Send us a text A bagel, a backache, and a bold claim: attention is the real love language. We kick off the new year by setting a concrete fitness goal and running straight into the toughest part—dessert. It’s not just about calories; it’s about ritual, comfort, and why “healthy” swaps flop when they miss the itch you’re trying to scratch. That same theme of attention shows up in dating, where a 30‑minute drive somehow becomes a bill for dinner, tickets, and a bed. We unpack entitlement, first...
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Send us a text A bagel, a backache, and a bold claim: attention is the real love language. We kick off the new year by setting a concrete fitness goal and running straight into the toughest part—dessert. It’s not just about calories; it’s about ritual, comfort, and why “healthy” swaps flop when they miss the itch you’re trying to scratch. That same theme of attention shows up in dating, where a 30‑minute drive somehow becomes a bill for dinner, tickets, and a bed. We unpack entitlement, first...
Two best friends try to record a structured show, accidentally make it therapy, and end up solving nothing—but laughing at everything
we are NOT the SAME
50 minutes
2 months ago
Two best friends try to record a structured show, accidentally make it therapy, and end up solving nothing—but laughing at everything
Send us a text Ever notice how a “quick catch-up” turns into the real show? We slide under a mountain of blankets, confess the latest ADHD detours, and admit that structure doesn’t stand a chance when life is shifting—work, weather, relationships, and energy. The good news: there’s wisdom in the wobble. We talk through fan love, being watched online, and choosing a quiet season when you need it. We unpack an 18-month friendship break we repaired with accountability, then share the tiny script...
we are NOT the SAME
Send us a text A bagel, a backache, and a bold claim: attention is the real love language. We kick off the new year by setting a concrete fitness goal and running straight into the toughest part—dessert. It’s not just about calories; it’s about ritual, comfort, and why “healthy” swaps flop when they miss the itch you’re trying to scratch. That same theme of attention shows up in dating, where a 30‑minute drive somehow becomes a bill for dinner, tickets, and a bed. We unpack entitlement, first...
