Is it a sin to have sex before marriage? Is sex before marriage still a sin if you love each other? These two questions are some of the most asked questions I get at Oasis Singles. Sex sin is a huge issue for Christian singles. Why? The simple answer is that most singles struggle with some form of sex sin, or at least are tempted in this particular area. Let’s lay aside masturbation for a moment. The question “Is it […]

Being a Military Christian single man or woman is one of the most difficult things I can imagine. While many single Christians are just worrying about how to find their next online Christian date, some military singles are simply praying to stay alive. Military singles who also happen to be Christians also have to deal more intensely with that fuzzy intersection of “giving unto Caesar what is Caesar’s, and giving unto God what is God’s.” Serving in the military is […]

This is a fact: Alcohol Use Disorder is much more prevalent among single people (across all age groups) than among those who are married. While single men are by far the largest demographic that uses and abuses alcohol, recent studies in the US and UK find alarming rises in alcohol use and abuse among single women. Alcohol abuse is a significant societal problem affecting multiple demographic groups, including Christian singles. Despite the public image of sobriety often associated with the […]

As Generation Z Christian singles can tell you, the vast majority of other 20-something singles  and college singles do not attend church. Paradoxically, Generations Z Singles as they are called today, are also one of the most receptive age groups to evangelize. How can both of these statements about Gen singles be true? The answer is that many Christian churches are simply missing huge opportunities by not communicating the Gospel to 20-something singles in ways that make sense to them. […]

Are you one of the Christian singles ghosting someone? Navigating the world of modern dating can be a challenge, particularly when digital communication complicates traditional relationship etiquette. One phenomenon that has emerged from this digital revolution is “ghosting.” For Christian singles aiming to live according to Biblical principles, the question arises: Is it Biblical to ghost someone? Let’s delve into the concept of ghosting, and understand it from a Christian perspective. Understanding Ghosting in Christian Dating Ghosting refers to the […]

That’s right we are going to talk about sexual purity in the Bible, the topic that everybody likes to avoid.  Sexual impurity ranges from lustful thoughts to actual acts of perverted behavior.  In today’s modern world, everywhere you look, there’s sex and very rarely is it between two married people.  If you turn on the TV, you see scantily clad women on MTV and HBO.  You can go to the supermarket to see magazines with half-naked models and articles about […]

Hey friend, let’s have a heart-to-heart about something that can be a little tricky when it comes to love: losing yourself. As a Christian single woman, I know how easy it can be to put someone else’s needs and wants before your own when you’re excited about a relationship. But what happens when you wake up one day and realize you’re not sure who you are anymore? If you’ve ever found yourself bending over backward to please someone, always putting […]

When God doesn’t make sense to you because all your Christian single friends have met someone, but you have not, does your faith waver?  As Christian singles, maybe it’s a Christian dating relationship that’s gone awry, or some other event in your life that’s got you thinking about “the why” of it all.  Why did God allow this? What’s God’s plan? Where do I go from here? Navigating the treacherous waters of singleness can often leave one feeling like a […]

Do you know the signs of lust in a man?  All Christian single men battle the lust of the flesh from time to time. In fact, let’s just make that ALL guys, whether they be single men or married men, Christian or non-Christian. One single man pal of mine said if his girlfriend ever knew his thoughts, she would never stop slapping him! Listen, men struggle with lust and masturbation, and any single man who says otherwise is just lying […]

Christian Singleness is often viewed as a waiting room—a period of life where we twiddle our thumbs, waiting for that special someone to sweep us off our feet. But what if I told you that this season of singleness is actually a golden opportunity for spiritual growth? Yep, you heard me right! Your solo status isn’t a cosmic joke, but a divine gift wrapped in the glittering paper of self-discovery, spiritual depth, and yes, a good bit of humor. So, […]