Hi all! I wanted to let you know that I'm taking a little break from recording new weekly episodes because I really misjudged how much time it takes on top of running Sunhorse Weddings and, most importantly, editing my upcoming book, "Big Day DIY, How to plan your own wedding like a pro". I apologize for the pause, but all the past episodes and resources are still available at bigdaydiy.com. I'm also looking for beta testers for my book, which is packed with checklists, logistics, and m...

Hey there, love birds! Welcome back to Big Day DIY. Today we are diving into how to make the most of your destination wedding site visit. Whether you're still choosing your wedding location or have already booked your dream venue, this trip is key! I'll guide you on why seeing your destination in person is so important. I’ll cover how to plan your budget-friendly site visit travel and accommodations, like looking for hotel site visit specials or checking out Airbnb. We'll figure out the best ...

Welcome to Big Day DIY! In this episode, Tiffany Lanier guides you through the crucial steps of planning your dream destination wedding. Learn how to select the perfect wedding venue by considering capacity, full-service versus DIY options, weather backup plans, and budget. Discover how to find accommodations for your guests that fit their needs and your vision, whether it's a resort attached to your venue or nearby hotels and rental houses. Get practical tips on negotiating...

In this "Big Day DIY" podcast episode Tiffany Lanier guides couples through the exciting yet sometimes overwhelming process of choosing the perfect destination for their wedding. She reminds listeners that it's not just about picking a pretty backdrop, but about crafting an unforgettable experience that their guests will actually be able to attend and enjoy. Here’s what the episode covers: Dream Destination Brainstorm: Tiffany encourages couples to let their imaginations run wild, envisioning...

Are you considering a destination wedding but feeling unsure if it’s the right choice for you and your guests? 🌴💍 Imagine saying “I do” with your toes in the sand, overlooking a breathtaking mountaintop, or inside a charming European villa. Sounds dreamy, right? But before you book those flights and send out your Save the Dates, let’s talk about the realities of planning a wedding away from home. In this episode of Big Day DIY, wedding planner and destination wedding expert Tiffany Lanier bre...

Dreaming of the perfect wedding but unsure if you need a professional planner? In this episode of the Big Day DIY Podcast, host Tiffany Lanier—wedding planner extraordinaire—breaks down the key differences between a full-service planner, a day-of coordinator, and a venue-provided coordinator. From deciding your venue’s role to managing DIY logistics, Tiffany dives into real-life scenarios and practical advice to help you figure out what kind of support (if any) you might need. Spoiler alert: ...

Telling your parents you’re engaged should be a moment of joy, but let’s be real—it often comes with a side of tricky conversations. From financial contributions to guest lists and boundaries, this episode of the Big Day DIY Podcast has you covered. Tiffany Lanier shares actionable steps to prepare for these chats with confidence and grace, ensuring you stay true to your wedding vision while fostering collaboration. Learn how to navigate sensitive topics like ‘parental guest invites,’ money t...

Planning a wedding is exciting, but deciding who does what and tackling potential challenges can feel overwhelming. In this episode of the Big Day DIY Podcast, host Tiffany Lanier guides you and your partner through the essential steps of assigning roles in the wedding planning process. We will discuss: •How to decide each person’s level of involvement in planning. •Questions to ask your partner to set clear expectations. •Strategies for avoiding common planning pitfalls, like financial confl...

This podcast episode walks listeners through critical pre-wedding planning discussions. The focus is on four key areas: Vision, Location, Budget, and Guest List. Tiffany emphasizes that open communication and compromise between partners are essential to create a solid foundation for the wedding planning journey. Before researching vendors or making any decisions, couples should figure out what each of them wants in each of the Big 4 categories. A worksheet is provided to help with this. Liste...

In this episode of Big Day DIY, Tiffany Lanier shares the essential conversations every couple needs to have before diving into wedding planning—or even before saying “Yes!” to the proposal. Weddings are temporary, but marriage is forever, and laying the groundwork for a strong partnership starts with asking the right questions. From managing finances and setting family boundaries to navigating health decisions and understanding each other’s conflict styles, Tiffany explores the “Big Wedded L...

In this very first episode of Big Day DIY, host Tiffany Lanier introduces herself and the heart behind this podcast. Tiffany shares her journey from helping her best friend plan a destination wedding in Isla Mujeres, Mexico, to founding SunHorse Weddings and spending over 22 years planning weddings with a unique, client-first approach.This episode sets the stage for what Big Day DIY is all about: empowering couples to plan their dream weddings with tools, knowledge, and confidence. Tiffany ex...