This Without Limits signature episode, might just cause the change that's needed in everyone's life in and out of the lifestyle. We explore many lifestyle topics through the lens of the male. You'll just have to listen to find out more.
Hosts and Producers: Fox
Guests: Karl, Josh, and Mitch
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In this episode, we discuss the transformative power of erotic movement and how it connects us to deeper layers of sensuality, embodiment, and self-expression. Together, we explore what it means to feel safe in our own bodies, to move from a place of freedom rather than fear, and to embrace sexuality as a source of creativity, authenticity, and connection.
You’ll hear insights on:
- How erotic movement can help us release shame and cultivate presence
- Practices to reconnect with the body’s natural rhythms and desires
- The role of safety and self-trust in exploring sensuality
- Ways to express ourselves authentically through movement and pleasure
- The liberation and intimacy that comes from embracing our erotic selves fully
This conversation is an invitation to soften, to feel, and to remember that our bodies are not just vessels but living, breathing expressions of power, pleasure, and freedom.
Guest: Angela Rose
Hosts and Producers: Cali, Fox, and Ruby
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Whether you’re brand new to the lifestyle or a seasoned veteran, knowing the language makes all the difference. In this episode, we break down the most common terms and labels you’ll hear in the swinging and ethical non-monogamy (ENM) community. From “soft swap” to “full swap,” “unicorns”, and everything in between, we’ll explore what these words mean and why understanding them can help you communicate your boundaries and desires more clearly. Join us for a fun, judgment-free conversation that makes the lifestyle lingo feel approachable, inclusive, and easy to navigate.
Hosts and Producers: Cali, Fox, and Ruby
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In this episode, we sit down with Janet W. Hardy, co-author of the groundbreaking book The Ethical Slut, which has sold over 200,000 copies and redefined how we think about non-monogamy, consent, and sexual freedom.
We explore Janet’s journey from a traditional marriage to becoming a leading voice in sex education and ethical non-monogamy. She shares insights on the importance of community, communication, navigating jealousy, and reclaiming the word “slut” as a symbol of empowered, consensual sexuality.
Whether you’re curious about open relationships or a longtime member of the poly or BDSM community, this conversation offers thoughtful, real-world guidance from one of the movement’s pioneers.
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Host and Producers: Cali, Fox, and Ruby
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Join us while we indulge with some familiar and new voices as we record from the final Pooled Pleasures pool party every!
Hosts and Producers: Cali, Fox, and Ruby
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Join hosts, Kim and Dave, as they take you behind the scenes of their legendary Pooled Pleasures pool parties—a one-of-a-kind experience designed exclusively for the adventurous and open-minded lifestyle community. In this sizzling episode, they share steamy stories, unforgettable moments, and the creative inspiration behind their iconic themed zones:
💋 The Pussy Palace, where sensuality reigns supreme and guests are invited to indulge in their deepest desires in a luxurious, femme-powered atmosphere.
😈 The Dungeon, a space for those who crave the erotic edge—complete with curated kink experiences, respectful exploration, and all the tools to turn fantasy into reality.
💞 The Tunnel of Love, hold your breath while you swim through a passage of intimacy, gazing upwards at the beautiful scenery.
Whether you’re a seasoned swinger, curious newbie, or just love hearing about wild and welcoming spaces where freedom and consent rule, this episode offers a candid, playful, and unfiltered look at what makes Pooled Pleasures the ultimate escape.
Hosts and Producers: Cali, Fox, and Ruby
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In this liberating episode, we dive into the world of Pooled Pleasures — a series of clothing-optional pool parties where nudity is not just accepted, but celebrated. These gatherings are more than just a place to get wet; they’re a space for unapologetic self-expression, body positivity, and open sexual exploration. We speak with hosts and guests who share what it’s like to shed both clothing and shame, embracing pleasure in its most honest form. Whether you’re curious, cautious, or already a fan of sensual liberation, this episode invites you to explore a world where your desires are valid, your boundaries are respected, and freedom feels like sunshine on bare skin.
Hosts and Producers: Cali, Fox, and Ruby
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In this episode, we dive into the world of nightlife and performance with a spotlight on Burlesque & Kinky Friday at the iconic Gay 90’s. Our guest, Chris—the House Manager—shares behind-the-scenes insights on what it takes to run sex positive productions with flair, safety, and intention. We explore the importance of consent in adult-themed spaces, how burlesque blends art and expression, and what makes Kinky Friday a standout event in the local scene. Whether you're a regular or just curious, this episode offers a candid, colorful look into sexy nightlife and performance culture in the Minneapolis-St. Paul area.
Hosts and Producers: Cali, Fox, and Ruby
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Join us as we talk with a couple from the Chicago area that discusses their hotwifing journey and reveals where their future may be headed as boundaries and desires are always in flux!
Hosts and Producers: Cali, Fox, and Ruby
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Welcome to Without Limits! In this episode, your hosts, Cali, Fox, and Ruby introduce themselves and dive into their inspiration for starting this new podcast. Additionally, they discuss some topics that will be covered throughout season one, including sex, modern relationships, ENM, and pushing boundaries in all other areas of life.
Hosts and Producers: Cali, Fox, and Ruby
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