A single joke can carry a lifetime of weight. Michelle opens up about the mother-in-law comments that seemed playful on the surface but hit a deep nerve, reigniting shame around sexuality, identity, and belonging. What starts as a family story becomes a blueprint for how high-achieving women can stop performing for approval, listen to their bodies, and draw boundaries that protect dignity. We walk through the uncomfortable middle: when a partner doesn’t notice the harm, when “respectin...

The world loves a tidy story: first-gen student, full scholarship, senior year, future secured. Then the plot twists, pregnancy upends the script, and the “golden child” glow collides with cultural, family, and personal expectations. Michelle opens the door to the moment everything changed and the long stretch after, where shame tried to set the tempo and achievement became a mask that looked like success but felt like distance. We walk through the rationalizations, the late-night plans, and...

Secrets don’t dissolve with time; they calcify into the ways we love, work, and parent. Michelle opens a private vault to talk about molestation, a family’s denial, and the heavy cost of silence—especially in spaces where image is prized and sex is taboo. We trace the path from being the “perfect” high achiever to recognizing how buried pain turns into masks that seem protective but slowly suffocate joy. Across this conversation, we unpack the shock of a family meeting that should have...

The moments that shape us are not always loud. Sometimes it’s a quiet look in a crowded room, a careless joke in the back of a Jeep, or the way a family talks about people who look like you. Michelle opens up about growing up half Black and half Indian in Jamaica—immersed in Indian culture, carrying the family name, and still absorbing messages that her features and Blackness made her lesser. That gap between outward pride and inner doubt became the fuel for relentless performance: the ...