Rob and Kieran pull back the curtain on the massive, life-altering decisions that made them leave Ireland and the UK forever ā and build a dramatically better life in Poland.
In this episode we go deep on:
- How Irelandās record-breaking harsh lockdowns made Robās escape decision almost automatic
- Kieranās āIām just visitingā trip that turned into āIām never going backā
- The honest 2025 reality: why day-to-day life in Poland (cost, safety, culture, freedom) now feels objectively superior
The exact decision-making frameworks we used to take the leap (and that you can use for any big move):
ā Jeff Bezosā regret-minimization & one-way/two-way door decisions
ā Annie Dukeās āThinking in Betsā mindset
ā Mel Robbinsā 5-4-3-2-1 rule to kill procrastination and indecision
ā Escaping the sunk cost fallacy (with painful stories of when they did)
ā Beating decision fatigue by habitualising and front-loading choices
ā How small daily decisions compound into a completely different life (Darren Hardyās The Compound Effect)
If youāve ever dreamed of moving abroad, feel stuck in your current country, or just want to make faster, higher-quality decisionsāthis episode is your playbook.
Drop everything and listen now. Your future self will thank you.
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Most of us swear we donāt have āissuesā with money⦠until we realize weāre still afraid to invest, still waiting for permission to buy something nice, or still sitting on cash ājust in case the world ends tomorrow.ā
This episode is about the money curse you never saw written down anywhere, yet it still runs your life: the sound of your parents arguing about bills through thin walls, the endless chorus of āmoney doesnāt grow on trees,ā the slammed kitchen cabinets when the rent was lateālittle moments that taught you money is pain, scarcity is permanent, and playing it safe is the only smart move.
We get real about growing up broke and how that scarcity blueprint can follow you through life. We talk hoarding vs. true security, class betrayal, generational patterns, and why weāre begging you to stop treating investing like gambling and start treating it like oxygen for your future wealth.
This is the episode that calls out the invisible curse⦠and hands you the permission (and the push) to finally invest like someone who believes tomorrow can be better than today.
Itās time to stop letting childhood ghosts hoard your potential. Letās break the curse and build real wealthātogether.
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Endless scrolling at 2 a.m., comparing your real life to everyone elseās highlight reel? Thatās not coincidence, itās by design.In Episode 4 we expose exactly how social media algorithms weaponize comparison, anxiety, and FOMO through toxic consumption patternsāand hand you the tools to break free without deleting your accounts.We spill the tea on:- How to audit & ruthlessly curate your feed in under 30 minutes per day- Real āmute accountsā experiments that raised happiness levels overnight- Algorithm-proof hacks that work even when willpower doesnāt- Why conscious consumption is better than cold-turkey detox- Plug-and-play rules + tools to scroll smarter starting today per day Stop letting feeds built to keep you insecure run your day. Hit play, open your follow list, and rebuild a timeline that actually fuels your life instead of draining it. Comment below with the biggest takeaways you got from this episode.New episodes every second Tuesday! Follow @twoexpatsabroad ā letās make the algorithm work FOR us!#socialmediadetox #becomingunstuck #DigitalMinimalism #ComparisonIsTheThiefOfJoy #ConsciousConsumption #BreakTheScroll
Join us this week on Two Expats Abroad as we tackle fear, especially the fear of failure in life, business failure, and investment failure. We dive into the CTFAR coaching model (Circumstances, Thoughts, Feelings, Actions, Results) to explore how our mindset shapes our response to setbacks. From reframing failure and lessons learned to overcoming the shame and judgments tied to it, this episode offers insights you might not have considered before. We also discuss how social circles can amplify these pressures, the comfort zone, perceptions others hold about our endeavors, and the courage to break away from toxic influences. Hit subscribe, share your own lessons learned in the comments, and letās grow together! #TwoExpatsAbroad #FearOfFailure #BusinessFailure #InvestmentFailure #CTFAR #LessonsLearned #PersonalGrowthš§ Follow for more insights:X ā https://x.com/twoexpatsabroadInstagram ā / twoexpatsabroad
When life forces you to stop, it gives you a choice ā stay stuck, or start over.
In this episode, Rob shares the story of the morning that changed everything ā the moment that became the catalyst for transformation and personal growth.
This is Episode 2 of Two Expats Abroad ā a conversation about how to move forward when you feel trapped in old patterns, stuck in your head, or unsure of whatās next.
We explore how asking better questions, developing self-awareness, and challenging your identity stories can completely shift your path.
š¹ Key Themes:
- Why pain can become your greatest teacher
- How to break free from emotional loops and negative self-beliefs
- The mindset shift that starts real change
- How asking for help/coaching and reflection unlock clarity
š§ Got questions after listening? Want us to cover a specific topic in a future episode?
Reach out at ā twoexpatsabroad@gmail.comā ā weād love to hear from you and keep the conversation going.
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What if the biggest thing holding you back isnāt your circumstances, your resources, or even your location⦠but your mindset?
In this very first episode of Two Expats Abroad, we explore the hidden cost of living with a fixed mindset ā the quiet ways it keeps you stuck, limits your potential, and convinces you to play small. We unpack how shifting into a growth mindset can completely change what you believe is possible, not just for expats or those moving abroad, but for anyone who craves more freedom, impact, and fulfilment.
Drawing on Carol Dweckās groundbreaking work on fixed vs. growth mindset, plus powerful insights from Dan Sullivanās book Who Not How, we share our own experiences of getting stuck, hitting walls, and finding new ways forward. These arenāt abstract theories ā theyāre the real mindset shifts that helped us reframe challenges, break through self-imposed ceilings, and design lives of greater freedom.
In this episode, youāll discover:
How to recognise when a fixed mindset is holding you back (and why itās often invisible until you know what to look for)
Why having the right people around you ā people whoāve already walked the path ā is essential for breaking through psychological barriers
The surprising power of asking who, not how, when you want to achieve something big
The mindset shifts that move you from feeling stuck to building unstoppable momentum toward the life you truly want
If youāve ever felt like youāre repeating the same patterns, doubting yourself, or hitting a ceiling in your career, relationships, or personal goals, this conversation will hit home. More importantly, it will open your eyes to the truth:
There are no limits to what you can create. No cap. No ceiling. No age that disqualifies you. No excuse that needs to keep you stuck. Any boundaries you feel are self-imposed ā and with a growth mindset, you can break free from them.
This is not just about moving abroad, starting fresh, or chasing adventure (though those are part of our story). Itās about realising that your mindset is the key to everything you want in life ā freedom, growth, success, and fulfilment.
So whether youāre dreaming about making a big life change, building more independence, or simply stepping into your full potential, this episode is your starting point.
š§ Got questions after listening? Want us to cover a specific topic in a future episode? Reach out at twoexpatsabroad@gmail.com ā weād love to hear from you and keep the conversation going.