Welcome to a truly extraordinary episode where I sit down with Max, a man whose life story defies conventional paths and radiates an infectious curiosity. From the moment we started, I was captivated by his candidness, beginning with the fascinating reason behind changing his birth name to "Max" upon arriving in America (0:07) – a decision rooted in practicality and a touch of old Hollywood cool.

Max's journey began in a small German town, but his heart beat to an American rhythm, fueled by a deep love for blues, bluegrass, and the gritty allure of 40s noir literature (3:06). His early fascination wasn't just a hobby; it was a compass, guiding him to major in American literature and, ultimately, to New York City in 1989 as a journalist (16:04). His account of those initial months, living next to Katherine Hepburn and defying expectations to stay in the US, felt like something out of a movie. I loved hearing about his unique journalistic assignments, including riding Route 66 four times, which led to a bestselling book and an award-winning CD-ROM (20:49)!

One of my biggest takeaways was Max's belief that America liberates the spirit, fostering an environment where "audacity is encouraged" (43:10) and failure is seen as a stepping stone. This contrasts sharply with the stifling mindset he observed in Europe, a point I deeply resonated with as someone who believes in "fail culture" not just as a concept but as a lived experience. We also delved into his surprising cultural shocks, particularly around social interactions (31:36), and his deep appreciation for American diner culture (36:40), which he fondly calls "the democratic restaurant of the new world."

But Max's story doesn't stop there. Disillusioned with journalism after a major scandal (58:00), he completely reinvented himself, first as a children's apparel entrepreneur, then as a winemaker. A personal decision to stop drinking alcohol led to his most recent, incredibly innovative project: Glass Rose, a line of sparkling non-alcoholic beverages made from unfermented grapes (1:30:15). It’s a testament to his boundless creativity and willingness to embrace new challenges, even at 66 years old. His definition of "home" as an "emotion" (1:42:25) beautifully encapsulates his entire journey.

Join me for an inspiring conversation that explores chasing dreams, embracing change, and finding home not in a place, but within yourself.

In this episode, I had the privilege of speaking with Wells Jones, a man whose life story is nothing short of an epic adventure. Wells, along with his partner Miles Spencer, embarked on an audacious journey in 2006, retracing T.E. Lawrence's path through the Middle East. What truly captivated me wasn't just the destination, but the sheer, mind-boggling preparation that went into it.

Imagine spending eight months preparing for a trip through Saudi Arabia, Jordan, and Syria – not as soldiers, but as civilians, in the volatile post-9/11 era. Wells shares how they had to draft wills, secure international kidnap and ransom insurance, and even undergo specialized conflict and risk assessment training (04:05), led by a former SAS major who once guarded Princes Harry and William. It's truly a testament to their commitment!

Their adventure was a fascinating blend of historical exploration and cutting-edge (for 2006!) technology. I was absolutely amazed to hear about their Motorola Razr phones, a satellite phone that doubled as a weapon (07:39), and their Panasonic Toughbook – which I promptly Googled – powered by a roll-out solar panel. And get this: they even had a Broadband Global Access Network (BGAN) terminal for *satellite internet in the desert* (13:34)! This wasn't just a trip; it was a self-contained, high-tech expedition into the unknown.

Beyond the gear, Wells shares deeply personal encounters: the chaotic border crossings at gunpoint (20:57), the surprising welcome from Saudi citizens, including Prince Khalid bin Faisal himself, who apologized for 9/11 (26:44). But the most profoundly moving moment for me was hearing about their driver, Mahmoud, a Palestinian whose visceral hatred for Israel was palpable during a tense checkpoint encounter (36:35), and the raw, tearful confession of a Saudi friend whose own village produced 9/11 terrorists (1:11:03). These stories aren't just history; they're heart-wrenching human experiences.

Wells and Miles later penned the incredible book, *A Line in the Sand*, which, as I discovered, masterfully blends historical accuracy with captivating fiction, including a time-travel device to revisit pivotal moments. My key takeaway from Wells's wisdom is his emphasis on "graciousness" as a universal language (49:56) and his message to the next generation: trust yourself, fully engage with where you are, cultivate curiosity, and *take action*.

This conversation is a powerful reminder that understanding comes from truly listening and immersing yourself in different cultures, not just from headlines. Dive in and prepare to be inspired!

Hello, and welcome back to the podcast! I recently had the incredible pleasure of sitting down with Adam and Gabby Gonzalez, a dynamic couple who made the bold move from Southern and Northern California to Valencia, Spain, with their two daughters. Their story is a masterclass in intentional living and a powerful reminder that sometimes, you’re not running from anything, but towards a life you’ve always dreamt of.

From the very beginning, I was captivated by their "why." As Gabby shared her experiences as a Crime Scene Investigator for 15 intense years, and Adam spoke of his remote work, it became clear that the pandemic acted as a pivotal moment for them. Like many of us, COVID-19 forced a re-evaluation of priorities, highlighting the grind of daily life versus precious family time. I deeply resonated with their realisation that there’s indeed "life after work," a stark contrast to the relentless pace many of us experience (04:41).

Their journey to Spain was incredibly thoughtful. We delved into their decision-making process, from initially considering places like Texas or Florida, to exploring Portugal, and finally choosing Valencia over bustling Madrid or party-centric Barcelona. What struck me was their unwavering commitment to integrating, especially wanting their daughters to be fully bilingual. This dedication shone through even when tackling the infamous "Spainful" bureaucracy (07:52), a challenge they smartly navigated with professional help, something I always advocate for when making such a monumental life change.

One of my biggest takeaways from our conversation was the profound cultural shifts they experienced. Adam's initial struggle with "sobremesa" the Spanish tradition of long, leisurely post-meal conversations against his American programming for efficiency was hilarious and incredibly relatable. And Gabby’s love for the daily cafe culture versus the "to-go" lifestyle of the US truly highlighted Europe's slower, more present pace. But perhaps the most eye-opening part was our discussion on the transformative walking culture (27:03). Hearing Adam boast about walking 24,000 steps in a day, compared to his 600 back home, underscored the drastic difference in daily movement and overall well-being. It sparked a personal reflection on the often-sedentary habits we fall into, and how movement can drastically improve our quality of life.

We also touched on the stark difference in perceived safety, particularly concerning their daughters' independence. And of course, being the food enthusiast I am, our chat about Valencia’s incredible fresh markets and the unexpected craving for spice was a highlight!

Ultimately, Adam and Gabby's story, particularly the feeling of truly "feeling human" that Spain offers (1:14:30), resonated deeply with me. It reinforced my own belief that "home is a feeling, not a place," and that stepping outside your "village"—no matter how big or small is a gift that broadens horizons and connects you with your true self.

Tune in to hear how they navigated this exciting new chapter, from their first "holy crap" moment to their vision for the future. Their candidness, humor, and refreshing perspective will inspire anyone dreaming of a different path.

Buckle up, because this episode with Greg was a wild ride, and I mean that literally! We kicked things off talking about my latest thrill on the Autobahn, hitting speeds most people only dream of (0:37). But beyond the adrenaline, this led us down a fascinating road trip through the impact of technology on society, exploring how everything feels so slow once you step off that fast lane (2:07).

I was so excited to dive deep into the future of humanity, especially with Greg's insights on AI and automation. We pondered how AI is already reshaping our job market and the critical question of what kind of economy exists when machines can fulfill most human needs (25:20). It’s not just about jobs; we also got into the alarming ways AI is being used for narrative shaping and manipulation on social media (31:10). This made me reflect on my own experiences growing up in communist Romania, where the state meticulously controlled information (12:46), drawing eerie parallels to today's digital landscape.

But it wasn't all dystopian. We explored the incredible potential of AI in medicine, particularly its diagnostic capabilities and pattern recognition that could revolutionize healthcare, supporting doctors and saving lives (38:28). This led us to a deeply personal discussion on health and biohacking. I shared my journey with extended fasting and how the body’s innate regenerative processes like autophagy are truly mind-blowing (52:33). We even touched on cutting-edge DNA manipulation and the mRNA vaccine (45:50) – pushing the boundaries of what it means to be human.

What truly stuck with me from this conversation was the stark contrast in lifestyles we observed globally. We compared the "live to work" mentality of some cultures with the "work to live" philosophy in places like Southern Europe, where community and family time are paramount (1:33:29). This brought us to questions of societal purpose, the ethics of war in an age of advanced weaponry (1:41:56), and even the philosophical implications of immortality and how we measure time (1:21:01).

This episode is a journey through speed, technology, human nature, and the quest for meaning. My key takeaway? We're at a pivotal moment where understanding our past and questioning our "progress" is more crucial than ever. This conversation, while diverging from our usual Cosmos University focus, set the perfect stage for our next deep dive into ancient wisdom. I promise, you won't want to miss it!

In this episode, I had the immense pleasure of sitting down with Arjun Chhabra, whose journey I've come to call 'From Heartbreak in India to Healing in Spain.' I first connected with Arjun after seeing one of his Reddit posts, drawn in by the raw honesty of his story, and quickly realized he was a perfect fit for Whereabouts Tales, embodying the very spirit of transformation.

Arjun shares the profoundly personal story of his mother's battle with breast cancer and her tragic passing in 2013 [1:21, 2:40]. This devastating loss plunged him into depression, leading to significant weight gain and a complete loss of direction. I truly felt his pain as he recounted those difficult months of helplessness, searching for answers and finding none.

He then opens up about his upbringing in bustling Mumbai, challenging the stereotypes of India we often see. We delve into his unique experience with an arranged marriage [18:38, 20:26], a process that for him, involved surprising honesty and self-discovery.

The conversation takes a fascinating turn as Arjun recounts his and his wife’s brave decision to sell everything and move to Spain in late 2019 [32:16], only to be met by the global pandemic [33:32]. This unforeseen challenge forced a major pivot from their organic clothing brand to a deep dive into wellness, reinvesting everything into studying functional medicine and herbalism. I was captivated by their resilience and adaptability.

Arjun is now a Mind Expansion Coach, and his insights into the mind-body connection are truly transformative. He explains how our state of mind dictates our well-being [1:09:31], the importance of living in the present moment, and how trauma—even daily stress—can manifest physically. I found his distinction between easy and hard choices, and the long-term impact on our lives, particularly powerful.

My key takeaway from our chat is Arjun's profound belief that healing comes from within, through acceptance and an alignment with our true purpose. It's about letting go of emotional baggage and connecting with our higher selves [1:18:05]. He’s dedicated to making wellness accessible through an upcoming online resource library, a book, and even a wellness center in Spain [1:18:41, 1:21:25, 1:25:11]. This conversation is a testament to resilience, purpose, and the incredible power of self-healing. Tune in for a truly inspiring and thought-provoking listen!

Chapters

00:00 Introduction

01:17 Arjun's Journey: From India to Spain

04:06 The Impact of Personal Loss

07:18 Growing Up in India: Cultural Insights

10:29 Education and Class Systems in India

13:29 The Journey to Self-Discovery

16:23 The Illusion of Happiness

18:54 Family Support and Personal Growth

19:02 Arranged Marriages: A Cultural Perspective

24:44 The Journey of Arranged Marriage

27:59 Transitioning to Entrepreneurship

31:08 Exploring Health and Wellness

33:26 Relocating to Spain: Challenges and Adaptations

41:44 Cultural Shifts and Culinary Experiences

48:37 Mind Expansion and Self-Healing

01:03:43 Understanding Individual Health Solutions

01:08:43 The Role of Inflammation in Healing

01:11:14 Mindset and Trauma's Impact on Health

01:15:24 Spirituality and Healing Perspectives

01:20:03 Creating Accessible Wellness Resources

01:22:42 The Journey of Writing a Wellness Book

01:26:20 Future Plans for a Wellness Center

01:28:23 The Importance of Purpose Over Profit

01:30:16 Rapid Fire Insights and Reflections

01:37:37 OUTRO

In this episode, I had the immense pleasure of diving deep into the extraordinary journey of Wells Jones, a man who, as I playfully suggested, seems to have lived several lives already. From the moment he started sharing his story, I was captivated, and I know you will be too. Imagine jumping out of a plane over the South Pole, surviving the extreme conditions of Antarctica, and then walking into an acting school in New York City – that’s just a glimpse into Wells’s remarkable path.

Wells's incredible adaptability and courage were forged early. Born on an army base and growing up in a bustling household of six kids after losing his father at a young age, he shared a profound insight from his mother: "I think you can do this." This simple belief became a guiding principle, acting as a recurring "tap on the shoulder" throughout his life, akin to the famous Churchill quote he shares (0:08, 0:58:18). This philosophy of embracing opportunities, even when unprepared, truly resonated with me.

His decision to join the Navy was a quest for adventure, leading him to the breathtaking and brutal landscape of Antarctica as part of the Antarctic Parachute Rescue Team (0:20:59, 0:26:38). Wells vividly describes precision skydiving, crevasse rescues, and facing unimaginable conditions—like jumping from a C-130 into -59 degree Fahrenheit winds, a moment where he literally felt his hand freeze and thaw in 60 seconds (0:34:57). The raw struggle against nature and the reliance on primitive gear (0:37:04) offered powerful lessons in focus and responsibility.

From the sub-zero training grounds, Wells pivoted to the stage, embarking on a fascinating acting career (0:43:13). He shares how a tough instructor taught him to "stop thinking too much and just be yourself" (0:45:53)—a lesson in authenticity that profoundly impacted his approach to life and performance. This led him into directing high-profile productions at places like Lincoln Center and the Kennedy Center (0:54:30, 0:57:24), orchestrating grand events with legendary figures.

But the adventures didn't stop there. Wells recounts an audacious plan to trek through the Middle East, tracing T.E. Lawrence's path, a journey that involved 8 months of intense preparation, kidnap & ransom insurance, and an unwavering resolve even after hearing news of a hotel bombing (1:26:00, 1:27:48).

Today, Wells is at the forefront of a groundbreaking venture called Reflector (SolTech), a company that uses AI to connect us with loved ones who have passed on. Imagine having an AI-powered conversation with a departed family member, hearing their voice, and revisiting their stories and nuanced responses (0:14:13). This technology is truly pushing the boundaries of legacy and remembrance, making the abstract idea of an "online obituary" a deeply personal and interactive experience.

My biggest takeaway from speaking with Wells is the profound power of embracing "flow" (1:01:41)—not passively, but by fully engaging with each opportunity, learning from every challenge, and trusting that the right path will unfold. This episode is a testament to human resilience, curiosity, and the boundless possibilities that emerge when you say "yes" to life's taps on the shoulder. You won't want to miss a single moment of Wells's incredible story.

Join me on a truly special episode of Wereabout Tales as he chats with Anthony and Sam, an inspiring American couple who made the unconventional leap to move to Romania. Anthony, who was adopted from Romania as an infant, and his wife Sam, to explore their incredible journey.

From the outset, their story challenges perceptions. They delve into the stark cultural differences between the US and Romania, discussing the decline of community in America post-9/11 and the profound sense of belonging they discovered in their new home (0:57). Anthony shares the deeply personal and emotional tale of tracing his biological roots, a journey initiated by Sam's curiosity, and the surreal experience of reuniting with his birth family through the 'Never Forgotten Romanian Children' network (16:43). The conversation poignantly addresses the 'trolley problem' of his adoption, revealing the heartbreaking circumstances of extreme poverty his Roma family faced in post-communist Romania (35:53), offering a rare and empathetic perspective on a complex issue.

Their decision to leave the overwhelming grind of New York life for Romania wasn't instantaneous but solidified after Sam's unexpected panic attack post-holiday (47:58). They candidly discuss the challenges—from navigating Romanian bureaucracy, including Anthony's complex citizenship process (50:54), to the surprisingly difficult task of apartment hunting with two cats (1:05:02). Yet, they’ve found unexpected joys, like discovering a passion for making music (1:07:30) and embracing local delicacies like *slanina* and *pufuleti* (1:31:04).

Anthony and Sam's journey is a powerful testament to open-mindedness and embracing the unknown. They encourage listeners, especially prospective expats, to 'leave your preconceived notions about Romania at the door' (1:23:10) and discover its rich, diverse regions and warm hospitality. Living in Sibiu, they continue to immerse themselves in Romanian life, with exciting plans including recording their second album and potentially buying a home. This episode is a must-listen for anyone curious about life abroad, cultural exchange, or the profound power of self-discovery.

Embark on a captivating intellectual journey with author Brian Cranley as he unveils his groundbreaking book, "The Call of Wonder." In this profound episode, Brian shares the fascinating story behind his work, which brilliantly bridges the perceived chasm between science and faith.

Brian, with a unique background spanning biomedical engineering and five years in seminary studying philosophy and theology, reveals how these seemingly disparate worlds spectacularly collided. His "aha moment" (01:03), sparked by a Fermilab video on the Big Bang (05:26), revealed an astonishing parallel between modern physics' description of the early universe (unified mass, energy, and forces) and ancient philosophical concepts like divine simplicity – describing God as perfectly indivisible and unified.

"The Call of Wonder" invites listeners to explore this "God of reason" (16:10), a centuries-old conversation from Plato to Aquinas, providing philosophical arguments for God's existence that modern education often overlooks. Brian explains how classical wisdom helps us understand immaterial concepts like truth, beauty, and goodness, laying a foundation for deeper meaning.

Dive into the "Three Miracles of Science" – the universe, life, and the human mind (21:16). Brian poses critical questions: How did matter and energy emerge from nothing? How did living cells arise from non-living matter? And what truly explains the vast chasm of human consciousness compared to other animals? He suggests that these aren't just scientific puzzles, but profound instances where the supernatural touches the natural world.

Discover why "wonder" is not just an emotion but a "call" (12:15) – an innate human drive to seek understanding that unifies philosophy, theology, and science. Brian discusses how nurturing this sense of wonder can serve as a spiritual practice (43:01), offering a powerful antidote to modern cynicism and burnout, providing perspective and mental peace in our daily lives (40:57). He also shares valuable insights on how parents can foster this wonder in their children (47:35), encouraging a balanced view of science and faith.

Whether you're a staunch scientist, a person of faith, or simply seeking deeper answers, this conversation promises to challenge your perspectives and reignite your own call to wonder. Brian wrote this book for those who feel science has made faith obsolete, offering a compelling narrative that celebrates compatibility rather than conflict (38:06).

In this conversation, Joe shares his migration journey from the UK to a small village in Switzerland, discussing the challenges and triumphs of adapting to a new life. He reflects on the impact of COVID-19 on his family, the cultural integration process, and the language barriers he faces. Joe also highlights the beauty of the Swiss countryside and the importance of balancing work and family life as an expat. He expresses nostalgia for British pub culture and the high cost of childcare in Switzerland, ultimately finding a sense of home in his new environment. In this engaging conversation, Paul and Joe explore the cultural nuances of living in Switzerland, touching on language barriers, regional differences, and the unexpected divisions within the country. They share personal experiences about family life, the cost of living, and the challenges of adapting to Swiss customs, including the peculiarities of Sunday closures. The discussion also delves into the joys of exploring hidden gems in Switzerland and the nostalgia of home, reflecting on the complexities of living abroad and the importance of understanding oneself in the process.

Chapters

00:00 Introduction and Cultural Shock

01:55 Migration Journey: From the UK to Switzerland

04:44 Life in a Rural Swiss Village

08:07 Navigating the Challenges of Relocation

10:52 Language Barriers and Integration

13:48 Cultural Differences and Community Dynamics

16:54 Childcare and Family Life in Switzerland

20:05 Reflections on Swiss Life and Nostalgia

22:49 The Cost of Living and Economic Migration

25:53 Food Culture and Culinary Adaptation

29:03 Conclusion: Balancing Life as an Expat

34:33 Culinary Experiences in Germany and Switzerland

37:04 Exploring Nature Walks in Switzerland

41:02 Feeling at Home in Switzerland

44:33 Cultural Differences and Missing Home

46:46 Navigating the Legal Landscape in Switzerland

48:53 House Buying Experience in Switzerland

51:10 Unexpected Aspects of Swiss Culture

54:46 Language Barriers and Regional Differences

58:31 Family Adventures in Amusement Parks

01:01:06 Hidden Gems in Switzerland

01:04:36 Skiing and Outdoor Adventures

01:08:17 Cost of Living in Switzerland vs Germany

01:10:37 Cultural Differences in Child Safety

01:16:02 Rapid Fire Questions and Fun Comparisons

01:28:42 Reflections on Home and Nostalgia

01:34:45 OUTRO

Dive into this inspiring conversation with Richie Billing, who left behind a legal career to embrace his passion for fantasy writing. Discover the bold decisions, struggles, and creative breakthroughs behind his journey from courtrooms to crafting gritty, character-driven worlds. Richie and Paul explore how personal backgrounds shape storytelling, the power of hope, and why representation and authenticity matter in modern fantasy. If you love tales of risk, resilience, and the magic of everyday people, this episode is for you

You can find Richie Billing’s latest writing, stories, and podcasts on his Patreon at https://www.patreon.com/cw/RichieBilling. He’s also got a website: richiebilling.com, where you’ll discover his guides, resources for writers, and everything about his fantasy work—plus, he’s easy to spot with a quick Google search too. Whether you want to read his novels, listen to interviews, or join his creative community, those are the best places to connect and keep up with Richie’s journey.

00:00 Highlights & Intro

00:31 Influences

02:34 The Role of Fantasy in Life

05:49 Character Development and Realism

08:48 The Impact of Family Background

11:46 Writing Style and Genre Preferences

14:46 The Magic of Storytelling

18:09 Building a Fantasy World

21:03 Exploring Good vs Evil

23:00 Politics and Writing

27:05 Character Development in Together We Rise

33:09 The Role of Music in Storytelling

38:06 Personal Connections in Writing

41:02 The Journey of Self-Publishing

45:57 Podcasting and Creative Community

56:11 The Joy of Mentoring Writers

01:00:19 Wearing Many Hats: The Multifaceted Life of a Writer

01:01:45 Nature as Inspiration for Writing

01:02:58 The Writing Process: Daily Routines and Midnight Sessions

01:04:13 Music and Storytelling: The Soundtrack of Creativity

01:05:44 The Power of Fantasy in Storytelling

01:07:21 Rapid Fire Round: Insights and Favorites

01:18:49 Life-Changing Books and Future Aspirations

01:23:07 OUTRO

Join us for a heartfelt conversation with Paul Hughes as he opens up about the challenges and transformations of expat life. Discover what it means to be a “permanent stranger” navigating identity, belonging, and the search for home in foreign lands. This episode explores culture shock, personal growth, and the realities behind the romanticized notion of moving abroad.

Connect with Paul Hughes:
https://paulhughespodcasting.carrd.co

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Chapters

00:00 Highlights + Intro

01:05 From Swindon to Amsterdam

03:41 Cultural Adjustments in Amsterdam

06:41 Life in Germany: Frankfurt to Wiesbaden

09:44 The Challenges of Being an Expat in Germany

12:44 Navigating Language Barriers

15:45 Food, Drink, and Local Traditions

18:29 Exploring German Cities: A Mixed Experience

21:39 Sports and Community Integration

24:39 Reflections on Cultural Differences

27:51 The Impact of Brexit on Expat Life

49:55 Life in Germany: Cycling and Culture

56:43 Driving in Germany: The Autobahn Experience

01:02:55 Cultural Integration: Feeling at Home in Germany

01:10:59 Changing Perspectives: The Impact of Living Abroad

01:13:06 Advice for Expats: Navigating Life in Germany

01:41:26 Outro

Discover how software engineer Tim O'Hearn made $500K using Instagram growth hacks and bots in this eye-opening episode. Tim (https://timohearn.beehiiv.com/subscribe) reveals the secret world of social media automation, fake followers, and Instagram algorithm manipulation. If you're curious about how some accounts grow overnight and want a behind-the-scenes look at growth hacking's dark side, this episode is a must-listen. Perfect for marketers, entrepreneurs, and anyone fascinated by social media's real mechanics.

Tune in for insider stories, ethical dilemmas, and a candid look at Instagram’s hidden growth tactics.

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How often have you seen Instagram accounts explode overnight and thought, "OMG, how did they grow so fast?!" Now it’s your turn to share! Listen to the episode and tell us your wildest "OMG, how did they grow so fast?" story — whether it’s your own or someone you know.

Also, take a guess: How many fake Instagram engagements did Tim O’Hearn automate? Drop your story and guess in the comments or reply to our social post.

One lucky winner will get Framed: A Villain's Perspective on Social Media, Don’t forget to follow us and share it to a friend who loves Instagram mysteries.

What happens when a spontaneous job offer on Facebook sends an American from D.C. to Berlin’s booming startup scene? In this episode, Hank Smith shares the unfiltered story of his decade-long adventure in Germany, a journey that started with the shock of a rundown airport and the miracle of finding an apartment in three days.

Dive into the highs and lows of expat life as Hank recounts his battles with German bureaucracy, the frustrating (and hilarious) attempts to learn the language, and the cultural quirks that define life in Berlin, from its impossible housing market to the mandatory Sunday shutdown.

This isn't just a story about moving abroad; it's about building a life, forging deep friendships, and learning to live in the moment. Follow Hank’s journey as he navigates work, culture, and identity, eventually leading him back to the U.S. for a new adventure on wheels. Tune in for a candid conversation about what it truly means to find your place in the world.

Chapters

00:00 Introduction and Connection Rituals

03:34 Hank's Journey from D.C. to Berlin

06:32 Family Background and Travel Influences

09:19 The Decision to Move to Germany

12:32 First Impressions of Berlin

15:22 Navigating the Housing Market in Berlin

18:24 Cultural Differences and Adaptation

21:07 The Challenges of City Registration and Bureaucracy

31:13 Navigating Bureaucracy in Germany

36:17 First Day at Work: Cultural Adjustments

38:24 Building Social Connections in a New Country

43:22 The Evolution of Berlin's Food Scene

50:38 Language Barriers and Learning German

58:45 Unique German Words and Their Meanings

01:02:29 The Scripted Nature of Language

01:04:25 Misunderstandings and Language Nuances

01:06:50 Navigating Social Norms in Germany

01:07:53 Cultural Differences: Sunday Closures

01:13:10 The Complexity of Moving Back

01:15:27 The Loop Back: Reflections on Change

01:21:23 Contrasting Cultures: Germany vs. America

01:27:53 Finding Humanity Amidst Chaos

01:35:31 Navigating Bureaucracy: A Personal Journey

01:39:50 Cultural Reflections: America vs. Germany

01:46:55 Transformation Through Experience: The Impact of Living Abroad

01:49:20 Redefining Home: A Search for Belonging

01:52:20 Rapid Fire: Fun Insights and Cultural Comparisons

02:06:25 Outro

Join me, as I sit down with Christian and Damien, the hilarious duo behind the "Remain Rome Return" podcast, for an episode that's equal parts laughter and life lessons. We dive into their journey from our shared Midwest roots in Nebraska to Damien's big-city adventures in LA, sharing stories of friendship forged in Omaha, culture shocks that hit hard, and why some of us roam while others return home. From debating the merits of Nebraska's Runza burgers and raccoon-watching dinners at the Alpine Inn to obsessing over deep-fried pickles, jalapeño chips, and the sacred art of ranch dressing, we geek out on food, travel mishaps like marathon cancellations and packing fails, and the surprises of podcasting life. I throw in some rapid-fire questions, we bust LA stereotypes, and ponder if anywhere truly feels like "home" after you've wandered. It's a fun, unfiltered chat full of comedic tangents, expat insights, and that signature curiosity you know from my show, guaranteed to leave you smiling (and maybe hungry for sunflower seeds or a gallon of ranch). 🎙️✈️

After 15 years as a practical engineer following his parents’ plan, Jeremie André shares how a devastating pregnancy loss in France ignited a radical shift: learning English in Australia, building an online yoga and consulting business, and embracing the nomad lifestyle across Serbia, Mexico, Thailand and beyond. Discover how grief became the catalyst for freedom, why a simple fear-setting exercise helped him quit his engineering job, and how meditation, community and risk-taking unlocked his path from a tiny village near Perpignan to global adventure. Whether you’re stuck in a 9-to-5, craving more purpose, or curious about digital nomad life, this raw, inspiring story will challenge everything you thought you knew about work, happiness and what truly matters.

Chapters:

0:00 Introduction

01:05 Welcome and Current Location

01:31 Growing Up in France

03:29 Childhood Reflections

07:36 Early Dreams and Aspirations

09:16 University and Studies

11:49 First Job and Practical Choices

16:34 Internship in Australia

21:40 First Impressions of Australia

27:58 Meeting Future Wife

29:33 Long-Distance Relationship

32:13 Life as a Young Couple in Paris

35:59 Cultural and Personal Differences

42:05 Marriage and Family Plans

43:41 Pregnancy Challenges and Loss

50:02 Hardest Decision and Transformation

57:37 Grief and Reconstruction

1:00:47 Move to Miami

1:06:01 Healing and Inner Shifts

1:10:55 Starting Meditation

1:13:33 Leaving the 9-5 Job

1:20:26 Overcoming Fear of Failure

1:22:33 Family Reactions

1:29:34 Misconceptions About Quitting 9-5

1:33:23 Breaking Free from Societal Expectations

1:37:25 Living Life Fully

1:41:03 Daily Life as a Nomad

1:46:01 Favorite Places and Future Plans

1:48:47 Coaching and Consulting Journey

1:53:41 Advice for Change Seekers

1:55:49 Education System Reflections

2:02:12 Freedom and Letting Go

2:04:08 Wrapping Up and Final Thoughts

Join host Paul Puscas for a thought-provoking conversation with Emily Pabst, founder of Remake The Rules. Emily shares her journey from government data analyst to coach and consultant, exploring how modern technology and an overload of choices shape the way we live, make decisions, and find meaning. The discussion dives into tech’s role in our daily lives, the challenge of choice inflation, and practical ways individuals can reclaim agency in a world of digital nudges and algorithmic pressure.

You’ll hear personal stories on independence, street smarts, growing up amidst changing rules, and the power of reframing—not just in business, but in how we navigate relationships, family, and society. Emily brings expert insight for anyone feeling overwhelmed by today’s information landscape, stressing that tools and apps are just that: tools, not your life.

Feeling stuck or want to live more intentionally?
Emily Pabst works directly with individuals, leadership teams, and small businesses to help them rethink how to make decisions—big and small—in noisy, novelty-driven times.

Connect with Emily:

• Website: remaketherules.com

• Socials: @remaketherules on most platforms

Discover more about Emily, her mission, and get support on your own decision-making journey at Remake The Rules.

Listen now and start remaking your own rules for life with insights you won’t find anywhere else.

Chapters

00:00 Highlights and Intro

01:30 Meet Emily Pabst: Background and Upbringing

05:54 Growing Up in Missouri: A Unique Perspective

09:45 Navigating Childhood: Independence and Community

12:18 The Impact of Technology on Childhood

16:23 Parenting Challenges in a Changing World

20:11 The Role of Technology in Modern Parenting

23:07 Art, Curiosity, and Challenging Perspectives

26:24 Flexibility in Thought and Understanding Others

28:10 The Influence of Environment on Development

29:52 Transitioning to Adulthood: Education and Career Choices

30:20 Emily's Journey: From Missouri to Colorado

30:59 Public Service and Career Path

32:08 Understanding Redistricting in the U.S.

34:02 The Dynamics of U.S. Elections

37:41 The Role of Data in Governance

38:21 Rulemaking and Rule Breaking

40:35 The Challenges of Government Institutions

42:04 Power Dynamics in Governance

45:16 Data Analysis and Decision Making

49:14 The Need for Meaningful Data

52:33 Optimization Fatigue in Modern Society

53:09 Remake The Rules: A New Approach

01:00:02 The Impact of Technology on Relationships

01:04:50 Navigating Information Overload

01:09:22 Client Transformation Stories

01:11:11 Empowering Business Owners in the Digital Age

01:16:26 Re-centering Purpose in Decision Making

01:20:43 Navigating Technology and Information Overload

01:25:04 The Complexity of Choice in the Information Age

01:30:33 The Role of AI in Decision Making

01:34:10 Living Well in the Information Age

01:45:00 OUTRO

In this conversation, Christian shares his journey from Costa Rica to Germany and eventually to Japan. He discusses the cultural shocks he faced, the challenges of adapting to new environments, and his experiences with education and career changes. Christian reflects on the food culture in Japan, the kindness of its people, and the difficulties of navigating language barriers. He also talks about his decision to pursue a digital nomad lifestyle and the unique challenges that come with it. In this conversation, Christian shares his experiences living in Japan, discussing the challenges of language barriers, cultural connections through food, and the unique aspects of Japanese society such as perfectionism and work culture. He reflects on the differences in holiday celebrations, the search for belonging, and offers advice for future expats. The discussion also touches on humorous misunderstandings, the joys of exploring Tokyo on foot, and the cultural discoveries he made during his time there.

Chapters

00:00 Highlights & Intro

01:32 Introduction and background

04:12 Life in Costa Rica

07:13 Cultural Shock in Germany

10:17 University Experience and Career Path

13:12 Transition to Software Engineering

16:16 The Move to Japan

19:16 Digital Nomad Visa Experience

22:14 First Impressions of Japan

25:15 Living Arrangements and Cost of Living

28:19 Cultural Adaptation and Socializing

31:04 Food Culture in Japan

34:22 Healthcare Experience in Japan

37:13 Work-Life Balance and Remote Work

40:14 Final Thoughts on Living in Japan

58:10 Navigating Language Barriers in Japan

59:59 Building Connections Through Food

01:02:01 Cultural Surprises: Garbage Rules and Perceptions

01:06:09 The Pursuit of Perfection in Japanese Culture

01:12:35 Cultural Differences: Employment and Social Stability

01:17:27 Celebrating New Year's: A Contrast of Cultures

01:19:25 Christmas in Japan: A Unique Celebration

01:22:06 Homesickness and Belonging: A Personal Journey

01:23:42 Advice for Future Expats: Moving to Japan

01:27:17 Funny Misunderstandings: Lost in Translation

01:30:40 Public Transport: A Walkable Experience

01:32:31 Finding Home: A Sense of Belonging

01:37:59 Cultural Discoveries: Music and Art in Japan

Pastor, professor, and sci-fi lover Robert Wallace joins Paul for a deeply human conversation about faith, doubt, and the beauty of imperfection. From the raw honesty of Psalm 88 to what Star Trek teaches us about hope, Robert shares how spirituality can remain real, relevant, and compassionate. They explore religion beyond dogma, prayer without perfection, and how it's okay to show up angry, broken, or unsure and still be heard.

🎙 Topics include:
– Why Psalm 88 is the most direct prayer in the Bible
– How faith and doubt coexist
– Building unity in politically divided communities
– Sci-fi’s surprising role in spiritual insight
– The danger of perfectionism in faith and life

This episode is not just for believers, it’s for seekers, skeptics, and anyone navigating life’s deeper questions.

Sergiu left Romania with no plan — just a hunger for adventure. He landed in South Africa expecting excitement and found a life full of contrasts: danger, kindness, loss, and love. From visa chaos to raising kids under constant vigilance, Sergiu shares the raw reality behind the romantic idea of moving abroad. A story about courage, adaptation, and what it really means to call a place home.

Pamela Topjian left an abusive marriage, a stable career, and nearly everything she owned—at 50 years old. In this raw and powerful episode, she shares how she boarded a bus to California with nothing but a suitcase and a last shred of hope. We talk about childhood trauma, surviving emotional abuse, rebuilding identity, the power of therapy, and what it means to find peace later in life. Pamela's story is a powerful reminder that it’s never too late to begin again.