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Unshamed & Unchained: Carving Space For Self-Healing & Habit Transformation
Danny Poelman
148 episodes
5 months ago
What does it really take to go from feeling out of control, frustrated, and hopeless... to feeling empowered, free from your habit, and confident that it’s going to last? In this episode, I share Tim A’s powerful journey through habit transformation, emotional healing, and long-term change. You’ll hear the exact elements that helped him go from short-lived streaks to deep rewiring—and what made this time feel different. I’ll break it all down into simple but powerful questions for you to refl...
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What does it really take to go from feeling out of control, frustrated, and hopeless... to feeling empowered, free from your habit, and confident that it’s going to last? In this episode, I share Tim A’s powerful journey through habit transformation, emotional healing, and long-term change. You’ll hear the exact elements that helped him go from short-lived streaks to deep rewiring—and what made this time feel different. I’ll break it all down into simple but powerful questions for you to refl...
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Self-Improvement
Education,
Health & Fitness,
Sexuality
Episodes (20/148)
Unshamed & Unchained: Carving Space For Self-Healing & Habit Transformation
14. Key Ingredients in Your Plan of Attack (Lessons From Tim A.)
What does it really take to go from feeling out of control, frustrated, and hopeless... to feeling empowered, free from your habit, and confident that it’s going to last? In this episode, I share Tim A’s powerful journey through habit transformation, emotional healing, and long-term change. You’ll hear the exact elements that helped him go from short-lived streaks to deep rewiring—and what made this time feel different. I’ll break it all down into simple but powerful questions for you to refl...
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7 months ago
27 minutes

Unshamed & Unchained: Carving Space For Self-Healing & Habit Transformation
13. From Autopilot to Avatar Mode - Dissociation, Healing & Full-Body Presence
What if the reason you feel stuck isn’t a lack of willpower—but a lack of presence? In this episode of Unashamed and Unchained, Danny Poelman explores the often-overlooked coping mechanism of dissociation—what it is, why it shows up (especially for high-achievers), and how it keeps you disconnected from your body, your emotions, and ultimately, your goals. You’ll learn: Why dissociation is more common than you think (yes, even in “successful” people)How overthinking can become a form of emoti...
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8 months ago
27 minutes

Unshamed & Unchained: Carving Space For Self-Healing & Habit Transformation
12. Why I Like Talking About Porn Habits With People (6 Reasons)
Do you like talking about your porn habit? Other people's porn habits? Well I love it! But not in a creepy way. Let me tell you why in a way that simultaneously teaches some of the real reasons behind an unwanted porn habit. Even if you have other unwanted habits, you'll finish listening to this episode with actionable, impactful information/ideas. Don't miss it. What if your unwanted habit isn’t really about the habit at all? In this episode of Unashamed & Unchained, I dive into the real...
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8 months ago
16 minutes

Unshamed & Unchained: Carving Space For Self-Healing & Habit Transformation
11. Shifting From Shame to Growth Mindset - 2 Practical Strategies
Shame can keep you stuck in a cycle of burnout, stress, and self-sabotage—but what if you could train your brain to respond differently? In this episode of Unshamed and Unchained, we’re breaking down how to practically shift out of shame and into a mindset that fuels real, lasting change. You'll learn: ✅ Why shame shuts down your ability to learn and grow ✅ The science behind thoughts creating feelings—and how to use it to your advantage ✅ A step-by-step process to move from shame to self-com...
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9 months ago
17 minutes

Unshamed & Unchained: Carving Space For Self-Healing & Habit Transformation
10. How to Let RISE Process Impact Your Results
Feeling stuck in your habits, burnout, or personal growth? You're not alone. In this episode of Unshamed and Unchained, I dive deep into the power of group coaching and why it might be the missing link in your healing and habit transformation journey. I’ll share: ✅ The RISE framework: Rewire, Intent, Sustain, Energize ✅ Why shame and isolation block your progress—and how to overcome them ✅ How group coaching accelerates breakthroughs ✅ The surprising way your brain resists change (and how to ...
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9 months ago
23 minutes

Unshamed & Unchained: Carving Space For Self-Healing & Habit Transformation
9. Interview James Christiansen - Transforming Your Life and Habits Without Hustle
In this episode, we sit down with James Christiansen, a dynamic doctor-dad, to explore his powerful journey of mastering his mind/emotion management and transforming his unwanted pornography habit and more. In a sustainable, energy-increasing way. Discover how he redefined success in his personal and professional life, all while maintaining a high level of performance without adding more hustle or exhaustion. Learn actionable strategies to heal, sustain energy, and enrich your life so you ca...
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10 months ago
30 minutes

Unshamed & Unchained: Carving Space For Self-Healing & Habit Transformation
8. Don't Stop at Reducing Shame. What About Real Results?
In this powerful episode, we delve into the journey of Doctor-Dads navigating burnout, stress, trauma, and unwanted habits. Learn why addressing shame is only the first step and how to create sustainable change that enriches every area of your life. Tune in for actionable strategies to heal, sustain, and maintain a high level of performance—all without adding more hustle or exhaustion to your already busy life. Whether you're battling strained relationships or seeking freedom from the cycles ...
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10 months ago
17 minutes

Unshamed & Unchained: Carving Space For Self-Healing & Habit Transformation
7. Why New Year’s Resolutions Feel So Heavy (And What to Do Instead)
Are you feeling exhausted just thinking about setting New Year’s goals? You’re not alone. In this episode, Danny dives deep into why traditional goal-setting feels so heavy — especially for high-achievers like doctors and dads who are already carrying a massive load. He offers simple, practical shifts to help you rethink goals so they give you life instead of draining it. If you’re tired of the hustle and want to start the year with energy, connection, and peace, this episode is for you. Tune...
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10 months ago
28 minutes

Unshamed & Unchained: Carving Space For Self-Healing & Habit Transformation
6. Interview With an LDS Surgeon, Bryan Smedley
Bryan tells us how he uses Life Coaching vehicle to go from: exhausted, worn out, depressed to Empowered, feelings-literate, kinder to self, more positive home-life/relationships, looking forward to things more, healing his mind He says he looks forward to coaching calls, gains more energy and efficiency in life by taking time to do it, and says "Coaching on the mindset around dread/procrastination of doing patient charts affected 5 other areas of my life that week too." Tune in to get inspir...
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1 year ago
42 minutes

Unshamed & Unchained: Carving Space For Self-Healing & Habit Transformation
5. The Impoortance of Believing in Neuroplasticity (Your Brain's Ability to Change)
In this episode, we dive into the transformative power of neuroplasticity—the brain's remarkable ability to change and adapt. Join life coach Danny Poelman as he shares personal insights and scientific research on how believing in your brain's capacity for change can help you break free from old habits, heal from trauma, and achieve your goals. Tune in for 5 actionable steps to start rewiring your mind today. START WITH THIS: (FREE MINI-COURSE) 5 DAYS TO UNWIND: STRESS REDUCTION...
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1 year ago
19 minutes

Unshamed & Unchained: Carving Space For Self-Healing & Habit Transformation
4. Interview Art Hock - Breaking Lifelong Habits and Increasing Capacity
In this inspiring episode, Danny Poelman sits down with Art Hock, a former client turned thriving coach, who shares his incredible journey of overcoming deep-rooted habits and finding true empowerment. Art opens up about his struggles with people-pleasing and a phone sex addiction, amongst other things. At first, he wasn't sure Danny would work well with a "gay man." Art realized quickly after a discovery Zoom call, that Danny absolutely has room for all of him. Through t...
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1 year ago
28 minutes

Unshamed & Unchained: Carving Space For Self-Healing & Habit Transformation
3. Interview Camren Harris - Turning Habit From "Monster" to "Ant" and Building Himself
Lessons from Camren Harris's story. Rather than only focus on changing porn habit, Camren found it helpful to say, "Let's build Camren into who he wants to be." And that's what took care of the porn habit. Rather than focus on trying to find the "right" way, find what works for Camren. How he turned an unwanted habit from a "monster" to "an ant I can flick off my shoulder." How he saved his marriage. Camren is a Mindset Coach for Young Professionals, find him on Instagram: @camrenharris ...
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1 year ago
40 minutes

Unshamed & Unchained: Carving Space For Self-Healing & Habit Transformation
2. Breaking Financial Barriers: The Power of Belief and Self-Forgiveness
In this insightful episode, we delve into the often complicated relationship with money. Discover how familiar patterns from other areas of life can simplify your financial journey, the profound impact of belief on financial success, and the detrimental effects of self-deprecation. We challenge the myth that making money has to be a grind and discuss the importance of self-forgiveness in achieving financial freedom. Learn practical steps to cultivate a healthy and empower...
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1 year ago
30 minutes

Unshamed & Unchained: Carving Space For Self-Healing & Habit Transformation
1. Feeling Safe Around Money
In this episode, host Danny Poelman explores the critical connection between feeling safe around money and achieving financial success. Learn how your thoughts and feelings about money impact your financial results and discover practical strategies to reduce money-related stress. Danny shares effective exercises to reprogram your brain for financial abundance and build a positive, empowering relationship with money. 👉 Tune in now to transform your money mindset and start feeling safe around m...
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1 year ago
33 minutes

Unshamed & Unchained: Carving Space For Self-Healing & Habit Transformation
59. Make Quitting Your Porn Habit More Fun
To change a habit, you need to optimize learning in your brain. To optimize you need to stop bringing so much heaviness, shame, and self-judgment and start bringing more fun and playfulness. Danny is giving you permission to have fun while learning to do life porn-free. Even though you already had it. A few ChatGPT jokes about quitting a porn habit. Common ways seen with clients that make it not fun. Practices/strategies to make it more fun starting now. Listen to full episode now. And ...
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1 year ago
23 minutes

Unshamed & Unchained: Carving Space For Self-Healing & Habit Transformation
58. The Difference Between Wallowing and Processing Feelings
Don’t be so afraid of getting stuck in wallowing, or victim-mode, that you stay even more stuck avoiding your feelings, or wounds. The world has trained many of us to avoid feeling our uncomfortable feelings. To think something has gone wrong if negative feelings are there for “too long.” As if there is some “right” or “wrong” way to do feelings. There is no right or wrong way to do feelings. We’re going to talk about real concepts that come up regularly with real clients, that are common stu...
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1 year ago
25 minutes

Unshamed & Unchained: Carving Space For Self-Healing & Habit Transformation
57. 2 of the 6 Real Actual Problems Behind an Unwanted Porn Habit
When you know the real actual problem, you can address the real actual issue, which will allow you to create real, actual, lasting change. This is a sneak peek into Danny's new Free Video Training that he created for YOU. The Fearless Freedom From Pornography Training: How to Achieve Ultimate Victory Over Porn. Porn is not the actual problem in an unwanted porn habit. In the training, Danny goes through the 6 Real Actual Problems behind an unwanted porn habit. In this podcast episode, Dann...
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1 year ago
23 minutes

Unshamed & Unchained: Carving Space For Self-Healing & Habit Transformation
56. Success Story, How Mike Beatty Retrained His Brain
Hear how Mike Beatty 10x-ed his results compared to previous coaches/therapists/methods he had tried. Live interview with past client. Learn from what worked and didn't' work for Mike. How he created tremendous new success. START WITH THIS: Access Free Webinar Training (click here) Check out Danny's Instagram here: @dannypoelmancoaching Ready to work with Danny? Schedule a free consultation here: Work With Me Website: https://www.dannypoelman.com Danny Poelman is a certified life coac...
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1 year ago
30 minutes

Unshamed & Unchained: Carving Space For Self-Healing & Habit Transformation
55. How to Release Worry & Achieve Goals More Powerfully (with an Exercise)
How to Release Worry & Achieve Goals More Powerfully (with an Exercise You Can Try while reading) Danny Poelman is a certified life coach and helps guys stop looking at pornography (and be happy about it) and make their real life so good that porn becomes irrelevant. He created this podcast to help those who are struggling with porn in their marriage and lives, and who know deep down there's something "more" for them if they just learn the skill of doing life porn free. START WITH THIS: ...
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1 year ago
17 minutes

Unshamed & Unchained: Carving Space For Self-Healing & Habit Transformation
54. Leveraging Porn’s Plentiful Presence to Curb Cravings AND Michael’s Amazing Results
Discover practical mindset shifts to reduce pornography cravings and hear Michael's inspiring journey of breaking free from the habit for good. Whether you're struggling yourself or curious about the topic, this episode offers valuable insights and real-life client examples for lasting change. Tune in now to explore some empowering new mindset shifts and reclaim control over your impulses. Danny Poelman is a certified life coach and helps guys stop looking at pornography (and be happy ab...
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1 year ago
23 minutes

Unshamed & Unchained: Carving Space For Self-Healing & Habit Transformation
What does it really take to go from feeling out of control, frustrated, and hopeless... to feeling empowered, free from your habit, and confident that it’s going to last? In this episode, I share Tim A’s powerful journey through habit transformation, emotional healing, and long-term change. You’ll hear the exact elements that helped him go from short-lived streaks to deep rewiring—and what made this time feel different. I’ll break it all down into simple but powerful questions for you to refl...