In this episode, we sit down with Jeff Wickersham, dad of two, creator of the Warrior Dad Experience, and author of Warrior Dad: Love Your Children, Lead Your Family, Leave Your Legacy. Jeff shares the moments that shaped his mission, including the loss of his mom and the heartbreaking wake up call that pushed him to serve fathers. We talk about what’s really happening to dads today: isolation, overwhelm, ego, and the “librarian of the mind” problem where we consume nonstop but rarely take action. Jeff breaks down how to build momentum through simple habits, why consistency beats intensity, and why “work life balance” is a trap. If you want to lead your family with strength, presence, and purpose, this one will hit home.

In this episode, Paul and Andrew delve into the significance of community for men, particularly fathers. They discuss the paradox of being more connected yet feeling lonelier than ever, emphasizing the need for genuine relationships and support systems. The conversation explores what constitutes a healthy community, the importance of fraternity, and how men can benefit from surrounding themselves with like-minded individuals. They also share their vision for building a local community of dads and the steps they are taking to foster connections among men.

In this episode of the Why Dad podcast, hosts Paul Wondry and Andrew Stolpestad engage with Troy Fink, a father of three and CEO of Gametech, who shares his unconventional journey into fatherhood and entrepreneurship. Troy discusses the challenges and triumphs of being a teenage dad, the spiritual dimensions of fatherhood, and the importance of personal growth and transformation. He introduces Loovy, a smart potty training device designed to make parenting easier, and reflects on the balance of his roles as a dad, pastor, and entrepreneur. The conversation emphasizes the significance of faith, the lessons learned through experience, and the call to be a better man and father.

In this episode of the Why Dad Podcast, hosts Andrew Stolpestad and Paul Wandrey delve into the complexities of family dynamics, discussing the importance of communication, setting boundaries, and the role of chosen family. They share personal stories and insights on navigating family drama, emphasizing the need for empathy and understanding. The conversation also touches on the balance between supporting family members and prioritizing self-care, as well as the philosophical concepts of personalism and individualism. Listeners are encouraged to reflect on their own family experiences and the lessons learned along the way.

In this episode, Paul, Andrew, and Marchem Pfeiffer discuss the challenges of burnout and recovery for dads. Marchem shares his personal journey from military service to becoming a leadership coach, emphasizing the importance of self-advocacy, healing, and accountability. They explore the impact of workplace PTSD, the overlap between leadership and parenting, and the necessity of building a supportive community. Marchem provides practical tools for navigating life's challenges and highlights the significance of coping mechanisms to avoid burnout. The conversation concludes with a focus on the importance of knowing oneself and prioritizing mental health.

In this episode of the Why Dad Podcast, hosts Paul and Andrew delve into the significance of crucial conversations in parenting and relationships. They explore the definition of crucial conversations, the importance of having tough discussions, and the consequences of avoiding them. The hosts provide strategies for successful conversations, introduce the HEAR framework for effective communication, and discuss the benefits of engaging in these conversations for personal growth and family dynamics. The episode concludes with a call to action for listeners to reflect on their own conversations and to embrace the challenge of having difficult discussions.

On this episode of Why Dad?, Paul and Andrew sit down with Cory Carlson — former corporate executive turned leadership coach, speaker, and author of Win at Home First and Rise and Go. Cory takes us through the pivotal moment that changed his definition of success: a dinner where status and material talk felt empty beside conversations about family. From there, he describes how he began rewriting his life around aligning priorities with purpose. Together, we dive into: The 5 P’s framework that helped Cory craft a purpose statement How identity can shift when we tie too much to achievement Practical habits to recalibrate when life derails you What it means to show up intentionally for your kids Why community, resilience, and faith matter in balancing work and home If you ever feel like you're doing “everything right” and still missing something, this episode is for you.

Paul and Andrew kick back for a lighthearted “tweenisode.” From paternity leave lessons to lemonade stand drama to a father-son car project 15 years in the making, the guys share laughs, stories, and a few solid dad nuggets about patience, presence, and building unique bonds with your kids.

Licensed play therapist and serial entrepreneur David Schatzkamer joins Why, Dad? to unpack why play isn’t just for kids—it’s the native language of connection. David shares real-world stories and professional insights to show how dads (and moms) can build deeper relationships with their children by learning to slow down, listen, and engage through play. From bedtime stalling to dragon hunting on a hike, the episode explores how everyday parenting challenges become moments of growth and bonding when approached with curiosity, presence, and a playful spirit.

Summary In this episode of the Why Dad podcast, hosts Paul and Andrew explore the concept of 'showing up' as a father, discussing the challenges and barriers that prevent parents from being present. They share personal experiences and practical strategies for overcoming these obstacles, emphasizing the importance of intentionality, self-care, and connection with children. The conversation highlights the significance of modeling behavior for kids and the power of apologies in strengthening relationships. Ultimately, the episode serves as a reminder that showing up is a continuous journey of progress rather than perfection.

In this thoughtful and grounded conversation, Noémi Beres joins us to talk about creativity, parenting, and the quiet work of reconnecting with yourself while raising a family. From navigating the realities of parenting a teenager to returning to art after years of burnout, Noémi shares what it means to show up with honesty, softness, and a little space to breathe.

In this episode of Why, Dad?, Paul and Andrew dive into the role grandparents and extended family play in our kids' lives—and how those relationships shape not only our children, but our parenting too. From navigating mismatched parenting styles to embracing the “village” of support, the conversation is rich with real stories, honest reflection, and a good dose of humor. Paul shares both the beauty and the challenge of raising kids near involved grandparents, and Andrew brings the perspective of an intentional uncle learning what it means to show up with love and respect.

In this episode of Why, Dad?, we sit down with entrepreneur and father of three grown kids, Matt Edmundson, to explore what it looks like to parent with long-term perspective. Matt shares lessons from raising his kids into adulthood—what worked, what didn’t, and the small things that mattered most. From “Fridge Rights” to scheduled dinner at 6:00, his approach is thoughtful, intentional, and packed with practical wisdom for dads in the trenches. If you're trying to lead your family without losing yourself in the chaos, this conversation is full of insight and encouragement.

In this episode of Why, Dad?, Paul and Andrew unpack one of the most misunderstood parenting ideas out there: Gentle Parenting. They break down what it is, what it isn’t, and why so many dads (especially those who grew up with stricter models) find themselves confused by it. This is not a conversation about letting your kids walk all over you. It’s about holding boundaries and connection at the same time. With real-life moments, honest disagreements, and practical reflections, this episode challenges the idea that “respectful” means “permissive.” Whether you’re deep in toddler tantrums or just trying not to lose it after work, there’s something here for you.

In this episode, Paul and Andrew down in person with their friend Nick Jensen to talk about one of the most overlooked aspects of parenting: what it means to still show up, even when you're exhausted, overwhelmed, or emotionally tapped out. Nick reflects on his own fatherhood journey — juggling long days at work with the desire to be fully present at home, even when he’s got nothing left in the tank. They talk about guilt, grace, and the hard-earned wisdom of learning that presence doesn’t require perfection. This is an honest, heartfelt episode for the dads (and parents) who know what it’s like to walk through the door and face one more mess, one more meltdown, or one more bedtime battle — and still show up.

In this episode, Paul and Baba get real about what it takes to stay healthy as a dad — not just physically, but emotionally too. From therapy and fatigue to donuts and discipline, this episode explores how taking care of yourself helps you show up better for the people who need you most.

In this episode, Paul and Andrew welcome their very first guest — parenting educator, counselor, and author Jon Fogel (aka @wholeparent). Jon unpacks the difference between punishment and consequences, challenges traditional ideas of discipline, and offers a completely reframed vision of what it means to raise emotionally healthy, curious, and confident kids. This episode explores why parenting shouldn’t be about control, how we often sabotage our long-term goals in the name of short-term obedience, and what it looks like to lead with intention, curiosity, and calm. Whether you're a new dad, a seasoned parent, or just trying to break old cycles, this conversation is full of “oh dang” moments.

In this episode, Paul and Andrew dig into one of the most powerful (and often under-discussed) parenting skills: teaching our kids how to think. From silly moments like mistaking cows for horses to deeper reflections on autonomy and identity, they explore how critical thinking shows up in everyday parenting—and how easy it is to accidentally shut it down. You’ll hear personal stories, lots of questions, and practical ways to help raise thoughtful, independent kids in a world full of easy answers.

Disclaimer: Please don't close your eyes as instructed if you are driving or doing anything else dangerous. In this episode of the Why, Dad? Podcast, we explore the transformative power of gratitude and how it shapes us as fathers. "Putting the Gratitude in Attitude: The Power of a Gratitude Mindset" dives into the essential role gratitude plays in our lives, from strengthening our parenting to improving our personal well-being. Join us as we discuss practical ways to embrace a gratitude mindset, the lessons we’re passing on to our children, and why this mindset isn’t just a feel-good word—it’s a life-changing habit. Whether you’re new to the podcast or a regular listener, you won’t want to miss this enriching conversation on living with intention, positivity, and thankfulness.

Disclaimer: expect some minor audio issues due to one of our hosts calling in from a remote location. In this episode, Paul and Andrew dive into a thought-provoking clip from a popular parenting influencer, where the idea that parents shouldn’t teach their kids "what" to learn, but instead create an environment where they can discover "what they want to learn," is explored. This leads to a deep discussion about the role of fathers in guiding their children. Should we just get out of the way and let kids figure it all out, or is there a balance between giving them autonomy and imparting essential life lessons? Join the guys as they reflect on the nuanced idea of parenthood — sharing their thoughts on humility, the power of learning through guidance, and how to cultivate curiosity while instilling values. Whether you're a father, aspiring dad, or simply contemplating what it means to raise children in today’s unpredictable world, this episode offers insightful perspectives on being the best version of yourself as a parent. Don't miss out on this candid conversation about growth, wisdom, and the fine art of letting go. Let us know how you approach teaching your kids and creating that balance in your own lives!