation.
  • Christian hope is not wishful thinking, it’s a confident expectation that God is going to accomplish His will.

6. The Sword of the Spirit (v17)

  • The sword is both a defensive weapon and an offensive weapon.
  • When Jesus was tempted by the enemy in the desert, He fought by quoting Scripture.
  • Hebrews 4:12 – The Word of God is living and active, sharper than any two-edged sword.
  • As you read the Bible, circle verbs where God tells us to do something, underline adjectives that describe God, highlight things that stand out to you.
  • After being in the Word of God, your mind starts thinking differently.

Remember, we’re told to put on the full armor of God, not just part of it.
Stand firm, have faith and put on the whole armor of God. We're fighting this battle together.


Book: “The Five-Second Rule” by Mel Robbins

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1 year ago
27 minutes 10 seconds

Trent Stewart Leadership Podcast
Spiritual Warfare in the Church

Spiritual warfare is a real thing. Satan & his followers are battling against the will of God and His followers. Ephesians 6 tells us that we aren’t fighting flesh and blood, but spiritual forces of evil. The enemy is fighting to divide God’s Church and in many ways he’s winning. Today I want to talk about the enemy’s strategies to steal kill and destroy.

In Ephesians 6, Paul is talking to the church and calling them to fight this battle against the enemy. The best way to fight this battle is in the context of community – being involved in and connected relationally to a church.

Why does the enemy attack the church?1. To direct our focus away from the mission

  • Matt 28:19-20- The Great Commission
  • The task is to make disciples, teach them to observe, and baptize them.
  • Jesus gave all of these tasks to the Church.
  • Satan doesn’t want the Church to be passionate about evangelism.
  • He wants us to criticize and fight over opinions, so our energy is focused on small issues instead of the bigger spiritual problem of separation from God.

2. The unity of the church is a witness to Jesus’ love

  • John 13:35 - Our love for one another, our unity, is how other people will know that we are followers of Jesus.
  • John 17:20-23 – Jesus prayed that you and I, the Church today, would be unified so that the world would believe in Him.
  • Satan wants to create division in the Church to counter our witness in the community.

3. The church teaches the life-changing Word of God

  • Satan can entice the Church to ignore, neglect, and distort the Word of God.
  • All over the world, he’s leading people to doubt the authority of Scripture.
  • 1 Tim 4:1 – Demonic power is what stands behind false teachers.
  • When members and staff are divisive, pastors are forced to focus on mitigating problems instead of teaching and strategizing.

What’s Satan trying to do? Create division.

  • Matt 12:25 – A divided church will not stand.
  • You will not be effective in reaching people for Christ if there’s unresolved conflict.
  • Churches in conflict are unable to grow or start new ministries.

Division happens when...

1. Believers sin against each other

  • Eph 4:35-32 – Paul explains how Christians should treat each other.
  • Anytime we don’t immediately deal with conflict, we are giving the devil a foothold.
  • Instead of venting, Scripture calls us to go to the person and have a conversation.
  • Don’t let anger linger. Forgive and let it go, or discuss it.
  • Eph 4:3 – Make an effort to keep unity.


2. We stop showing love for one another

  • Col 3:14 - Unity comes when church members love each other.
  • No storm or trial will separate friends who truly care about each other.
  • If our love for our brothers weakens, we can begin to tolerate disunity and if it goes unchecked we can eventually justify division.

3. We put our needs before the needs of other people

  • James 3:15 – Anytime we’re being selfish, we’re engaging in demonic thinking.
  • Phil 2:4 - Don’t just look out for your own interests.

4. We act immature

  • 1 Cor 3:1-3 – Paul can’t give them the deeper truths of scripture because they’re like infants.

The result is that non-believers will have no interest in Jesus.

  • The world will not be attracted to disunity.
  • When we’re not united around the gospel we’re not able to be effective evangelistically.

Next time: How to put on the armor of God and truly fight for unity.

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1 year ago
22 minutes 24 seconds

Trent Stewart Leadership Podcast
Get Out of Your Comfort Zone and Lead

One of my favorite leaders in the Bible is Elijah. You can read his story in 1 Kings. During this time in the nation of Israel, the character of the leaders and the spiritual condition of the people were terrible. They were worshipping idols and being led by wicked men. But Elijah was different. The name Elijah means “The Lord is my God.” God was building Elijah into the leader he needed to be to confront the people’s sin, lead them into repentance, and back to worshipping God.

1 Kings 17:1-7. God sent a drought into the land and told Elijah to go away to a stream in the desert. So, Elijah did what God told him to do.
Just like Elijah, God has given you an invitation to follow Him.

  • To be a faithful leader, you must accept the call God has given you.
  • Elijah is taken out of his comfort zone.
  • There’s a process to preparation. There’s growth that needs to take place.

We see this in Moses’s life as well.

  • One of the greatest lessons God will let you learn is to be alone and realize that He’s the only One you can count on and all you need.
  • God is teaching Elijah to trust His provision.
  • God may not be giving you everything you want, but He’s giving you everything you need.
  • God took Elijah to Kerith to teach him a lesson and to protect him.

God’s invitation will always take you outside of your comfort zone.

  • Elijah is cut off and alone, and the stream dries up.
  • If you’re following God but things are difficult, it’s not because He’s punishing you; He’s preparing you.
  • God wants Elijah to depend on Him, not on the stream.
  • When the stream in your life dries up, remember that God has a bigger plan, and He always comes through.

It’s easy to follow God when things are good when all of our needs seem to be met, but you don’t learn or grow when things are easy.

  • When you believe God is preparing you, you know He’s about to do something great.
  • God was helping Elijah become a leader who would transform the nation.
  • Don’t see your circumstances as bad luck; God may be using them to take you to another level of faith, trust, and maturity.
  • God has something planned for you. Don’t miss it!
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1 year ago
20 minutes 9 seconds

Trent Stewart Leadership Podcast
Why Consistency is Crucial

One thing that unsuccessful people have in common is that they lack consistency. When you’re consistent, you’re dedicated to carrying out the task until it is completed. You’re clear on what you want to accomplish and you’re going to take the steps to actually reach those goals. Today, I want to talk about the need for consistency in leadership.

“Small disciplines repeated with consistency every day lead to great achievements gained slowly over time.” - John Maxwell

We often mistakenly think that success happens overnight. The truth is most successful people have been consistently grinding for some time before they become successful.

  • Jesus is consistent. (Hebrews 13:8)
  • Be steadfast. (James 1:4)
  • Don’t waver. (Hebrews 10:23)

The march towards consistency can sometimes hurt.

  • We don’t want to get up early, go to the gym, read our Bible, put in the effort.
  • Somethings you just have to start out of obligation.
  • Eventually you see positive results and then you get momentum.
  • Just starting it is the first step.


Three areas you need to be consistent in as a leader:

1. Your CHARACTER

  • Jesus put other people first. (Philippians 2:3)
  • Character means what you say and how you live are consistent. Who are you when nobody’s around?
  • If you say you’re going to do it, do it. (Matthew 5:37)
  • Character is communicating.
  • Show integrity. (Ephesians 4:1)

2. Your ATTITUDE

  • Have an attitude of humility. (Philippians 2:5)
  • Bring a positive attitude even when you have a bad day.
  • A bad attitude comes through in your body language.
  • You bring a bad attitude when you say things like:
  • “That’s not my job.” – Do whatever is necessary to help the team.
  • “That’s not my problem.” – Offer solutions.
  • “I’m really busy.” – You should expect to be busy at work.
  • “I don’t care.” – Give some insight.


3. Your EFFORT

  • Jesus gave the maximum effort, His life. (Philippians 2:7)
  • Give your very best every single day.
  • Don’t be lazy.
  • Even when nobody is looking we give the effort because we’re working for the Lord. (Colossians 3:2)

When you are consistent in your CHARACTER, your ATTITUDE, and your EFFORT, you’re going to be the example that other people look to. You’re going to be the leader that is worth following.


PRACTICAL STEPS:

  • Start small and build from there.
  • Create a schedule.
  • Schedule tasks in your free time.
  • Celebrate yourself when you win.

“Let us not become weary of doing good for in due season, we will reap a harvest if we do not give up.” (Galatians 6:9)

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1 year ago
22 minutes 18 seconds

Trent Stewart Leadership Podcast
How to Find Peace in Forgiveness

One of the most difficult things you’ll ever try to do in life is forgive someone.

  • When someone hurts you and you don’t forgive them, it robs you of joy and peace.
  • A relationship with Jesus is one that is characterized by forgiveness.
  • God’s path is paved with forgiving people. The world’s path is paved with retaliation.


When someone hurts you, they have essentially taken something away from you.

  • Your reputation, your dignity, your trust, your childhood.
  • A debt was acquired and now you feel they owe you something.
  • We think the remedy for pain is payback.
  • Hurt turns into anger, and eventually into bitterness.
  • Unresolved bitterness is like poison that infects your leadership and all of your relationships.

Jesus teaches that we must always be willing to forgive, and we must continually forgive.

The Parable of the Unforgiving Servant” (Matthew 18:21-35).

  • To forgive, you have to have mercy on others.
  • You will be tempted to focus on how much better you are than the person who hurt you.
  • You must move from wanting to get back at them to having compassion on them.
  • You’ll never feel like forgiving. Like the master, you must decide to cancel the debt.
  • Forgiveness doesn’t mean that what happened to you is ok, it means that you’re done allowing the pain to traumatize you.
  • Jesus asks, “Should not you have had mercy on your fellow servant, as I had mercy on you?” (v33)
  • Jesus says, “So also my heavenly Father will do to every one of you, if you do not forgive your brother from your heart.” (v35)

The master represents God, the servant who was shown mercy represents anyone who has had their sin cancelled by God, and the servant who was not shown mercy represents those who have wronged us who we have not forgiven.

  • If you’re holding onto bitterness and waiting to be paid back, you’re the one who’s suffers because you will never have peace.
  • If you cancel the debts owed to you, you will be set free.
  • Jesus calls us to forgive just like He has forgiven us.

The process of cancelling the debt:

  1. Admit that you’ve been hurt.
  2. Identify the person who hurt you.
  3. Determine what they owe you.
  4. Cancel the debt – release them.

Practically, how is the debt paid?

  • Every time you think about taking revenge... every time you want to speak badly about them... every time you think about the event and start to get angry... take the thought captive, tell yourself you release them, and ask God to give you the grace to forgive them.
  • You pay down the debt little by little until one day you are free.
  • Forgiveness isn’t letting them off the hook, it’s letting yourself off the hook by modeling the grace and love that Jesus has shown to you.

Prayer: “Lord, they owe me, but I owed you and you were willing to cancel my debt, so I cancel their debt. I forgive _____ for taking _______.”

On the cross, Jesus said, “It is finished” which means, it is paid. Jesus paid our debt with His sacrifice.

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1 year ago
23 minutes 15 seconds

Trent Stewart Leadership Podcast
How to Find Peace in the Pain

One of the longings of the human soul is to find peace. The world offers us peace through things like health insurance, retirement funds, policemen and firefighters. The world’s
peace depends on circumstances, but Jesus offers us a different kind of peace that can’t be taken away. Even in the midst of pain, tribulation, and despair, your heart can be
settled and peaceful if your hope is fixed on Jesus.

Peace can be difficult to find in today’s culture and fast-paced world.

  • Some of the things that rob us of peace are ambition, envy, being critical, and needing to be in control.
  • Several years ago, I was facing an uncontrollable situation and was in a season of sorrow, depression, and grief. I was worried, stressed out, and
  • overwhelmed.
  • What I learned was how to really seek the peace of God.

How do you experience the peace of God that transcends all understanding when all hell is breaking loose in your life?


Dark times are meant to be a place for us to learn the deeper truths of God’s grace.

  • You can be a faithful Christian who loves Jesus and still go through dark seasons.
  • You can be surrounded by great people and still feel like you’re alone.
  • The enemy wants you to believe that no one cares or understands what you’re going through.
  • Even when depression and anxiety set it, the world doesn’t stop moving. You have to continue to lead.

Do you desire to find the peace of God while you go through this season?
In John 14:1 Jesus says, “Let not your hearts be troubled. Believe in God; believe also in me.”

How to experience the peace of God in the middle of suffering:


1. Believe that Jesus is peace.

“I am the way, and the truth, and the life. No one comes to the Father except through me.” (John 14:6)“Peace I leave with you; my peace I give to you. Not as the world gives do I give to you. Let not your hearts be troubled, neither let them be afraid.” (John 14:27)

  • If you want to find peace in life, you need to find Jesus.
  • You will continue to experience fear, anxiety, loneliness, and worry if you don’t have the holy spirit living inside of you.
  • Godly peace can’t be produced on a human level. It has to be given to you by the grace of God.


2. Believe in your future with Jesus.

“I go and prepare a place for you, I will come again and will take you to myself, that where I am you may be also.” (John 14:3)

  • When you commit your life to Christ, you can rest in the knowledge that heaven is your home, and that Jesus is in control of your future.
  • What you’re going through is only for a season, God will resolve it.


3. Believe that Jesus is with you in your pain.
“But the Helper, the Holy Spirit, whom the Father will send in my name, he will teach you all things and bring to your remembrance all that I have said to you.” (John 14:26)

  • We’re tempted to think we’re alone and that God doesn’t care, but Jesus reminds us that His Spirit is always with us.
  • In the midst of our anxiety and pain, the Holy Spirit teaches us and reminds us of what Jesus said.
  • God teaches us how to trust Him by allowing us to go through situations that require trust.
  • The world’s peace depends on circumstances and can be taken away but the peace that Jesus offers remains, even in the midst of difficulty.


4. Believe in the power of prayer.

  • Prayer is essential and it works.
  • God fills us with peace when we are in constant communication with Him.

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1 year ago
28 minutes 38 seconds

Trent Stewart Leadership Podcast
Making everyday leaders make everyday count.