Send us a text A bagel, a backache, and a bold claim: attention is the real love language. We kick off the new year by setting a concrete fitness goal and running straight into the toughest part—dessert. It’s not just about calories; it’s about ritual, comfort, and why “healthy” swaps flop when they miss the itch you’re trying to scratch. That same theme of attention shows up in dating, where a 30‑minute drive somehow becomes a bill for dinner, tickets, and a bed. We unpack entitlement, first...
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Send us a text A bagel, a backache, and a bold claim: attention is the real love language. We kick off the new year by setting a concrete fitness goal and running straight into the toughest part—dessert. It’s not just about calories; it’s about ritual, comfort, and why “healthy” swaps flop when they miss the itch you’re trying to scratch. That same theme of attention shows up in dating, where a 30‑minute drive somehow becomes a bill for dinner, tickets, and a bed. We unpack entitlement, first...
Modern Traditional: Choosing Monogamy In A Mix-And-Match Dating World
we are NOT the SAME
46 minutes
3 weeks ago
Modern Traditional: Choosing Monogamy In A Mix-And-Match Dating World
Send us a text Dating today can feel like a grab bag: monogamy, polyamory, open relationships, friends with benefits, even lavender marriages. We’ve sampled the spectrum, lived through some wild chapters, and come out choosing “modern traditional”—a partnership built on exclusivity, clear roles, and mutual respect, without giving up autonomy, careers, or a voice at home. Think: you cook, I’ll do the dishes; you fix the car, I’ll pack the lunch; we both show up, and we both have a say. We ope...
we are NOT the SAME
Send us a text A bagel, a backache, and a bold claim: attention is the real love language. We kick off the new year by setting a concrete fitness goal and running straight into the toughest part—dessert. It’s not just about calories; it’s about ritual, comfort, and why “healthy” swaps flop when they miss the itch you’re trying to scratch. That same theme of attention shows up in dating, where a 30‑minute drive somehow becomes a bill for dinner, tickets, and a bed. We unpack entitlement, first...
